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Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Acidosis(m): 5:29pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Needadvice200: And your wife? |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by pretydiva(f): 5:31pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Op keep praying. There's nothing God cannot do 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Kobojunkie: 5:45pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Needadvice200:1. Was your wife also to blame for your being sick for many years? 2. You claim you visited mediums and all 3-4 of them pointed at your wife as the source of your failures in your networking business, you didn't tell us what solutions they each prescribed in your case. 3. If according to the mediums you visited, the magic only works against those who mate with people such as your wife, why then did this charm she has not work against you before marriage, and according to you, it also does not work when you are outside the shores of the country? 3 Likes |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Richy4(m): 5:50pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Needadvice200: I'm really sad that you were passing through all these... But in life we humans experience ups and downs... This might be the down part of it( business wise).. The only problem here is Finance... Assuming u were outside the country, this is where financial planners comes in to play.. u won't even need fasting and prayers.. they will just help revive your business by working u through it all... I would have even liked for you to tell us the confirmed source where they told you that your wife was the reason why your business was not moving... But I think it is irrelevant... Please my brother... Stay close to that woman.. if u guys put heads together, u can figure something out...A lot of prayer houses are staying relevant today because they are in the business of destroying families and disintegrating relationships... Do not let your family be among the statistics....if u leave your wife, there are chances that u might end up with Jezebel's great grand daughter.. all the best buddy... 6 Likes |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Esthered: 6:09pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Why do prayer houses label women as the cause of their spouses problems? You've been in business for years as you claim, are you still using the same strategy as at when you started and expecting same results in this dynamic world of today? You said she prayed.....the fervent and effective prayer of a righteous man availeth much says the holy book. How fervent have you been praying for your deliverance? You were asked if you've been applying, you're saying you're a business person. What if this business is not adapting to 2022 and you're too stubborn to change strategy. I just think that Africans always relate their mishaps to spiritual....but if na Oyibo e happen to, he'll restrategize....consult.....explore different businesses and bounce back. If after she leaves, you're declared free by the vison seers and the business doesn't bounce back nko? OP abeg check what you're doing wrongly in business and it's not bad to apply for jobs. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Needadvice200: 6:44pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Of course not. She isn't the one responsible. What they said is she'll do deliverance. It's not that she's using charms or juju on me. It's like when someone has a spiritual husband/wife kind of but unknown to them physically. Am just tired bro because her situation is getting so obvious |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Needadvice200: 6:46pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Esthered: It's well bro, I get it. Thank you 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Needadvice200: 6:46pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Richy4: Thanks man. Really appreciate 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Needadvice200: 6:47pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Acidosis: She into fashion |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Needadvice200: 6:49pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Am not abandoning my marriage bro. Thanks anyway |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by udede(m): 6:51pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Needadvice200:Young man please stop blaming your wife. You will break her heart. The devil saw something in your marriage , the compatibility, the love, etc so the devil decided to use those satanic prophets to scatter your family. As a Christian, just invite Jesus Christ into your life and family. Its very easy. 2 Likes |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Kobojunkie: 7:01pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Needadvice200:Your wife is to blame but your wife is not responsible? Having sex with an infected individual is where it all starts, this according to your mediums, but you and your wife enjoyed sex as a couple before marriage and had no issues of any kind during all that time? You then, in defense of your mediums, claim that these type of problems only show up after marriage, even though the same you admit that when you don't have sex in your marriage, all seems to go well and when you are outside of the country, business seems to go fine... this all while you remain married to the same woman. You claimed a pastor told you all that was needed was 3-day fast, and your wife willingly submitted to the ordeal, only that too didn't pan out. Isn't it time you consider the possibility that the problem has nothing to do with your wife, but instead to do with all the imagined ideas you've been fed by your 13 Likes |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by infogenius(m): 7:04pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
op This is a very serious issue and it shouldn't be taken lightly. What you are going through is not new and it's still happening till tomorrow. I had a friend that was into big time business at the trade fair, this was someone that spent about N20m for his marriage without batting an eye lid. By 1st year wedding anniversary he was in big debt. When things got so rough for him , he waka small and his wife was handpicked as the source of his business downturn. To cut the long story short, the woman attested to the fact that she sees herself in strange places when she's asleep and usually reports her husband to an unknown person in her dreams. Well that's them, over to you. You don't have a good reason to divorce your wife. You and her will need deliverance, prayerfully ask God to guide you. However, labour in the place of prayers at night, infact you and your wife can engage in prayers together at midnight without clothes on. Do this for 7 days and within that time, God will definitely show the way to go. Spiritual issues are real and we only need God to help us through it all. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Needadvice200: 7:05pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: It's well bro. God no go shame us. Thank you I appreciate 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Kobojunkie: 7:06pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Needadvice200:Your topic points to it as an option you are considering or did you not write that? Your post reminds me of a thread from some months ago. A guy who came on here to announce he chased off his wife and eventually kicked his almost 2-year old toddler out of the house too because he was told by 3 pastors that his wife was a witch and that the child inherited the mother's powers. He blamed the woman and the child for the failure of his business.....a clear case of mind-fuckery if you ask me. I can try pull that thread up for you so you can maybe read through his life to understand that you have been hoodwinked and probably should seek a professional mental health counseling if necessary. 