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Re: My Husband Left Us by baby124: 5:05pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
He’s ashamed and embarrassed that he could not fool you and has run away after being exposed. He obviously did not really rate your intelligence that you see through him, and you knew all the while he was lying. . let him stay where he is, before you guys get intimate again, ask him to do a full STD test in a government hospital with you present. He and his friend cannot be sleeping with and passing girls around only to come back to sleep with you. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Toks2008(m): 5:06pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Amazingbaby: He will finally drop you if you don't stop worrying him. You can't stop a man who wants to taste another lady, just beg him to use protection... They always come back to their wives but if you stress him too much he will run far away from you. This is a man in his 40s with good marital experience giving you a candid advise and not some naive nairalander. It is up to you. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Left Us by RealityGod: 5:08pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Amazingbaby: This is how you people calls poverty and difficulty into the life of your husband. It has nothing to do with his financial support. Please, women learn not to send your husband to poverty with your mouth and thoughts. If your husband is cheating this mindset is a ground the devil will explore to fight his finances. Read the book the power of your subconscious mind. |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Kaybaba5(m): 5:10pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Mariangeles: No man is worth fighting for..... 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Left Us by bepositive11: 5:14pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
ibechris: You're not serious If the husband wants nothing to do with her anymore, it's game over. In fact, him entertaining another woman shows how much he disrespects and doesn't love his wife She can fight all she wants. It won't change anything 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Left Us by DuchessAmanda(f): 5:23pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Stop this wickedness. Your quick judgements and conclusion is unnecessary. Have you heard the husband side of his story? I am sure if it was the husband that made this complaint, you would still side with the wife without hearing her own side. I believe you will not practice what you are preaching here o. This isn't a case of domestic violence so stop with the condemnation and judgments till you hear the husband's side of the story too. Simran94: |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Biglittlelois(f): 5:27pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Toks2008: You no just get sense walahi, from your previous comment to this one, no atom of sense A man that knows he cannot be faithful to one woman should make sure he tells whoever he wants to marry that he is a polygamous man, he should not deceive a woman into monogamy then come out later on in the marriage with the polygamous nature bullshit, any man that tries that should prepare for divorce or have it at the back of his mind that his wife is also cheating, it is that simple If you like preach from now till oblivion, wives will continue to leave promiscuous, disease infested husbands because they have self respect, esteem, value their life and healthy living, accept this truth and rest. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Biglittlelois(f): 5:30pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Toks2008: See divorcee wey dey give advice, madam Op pls don't listen to this failed man, Toks your words are very annoying and provoking, what is wrong with you? 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Amazingbaby: 5:31pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
DuchessAmanda: Should I send him a link to read through and tell his side of his story? 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Left Us by baby124: 5:31pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Toks2008:Na lie. All your women have run from you. You are an angry divorcee. Anybody that takes your advice Na better one chance. Go for therapy and try to heal. 10 Likes |
Re: My Husband Left Us by CUMIN: 5:31pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
I stayed on the island briefly. I can relate....it will be very difficult for you to win this battle. If he doesn't date the girl another girl is in the corridor to take charge. More girls are moving to island in hope to meet a married rich man. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Nobody: 5:34pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
DuchessAmanda: Women rarely come here to complain, it’s always the men and the comment section insults the wives without hearing the other side of the story. Hurting is not just about Physical, you can hurt someone emotionally too which in this case a cheating partner does to their other half. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Left Us by BRATISLAVA: 5:36pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Klass99: I was laughing when I made the mention. What won't one see on this forum? A moving, beefing, paranoid fight waiting to happen. What energy. I couldn't resist calling out when I saw the same thing running its course again. The truest seasonal drama there is out here. The maturity used to deal with that random negativity is truly impressive. Or maybe it's absolute astonishment at the sudden attack. Or knowing one is dealing with a homicidal character with a gun pointed at their own reflection. Shock, shock. But come on, admit it —there's the occasional comedy in the unchangeable toxicity. Behold. 2022 is going well if there's comedy to be found on this forum. I hope your year is kicking off just right? 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Left Us by emadamysy: 5:44pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Amazingbaby:Please do. Only then we advice fairly |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Mariangeles(f): 5:44pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
