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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Desusi: 10:20pm On Jan 09, 2023
Softmirror:



grin LOL...SEE WHAT THIS ONE IS SAYING?! IT'S NOT MATURITY BUT STUPIDITY OF THE HIGHEST ORDER. D

IT IS VERY CLEAR THAT YOU DON'T TRUELY LOVE YOUR WIFE AND YOU ARE A VERY WEAK MAN. IS IT YOUR WIFE'S EX THAT ALSO PROVIDE FOR YOUR FAMILY THROUGH YOUR WIFE? WOMEN LOVE WEAK MEN LIKE YOU!!!


Hmmmm,there are two sides of coin
Re: I Suspect My Wife by Thegoodone13(m): 10:21pm On Jan 09, 2023
After devil, fear women

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Isabi4lov: 10:24pm On Jan 09, 2023
All I can say is na wa o shocked
Re: I Suspect My Wife by kunle75(m): 10:24pm On Jan 09, 2023
MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?

They've said it all,please sit her down and talk to her
Re: I Suspect My Wife by LordReed(m): 10:27pm On Jan 09, 2023
HardMirror:
i wanted to have your take on the matter and that boy's comment

That was a very inappropriate message from the OP's wife.

spice123 is an adult and is free to make friends with his wife ex.
Re: I Suspect My Wife by onojaford(m): 10:28pm On Jan 09, 2023
MRAKPORS:


She is still ranting that I am insecure
Of course! Tell her you are. You are insecure cos that behavior of hers makes you insecure. Yes, I'm fucking insecure till you stop.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by grandee4u(m): 10:30pm On Jan 09, 2023
Like someone specifically spotted that old school mates reunion is an avenue to rekindle their past reminds me of the movie titled: Friend Request. I think that sums it up.
This is why I still adhere to the school of taught that , nothing is like or can be compared to marrying a virgin. Our world is messed up because of fornication cum adultery to a very high degree.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Sixfeetbelle: 10:32pm On Jan 09, 2023
Buddha3:


I am suspecting you and OP's wife too.

Why are you suspecting the OP's suspicion of his suspicious wife?

grin grin

No, he said he was suspicious of his wife so I had to concur. Sort of like telling a doctor you have malaria and typhoid and they concur (in their head) right before asking you your symptoms.

In this case, his suspicions are unfounded. He's just building into his paranoia

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Haveyoueatentod: 10:33pm On Jan 09, 2023
onyeego:
grin grin
There no reason why a woman cheats, she just wants to cheat....just like men do.
Giving you reasons why she cheats is just to manipulate the heads of shallow naive men and to make them feel inadequate.

She will cheat on a rich man and a poor man.
She will cheat on a handsome man and an ugly man
She will cheat on big dick and small dick
She will cheat on a generous man and a stingy man.
She will cheat on CEO and cheat on office Clark
She will cheat on six packs and one tank.
She will cheat on an educated man and an illiterate man.
She will cheat on a Yoruba man and equally cheat on an Igbo man.
you said it all

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Haveyoueatentod: 10:34pm On Jan 09, 2023
Start looking for another wife she's on her way to being your ex act fast before you become Nedu wazobia

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by mrksquare: 10:34pm On Jan 09, 2023
spice123:

My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!


The "I'm a proud simp" got me laughing!!. I admire the fact that you wearing your simpism as a badge of honour. No pretence.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by HardMirror(m): 10:34pm On Jan 09, 2023
LordReed:


That was a very inappropriate message from the OP's wife.

spice123 is an adult and is free to make friends with his wife ex.
i sort of like your take. grin
He shld enjoy his trip cheesy
Re: I Suspect My Wife by Sixfeetbelle: 10:34pm On Jan 09, 2023
LordReed:


That was a very inappropriate message from the OP's wife.

spice123 is an adult and is free to make friends with his wife ex.

As per the big oga that you are, they had to specially call you to a front page thread to come and input your thoughts on the matter.

The Godfatherism in this forum...
Re: I Suspect My Wife by clydecarson(m): 10:35pm On Jan 09, 2023
MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?

When a girl tells a guy she misses him.what comes to your mind OP...omo the guy dey chop your wife you come here dey do is this proper

Ladies use this insecure statement just to make you play the victim,my guy make your eyes sharpen no dey do like ozo

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by aoaachives(m): 10:35pm On Jan 09, 2023
ifihearam:
If your ex or old classmates tells you they miss you and you reply back with " miss you too' does that mean your wife should be worried?

If she had ulterior motives she would have deleted it.

Your head get oil �
Re: I Suspect My Wife by floflo12: 10:36pm On Jan 09, 2023
spice123:

My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!

Alatenuje

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by LordHarrizona(m): 10:38pm On Jan 09, 2023
onyeego:
grin grin
There no reason why a woman cheats, she just wants to cheat....just like men do.
Giving you reasons why she cheats is just to manipulate the heads of shallow naive men and to make them feel inadequate.