2 Likes |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Kobojunkie: 7:10pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Needadvice200:Here are the links to the other's story https://www.nairaland.com/5705389/think-wife-witch https://www.nairaland.com/6787206/1-years-old-witch Take time to process some of the similarities between your story and his 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Kajaard: 7:11pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Needadvice200: You are an illiterate. Very daft and shallow. Continue believing these useless pastors and fetish JuJu people. I can't believe I share the same country with such dull people. Pathetic 9 Likes |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Needadvice200: 7:16pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Kajaard: Can you imagine. Bro you don't even know me and you are passing insult like this? 7 Likes |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Needadvice200: 7:19pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: What I was thinking is for me to leave not abandon them because I will take up their responsibility but I will reconsider based on people advices I've read so far. Thank you 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Needadvice200: 7:20pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
infogenius: Thank you bro. I appreciate and I hope your friend is doing well now |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Cedricayus(m): 7:20pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Kobojunkie: 7:22pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Needadvice200:Go through that other man's story to realize that, like many Nigerians out there, you have instead allowed yourself be manipulated into blaming your wife for your shortcomings. It never ends well. 4 Likes |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Acidosis(m): 7:22pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Needadvice200: The truth is that if you guys refuse to improve your game and get your hands busy, your situation will get worse. No amount of prayers will cause money to fall from heaven. I believe in biblical principles. Praying for financial transformation without paying your tithes, giving to the needy, and getting yourself busy with work as recommended by the same bible you believe in, is tantamount to reckless religiosity. I don't pray for money. I apply principles. If you apply basic principles, your situation will surely turn around. Demons cannot alter certain principles and as long as she's not putting on the rag physically, who cares? Get busy with work, give to the needy, apply other basic financial principles (there's a lot in the bible about loans, savings, prudence, investments), and your situation will turn around. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by baby124: 7:56pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Your problem started with the loans. You can not make head way in life if you get into debt to fund your lifestyle. The only time you get into debt should be for business purposes to expand an already profitable business. Not to run everyday expenses. This is the place savings come in. Most of you live way above your means, not thinking that life has ups and downs. When you are down, those savings will save your life! What you needed to do was reduce your spending to reflect your current income. I know it’s not easy but you have to. Also reassess your business strategy and skills, how can someone into networking be bringing in 20k per month. It’s obvious you are not a very good business man. Maybe you are better off an employee? Your wife, do you ensure she contributes to the home or work? You cannot expect to be a superhero in marriage and expect to be successful these days if you are not disgustingly rich. You need to assign some bills to her if her work or business is bringing in income. She must understand that you both have to work together. A lot of Nigerian men get themselves in debt trying to form who they are not to their wives. These debt companies can drive you to suicide, so you better stop collecting loans and start cutting your coat according to your size. You may want to pick up a few jobs here and there to make ends meet. Even if it’s to do laundry man at night and carry cement during the day, it’s only for a short while till you get back on your feet. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by cococandy(f): 8:04pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Some long suffering good women who stay with and support broke men get accused of being behind the poverty. This might be the 5th thread on this forum I’ve seen where the man says someone saw a vision about his wife being responsible for his misfortunes. It’s sad. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Acidosis(m): 8:09pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
cococandy: Anything to support women and LGBT 2 Likes |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by cococandy(f): 8:10pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Esthered:It’s always women There’s this underlying theme that women are evil in nature. It gets exploited by these conmen to create distrust in already shaky situation. I don’t often see women being told that their husbands are spiritually responsible for whatever problem they’re facing. Instead it might be the mom or mom-in-law that gets accused. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by cococandy(f): 8:11pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Acidosis:Wetin concern LGBT for this thread now? And yes anything to support women from unjust accusations. It’s always the women that are witches 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Esthered: 8:18pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
cococandy:Good evening, you're very right Ma. I hope the narrative will change in the distant future. 3 Likes |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by JoyousFurnitire(m): 8:19pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
This! nwajesus12: 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by oldienavie: 8:34pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Needadvice200:When was the last time that you gave someone a gift without expecting something in return. Your perspective is very narrow, unfortunately many people are in your shoes and so they tend to suffer. Do you think you dont have forces from your generation to also contend with ? Anyway, learn to give to people regardless of how much little you have, that solves 95% of the problems humans face. It is a potent recipe for survival and breakthrough but very few people understand it as a weapon. When you give to the needy (not tithing in church) but you give people in genuine need support and your heart is pure, the forces of the world will align in your favour. I talk from experience. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by JoyousFurnitire(m): 8:41pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Acidosis: Just look at yourself? Pathetic! |
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