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Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 6:58pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
tarantino1: Thank you at least you understand what I am facing because your cousin have the same condition , if it is not easy for his parents who are financial stable and what about us who doesnt have nothing and ni support. 11 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 6:59pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
dopedan: She is 7 years old 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by meetme01: 7:00pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
H0711: If he finds a place for the young girl at an affordable price, will you stay? Which part of the country do you reside? We both know you won't marry him if he informed you earlier of his child with disability. It is unfair weather disable or not. However, he ❤ you sincerely. Let's find a way forward. Remember, when you birth your child,he is the father and he will take care of the baby. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by akp202(m): 7:03pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
CountVersailles:I tire |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 7:08pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
meetme01: Of course I would stay if he find a place to put her or a house maid to be taking care of her at least I can also rest. I live in abuja. Yes if I knew about the child in the beginning maybe I wouldn't marry him I would have advised him to marry the child mother so the can take care of their child together because he left her due to the girl condition which it wasn't fair on her to be doing all alone. He doesn't loved me at all if he did he would have tell me the truth instead of leaving me in the dark . He lied to me that he didn't have any child and now he want me to take care of someone else responsibility which is not fair on me too. 21 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Truvelisback(m): 7:14pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
H0711:It's just unfortunate that u are already pregnant for him b4 u found out his dirty secret. I wanna ask u, are u financially independent enough to take care of the yet to be born child? 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 7:21pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Truvelisback: Yes unfortunately I am already pregnant but I don't regret having my baby because he will be the best thing that ever happened to me. I am not financially stable I left my job due to my condition but back in the village I will look for something to do. I am a hairdresser and make up artist my type of job is always easy to get. 9 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by meetme01: 7:22pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
H0711: I sincerely apologise on his behalf. It was hard for him and he needs peace of mind. We have few homes in Oyo, Ogun & Lagos that can take the child but distance is an issue since you guys stay in Abuja. He needs to visit. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Truvelisback(m): 7:25pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
H0711:The Ball is in ur court. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Mindlog: 7:25pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
meetme01: What do these homes offer in terms of other neurological disorders? 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by meetme01: 7:29pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Mindlog: There are lots of rehabilitation homes with different specialisation. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Mindlog: 7:31pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
meetme01: Ok. I have interest in such places and would be partnering with such organizations soon. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Nobody: 7:32pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Foodqueen:What if I told you that I know 2 MALE Nairalanders whose wives kept such similar information from during dating years yet these Guys didn't serve their treacherous wives QUIT notice... One confided in me that he had to continue with the marriage after he had realized the woman he married has got a lot of Good tidings to offer & hasn't got much terrible side. U LADIES always think MEN are perpetually at fault. It can only be a Man or a MAN, nothing else. MOST MARRIED MEN keep mute in marriages and allow it to ride smoothly not because they haven't gotten a clue of their wife's past or terrible health conditions which arose from previous wayward life styles. It always easier for LADIES to announce their problems to the world through platforms especially when a man is at fault. I can bet you, IF most married men in Nigeria start opening up, the collapse of Nigeria will only be a child's play to what will befall many homes. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by dopedan(m): 7:38pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
H0711:God bless u Any decision u make will be justified 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by H0711(f): 7:39pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
dopedan: Amen thank you 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by meetme01: 7:47pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Mindlog: I work in the Agency that over see these homes in Ogun State. We can take it from there. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Mindlog: 8:08pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
meetme01: Noted. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Globad(f): 9:11pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
H0711: You have a mind that thinks clearly. You're not confused at all. It was very bad that he hid a having a child from you in the first place. It's a trust issue. To make matters worse, the child has special needs. Before you leave, explore some options: getting a dedicated househelp. This will likely be cheaper than 200k per month. If not, it's up to you. Honestly. The disease has no cure. I wish you well. While at it, hope the child didn't inherit any bad gene from any of the parents as gene mutation is one of the causes of the disease. Wait, it may even not be out of place for him to do a dna check. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Mindlog: 9:21pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: A man who has a 7 year old special needs child who he nor his birth family have not been supporting, goes into marriage deliberately choosing not to inform the woman he wants to marry about his child so she can make informed decision and you consider that marriage not to be a scam? My concern is that child whose biological father neglected, not playing his fatherly role nor his birth family being supportive of that girl who happens to be their blood. 14 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Kobojunkie: 9:25pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
H0711:He can't afford a maid but he could afford a wife? 7 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Aklee4994(m): 9:47pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
H0711:if I tell you say this is a framework from your husband and her mom but be responsible for my thought � 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by sisisioge: 10:20pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Haaa! Wahala be like bicycle! How about if he gets a maid or two specially for the child? They would be in charge of taking care of her while you supervise. I just pity the poor child....it is well. Whenever I'm vocal with discontinuing pregnancies of fetuses with health challenges, people are always quick to call it murder. Isnt abandoning the child more dreadful? It is well. Biko dont abandon ship because of this matter, just let him get more help to support your efforts. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by sisisioge: 10:22pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
H0711: He cannot afford a maid bawo? Haaa! It is well fa. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by sisisioge: 10:25pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
H0711: It is well....e-hugs to you. May God not allow you suffer. Pele. |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Kobojunkie: 10:28pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
H0711:That man did that child a terrible wrong when he made the choice to marry a wife and have another child without first making sure her needs would be catered for. 9 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by eyinjuege: 10:57pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Oizee: Pls don't blame the mother of the child at all. She has been single handedly caring for this child with no financial or physical support from this man for years. She likely can't work because she has to look after the child 24/7, can't have a relationship with anyone else because there's no time or chance and can't get a life at all. Her life has been put on hold for their child for years. He didn't even make things easier by providing food for the child and the man has just moved on without a care in the world. Even denying the existence of his disabled child. The mum of the child too needs to build a life, and it's time for the father to step up too. If anything at all, the father's home was meant to be a more stable home for that child, but unfortunately he messed it up by not telling his wife about this before marrying her. He will have to raise that child himself now and know how the mother felt all these years. He can't work, unless he locks her up alone from morning till night, which is inhumane. Only few women would want a relationship with a man with such a huge responsibility upon him and no money. He needs to learn to be a father . The best solution is to have a meeting with the mother and agree on how much he will be dropping monthly for the child's care, because he owes her big time. He also needs to be checking on the child regularly so the mother doesn't feel alone in this struggle and he should keep the child on some weekends of the month. She's made her point. He needs to get up and look for ways of getting out of that 15K job he's doing ( ridiculous) Nigeria is all messed up 15 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by cococandy(f): 11:17pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
HRHQueenPhil:who’s small child is expected to bear that burden that grown ups can’t bear? We can’t legitimately support exploitation like this. Let him find a grown up to hire and maybe pay them more to do it. 8 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by cococandy(f): 11:28pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Was just thinking the same thing. When she leaves and it’s just him and the girl in the house. She may not wake up one day. eyinjuege: 7 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by cococandy(f): 11:28pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Please shut up ! Blessedmercy8: 16 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by pocohantas(f): 11:30pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
H0711: Sad! This must be very hard on all the parties involved. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by cococandy(f): 11:36pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Did their wives suddenly dump a special needs child in their laps for them to care for 24/7? I don’t know why on earth some of you guys think that a woman having had sexual relationships in past AKA y’all’s definition of a previous wayward life (insert eye roll) is the equivalent of every other kind of bad thing there is on earth. MALIGNANTGuest: 9 Likes |
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