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Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by Lurdd: 7:19pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
Rozross:Common shatap |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by Truvelisback(m): 7:29pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
SocialJustice:U have a point. |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by Joe4real1988(m): 7:40pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
folake4u:It's high time u ladies started thinking right ok. All u see a man as is a money spender as if he is not a human being like u. U want an already made man..........nonsense. No wonder they use u guys for rituals coz of lack of sense and greed. 1 Like |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by Nobody: 7:43pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
Hassanmaye:My argument isn't centered around financial liberation. Rather, it's talking about the consciousness of our minds on a particular set out priority. Meaning, if this singular predetermined priority fails, then life expectancy might as well be affected. |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by folake4u(f): 7:44pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
Joe4real1988: We have started thinking alright and know what is good for us. Men want virgins abi? Who dey drag am with una? Nonsense. And here you are again justifying murder. I'm not surprised at your level of reasoning. 5 Likes |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by Joe4real1988(m): 8:13pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
folake4u:U see why i said u lack understanding? I'm telling u what your greed has resulted to for u guys, and u are saying i'm justifying it. Why won't men prefer virgins when u ladies are so wide down there due to hoering around for material things. Tell yourself the truth, if u are a man, would u prefer to be with a woman who is so wide down there? And she will still cheat on u with her Exs when u manage to take her serious with her numerous body count. Men are wanting/seeking virgins because of the nonsense life u guys are living fueled by your greed for material things. U want an already made man.......nonsense 5 Likes |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by folake4u(f): 8:19pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
Joe4real1988: K 2 Likes |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by irunoko(m): 8:22pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
JasonScoolari:which woman want any man to saro am? |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by MadamOk(f): 8:26pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
I have always wish to build with a man, I try to build with a man when it get to roofing stage he nor know me again As I dey like this na already gallant made man I want, I claim it into existence 1 Like |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by Sambaby7640: 8:28pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
Emilia154:This is English has K legs . I did preferred (past tense, I.e the event has taken place/occurred; meaning you built with your hubby) Or I prefer/ I do prefer ( meaning you prefer) So which is it? |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by Oduduwa707: 8:40pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
virginprincess: Leeches and Olosho everywhere. Awon werey! |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by omoyankee3(m): 8:59pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
Jeon: Messi is Hispanic Obama is black |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by Jeon(f): 9:05pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
omoyankee3: they aren't Black. Messi is related to Spain while Obama is made up of multiracial [Scottish, Welsh, Irish, German and Swiss + with a little percent of black gene]. Obama's mom was a white lady and still treated like a garbage by his dad. Anyways is that the only thing you saw? E. g take a look at the thank you Black men give the White ladies for building them up especially those illegal immigrants, probably a dupe, fake love /marriage or have a kid with them and move on to the next available cheerful giver. 3 Likes |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by emonis88: 9:29pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
Rozross:Is either u r a small girl, or u r not realistic to urself, u r one of those fake lifers , who go dey drink garri, for house then go n take pic with their friends chicken and chips. Hahahaha!!! |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by kepstone: 9:37pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
virginprincess:With this your mindset I pray for the man that will marry you. You are obviously not ready and mature for marriage. Your type Should not come near me and my son's. Tofiakwa wak mentality no wonder lots of girls are wasting away in the name of take care of me .. an adult like you to be taken care of... God Biko make I no jam her type. |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by omoyankee3(m): 10:19pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
Jeon: I have about six Nigerian friends married to white ladies who stood by them from college days. They've all been married for more than ten years now, all very successful, and their marriages just keep growing stronger. I only used obama as an example cos he's popular. Behind every successful man, there's a woman. If you marry an already made man, you'll always be second in his life to the woman who built him up |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by badbros(m): 10:45pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
virginprincess: It works, I have seen � |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by DaveJacuzie: 1:33am On Oct 14, 2022 |
Chidi2022:Your sincerity is commendable. I pray your desire comes to pass. And I hope you also make yourself the lady every man would desire. |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by Sammy101111(m): 5:58am On Oct 14, 2022 |
