mixmastering:


Again and again, you reached in and pulled out a soul.
Again and again, you pulled out a soul from the fire; from the fiery fearsome fire.
One soul after another.
The fire had no power over you.

I’m the fire itself!

iamL:


I know this is not my fight but I must say I have seen a thread of yours where u mentioned that u are divorced. U cited cheating as the major cause of the breakup and painted your ex wife in a negative light. That was the first time I saw your monika on NL. I commented on the thread with my old account.

Another instance was in another thread that was about if forgiving a cheating partner is a sign of strength or weakness, u made a comment on your cheating and what your partner did.

I nor want fight o! I just remembered what I saw.

Haaaaaaaa! Egbami.

Where did you see all these stories? Are you sure you are not mistaking me for another person.

Ok you know what?... You are damn right.. I am divorced and very very single and searching sef.

Will you marry me? Walahi i won't cheat on you but you must have nice fugure o.

So you were never married ? Because if not, then that was a serious rumor and it seems everyone believed it. I might have even yabbed you about it during those times when we used to go back and forth and you never corrected me or anyone else.
so everyone assumed it was true.

Toks2008:


Haaaaaaaa! Egbami.

Where did you see all these stories? Are you sure you are not mistaking me for another person.

Ok you know what?... You are damn right.. I am divorced and very very single and searching sef.

Will you marry me? Walahi i won't cheat on you but you must have nice fugure o.

Amazingbaby:


He hardly wants to have a conversation,he prefers leaving any place I am trying to have the conversation,this is the first time he left the house.he was such in a rage that I refuse him hiring the girl.

don't question him like a boy, just talk to him calmly, give him conditions and let him be, act normal and give him time to think and take a decision, he either stops and apologize or continues.
But the more you fight for him, the more you lose him completely

Mariangeles:



At least, there were times you were where I am now right? So, you should understand.
Were you always this calm here? Were you not paranoid and very confrontational at some point?
Was how you were here a true reflection of how you are in reality?
You don master here na.
It’s just a matter of time sha.

At least, after here, it’ll all be over. And it was worth it.
I wouldn’t say I didn’t expect the attacks when I did what I did. And I don’t regret it.

We are two different people. Everyone knows I have a very bad character and the man with me is suffering. Though they would pray for my salvation, they won’t really be surprised at my antics in 2022. You on your part are seemingly calm. So when you go like that, it draws a lot of attention. You get?

Yes it was. I have a bad mouth, I keep a very small circle (what you call clique) and I do not like 95% of Nigerian men. The problem is they always like me. The good part is, I am also homely, generous and humane. I didn’t come to NL to find a husband, so I didn’t see any need to even disguise myself.

It is okay babe, no beef at all. It is not an attack biko. You be oldie, you suppose done dey master here by now.

folake4u:
Lmao that last week sha.
I will never forget that day in history.

Shey because nuclear war happen?

pocohantas:
Last week Mango and Folake wanted to bury me alive together .

LMAO. As per we're The Undertaker abi? Or more like The Undertaker Sisters.

I just kuku go offline for una.
We meet another day.

As usual. We bam and move on with our coconut heads.

folake4u:
Actually!!!! Nothing but the truth.

If wishes were horses, person for add Expert in dealing with trolls for CV if person dey apply for job.

Like. This sounds truer for me in regards to what I experienced here just some days ago. I swear. if you can deal with trolls on NL, you can deal with any group of people in this world. Including those uncontacted people that haven't seen civilisation.

cococandy:
So you were never married ? Because if not, then that was a serious rumor and it seems everyone believed it. I might have even yabbed you about it during those times when we used to go and forth and you never corrected me or anyone else.
so everyone assumed it was true.

I laughed out real loud after reading this.

Why are nairaland ladies on my neck? Una no dey take eye see fine boy ni?

If you no mind come make i marry you.

Shebbi una wan hear sey im single so I have told you all wettin una wan hear.

Magnoliaa:

Shey because nuclear war happen?


LMAO. As per we're The Undertaker abi? Or more like The Undertaker Sisters.


As usual. We bam and move on with our coconut heads.


Like. This sounds truer for me in regards to what I experienced here just some days ago. I swear. if you can deal with trolls on NL, you can deal with any group of people in this world. Including those uncontacted people that haven't seen civilisation.

Yes ohhhhhhh, we meuvee with our heads, Mango.

Lmao WALLAHI, if you can deal with NL trolls, you can make it in life. Somebody should even be given a statue in Hollywood Hall of Fame, and Guinness World Book of Records.

Toks2008:


I laughed out real loud after reading this.

Why are nairaland ladies on my neck? Una no dey take eye see fine boy ni?

If you no mind come make i marry you.

Shebbi una wan hear sey im single so I have told you all wettin una wan hear.

I’m sorry I don’t want to feel like I’m losing my mind or something. It’s been a few years but how I remember the conversation was that someone on that thread said you were a divorcée. However you and that person were also talking it’s not like they were fighting you or something like that. You didn’t correct them so I think I believed it to be true at the time.

