Dorwadora:
That's what a man told me 3 days ago. This post will be quite long but I really need people's opinion cus I'm feeling guilty.



3 days ago, around 11pm, I decided to come outside to buy a quick snack. After buying I got to the front of my hostel and I saw some guys I know smoking, they greeted me and I responded. One of them decided to approach me about how we should contribute money for the woman that sweeps the compound. While we were talking a little girl came and tapped the guy to call his attention. I know the girl because she's friend with another girl I always send errands. she's in JSS1 and I was a bit confused about why she would be outside around that time.

The location my hostel is located is a community of both students and indigenes. To be sincere, I already saw the girl with the guy on Saturday I was passing and I saw the guy giving her 2h to buy soft drink. Since that Saturday I was already having the urge to scold the girl about her attachment with those guys. The guy told me to give him a moment and he sorted the girl out. After they made about whatever they wanted to make plan about. The guy came back for us to conclud what were discussing.

So I decided to be a busybody and I asked him about his intentions towards the girl and he said I should forget it. I told him that the girl is still a child, he shouldn't do what would tarnish his reputation. He said I should forget and he said and I quote " Ti obirin ba ti wu oyun, o ti to for"... The translation is the topic.

I dropped the matter and went inside thinking about how I will call those girls to order. Then yesterday evening, I was sleeping and I heard a woman beating her daughter telling her to stay away from friends and should stop coming to our hostel. The girl lied to her mother about going to buy something not knowing her mother was following her. She caught her with some guys and she decided to discipline the girl at the spot. I ran out and tried to appeased the woman. Told her that beating would make her more rebellious and more smarter. The girl is 12 and in JSS1. We spoke a lot about how a girl child should be and she left after collecting my number and telling me to chase the girl away from our hostel anytime I see her around.


I was very happy that one problem was solved until I went back inside and saw a crowd of babies( I mean those little 12 to 13 years old) inside my neighbor room. Including the girl we talked about. The door was open, they played and laugh and started leaving one but one until it was just 2 of them remaining. The guy was teaching them how to smoke.... He's in 500lv and I thought he would know better but I think he's stupid. Later they locked the door and started playing loud music, later I heard a painful moan .... I don't know what they were doing but I was panicking.

The 2 girls later left too and I was cumbered with guilt about what I should do. I know their mothers. They are selling stuffs around us. I wanted to talk to the girls myself but I'm worried they should not ask me what's my business cause children of nowadays are quite bold. I want to go and tell their mothers about their children behavior but I'm reluctant because I feel I should talk to those girls first.

I'm feeling so guilty ..... I don't know what to do.

Ferrytech:
ti obirin ba ti wu oyo oti to fo (if a girl has started growing breast she is enough to be bleeped) you support tear the guy slap

Ferrytech:
just mind your own (cause if the guy finds out he can punish you)

Haakeem:
Aunty,its nt your business assume whatever you saw today before you land your self in trouble.

But W.T.F. the foolish guy is a peadophile.

Ballzproblemm:
.naso somebody go mind en business when e involve your daughter or sister

Ballzproblemm:
naso somebody go mind en business when e involve your daughter or sister

Haakeem:
Aunty,its nt your business assume whatever you saw today as nothing before you land your self in trouble.

But W.T.F. the foolish guy is a peadophile.

But if you still insisit in poking your nose in the case report to their mother, i don't buy the idea of you advising them.

Dorwadora:
Personally, I believe that raising a child should be a community collective responsibility. We should not look away from their bad behaviors because they are our future and the future of Nigeria. So I really can't mind my business.

But I'll be smart about how I interfere

Haakeem:
oga i was still typing.

But in some cases, minding yah business is the way forward.

Ferrytech:
if the guy later finds out it op that told their mum (remeber the guy smoke ) even doe you tell the mum at their absent he will still suspect you (but to say tell their mum let the guy be disgraced and flogged) but at your risk op

Ballzproblemm:
you are Muslim so I am not surprised ,your holy prophet encourage pedophilia ,so it's no surprise

Haakeem:
Aunty,its not your business assume whatever you saw today as nothing before you land your self in trouble.

But W.T.F. the foolish guy is a peadophile.

But if you are still dwell-on poking your nose in the case, report to their mother, i don't buy the idea of you admonishing them your self.

Stallionhorse:
This one is just jealous and pained that 12/13 years at3 getting more actions than her.. I'm sure those 12year old girls have bigger breast and yansh than this one.. Thats why she is insisting on breast as a topic.. Madam if your business is booming you will mind it..