Because we live in proximity-same town, she wouldn't quit checking up on her daughter virtually every day or at least every other day.

I felt a deep intrusion on my privacy so yesterday I summoned the gut and asked her if she didn't have a house. Before she could reply, I told her, 'learn to stay where you belong! I did not marry daughter and mother!`
She has since disappeared into thin air.

This evening am thinking whether i bleeped up or not.

Obviously a sweet lady.... Not the quarrelsome type, or else u would not get away with that wicked talk.... She is lonely wants to be with her friend and daughter... .. Have a heart u broke hers.... U2 will grow old...... U fuked up......call her and apologize.

thesilentman:
Because we live in proximity-same town,she wouldnt quit checking up on her daughter virtually every day or atleast every other day.I felt a deep intrusion on my privacy so yesterday i summoned the gut and asked her if she didn't have a house.Before she could reply,i told her,'learn to stay where you belong!I did not marry daughter and mother!`
She has since disappeared into thin air.
This evening am thinking whether i bleeped up or not.

both of Una bleep up. But her own bad pass. Most women, after their daughter marry, them go wan still control both her and her husband together. Its inborn in praxtically all women, including those on this forum. They don't know say boundary go come dey. the man go come be like zombie for house, choking him. She for marry her daughter nah so she no go lonely again. Would she have been comfy with it if her mum in law did same?watch out, once your with give birth, na full opportunity for the mum to be Una complete and verified husband.

zeuss:
She is lonely... Have a heart.... U2 will grow old...... U fuked up.

guy too much of everything is bad.she had started to tele-what-do-they-call-it my woman.

Apologize to her and move on. She will definitely adjust.

But then, I must say you were harsh! Have you asked her daughter to talk to her and she still refused?

Creamypie:
both of Una bleep up. But her own bad pass. Most women, after their daughter marry, them go wan still control both her and her husband together. Its inborn in women. They don't know say boundary go cone dey. the man go come be like zombie for house, choking him. She for marry her daughter nah so she no go lonely again

exactly and that's what i wanted to avoid.The woman loyal but her mum...be like say she get agenda.

Now, this is a delicate issue.

Hhansome:
Apologize to her and move on. She will definitely adjust.

But then, I must say you were harsh! Have you asked her daughter to talk to her and she still refused?

tbh i did and she told me it ain't polite for her to tell her so i just handled my thing.

thesilentman:
Because we live in proximity-same town,she wouldnt quit checking up on her daughter virtually every day or atleast every other day.I felt a deep intrusion on my privacy so yesterday i summoned the gut and asked her if she didn't have a house.Before she could reply,i told her,'learn to stay where you belong!I did not marry daughter and mother!`
She has since disappeared into thin air.
This evening am thinking whether i bleeped up or not.

that woman knew EXACTLY what she was doing. if you give them a step they will want to cover the whole road. You did well to put her in her place and don't listen to anyone trying to tell you that you were harsh. All that matters is that the message has been delivered.

thesilentman:
tbh i did and she told me it ain't polite for her to tell her so i just handled my thing.

the message has been delivered, you even apologised. Now what is this topic for again? Stand your position and face forward.

superCleanworks:


that woman knew EXACTLY what she was doing. if you give them a step they will want to cover the whole road. You did well to put her in her place and don't listen to anyone trying to tell you that you were harsh. All that matters is that the message has been delivered.

i swear the attachment to daughter is too much.Even at times they run house chores together.

superCleanworks:


the message has been delivered, you even apologised. Now what is this topic for again? Stand your position and face forward.

i didnt apologise.I owned it

thesilentman:
Because we live in proximity-same town,she wouldnt quit checking up on her daughter virtually every day or atleast every other day.I felt a deep intrusion on my privacy so yesterday i summoned the gut and asked her if she didn't have a house.Before she could reply,i told her,'learn to stay where you belong!I did not marry daughter and mother!`
She has since disappeared into thin air.
This evening am thinking whether i bleeped up or not.

so you believe it is wrong for a parent to not trust you and check up on their daughters? there is no such thing as "intrusion of your privacy".... just because you marry someone, doesnt mean you got the right to stop parents from checking on their children.

what have you got to hide? why are you so afraid of parents coming to check up on their daughters? what so wrong in the act? what privacy are you even talking about? if these parents trusted you as a man and/or the wellbeing of their daughter, probably they wouldnt check on their daughter so often.