Are you saying this is the first time you are aware of your NL divorce status?
Don’t gaslight me please. I need to know if my mind is still working or not.

Mariangeles:


Those words of yours are not true.
The thing is, you’re insignificant if you don’t have haters.

Time will reveal everything. It always does. It will all be clear to you.
You will remember my words and apologize.

I doubt it. I doubt I will see anything and apologize to you. Can you go and read your posts on this tread alone. I checked your posts from years past after that your unfollow me post. What I was seeing tells me you are the problem. Many people can not be hating you for no reasons the way you are saying . A bad attitude is like a flat car tyre, it will take you nowhere and that is your problem maria. You have a bad attitude.fix it.

eyinjuege:


This is the only advice I endorse.
This year, I choose violence.
I don't like peace

folake4u:
Yes ohhhhhhh, we meuvee with our heads, Mango.

Lmao WALLAHI, if you can deal with NL trolls, you can make it in life. Somebody should even be given a statue in Hollywood Hall of Fame, and Guinness World Book of Records.

Where is the lie?

Only one person: they want to demystify you; the want to run you off; they want to see your back; they want to dethrone you or tear you down from a 'perceived pedestal.' Wo. Everyone will be fine, my sis.

Magnoliaa:


Where is the lie?

Only one person: they want to demystify you; the want to run you off; they want to see your back; they want to dethrone you or tear you down from a 'perceived pedestal.' Wo. Everyone will be fine, my sis.

Lmao I swear down.

It boils down to the fact they're still fans. Low budget ones.

How have you been treating him. Best of friends or forced to be together?
When a man start cheating there is a reason. I see no reason to cheat on my wife. What she has my wife have it. Same pleaseure no difference.

She is my best friend not just wife.
Make ur home comfortable for him and u will enjoy your marriage shikena

Framed:


I doubt it. I doubt i will see it and apologize to you. Can you go and read your posts on this tread only. I checked your posts from years past after that your unfollow me post, what I was seeing tells me you are the problem. Many people can not be hating you for no reasons the way you are saying. A bad attitude is like a flat car tyre, it will take you nowhere and that is your problem maria. You have a bad attitude.fix it.

Then you only saw what you made up your mind to see.

cococandy:

I’m sorry I don’t want to feel like I’m losing my mind or something. It’s been a few years but how I remember the conversation was that someone on that thread said you were a divorcée. However you and that person were also talking it’s not like they were fighting you or something like that. You didn’t correct them so I think I believed it to be true at the time.

Are you saying this is the first time you are aware of your NL divorce status?
Don’t gaslight me please. I need to know if my mind is still working or not.

Coco i just love playing this mind games with nairalanders.

Do the thinking... I have been on this site since 2007 and i have never dated any lady here.

pocohantas:


We are two different people. Everyone knows I have a very bad character and the man with me is suffering. Though they would pray for my salvation, they won’t really be surprised at my antics in 2022. You on your part are seemingly calm. So when you go like that, it draws a lot of attention. You get?

Yes it was. I have a bad mouth, I keep a very small circle (what you call clique) and I do not like 95% of Nigerian men. The problem is they always like me. The good part is, I am also homely, generous and humane. I didn’t come to NL to find a husband, so I didn’t see any need to even disguise myself.

It is okay babe, no beef at all. It is not an attack biko. You be oldie, you suppose done dey master here by now.

You don’t have a bad character, you just have a bad mouth.
With a good heart.

I don dey master, na only say I dey impulsive ma ya chaa’m n’ishi.

Amazingbaby:
It is kind of surreal

My husband took his bag and left the house after an argument and have been gone for over a week now, trouble started when he came back and told me he wanted to hire a particular girl to work with him,this girl was working with his friend before he closed up.he told me his friend beg him to hire the girl.
Earlier in the week my husband told me he was going for a convention,I checked his phone and saw when this particular girl was asking him when he will be leaving the house at 7:44 in the morning,I didn't talk or made a fuss about it,so when he told me he wanted to employ this girl my suspicion grew,I asked him how does he want to pay her he told me the lady said she would work for free.
I started laughing,which girl on this island would want to work for free if you don't have anything to do with her.i started bombarding him with questions;
If the girl is your friend's employee how did she know about your business?My husband said he has not talked to the lady since last year but he never knew I saw the messages.

I told him to give me his phone only to see that he has been exchanging Whatsapp calls and phone calls with her.i got angry and was asking him questions he took his bag and left that night.

That was when I confronted him about the messages I saw the week before only for him to say he doesn't owe me any explanation.

I am deeply hurt that he would want to employ a person he has a secret relationship with and has the mind to tell me about it.he deletes any conversation he has with this lady,he hides his phone and would never pick a call in my presents.

Pls how do you think I should handle this,I told him the only way I would ever listen to him is if he tell me where he went with that lady on that Saturday. Calling her sounds desperate and I don't like fighting my fellow lady because of a man.your opinion pls

In as much as your story sounds one sided, I will tell you what happened, from experience. You are probably the issue. Just listen. You are probably sex starving your man or engaged on a kind of behaviour that he could no longer tolerate and he at some point decided to give a fck about the girl next door.
Did you see how easily you cracked all his jerks on that chic? He would have tried more on a cover up if he gave a damn about how you would feel.