pocohantas: Okay. Thanks. |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Mariangeles(f): 5:46pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: Excuse you!? |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Mariangeles(f): 5:49pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Klass99: Point of correction; there was no exchange! Just a simple request. Pocohantas, I know say she be your friend! Abeg!Help me tell am to stay off my case! How many times I go ask her? |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Pootle: 5:51pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
both of you dont have a family member abi |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Klass99(f): 5:59pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
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Re: My Husband Left Us by Mariangeles(f): 5:59pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: Is that what you do? I mean, for that thought to even come to you says a lot about your mental state don’t you think? Who could’ve ever thought? Our words define our state of mind, you know? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Left Us by cococandy(f): 6:07pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
One day you say you’re one of the good guys who don’t cheat (meaning you acknowledge that cheating is bad) then the next day you’re saying cheating is inevitable thereby justifying it. So which is which? Toks2008: 7 Likes |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Nobody: 6:09pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Amazingbaby: Worry less and cheat back... you will be fine abi you wan die early for nothing. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Left Us by BRATISLAVA: 6:10pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Klass99: Very true. The forum is best enjoyed once in a while. It is quite toxic and mindsets aren't going to change. Perhaps people delight in being unchangeably toxic as a means to retain their identity in the midst of so many, however negative it might be. Of course, there is the clean fun to enjoy, and then there's the obstreperous comedy sort of today. One can't begrudge something like that. Comedy is comedy. That said, the forum is too little for users to go aggro on everyone and everything in sight at the drop of a pin. Hmm. This cautious recklessness is a new philosophy you must coin officially when you are ready to tell us more about it on a daytime chat show. But if such recklessness (cautiously) brings about happiness, why not? Same here, Klass. 12 Likes |
Re: My Husband Left Us by beautybaby: 6:14pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Op, I hope you see this. I do not believe in 'fight for your marriage', especially if another woman is involved. I believe in 'do YOU want to remain married or remain happy?'. Take care of your mental health. Your husband has found happiness in the arms of another woman (his mental health-happinnes). What are you doing to your mental health in this situation? Looking to be depressed by dwelling on the matter? Even God, the bible says 'no one can come to me except the father draws (drags) him.' God will literally do a convincing before anyone can come to him? Yes! No amount of 'fight' will make a man change his mind. He has to make the decision himself. Sister! Go about your business like all is well (I know it's difficult). Don't consider revenge, that one, na yourself you dey do. If he still picks calls and you guys have a routine, like you guys talk once a day, call as usual but avoid questions about where he is or what he is doing. Discuss other beautiful things and end the call. Wake up. Go to work. Do not let thoughts of him deprive you of happiness. He will come home when he is convinced. NO FIGHT FOR MAN, FIGHT FOR A HEALTHY MENTAL STATE. (Fight to remain happy). 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Left Us by 360command: 6:15pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Amazingbaby:divorce him. I just hope you work and earn a living.. this is why I want women to be empowered. They should have jobs,business so as if man bleeps up, just distance yourself from him. If you accept him, he will continue this behavior. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Klass99(f): 6:17pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
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Re: My Husband Left Us by BRATISLAVA: 6:19pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Klass99: Sometimes we need to step out and shun our fears while relying on the known unknown. Good luck to you. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Left Us by DuchessAmanda(f): 6:21pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
If you do, it will be helpful to those NLs that needs to see there are 3 sides to the complete truth. Yours, your hubby, and the truth. I am not one of those women that jump into conclusions without proper consideration. Handle your home with wisdom. He is your husband not your boyfriend. Don't let your home be at the mercy of some people here who don't care what happens to you either ways. Wishing you both Happiness. Amazingbaby: |
Re: My Husband Left Us by Klass99(f): 6:21pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
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Re: My Husband Left Us by teemy(m): 6:22pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Nonexisting: May we not walk into the lion's den. To confront her might not always work out well. If the girl attacks her nko? It would be self defense at her home base. If she attacks the girl, it would unprovoked assault on an away team. There is no guarantee how a confrontation will end. The girl might even have her pals around to show madam a lesson or two. Not a step to take atall. Oga's friend that employed the girl might be the person to talk to. He will know how to dissuade either oga or the lady involved. P.S @Amazingbaby, ensure oga goes for STD test. Once is enough to catch powerful things. Also, stop trying to ask him questions you will bring up an issue over the answer. It makes one look like a troublemaker looking for an excuse. Wishing you well - Teemy 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Left Us by YellowMayor(m): 6:24pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
heniford2: Can you please rephrase this please? Coz can't seem to understand a bit of it. |
Re: My Husband Left Us by friendl: 6:25pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Go and pray because it worked for my wife ,...he is confused ,... |
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