Plenty turanchi. A staggering population of women in this country want to just sit and be taken care of. The money they get still comes from men.

They all say they want to make their own money, independent bla bla. It ends on their whatsapp status and Instagram captions.

The women in this country that have what it actually takes are few. The rest are a very lazy entitled lot who can't think beyond their hole.

cococandy:

Apples and oranges.

He said it specifically that he had nothing sustainable when they married. And she agreed to manage. That means they were struggling. Okay?

U women are never logical... how old was he ?? 21 yrs old and u think he was in his right senses to make a decision about marriage?? A small boy that dint know his left from his right ?? He even tried to hv lasted this long ... most women also leave men that did so much for them , their reason will always b they accepted the marriage cos they were young and naive and now that they are old and mature , they don't want the mN again... so stop that ur emotional crap

JONNYSPUTE:
..... And who told you that? You guys should stop saying what you don't know.

Since you know him so much. Can you tell us where he lived then and his present abode?

So u were his account officer that knew his financial state ??

bukatyne:


Would an ugly wife have deserved May's fate?

You don't even know the context for my statement , you NL people love drama

Kingcalls:


So u were his account officer that knew his financial state ??

..... Just open mouth waa. Sorry I didn't know I was talking to his account officer.

All these will soon end latest next week once another drama hits social media, at least the 10 year old Chrisland school girl don finally rest.

You people should leave Yul and his family alone, they will sort themselves out

In all these, Elon, Zuckerberg, MTN, Glo, Etisalat, Airtel are the ones smiling to the bank. I am even suspecting these guys stoke up stories every week to keep Nigerian social media space busy.

cococandy:

Apples and oranges.

He said it specifically that he had nothing sustainable when they married. And she agreed to manage. That means they were struggling. Okay?

If she herself had money would she have followed YUL?
Your comments are written as if she did Yul a favour by marrying him, yes Yul father was a celeb, but who is her father?
Like the writer above spotted out, Yul wasn't poor as we imagined, he was just not where he want to be at the moment and today not that he abandoned her or stuff like that, or that May will start suffering because he married a 2nd wife.
The 2nd wife is independent and i believe she's not coming to live with Yul at home.
So let's cut short all our opinions, if she had a better option then she would have left YUL.
Marrying a man or saying yes to a man when he's not where he want to be yet, doesn't mean you stood by him, you too stand and live your life and let the man tell you in the future that he was with you when you had nothing, radarada.

Not that the said lady was a daughter of a billionaire and decided to stick to a pauper, nah.
She was just a regular person and so she didn't stood by him, she was just living her life.

When They Break Up It's Always The Girl That Is Rich And The Guy Broke, Useless Set Of Nigerian Girls.

If You're Lucky To Have A White Girl My Brother Marry Her, They're The Best.

Acidosis:


Impact of his action? No, that is not what I am trying to do. I am only trying to correct the popular notion of "I suffered with you" . When two people choose to pursue their personal interests together, one person cannot turn around to use that line. If anything at all, they chose to suffer together and one party did not do the other any favour. I will like to believe the lady wanted the marriage to prevent the baby mama tag (selfish interest). Yul had his own selfish interest as well at that time. So nobody helped anybody.

Lol, she shouldn't use the "I suffered with you" line because she chose it?
So why do we blame women who refused to suffer with us?
I mean if they don't deserve special recognition for suffering with us, why should anyone choose to suffer when there's the choice to not suffer?

Before the gist was it's bad women who leave the broke guys and go for the yahoo boys and aristos, now the good women who suffered are burnt and all we can say is they chose to suffer?

I warned people about this when the news broke out. Failure to condemn the actions of Yul will breed monsters.

qtguru:


You don't even know the context for my statement , you NL people love drama

I do.

Drama sadly is the spice of life

Mstick:
We all woke up to the news that Yul Edochie married a second wife and I've seen numerous takes especially from Nigerian men about how it's within his rights to do so. Of course polygamy is not and has never been a crime in Africa but is that really what polygamy is? Does the first wife at least get a heads up in such a situation?

May Edochie said she found out on Monday that her husband got married on Sunday, that is pure and sheer wickedness. A woman spends 17 years of her life with you, gives you four children and I am sure she has contributed financially, morally and in other ways to build the home and Yul Edochie didn't even have the decency to tell this same woman about his plans.

