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Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by angelfallz(m): 4:19pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Is there no will? This is just horrible. If there is no will, the man's properties should be shared to his children by the government, I think. If you know any law chambers or an NGO that can help, it best to go about this with legal backing WBworldwide: |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by angelfallz(m): 4:21pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
I hate it when people ignore the problem and start chasing shadows. What has polygamy got to do with what is happening? As if the same issues are not found in monogamous marriages Ever8090: 1 Like |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by angelfallz(m): 4:23pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Lol. Hustle for your own property. Why would you and your brother(s) fight over properties that don't belong to any of you all because of inheritance? Berezuski: |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by angelfallz(m): 4:23pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
How does that question solve the problem? stacyadams: 1 Like |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by YourFavorite21(m): 4:25pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Your late Dad supposed to write a will, knowing fully well that, this is a polygamous family and e dey carry plenty wahala. The only way to fight this, is to get a good lawyer, it is obvious that the elders are supporting your eldest brother, after they must have collected bribe from him. |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by angelfallz(m): 4:25pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Nonsense. this same problem can be found in monogamous marriages as well. You can't give a solution instead you are chasing shadows and finding fault in the wrong places. stacyadams: |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by angelfallz(m): 4:29pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
I generally agree with what you said, but I would advice he takes the matter up legally immediately. In cases like this you don't appease anyone elders or no elders. Once money(property) is involved everyone is looking for their own interest So, he should take the matter to court immediately, forget about meeting LilMissFavvy: 1 Like |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by LilMissFavvy(f): 4:52pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
If he goes legal immediately without consulting the elders a second time, the elders will be very agitated, they will connive more with the first son. Better he tries a peaceful approach first, if a peaceful approach fails, then he can take a legal action. angelfallz: 1 Like |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by Nobody: 5:07pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
So sorry for your loss, First, which of the houses did your dad build and lived in till he died ?, Second, which part of the urhobo land are you from ? |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by Berezuski: 5:18pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
angelfallz: So he should inherit the whole property for himself? Isn't that wickedness? |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by Danzakidakura(m): 5:32pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Get elders involve what of your father's will ? |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by Danzakidakura(m): 5:34pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
stacyadams:stupid question. This type of person you will be surprised to see that their mother was a BABY MAMA. |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by postmann: 5:58pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
@ OP; Your dad not leaving a Will unfortunately paves the way for your custom to prevail in this matter And that custom puts the most senior male child as the chief beneficiary of your late father's property even if your mother were to be alive. He is fully in charge and I'm afraid you all are at his mercy. Your best route is to go through the elders. Look for one who is sympathetic to your plight. Who knows if they can persuade your brother to cut you guys some slack. |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by jmoore(m): 6:11pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Get a lawyer to stop all those nonsense. |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by Efewestern: 6:50pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
WBworldwide: Your elder brother can't inherit all property. Lands and property will be shared to all three "GATES", However, your dad's flat (The house he stayed before his death) belongs to your elder brother. Do not fret, properties will be shared equally and even if your mom had only daughters for your dad, their interest will be protected by the Ekru. In Urhobo culture, everyone is equal when it comes to inheritance. Be it Boy, girl, last born, first born... 1 Like |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by WBworldwide: 6:58pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Efewestern: The dad lived with us before he died... The eldest son lived at the other compound that was allocated to her mom. Pertaining to the issue of the eldest son being in charge of the flat my dad lived, that's where d issue is coming from. |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by Efewestern: 7:01pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Ulunne777: This is not custom. In Urhobo land, every one is treated equally. Something else is happening. Even if the other wives gave birth to only daughters, the property of the late father will be shared equally amongst all kids. I believe WBworldwide's siblings aren't interested in those properties. |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by Efewestern: 7:07pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
WBworldwide: Quite tricky, if you dad lived in your flat before his death, then I fear he has a say in that property. The room and parlour of the late father always go to the first son, this has been the custom of the Urhobos, However, other properties will be shared equally. In what name did you dad built those other properties? (The one your half-brothers are living). |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by arthurwillia(m): 7:14pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Even if there’s no will, why will someone in his right mind in this life want to inherit everything because you came first, this thing tire me man Humans are just wicked |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by WBworldwide: 7:22pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Efewestern:my father's name. As it is now, no single house document has been found. |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by WBworldwide: 7:27pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Efewestern:My sisters' are interested but my own elder brother is not even showing up for meetings or saying anything. I was brought into this matter when i went home with a female friend and saw the house under lock and key. D idiot is even making claims to d now pregnant dog I bought for my dad when d house help stopped coming cos my mum was working... ? |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by Efewestern: 7:34pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
WBworldwide: Be rest assured, he can't claim all property. The house your dad built for his mom will be shared to you all. Yes, your dad's flat rightfully belongs to him but he can't claim all properties. All my years of living, I have never seen or heard where a senior son in Urhobo land lay claims of all his late Father's property. Wait till your dad's burial is done. And please take care of yourself. Mind what you eat and drink. This is going to be a tough ride. 1 Like |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by Efewestern: 7:40pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
WBworldwide: Lol, laid claims to your dog too? Sorry I had to laugh, but the dude is one hell of a brother. Hahahahaha. Handle the whole issue with maturity, so far, he can't do anything with those seized documents and the family won't dare cede everything to him. I salute oniovo. |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by simpleseyi: 8:02pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
MAGG0T: Ten face idiot, una well done. I know the sorrow, tears and blood that we left in your land in 1970 is difficult to forget. Learn from the mistakes of your elders, so that you won't end up worse than they did. |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by simpleseyi: 8:05pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
stacyadams: She is resting in the grave. Go and ask her there lazy youth. |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by gulfer: 8:26pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Op, if there's no will, what does your tradition prescribe in this sort of situation... You may have to involve your elders to get this sorted amicably.... |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by MAGG0T(m): 8:45pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
simpleseyi: Words from a street urchin who needs my attention to remain relevant, you can keep barking kid! |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by frozen70(f): 11:05am On Mar 29, 2022 |
Kestolove: Nonsense, an Igbo who gets married to more than one wife, is just a crazy fellow Igbo people practice one wife unless some bad situations can make him marry two but not three Besides, their father's properties are share to the children not just the first son |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by stacyadams: 2:18pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
Danzakidakura:..lol.. shameless polygamist 1 Like |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by stacyadams: 2:20pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
simpleseyi:. If u like join polygamy ,ur fate will not be far from the OP. 1 Like |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by stacyadams: 2:23pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
angelfallz: If u like marry ten wives,that's ur cup of akamu. 1 Like |
Re: Is The First Son To Inherit All My Father's Property ? by WBworldwide: 3:58pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
stacyadams:u are a very useless person... Very childish and stupid |
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