She will cheat on a rich man and a poor man.
She will cheat on a handsome man and an ugly man
She will cheat on big dick and small dick
She will cheat on a generous man and a stingy man.
She will cheat on CEO and cheat on office Clark
She will cheat on six packs and one tank.
She will cheat on an educated man and an illiterate man.
She will cheat on a Yoruba man and equally cheat on an Igbo man.
You said it all man grin cool

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Terror48: 10:38pm On Jan 09, 2023
spice123:

My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!
This is what you are doing

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by DeLaRue: 10:39pm On Jan 09, 2023
grandee4u:
Like someone specifically spotted that old school mates reunion is an avenue to rekindle their past reminds me of the movie titled: Friend Request. I think that sums it up.
This is why I still adhere to the school of taught that , nothing is like or can be compared to marrying a virgin. Our world is messed up because of fornication cum adultery to a very high degree.

Marrying a virgin doesn't guaranty anything.
Re: I Suspect My Wife by 1Dray(m): 10:42pm On Jan 09, 2023
MRAKPORS:


She is still ranting that I am insecure

She's tryna bully you to overlook it. Don't simp bro.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Emaprince: 10:42pm On Jan 09, 2023
As long as the guy never had any sexual relationship with her, there is no big deal here. Friends miss friends. And women are very good in missing old friends..be it male or female.

Maybe you should have waited and monitored their chat to see where it will head to before concluding.

Stop giving yourself a heartache.

Meanwhile...NEVER trust a woman. This will save you a lot too.
Re: I Suspect My Wife by tabaralph: 10:46pm On Jan 09, 2023
MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?

What they both missed about each other is the kpekus and the gbola, make sure your wife didn’t meet that guy o, Infact if your wife tells you that she’s going to see her friends or relatives go with her if you are chanced..emotional attachments die hard

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by stasius: 10:47pm On Jan 09, 2023
MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?

Maybe am the guy oooh. What is your wife's name? Is it Ebere? Abeg it is nothing ooh.
We don't have anything intimate if your mind is going there. Na just normal friendly chat.
Abeg oooh.
Re: I Suspect My Wife by Streetdreamx(m): 10:47pm On Jan 09, 2023
Scripted.... where's the proof?
Re: I Suspect My Wife by Sixfeetbelle: 10:50pm On Jan 09, 2023
DeLaRue:


So, a woman is working and buys herself the phone she likes, just like you do yourself, and then you turn round to seize the phone and give her a 'non-browsing phone.'

Something tells me this is not how marriages work.

Even if she is not working, treating your wife like a servant is not justifiable. There are other ways of resolving an issue like this without it escalating.

That said, Op must find his wife's temerity in accusing him of insecurity, rather than finding a way to reassure him, worrying.

If he was reassured, his suspicions wouldn't just abate. So, I'm glad she's all out on the offensive.

The only way to deal with men and their paranoia is to go hard real fast.
Re: I Suspect My Wife by 1Dray(m): 10:51pm On Jan 09, 2023
spice123:

My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!

SIMPly Akuko white

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Laness: 10:53pm On Jan 09, 2023
spice123:

My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!
in case you catch that guy dey nack your wife still tell us o abeg. Broke mumu

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by lollybee15(m): 10:55pm On Jan 09, 2023
Hmmm, this life sha. May God help us. No one is a paragon.
Re: I Suspect My Wife by Tzar(m): 10:59pm On Jan 09, 2023
Don’t let her play mind games with you. She wants to manipulate you into accepting her lusting for that guy! They will FVCK eachother right under your nose & you will probably be holding the light for the guy to see his d1ck enter her pvssy!
You are the man, tell her you don’t want her contact with the guy, period! She is either in or out. Stop being a pvssy ass husband!

MRAKPORS:


She is still ranting that I am insecure

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by benswagtt(m): 11:03pm On Jan 09, 2023
spice123:

My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!
This post can't be real.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by MilitantAtheist: 11:11pm On Jan 09, 2023
onyeego:
grin grin
There no reason why a woman cheats, she just wants to cheat....just like men do.
Giving you reasons why she cheats is just to manipulate the heads of shallow naive men and to make them feel inadequate.

She will cheat on a rich man and a poor man.
She will cheat on a handsome man and an ugly man
She will cheat on big dick and small dick
She will cheat on a generous man and a stingy man.
She will cheat on CEO and cheat on office Clark
She will cheat on six packs and one tank.
She will cheat on an educated man and an illiterate man.
She will cheat on a Yoruba man and equally cheat on an Igbo man.
because Nigeria girls are useless harlots

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Ubongdemaga: 11:17pm On Jan 09, 2023
rickpat:
she truly misses him...but it's wrong for her to continue to keep in touch... honestly,they are vaccums only the deepest friendship can fill and marriage can never fill such vaccum...

confront your wife and let her discontinue the communication with the dude...

LIFE IS FUNNY, SOMETIMES WE DON'T MARRY THE PERSON THAT WE TRULY MISS...
True indeed.i love every single word u use here
talk to your wife buddy.. good luck

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