MrBrownJay1:


so you believe it is wrong for a parent to not trust you and check up on their daughters? there is no such thing as "intrusion of your privacy".... just because you marry someone, doesnt mean you got the right to stop parents from checking on their children.

what have you got to hide? why are you so afraid of parents coming to check up on their daughters? what so wrong in the act? what privacy are you even talking about? if these parents trusted you as a man and/or the wellbeing of their daughter, probably they wouldnt check on their daughter so often.

So when the woman was married was that how her husband's mother always came to check up on him

Learn to let go when your children are married, if your daughter is alone you could come

But when the husband is around try to give them privacy
Do you know how they express their love or bleeping

MrBrownJay1:


so you believe it is wrong for a parent to not trust you and check up on their daughters? there is no such thing as "intrusion of your privacy".... just because you marry someone, doesnt mean you got the right to stop parents from checking on their children.

what have you got to hide? why are you so afraid of parents coming to check up on their daughters? what so wrong in the act? what privacy are you even talking about? if these parents trusted you as a man and/or the wellbeing of their daughter, probably they wouldnt check on their daughter so often.

Haba my G you na redpiller na,you suppose understand...
It's the frequency that irritated me.

jaeyking:
So when the woman was married was that how her husband's mother always came to check up on him

Learn to let go when your children are married, if your daughter is alone you could come

But when the husband is around try to give them privacy
Do you know how they express their love or bleeping

the above is irrelevant....as a parent, you wll let go when you know/feel/believe your child is in good hands... until then, you will often check up on them. its completely natural, whether that child or their partneir agrees with it or not. thats what parents are meant to do.

thesilentman:

Haba my G you na redpiller na,you suppose understand...
It's the frequency that irritated me.

bro as a father, i completely understand why a person would do that.... they may not trust that their daughter is safe with/around you.

just make sure that they see/feel/believe that its all good at your home and that their daughter is safe.

thesilentman:

i didnt apologise.I owned it

very good.
A woman will know that what she is doing is pressing you (not necessarily wrong tho) but they will keep doing it till you voice out or till they get bored.
deep down in her heart she knows she was choking and squeezing you with her presence.
You did well to tell her. You did well to own it. She did well to adjust too.

thesilentman:
Because we live in proximity-same town,she wouldnt quit checking up on her daughter virtually every day or atleast every other day.I felt a deep intrusion on my privacy so yesterday i summoned the gut and asked her if she didn't have a house.Before she could reply,i told her,'learn to stay where you belong!I did not marry daughter and mother!`
She has since disappeared into thin air.
This evening am thinking whether i bleeped up or not.

So your nor go tell your wife to tell her

Hope you won't divorce your wife if she does same thing to your mother when she visits and stays in your house for months?

U know do well oh.

U no even apply decorum at all.

superCleanworks:


that woman knew EXACTLY what she was doing. if you give them a step they will want to cover the whole road. You did well to put her in her place and don't listen to anyone trying to tell you that you were harsh. All that matters is that the message has been delivered.

Nice one

If reverse was the case, where by your wife does same to your mother, she is well within her rights to say the same gibberish you just spilled.

thesilentman:
Because we live in proximity-same town,she wouldnt quit checking up on her daughter virtually every day or atleast every other day.I felt a deep intrusion on my privacy so yesterday i summoned the gut and asked her if she didn't have a house.Before she could reply,i told her,'learn to stay where you belong!I did not marry daughter and mother!`
She has since disappeared into thin air.
This evening am thinking whether i bleeped up or not.

HMMMM

You were pushed to the wall and decided to push back but unfortunately you pushed down the wall.

HURTING YOUR MOTHER IN-LAW will have future consequences.

IN ANGER, WE ALL MUST LEARN TO CONTROL OUR MOUTH

It is your wife who entertains her you should have spoken to, NOT THE MOTHER.... it is not right for you to talk to the MOTHER OF YOUR WIFE in that tone.


