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Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by ypungjaycoded: 4:08pm On Jan 01, 2023
So you thought that your wife really loved you. Foolish man like you. That is good for both of you.

You want to marry a cold hearted woman and still have a happy marriage? Lol �
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by PellsKodak: 4:08pm On Jan 01, 2023
Stillwhites:
What should I tell her now.
Messi1 Ogun will kill you with your fake stories
Stupid boy
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by TyroneP(m): 4:09pm On Jan 01, 2023
Real talk... Happy birthday ma'am.

metaluterus:
First, Happy Birthday to me!


Back to the topic; @OP...My weird advic. She's got no iota of love for you anymore, but only interested in keeping the marriage and having your cash, please move on with your life. Tell her you are going for a second wife. Watch her drama display in 3D.

Better days lie ahead of you and your family...Peace

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Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Wisdomkosi(m): 4:10pm On Jan 01, 2023
Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?


Are you a jw?
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Nobody: 4:12pm On Jan 01, 2023
Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

Report her to her parent. You need to know if she has low libido or she's just denying you of your rights. There's no stinginess in marriage.
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by JoyousFurnitire(m): 4:14pm On Jan 01, 2023
Maybe your sex is wack and not fun to her grin
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by mechanics(m): 4:18pm On Jan 01, 2023
You didn't discuss the issue of sex during your courtship?
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Danisaint112(m): 4:20pm On Jan 01, 2023
But why should married couples who have spent atleast a year together have sex more than once a week?

I mean by one year the sex drive should have reduced. You complaining you do it only once a week Indeed shows you love sex too much.

Sex should be about what works for you both. I don't see having sex once a week as sex starvation.
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Elidrisy20: 4:20pm On Jan 01, 2023
Don't worry e go dey plenty for this year
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by meobizy(f): 4:21pm On Jan 01, 2023
If your wife starves you of sex, routinely enter a gym and see what happens. If your husband does so, follow the same guideline. Una go leave una body think say time no go touch you. It doesn’t work like that. I have a friend almost a decade younger than me. He was fit like most single men. Two years into marriage, him plus his wife now resemble sumo wrestlers.

Compare the way you look now to how you did pre-marriage. If you can’t be honest with yourself, tell friends to judge using old pictures.

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Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by jgbemson1: 4:21pm On Jan 01, 2023
Both of you need counselling ...

Or you can call in person and discuss this
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by samwash(m): 4:22pm On Jan 01, 2023
Nigerians!!! We too like Sex matter.
Niggar created thread abt 2pm,now after 4, it has gone up to 5 pages.
Business thread, it wouldn't get to 5 pages after a week of creation.

Back to the topic @ OP, you kwn the pple you paid her bride prize to & the Church Pastor who wed una?
Oya call them to come settle una matter.
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by MadamExcellency: 4:27pm On Jan 01, 2023
zedegit:


This is why it's very important to talk about sex during courtship no matter how 'holy' you think you are.

You can tell her you like sex and ask her if she likes it too.

Infact sex shouldn't be less than 5 times in a week o.

If she doesn't agree, move on to another.

What one ignored during courtship comes up during marriage.
You knew you loved sex, why didn't you discuss it

Na sex you go dey eat be that naw.

All these stallions should allow us rest. Na small, small we want tam now. I know say as menopause go come, Na that time we want tam everyday but una, Na so, so complain go full una mouth like I was exhausted at work, it was a hectic day, a have a bad day today and so on.

Mr Man, have patience with her, Na she go pursue you with sex. The hole wet don wide with childbirth has nothing again to fear.

Kpele, e go better but no fvck up. She go pressure you when time comes but be ready with your viagra and kwulikwuli.

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Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by simplepee(f): 4:29pm On Jan 01, 2023
pocohantas:
Marry a second wife.
grin grin grin

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Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by BootyliciousBoy(m): 4:30pm On Jan 01, 2023
Haba

This is new year. You people should minimize this your sex stuff. We should be talking about Election, not Sex undecided
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by mikaael(m): 4:31pm On Jan 01, 2023
Stillwhites:
If this is coming from a woman like my wife, then I know my next step. Thank you ma'am.


U better be careful of online advice
Just my 2 cent fr you
Go back to ur wife and talk with her in all honesty
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by seanwilliam(m): 4:32pm On Jan 01, 2023
Guyman01:
Na new year be this, put that energy of thinking about sex into a money making venture and self improvement. Go to the gym, learn a new skill, get a new professional certificate and vote Peter Obi and na she go dey beg you like Fancy is doing to Alexx Ekubo

This is rubbish. Thinking of sex doesn’t mean you’re not productive!

