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How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by KeyEndurance: 9:32pm On Feb 09, 2023
I have this friend of mine who likes visiting my house every blessed day. Before that things were moving well, whenever he visited, he must demand for food and I usually make him happy by given him his needs.

But now, everybody knows how Nigeria is. Since last week, this my friend never stopped coming to my house and I am the kind of guy that's struggling to survive and he Is Coming To my House to add His Problem To My Own Again.

The Things Is Disturbing my Mind But I Don't know What To Tell Him to Stop coming For Now.

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by dawnomike(m): 9:39pm On Feb 09, 2023
KeyEndurance:
i have this friend of my who like visiting my house every blessed day. before that things are moving well whenever he visited he must demand for food and i usually makes him happy by given him his need, but now every body knows how Nigeria is, since last week this my friend never stop coming to my house and am the kind of guy thats struggling to survive and he Is Coming To my House to add His Problem To My Own Again. The Things Is Disturbing my Mind But I Dont know What To Tell Him to Stop coming For Now
Start by stop offering him food...

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by mariobalotelli09: 9:40pm On Feb 09, 2023
Tell him to borrow you some money, that it's very urgent and u wouldn't mind a transfer. Try to touch his pocket if possible! He will never visit you again!!!

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Jennyclay(f): 9:40pm On Feb 09, 2023
Nigerians and their pako English. Shior!

From your headline down to your post is giving me headache already.

Well, May God Help you struggling men oo!

Biko, sha... Stay away from relationship, don't come and put someone's daughter in abject poverty.

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Mastakija(m): 9:41pm On Feb 09, 2023
Pack out of the house fake your death and rent another house

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by cutecommend: 9:43pm On Feb 09, 2023
mariobalotelli09:
Tell him to borrow you some money, that it's very urgent and u wouldn't mind a transfer. Try to touch his pocket if possible! He will never visit you again!!!
This may be the fastest

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Medianna(f): 9:49pm On Feb 09, 2023
First of all you need to understand his intentions,
Is he genuinely in need of a friend or is he trying to take advantage of you kindness.
When you answer that question within yourself then you will know what to do.
To me if he genuinely needs you, don't hesitate to help out. Its not forever.

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by JASONjnr(m): 9:50pm On Feb 09, 2023
dawnomike:
Start by stop offering him food...

This won't stop....


Op,


The best way is to try and understand why your friend chose you and what's making him not to work hard to fend for himself....

If he's lazy, shut him down,

if he's making efforts and waiting on the right time, support him...

We all need each other...

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by DWJOBScom(m): 9:52pm On Feb 09, 2023
I have come to realise that there's no polite way of saying things anymore.
Just say it the way it is
Oga or madam stop I think you should stop coming to my house for now
I appreciate your understanding. I don't have an explanation, and you will respect my decision.

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by KeyEndurance: 10:02pm On Feb 09, 2023
DWJOBScom:
I have come to realise that there's no polite way of saying things anymore.
Just say it the way it is
Oga or madam stop I think you should stop coming to my house for now
I appreciate your understanding. I don't have an explanation, and you will respect my decision.
And Do You Think Is Easy To Say This To your Friend

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by KeyEndurance: 10:03pm On Feb 09, 2023
dawnomike:
Start by stop offering him food...
I Was Thinking The Same just that at Time If I Cook before I Come Back From Work He Will wicked My Food because He Has My Key

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by samwash(m): 10:06pm On Feb 09, 2023
KeyEndurance:
i have this friend of my who like visiting my house every blessed day. before that things are moving well whenever he visited he must demand for food and i usually makes him happy by given him his need, but now every body knows how Nigeria is, since last week this my friend never stop coming to my house and am the kind of guy thats struggling to survive and he Is Coming To my House to add His Problem To My Own Again. The Things Is Disturbing my Mind But I Dont know What To Tell Him to Stop coming For Now

Few years from now, when you look back, all you that will be left in your mouth is to say thank God for helping me save a soul.

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by KeyEndurance: 10:06pm On Feb 09, 2023
mariobalotelli09:
Tell him to borrow you some money, that it's very urgent and u wouldn't mind a transfer. Try to touch his pocket if possible! He will never visit you again!!!
The Truth Is That Anytime he borrow Me Money We must Still Spend It Together Again because At Time I Use The Borrow I borrowed From Him to Buy Food stuff and If i Cook The Food we Will Still Finish It Together

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by KeyEndurance: 10:15pm On Feb 09, 2023
Medianna:
First of all you need to understand his intentions,
Is he genuinely in need of a friend or is he trying to take advantage of you kindness.
When you answer that question within yourself then you will know what to do.
To me if he genuinely needs you, don't hesitate to help out. Its not forever.
thank you so much

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by VinnyBaba: 10:24pm On Feb 09, 2023
Eat Beans and Eggs Constantly, so that you can Fart Anytime he is Around. sad

As you Drop the 'Stinker',
Quickly move outside, Lock Door and leave him to Inhale the Smell belleful. undecided

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Autobot05: 10:28pm On Feb 09, 2023
Lock your door.. keep your footwears indoors
So when he comes he'll believe you ain't home , even if he knocks don't open grin

Or buy a dog cheesy

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Ballzproblem2: 10:31pm On Feb 09, 2023
KeyEndurance:

And Do You Think Is Easy To Say This To your Friend
if he is your friend he won't be Leeching of you, stop being a clown and draw the line, like that person said there's no easy

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Sonnobax15(m): 10:32pm On Feb 09, 2023
grin
Country hard bro....