Men always talk about how the women of this days aren't loyal like their mothers LOL! Things like this and more that women see everyday and you still expect loyalty?!

My advice to every married woman, engaged woman and women in general. You see that man you're doing struggle love with, have a backup plan my dear, I repeat don't TRUST THE LOYALTY OF A BROKE MAN. Get a job, save money, don't have children that you cannot comfortably take care of alone, surround yourself with your family, don't fight your family EVER because when shît hits the fan they're the ones that will protect and fight for you.

African women, Black women, Nigerian women please and please stop aiding struggle love, go out there and work for your own money, it's better you struggle alone, than carrying a baby on your back while wondering what you would cook when you get home.

Work for your own money, stop shrinking yourselves, if a man says he wouldn't marry you because you've a car or a house it's not a lose but a gain.

So why do they go for men if they think they have it all


Nobody can be each other's God

Both men and women need each other

But when women feel they can go it all alone

The road is extremely rough

Yul to me just made a mistake and later got caught up in his mistake




In addition

Men are still more successful when you compare the percentage

The gap is still much

celebrities are now hailing him for being honest, when he never told his wife.

JONNYSPUTE:
..... Just open mouth waa. Sorry I didn't know I was talking to his account officer.

No na....na u wey open mouth de vomit rubbish say im no get money... Pete had been to my house 2 times in the 90s to visit my dad and we hv visited them too at their hometown in nteje which is very close to my village also bk in the 90s

cococandy:

Apples and oranges.

He said it specifically that he had nothing sustainable when they married. And she agreed to manage. That means they were struggling. Okay?

doesn't mean shit... she already knows he's from a well to do family background so things must surely click, you women are very witty!

Acidosis:


Not necessarily a liar but most grass-to-grace stories are not as bad as we imagine. I hope you know that Davido also has a grass-2-grace story online?

I hope you also know that if Davido and Chioma's affairs remain a thing for another 20 years, "Assurance" will turn out to be a "grass-2-grace" story for the next generation?

Don't be deceived, Davido has never suffered in his life because by the time he was born in 1992, his father was already fantastically rich, his uncle was a Governor and his grandfather was a senator between 1979-1983 so when did he ever struggled for anything like true rest of us?

Kriss216:
97.432% of men married to Nigerian girls are suffering. Forget the social media fake smile. They're all living in self denial.

No sane man will abandon a good woman or treat her bad.

Dear men, don't let your wife stop you from finding the love of your life.

I don Laff scatter for inside the Library I dey
Abeg send me ur account number.
U deserve cold beer!

Kingcalls:


No na....na u wey open mouth de vomit rubbish say im no get money... Pete had been to my house 2 times in the 90s to visit my dad and we hv visited them too at their hometown in nteje which is very close to my village also bk in the 90s

.... Problems with you lots is that you can't differentiate between fame and wealth

That he was famous does not mean he is rich. We lived together in the same area and Yul was my school mate back then in secondary school.

Lol@visiting your father where as we see him on daily basis in the area.

bukatyne:


I do.

Drama is the spice of life

I don't see what Yul saw in the lady over his wife, the wife looks way more beautiful. Unless he's a chubby chaser

MartinsD12:

He was broke in essence his father's money is not his and back then he has no fame attached to his name apart from that of his father but today he is a brand of his own

His father's money is not his, therefore, he was broke?

Fine. So Davido was broke in his college days, yeah?

Kriss216:
97.432% of men married to Nigerian girls are suffering. Forget the social media fake smile. They're all living in self denial.

No sane man will abandon a good woman or treat her bad.

Dear men, don't let your wife stop you from finding the love of your life.

That's how my uncle was going out with this woman!!
My uncle lost his wife although my uncle is 60 and the woman already have one child, my uncle told this woman that they should get marry! The woman say if my uncle doesn’t do court wedding that she will not marry.

My uncle say God forbid that the woman have a plan that after few months or a year the woman may go for a divorce therefore taking all what he has work for.


No man will leave a good woman. Fear women especially Nigeria girls


Mad people everywhere.

May is a beautiful woman and the Edochie family loves her. I pray that she has money saved and has her own house. If I could give her one of my own, I would do so.

bukatyne:


I do.

Drama sadly is the spice of life

Ha not me o, anti-drama, I like to sleep peacefully.

