Yes you can.

Just make sure-
You and your prospective spouse have a growth mindset.
You cut your coat according to your cloth, stay in an appropriate area, no need for extravagant expenses and appearances of ostentation.
PULL your resources together. My becomes OUR.
SAVE enough before bringing a child into the mix.

There is nothing wrong with starting small. You will surely grow. Just focus and with God's grace success is sure.

Na liability all of dem be bruh

fman:

You!!
How much u dey make?

johbara:
Let me shock you,
I married three years ago when I was earning 30k. Guess who my employer was ( Npower) I earn 35k right now as a sales rep with a publishing firm and I currently have two daughters. I live in a self-contained apartment with 120k yearly rent, average electricity bill of 1k per month, water bill ( drinking & other affairs) 3k per month, cable sub (gotv) 3k per month, fuel for gen 4k per month. Make I no add feeding of self, wife kids, and the rest + other sundry expenses. My wife is about to go for youth service meaning she has no job for the now, she's Just somebody who can maximize every penny. I virtually run the whole show around here. Although ocassional assistance comes directly or indirectly in astronomical order.

So bottom line her is this ....it all about the mind set. Do you see marriage as an escape route or as an an avenue to recreate or better put an opportunity to create a legacy worthy of emulation. If the latter is your pursuit, trust me the lines will fall in place.

Currently how I take day meet up ....I no know.
And for the last straw that broke the � 's back my first daughter will turn 3 in November, she's currently in pre nursery 2, her school fees is 52k and I have never owed sch fees. Infact ... Inshallah Allah by Monday I will pay her fees . So my dear the earning power doesn't really matter if you know what you want.

you r a smart magician!!
You dey meet up
Simply cos u don't smoke, drink or club.
And also u placed ur family first before any other thing.
No vex for this last one: your type dey stingy, cos every naira counts.

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

Keep waiting hanty

[quote author=Blessedmercy8 post=115856532]He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy? You are not even ready for marriage yet, and its possible you do not actually understands what marriage is all about.

May i ask, "are you marrying 100k, or the man"? Do you think marriage is a bed of roses? Untill you study and know the answers to the above questions it will give you the oppourtunity have a rethink before crying foul

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

how much are you earning?

fman:

You!!
How much u dey make?

ask those idiots how much dey are making bro 9ja girls are shitholes

emmanuelbrown26:

Guy, shall we start? Yes or No? I like vavulence, I drink vavulence, if u don't mind we can startt dirty fight

Go and fight with your destiny. It is responsible for your madness.

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

May none of my family members, friends and welwishers never come across a woman like you even if they're earning a million dollars per month!
Many are earning less than 100k and with a good woman who earns a little less or more, they prioritize their lives and meet all these demands you mentioned up there... Just listen to your self, in fact may u never meet a man who earns something decent legally, what you'll see is a ritualist and a fraudster that can meet your frivolent demands, cos a good man will go bankruptcy with a type of woman like u.

No dear, you deserve better

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

How much do you earn? Or better still, what are you bringing to the table? I am waiting to hear from you oooo aunty.

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

We4all:


Go and fight with your destiny. It is responsible for your madness.

Lolsssssss

Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

Let see your account balance ���

You as a potential wife wetin you dey earn?

phemmyfour:
Yes, running the family on 200k monthly isn't bad especially if you're not residing in Lagos, Abuja or PH

We are both in Lagos.

Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

Na idiots like you dey reach 35 years waiting for Mr Right , where as her Papa no dey earn #80k

Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

Na idiots like you dey reach 35 years waiting for Mr Right , where as her Papa no dey earn #80k .

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

when i thot i have seen you-all, then boom you just appear. FYM you just have to be busy doing nothing and your dream man will come and pull you out of the holes of poverty.

I laff u in Swahili.

Blessedmercy8:


These are exactly my fears cos once somebody enters the next thing is to start having children. With such income coupled with other expenses, I dey fear o.

I think if you both join hands to together financially, you'll be able to help each order. Life is not a bed of roses. And if you've decided to transfer your generational wahala without creating room as a help mate financially to that poor man, thunder go fire your lazy ars there.

Blessedmercy8:


These are exactly my fears cos once somebody enters the next thing is to start having children. With such income coupled with other expenses, I dey fear o.

is the man praying to have a stagnant income?

olasaad:


Well many people here on nairaland will tell you No but the truth is that so many couples are on that level and they are leaving fine. Just mind the way you procreate

many people saying no on nairaland arent even living in a marriage with foundations above the 100k self.

I am Earning 70k and my woman and I are getting married next month by God's Grace. We are both graduates and we have agreed to come together as one, a good job will come, who knows maybe immediately after our union. God is still God...

Kindly settle down with the young man, he might be the next Peter Obi...

I live in Kano, work as a teacher and earn 55k monthly. Adding what I get from my private lessons, I don't earn up to 90k. I am happily married with 2 sons! You dont need to believe me. Point is, is not about the income. Its about how it is used...planned for. By the way, we arent settling for this level. We keep growing

tensazangetsu20:

You guys are in your 40s nna men.

The thing weak this bros ni sha

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

You're truly a mad gender

Blessedmercy8:


I send that condolences back to you the sender in Jesus name.

Amen.

You truly sound like an empty-headed human who can't bring something good into a marriage

How much could u offer, Olosho like u

fman:

Audio money.
300k yearly or monthly or daily
Or hourly?

Lol..Some Months ,it was more than 300K...As I did multiple jobs...Yet it was so difficult to survive,I had to relocate to UK.

Like I typed earlier,calm down!

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

so salary is the only thing to check before marriage?

You didn't mention any other thing cos your so short sighted. Instead of sizing a man based on a salary that might be the current phase of his life or career. Why not think: What if he gets another job tomorrow, or rather what if he starts his own business tomorrow ?

Dependent gender

Jennyclay:
It's not advisable my dear! 100k is way too small. Haba!!

God forbid!! I reject it IJN!!

people whit earn N80k still get married

nexta007:
I live in Kano, work as a teacher and earn 55k monthly. Adding what I get from my private lessons, I don't earn up to 90k. I am happily married with 2 sons! You dont need to believe me. Point is, is not about the income. Its about how it is used...planned for. By the way, we arent settling for this level. We keep growing

That's the spirit.

olasaad:


Well many people here on nairaland will tell you No but the truth is that so many couples are on that level and they are leaving fine. Just mind the way you procreate

You married?

Just asking