Say you're helping a brother man today doesn't mean table won't and can't turn around tomorrow......So chill and always be kind to a fellow brother man who's down,and if he needs help,try uplift am so that him wahala of coming to your house frequently go stop....

Las las,I dey come across such people on a daily basis.... People wey broke and when dem explain their condition to me,I dey always dey help in the little way I fit, because I know say country hard...

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by KeyEndurance: 10:35pm On Feb 09, 2023
Autobot05:
Lock your door.. keep your footwears indoors
So when he comes he'll believe you ain't home , even if he knocks don't open grin

Or buy a dog cheesy
Dont make Me To Laugh Abeg, i Should Buy Dog For What Again?

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by KeyEndurance: 10:36pm On Feb 09, 2023
VinnyBaba:

Eat Beans and Eggs Constantly, so that you can Fart Anytime he is Around. sad

As you Drop the 'Stinker',
Quickly move outside, Lock Door and leave him to Inhale the Smell belleful. undecided
Lolz but It Will Makes me Look Stupid

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Qatar2022: 10:36pm On Feb 09, 2023
KeyEndurance:
i have this friend of my who like visiting my house every blessed day. before that things are moving well whenever he visited he must demand for food and i usually makes him happy by given him his need, but now every body knows how Nigeria is, since last week this my friend never stop coming to my house and am the kind of guy thats struggling to survive and he Is Coming To my House to add His Problem To My Own Again. The Things Is Disturbing my Mind But I Dont know What To Tell Him to Stop coming For Now
Stop given him what he is looking for and he will stop coming immediately he stopped getting it

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Autobot05: 10:38pm On Feb 09, 2023
KeyEndurance:

Dont make Me To Laugh Abeg, i Should Buy Dog For What Again?

So it can chase / bite him
He'll think twice before thinking of coming to your house again after that cheesy

I just missed my dog back home grin he's great at chasing people away

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Autobot05: 10:40pm On Feb 09, 2023
Sonnobax15:
grin
Country hard bro....

Say you're helping a brother man today doesn't mean table won't and can't turn around tomorrow......So chill and always be kind to a fellow brother man who's down,and if he needs help,try uplift am so that him wahala of coming to your house frequently go stop....

Las las,I dey come across such people on a daily basis.... People wey broke and when dem explain their condition to me,I dey always dey help in the little way I fit, because I know say country hard...

Some are just greedy .. they'll want to take advantage of your kindness

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by VinnyBaba: 10:41pm On Feb 09, 2023
KeyEndurance:

Lolz but It Will Makes me Look Stupid


Desperate times calls for Desperate Measures!😕
U can defend urself with a Funny Quote, 'Mess nor get Toilet'!😐

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by kelspinall(m): 11:36pm On Feb 09, 2023
mariobalotelli09:
Tell him to borrow you some money, that it's very urgent and u wouldn't mind a transfer. Try to touch his pocket if possible! He will never visit you again!!!

brain boss
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by kelspinall(m): 11:36pm On Feb 09, 2023
funny people everywhere

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by LikeAking: 12:09am On Feb 10, 2023
KeyEndurance:
i have this friend of my who like visiting my house every blessed day. before that things are moving well whenever he visited he must demand for food and i usually makes him happy by given him his need, but now every body knows how Nigeria is, since last week this my friend never stop coming to my house and am the kind of guy thats struggling to survive and he Is Coming To my House to add His Problem To My Own Again. The Things Is Disturbing my Mind But I Dont know What To Tell Him to Stop coming For Now


No need to open mouth tell am anything. U go kast.

Avoid staying at home for a while.

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Chris2863(m): 12:19am On Feb 10, 2023
Mastakija:
Pack out of the house fake your death and rent another house
No be JennyClay be this??😒🙂

He should pack out keeh. Op that’s struggling to even feed

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by frozen70(f): 1:24am On Feb 10, 2023
KeyEndurance:
i have this friend of my who like visiting my house every blessed day. before that things are moving well whenever he visited he must demand for food and i usually makes him happy by given him his need, but now every body knows how Nigeria is, since last week this my friend never stop coming to my house and am the kind of guy thats struggling to survive and he Is Coming To my House to add His Problem To My Own Again. The Things Is Disturbing my Mind But I Dont know What To Tell Him to Stop coming For Now

Stop giving him those things that attracts him to your house and whenever he comes, just tell him that you are going out, keep doing so to him

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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by DWJOBScom(m): 3:39am On Feb 10, 2023
KeyEndurance:

And Do You Think Is Easy To Say This To your Friend

With the current situation
I will say it in a million languages
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Nonywendy(m): 4:20am On Feb 10, 2023
KeyEndurance:

I Was Thinking The Same just that at Time If I Cook before I Come Back From Work He Will wicked My Food because He Has My Key
if you can't tell him to stop coming to ur house then you are not ready. Stop complaining or there is something you are not telling us, this one he has your house key

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