virginprincess: Make your research well South Africa woman are far better than Nigeria ladies There woman are not dependable lol Have met a lot of South Africa ladies, India, Holland , Italy ladies and I can say Nigeria worst . I can’t post picture here because of my privacy 1 Like |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by akanbiaa(m): 6:14am On Oct 14, 2022 |
Savedday:We attract what we project. Value your mother, sisters , female cousins and female friends and you will attract women who will value you even more. 1 Like |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by Jeon(f): 6:23am On Oct 14, 2022 |
omoyankee3: The six friends of urs can't make up or change the name of Men are appreciative because the percentage of the Men that left the women who built with them are higher. Only advice is wise up ladies and build yourself, na only Waka come this life. 5 Likes |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by Righthussle: 6:43am On Oct 14, 2022 |
virginprincess: You no get your own dream? |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by purples25(f): 7:01am On Oct 14, 2022 |
Just know that sticking to, and building with a man is not a guarantee that he will love, cherish, stay faithful to, or appreciate you. Nothing you do, no one you pick is a guarantee. If you stay and he rewards you well, it's your luck. Not because of what you did. Men would have us believe that what you put in is what you get out. But life isn't straight like that, and a lot of men certainly aren't either. 3 Likes |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by okine4real: 8:25am On Oct 14, 2022 |
I hope am not too late on responding to this thread. My wife choose me over guys that had money when we where dating. She was with them first, then I came Into the picture, I was not even working when I met her, but gradually she left those rich guys for me that was not working, later I got a Job that was paying me 15K monthly. That was how we grew, today we have at least 35 tenants in Lagos. I dont collect any rent, she collects all the rent, she uses it and use them to pay the kids school fees. TGE ONLY REASON J WOUKD NOT HURT HER EITHER BY HAVING A SIDE CHICK THAT IS KWOW. BY HER, OR HAVING ABOTHER WIFE(THIS NOT ON .Y MINS SHA) IS BECAUSE SHE STOOD MY ME, WHEN THERE WAS NOTHING. SO I CANT GO AND BRING ANITHER WOMAN DIRECTLY I TO MY LIFE, MAKE SHE COME DEY CHOP MONEY WHEN SHE KNIW KNIW HOW I SUFFER MAKE AM. WOMEN, WHEN YIU STRUGGLE WITH A MAN, SHE CAN STILL THROW YIU AWAY OHH, BUT 99 PERCENT THAT IS GID FEARING WITH ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT YIU WHERE THERE DROM THE BEGINING, SO YIU WOUKD ALWAYS BE RESPECTED 2 Likes |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by Nobody: 9:12am On Oct 14, 2022 |
mariahAngel:my five kids already chasing him away 1 Like |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by Holyvet(m): 9:16am On Oct 14, 2022 |
virginprincess:you have already made your point that that you settle for already made made, don't come and tell us that you are going to accept any one that God provide and the other blablablas |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by Chidi2022: 10:03am On Oct 14, 2022 |
MrSmithy:Amen... oshey |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by Chidi2022: 10:04am On Oct 14, 2022 |
DaveJacuzie:Amen... Thank you |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by achimendy(m): 10:18am On Oct 14, 2022 |
[quote author=Rozross post=117530733] Dont you want a soft life too,stop Let me make it sound and clear to you, I like and desire a soft life. But the road to that part is not always easy, you must be prepared and work hard to get to that soft life. Great men and women like Jack ma, bill gates, tony elumelu, dangote, mrs alakija, oprah Winfrey, Arthur Eze, Ronaldo and messi etc. that are enjoying that soft life, do you know how they started Before they became successful Success doesn't work by accident my dear, you must be ready to work your way through. Rich men dont get married to poor empty women, if you want them then prepare yourself too, you too must have something upstairs to offer too.
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Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by achimendy(m): 10:20am On Oct 14, 2022 |
Rozross: Let me make it sound and clear to you, I like and desire a soft life. But the road to that part is not always easy, you must be prepared and work hard to get to that soft life. Great men and women like Jack ma, bill gates, tony elumelu, dangote, mrs alakija, oprah Winfrey, Arthur Eze, Ronaldo and messi etc. that are enjoying that soft life, do you know how they started Before they became successful Success doesn't work by accident my dear, you must be ready to work your way through. Rich men dont get married to poor empty women, if you want them then prepare yourself too, you too must have something upstairs to offer too. Hope you get my point. 4 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by delpee(f): 10:25am On Oct 14, 2022 |
The main reason why many young ladies are not ready to build with men now is probably because of what they witnessed growing up. There were many cases of loving, kind and diligent women who jointly built their homes gladly only to be abandoned for other ladies in latter years. A child or relative who grows up seeing this will not opt for "Surulere" (there's reward in patience) when there's "Olorunsogo" (Abundantly blessed by God). I don't subscribe to that because I go by the teachings of Proverbs 31 for women. Still, I understand why others see things differently. Men need to be more trustworthy and reliable to gain the trust and respect of women. Yes, I know there are irresponsible women but a lot more women will do the right thing if they see real change in men's behaviour. Some women pray not to marry men like their fathers. That speaks volumes. 1 Like |
Re: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by mariahAngel(f): 10:34am On Oct 14, 2022 |
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