I have a similar experience, I even left my phone when I knew I should have closed the page so it would lock automatically in less time. Expectedly, she stumbled into where the girl even sent her nude video to me on WhatsApp, wanking herself and saying she needs me. I didn't cheat though, but met one crazy ph girl that I bought drinks and went dirty chatting with her. Argument ensued and I told her I had no explanations. Honestly I wanted to leave and go chill somewhere like your man, but my woman was kinda wiser. Sensing there was a problem somewhere that perhaps emanated from her, she broke down crying.
I told her how I was managing to remain celibate because of her low libido or something and couldn't bear it no longer.
Fact checks:
1Your man unabashedly hooked up with his friends employee -an easy take
2He did not try more to hide it
3He had no apologies

Take this and ponder on it.
Send him text that he should come home so you guys could discuss. Let him know you still love him. Take it from there.

Mariangeles:


Then you only saw what you made up your mind to see.

Maria learn to take correction and fix your bad attitude. I am not one of this women you are fighting with here. I have told you what the problem is, from data you yourself have shown me in your posts. Data Analysis is what I do as my work so all this your talk no just hold water.

Toks2008:


Coco i just love playing this mind games with nairalanders.

Do the thinking... I have been on this site since 2007 and i have never dated any lady here.

That’s okay.
I’m just making sure I didn’t imagine reading it

@Toks2008

You said you were married in these 2 threads below; so not sure why you think that people are making that up?

You said you were married here
https://www.nairaland.com/1284024/broken-dejected-found-out-wife/13#15658878

Another thread where you said you have been married before and mentioned about your ex
https://www.nairaland.com/2347524/10-women-christian-man-should/4#34275821

TheeDetective:
@Toks2008

You said you were married in these 2 threads below; so not sure why you think that people are making that up?

You said you were married here
https://www.nairaland.com/1284024/broken-dejected-found-out-wife/13#15658878

Another thread where you said you have been married before and mentioned about your ex
https://www.nairaland.com/2347524/10-women-christian-man-should/4#34275821

Smh!

So what is the point?

Quote the lady that was insisting that im a divorcee. As for me i will continue to enjoy the drama.

I don't know how my marital status affects the fact that Buhari is the president and Tinubu might be the next mistake if we are not careful.

Toks2008:


Hahahaha! See me see wahala..

A married man who sleeps with another lady should expect tbe wife to choose whether to stay or leave so why threatening with divorce? Please say something else abeg.

I have met many divorcees who left their husband because he cheated on them and i had always asked them one question...

Have they been able to get a faithful man?

Have they been able to stop their ex from moving on with other women?

In vigorous defense of adultery.

Magnoliaa:

Shey because nuclear war happen?


LMAO. As per we're The Undertaker abi? Or more like The Undertaker Sisters.


As usual. We bam and move on with our coconut heads.


Like. This sounds truer for me in regards to what I experienced here just some days ago. I swear. if you can deal with trolls on NL, you can deal with any group of people in this world. Including those uncontacted people that haven't seen civilisation.

What happened last week? I've been so busy offline that I no longer know what is happening online.

TheeDetective:
@Toks2008

You said you were married in these 2 threads below; so not sure why you think that people are making that up?

You said you were married here
https://www.nairaland.com/1284024/broken-dejected-found-out-wife/13#15658878

Another thread where you said you have been married before and mentioned about your ex
https://www.nairaland.com/2347524/10-women-christian-man-should/4#34275821

Nairalanders! Una get time sha

Ishilove:

In vigorous defense of adultery.

Lol! Another mistake.

Im just a realist and FYI, a man does not commit adultery if he sleeps with an unmarried lady... Except the lady is married.

And babe you must understand that im not defending sexual immorality but i just refuse to buy into the fantasy of women who believe that a man must be faithful to them.

Ishilove:

Nairalanders! Una get time sha

The guy get time walahi.

LilMissFavvy:
How? Her marriage has problems? I don't think so

Marriage lounloun, she dey one? Her baby daddy dey ajegunle dey hustle now

Toks2008:


Just shut up as in shush. Nobody can delete a quoted thread.

I have never been in a failed marriage so stop acting foolish. Can you even mock me?

Face the topic here.

Are you guys still together?

baby124:

Na lie. All your women have run from you. You are an angry divorcee. Anybody that takes your advice Na better one chance. Go for therapy and try to heal.

Omo ele cogar re ke

Sarsaproko:


Are you guys still together?

21 years and still counting.

Chai! How i wish i did not give this hint.

I honestly enjoy the way many nairaland babes call me a divorcee.

I dey enjoy their cluelessness.

Toks2008:


21 years and still counting.

Chai! How i wish i did not give this hint.

I honestly enjoy the way many nairaland babes call me a divorcee.

I dey enjoy their cluelessness.

Well done bro