A sexually active adult needs regular sex!

Even if you go to gym and Learn new skills , will that change your desire for sex?
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Shagbatshagba: 4:33pm On Jan 01, 2023
Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

Am sure u still love ur wife, what aspect does she demand so much from you as u deprived of sex.Give her attitude and let her see ur anger. If she does not change then there is something wrong with her or she might be having an affair...

Am not married but that what i think
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Backpedal: 4:39pm On Jan 01, 2023
Mrkumareze:
Oloshos/ side chicks are meant to solve such problems .
I hate to say it
But you have a point
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by ezebunafo(m): 4:41pm On Jan 01, 2023
Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

https://tribuneonlineng.com/my-wife-is-starving-me-of-sex-frustrated-man-cries-out/
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Emmanuel30a: 4:41pm On Jan 01, 2023
Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?

So, as a Christian; you must be having sex when you don't want to get pregnant and gives birth...?
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by YoungDaNaval(m): 4:42pm On Jan 01, 2023
Divorce her naw
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by pocohantas(f): 4:42pm On Jan 01, 2023
simplepee:
grin grin grin

Make we reduce chochocho this year. cheesy

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Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by RichAbujaGuy: 4:46pm On Jan 01, 2023
Mrkumareze:
Oloshos/ side chicks are meant to solve such problems .

Op advertised for such on this website several months ago but it seems he wasn't very successful. grin

Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by bentenny(m): 4:48pm On Jan 01, 2023
Oga u don turn see finish
You wifey don know ur control button
Next time you ask for sex as you always do,she may ask you to off TV before she can grant you access or you should wash her undies grin
Self control and wisdom is key to tackling this issue!
One thing an average woman hates is competition!
Start pretending as if you have a relationship outside
When its time for bed or she tries to seduce you,tell her you are not in d mood!
By d time you deprive her of sex for a month,nah she go start to dey complain sotay nah she go dey beg you for sex just to ensure say she solidify her territory! grin

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Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Konjiboi: 4:49pm On Jan 01, 2023
Stillwhites:
It's getting to a year now that my wife began starving me of sex. Honestly I can count how many times I sexed my wife in the last two months and in most cases I initiate the engagement.

She sometimes complain that I love sex too much so I have to endure days without sex. As I type, it's morethan a week that we engaged in adult activity. I contemplated seeing another lady but it's against my Christian faith. How do I handle this situation?


Take this to a Christian relationship and marriage coach.

Nairaland is not a place for questions like this especially a sensitive one like yours -- the fact that it is marriage (NOT dating) and it is a Christian marriage.

Go to seasoned experts like Ocholi Okutepa (@Relationship&Marriage on Instagram is the handle); Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo. Send this question to their inbox. God will use them to proffer wise counsel and solution for you. God bless you.
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by DMerciful(m): 4:52pm On Jan 01, 2023
Exactly. His current wife needs help so a second wife will make it easy for her.

The sexual drive of the average man is atleast 3 women grin

Happy new year
pocohantas:
Marry a second wife.
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by favour32(m): 4:54pm On Jan 01, 2023
Just get another lady....dem boku!
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Nigerfine3: 4:56pm On Jan 01, 2023
Stillwhites:
I'm good in bed o and I sabi many styles. It's just another problem.
If what you wrote is true, when was the last time you bought her surprise gift? Do you take her out for suya, pepper soup, and the kind as your money could get.
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by Iliveforever(m): 4:57pm On Jan 01, 2023
Stillwhites:
I'm good in bed o and I sabi many styles. It's just another problem.

Have you given her anal sex??
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by GoodIsGod: 4:59pm On Jan 01, 2023
pocohantas:
Marry a second wife.

This is one of the reasons I believe the Bible didn't say, "Thou shall not have a second wife"

In fact what it says is "Those who wish to be Pastors, Bishops, Elders and Deacones should be men of one wife"

Christian ladies using sex to punish husbands don't know more than a wife is allowed.
Re: My Wife Is Starving Me Of Sex by pocohantas(f): 5:01pm On Jan 01, 2023
DMerciful:
Exactly. His current wife needs help so a second wife will make it easy for her.

The sexual drive of the average man is atleast 3 women grin

Happy new year

If the second wife slacks too, he continues to repeat the process. Life no suppose hard.

GoodIsGod:


This is one of the reasons I believe the Bible didn't say, "Thou shall not have a second wife"

In fact what it says is "Those who wish to be Pastors, Bishops, Elders and Deacones should be men of one wife"

Christian ladies using sex to punish husbands don't know more than a wife is allowed.

True talk!

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