inyanging:


Really? Just imagine u that God bless to have a husband & he is responsible to extend of having work paying 100k a month, why not thanks God, what about people with no man in their lives, or those whose husband are unable to get job or business

Hmm.. I'm grateful to God.
Thanks.

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

thank God you have brothers and my prayers is that same thunder where won strike you small go remain for them.

Well, as a man, I can't marry any jobless wench. So any woman working and earning a sizable salary to complement my own is welcome. Most of these jobless hoes on Nairaland are only good for chop and clean mouth.

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

Na there u go dey dey wait till u go old like cabin biscuit

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

u no dey shame to bring up this topic how much daddy dey make in a month

Ok na

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

And that was how Jenny Jenny waited and waited until she reached to pause men........ (Men oooh pause)!!!!!!!

What happened to capacity building......soaring higher , a wife bringing financial ideas to help the husband??

What happened to the Wife supporting in her own little ways,...

You are not entering a man's house to suffer,.....noooo.....even a rich man will become broke one day by his standards when you have only your body to offer in that marriage ..

Then his Secretary in his Office who advises him, tells him about new products, new business ideas and how to win competitors will easily become his new side chick and from there he marries her who he believes is more productive than the deity in his home waiting for money and more money ....

Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

So how much should we be talking about here?

Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

wait and die unmarried
You don't know that yiu gat to be useful and supportive too
Rubbish

Sister when don reach menopause still dey make yanga.... Nor worry na old papa go come marry you... I see that guy marrying ur close friend cos u nor get sense

fman:

werrin dey worry u.
From all u said
It signifies that you are a broke girl and have nothing to offer than to
depend on his 100k salary. I pray everyday never to jam your type for marriage.
check the bolded

You just explained everything boss

She has nothing to offer other than to depend on the man's salary.

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

Na thunder go fire u and that ur ußeless Ass and pussy u depend on

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

Post your salary slip before I comment

johbara:
Let me shock you,
I married three years ago when I was earning 30k. Guess who my employer was ( Npower) I earn 35k right now as a sales rep with a publishing firm and I currently have two daughters. I live in a self-contained apartment with 120k yearly rent, average electricity bill of 1k per month, water bill ( drinking & other affairs) 3k per month, cable sub (gotv) 3k per month, fuel for gen 4k per month. Make I no add feeding of self, wife kids, and the rest + other sundry expenses. My wife is about to go for youth service meaning she has no job for the now, she's Just somebody who can maximize every penny. I virtually run the whole show around here. Although ocassional assistance comes directly or indirectly in astronomical order.

So bottom line her is this ....it all about the mind set. Do you see marriage as an escape route or as an an avenue to recreate or better put an opportunity to create a legacy worthy of emulation. If the latter is your pursuit, trust me the lines will fall in place.

Currently how I take day meet up ....I no know.
And for the last straw that broke the � 's back my first daughter will turn 3 in November, she's currently in pre nursery 2, her school fees is 52k and I have never owed sch fees. Infact ... Inshallah Allah by Monday I will pay her fees . So my dear the earning power doesn't really matter if you know what you want.

Subhanallah how do you have the brain to be doing this wonders? Is so surprising

What's wrong with a man earning 100k? If you even see one in this harsh economy you re lucky..... even babes wey no fit afford data dey come online talk rubbish

fman:

You!!
How much u dey make?

No mind am!

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

Digging gold all the way.

Blessedmercy8:


These are exactly my fears cos once somebody enters the next thing is to start having children. With such income coupled with other expenses, I dey fear o.

Leave him then. A better and wealthy man is coming to marry you as jennyclay said.

olasaad:


Well many people here on nairaland will tell you No but the truth is that so many couples are on that level and they are leaving fine. Just mind the way you procreate

Living.

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

For the man's sake it's not advisable for you (so as to make him available for another lady that's matured enough for marriage) to accept his marriage proposal, because obviously it would later be an issue if things do not improve in the near future.

Secondly, What do you intend to do per adventure no man that's earning "enough" approach and proposes marriage to you?

GenderMix:
No doubt money is very key to sustaining a marriage. Infact it's one of the key ingredients that can help grease love. The lack of money can make love go sour...lol...

Having said that, marriage has an ultimate aim which is for companionship. As far as both of you have the drive to succeed and are not lazy and can cut you cloth according to your size then the amount may just be inconsequential.

If the man earns 100k, he has the qualities you like and is focused then you can start with that. Just ensure he has common sense and listens to advise. It doesn't matter if as a lady you earn higher than him. You guys should have plans and execute them together. Just encourage him by supporting him financially. Just assist him but let him be the one to take care of the major bills.

Plan around the money you earn. Don't live above your means. There are pragmatic means you can adopt to cut cost. Forget the pressure around, most of what you see are illusions. Just focus on your happiness.

I wish you best of luck.

Brilliantly Spoken!!

Blessedmercy8:


Hmm... We are still getting to know each other though but he's seriously itching to settle down considering his age and he's not trying to give us time to know if we are what we really want in all ramifications.

Ok, thanks.

At 41, you are making choices. Okay

Try to make more ask Madam Alakija how to become a female millionaires

fman:

You!!
How much u dey make?

About 300K before I left Nigeria in 2019.

Calm down.Every lady is not poor.

The poster said she earns more than the guy

Do you have a job yourself are you going to be a liability or a supportive women if you will be a liability then leave the man alone and advice him to marry a working class woman who will support him . It work both ways all of you jobless ladies get a job and support a man

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

Yes, running the family on 200k monthly isn't bad especially if you're not residing in Lagos, Abuja or PH

Blessedmercy8:


These are exactly my fears cos once somebody enters the next thing is to start having children. With such income coupled with other expenses, I dey fear o.

One problem is, these days couples don't know how to take decision on when they want kids... Some just dive in and put full tank, next thing within days of wedding is pregnancy.
No be so at all...
No be so

How many times will you keep asking us this same question??


Madam cut your clothes according to your size

spiceadole:


About 300K before I left Nigeria in 2019.

Calm down.Every lady is not poor.

The poster said she earns more than the guy

Audio money.
300k yearly or monthly or daily
Or hourly?

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

How much were your parents making when they got married?
Okay you will say you don't want to live like your parents. How much are you making to do yourself some good or plan well?
What's your financial stand that can support anyone?

Me too, can't marry a lady that can't bring more than 100K home a month. Be it business or work.

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

wetin be your own income?
Considering the situation of the economy, you won't overburden him too with bills, your salary should support. To be man, no easy Biko talk more of in Nigeria.

But if you no wan marry, no marry .
Kapish??