All these women shine you eyes bullshit is just funny..like say women na saint..no be woman marry am or na man ..lolz...i have also seen so many Nigerian women run away from there marriages wen the man becomes broke and even get involued with another man...some wives.. if u send dem go university..after 200 level...she don outgrow you....shit happens..

qtguru:
celebrities are now hailing him for being honest, when he never told his wife.

No serious minded person takes them seriously.

You can count on both fingers those who are not sleeping with married men/women, are gay/lesbian/animals, swapping husbands/wives etc.

So what do you expect them to say?

qtguru:


Ha not me o, anti-drama, I like to sleep peacefully.

Same here.

My concern here is that the focus is money. The love of money is the root of all evil. Don't lose sight of the important qualities in your partner because of the love of money. Don't forget the adage; if you want to know a person's true behaviour, give them power and money.

I see the same old human behaviour. Chasing money and forgetting your morals in chasing and attaining it. Having money is not the only thing in life. You can be rich and be very unhappy. You can be comfortable and be very unhappy. You can be broke and be very unhappy. You can be those three status and be happy. Don't let money be your happiness in life.

ImaIma1:
Ladies should not be attacked or branded for marrying rich. Let everyone marry who they want,because if you marry rich or broke, who will mess you up will still do it regardless of if you suffered in poverty with them or not.

So all these guys that are always trying to "golddigger-shame" ladies who choose rich guys should just rest. Because they are not more eligible bachelors nor would they make better husbands than the rich guys just because they are broke.

Because some guys make it seem like they can love better and be better husbands. Then you hear things like "what if that guy suddenly loses his wealth"? The question should be what is they themselves never get rich?

Rich or poor marry your choice regardless of the background noise.

No body came to this world as a special person with touch of being rich, anyone can be rich same way anyone can go broke... Zazoo zeh is a very huge example, what annoys many men about Nigerian women is the quest for looking out for who's rich without even care of the source, what you always here is "him get money!?" None of them is asking any other rational questions... I hardly pity women nowadays cus most doesn't do their check well before entering into a marriage, it's all about the money for them!

qtguru:


I don't see what Yul saw in the lady over his wife, the wife looks way more beautiful. Unless he's a chubby chaser

If he is a chubby chaser, he should have fed her fat

Acidosis:


Okay. Average white collar man?? So how's your opinion different from mine, exactly?


By the way, I'm surprised you had to bring tribe into this. Yul is not Kunle, Tunde, or Abiodun so there hasn't been any reason so far to lash out at any tribe. We all know what people like you would say if Yul was a Yoruba man.

So please zip it in too. I am not blaming Yul or any other Anambra man over what they choose to do with their gbola. He won't be the first and the last Igbo or Anambra man to cheat or get a second wife.

Being Catholic is also mostly by mouth. These day, people only bear Christian names and do whatever they want. When last did he attend a church service? Pesin wey no dey go church would probably not need his church for anything.

Bro, i tire. A civil servant in the 80’s poor?? The money in Nollywood then was understandably small as it was an emerging industry and Pete is one of the reasons the industry is where it is today but people forget that civil servants were middle class then.

Like how’d you forget that this were folks driving Peugeot, getting lands for free in choice areas as per govt allocations etc. The area Pete and his family lived in the 80’s someone already described here is still a high choice area in Enugu today. Smh

bukatyne:


If he is a chubby chaser, he should have fed her fat

Now its body shaming....everyone likes different things

dominique:


Nollywood actors were far from rich during Pete Edochie's era. He was famous alright but stupendously rich? Far from it. He may not even be earning up to 200k per movie at that point in time. Yul is one of his five or six kiddy, you think Pete was submitting his less than 200k paycheck in the hands of one of his youngest kids? Even if he was so rich when he married his wife, does that justify what he did to her?

You men think women's feelings are not to be considered then go ahead and expect loyalty and submission for the women you disregard so much. Thank God eyes don dey open, you people will continue to wail about how today's women no longer want to suffer like your mothers. In fact you never start to dey wail

But very many men have understood the drift and facing there struggles alone

Very many men have toughened up and facing there struggles alone. Simple

Because our Divorce laws nit really favour able to women in terms of alimony, Yul will spend his life time paying alimony and Child support if he tries this stunt in USA