BEFORE MARRIAGE, you should have known you were marrying a MOTHER'S GIRL.... if not, then you didnt shine your eyes before marrying. Always pray for wisdom oh, I saw a similar case in 2021 and it was the wife who rudely spoke to her husband's mother and the woman left the house quietly.... and the wife till today has not been able to have her monthly flow and also can not get pregnant. All because both mothers came for OMUGWO and when her mom went back to the village, the husband's mother remained for 11 more months. Now from one prophet or alfa or herbalist to another, the story is the same.... MAMA TIED HER WOMB AND TUBES JUST TO PUNISH HER, yet mama keeps crying and denying.


PLS WE SHOULD LEARN TO TALK TO OUR SPOUSES TO HANDLE THEIR RELATIVES.

So sir, get a wholesome gift for mama, hampers are less than 50k... buy and send to her with a STRONG APOLOGY.... talk to your wife.

The wiser way would have been to relocate.... if talking to your wife, getting her a day time trade or job DOES NOT WORK.

thesilentman:
Because we live in proximity-same town,she wouldnt quit checking up on her daughter virtually every day or atleast every other day.I felt a deep intrusion on my privacy so yesterday i summoned the gut and asked her if she didn't have a house.Before she could reply,i told her,'learn to stay where you belong!I did not marry daughter and mother!`
She has since disappeared into thin air.
This evening am thinking whether i bleeped up or not.

Ur a useless man. Someday someone will do that to you...don't hurt the elderly no matter what...idiot

superCleanworks:


very good.
A woman will know that what she is doing is pressing you (not necessarily wrong tho) but they will keep doing it till you voice out or till they get bored.
deep down in her heart she knows she was choking and squeezing you with her presence.
You did well to tell her. You did well to own it. She did well to adjust too.

Lol,

I will bookmark this thread for future purpose when a counter thread springs up of a wife who did exact same thing to her mother in-law.

TheBTCinvestor:


Ur a useless man. Someday someone will do that to you...don't hurt the elderly no matter what...idiot

His wife will do it to his mother, it's always sweet when they are not at the receiving end, see all the useless guys supporting Op, they obviously grew up in a dysfunctional home.

TheBTCinvestor:


Ur a useless man. Someday someone will do that to you...don't hurt the elderly no matter what...idiot

that's harsh!

yrhuhfy113:


HMMMM

You were pushed to the wall and decided to push back but unfortunately you pushed down the wall.

HURTING YOUR MOTHER IN-LAW will have future consequences.

IN ANGER, WE ALL MUST LEARN TO CONTROL OUR MOUTH

It is your wife who entertains her you should have spoken to, NOT THE MOTHER.... it is not right for you to talk to the MOTHER OF YOUR WIFE in that tone.


BEFORE MARRIAGE, you should have known you were marrying a MOTHER'S GIRL.... if not, then you didnt shine your eyes before marrying. Always pray for wisdom oh, I saw a similar case in 2021 and it was the wife who rudely spoke to her husband's mother and the woman left the house quietly.... and the wife till today has not been able to have her monthly flow and also can not get pregnant. All because both mothers came for OMUGWO and when her mom went back to the village, the husband's mother remained for 11 more months. Now from one prophet or alfa or herbalist to another, the story is the same.... MAMA TIED HER WOMB AND TUBES JUST TO PUNISH HER, yet mama keeps crying and denying.


PLS WE SHOULD LEARN TO TALK TO OUR SPOUSES TO HANDLE THEIR RELATIVES.

So sir, get a wholesome gift for mama, hampers are less than 50k... buy and send to her with a STRONG APOLOGY.... talk to your wife.

The wiser way would have been to relocate.... if talking to your wife, getting her a day time trade or job DOES NOT WORK.

Why are you nice with your advice to the stupid Op, he obviously came here to gloat on his little achievement, he is an alpha mail according to some fools here, see some of them above still edging him on making him feel like King Kong Lmao 🤣

When I say the percentage of immature goats getting married these days is extremely high, its the gospel truth.

What a nasty SIL you are! It is well fa. One day you would have sons or daughters in law and learn how it feels to have your children's spouse be rude to you!

There are nicer ways to let her know she's too much in your face!

thesilentman:

Haba my G you na redpiller na,you suppose understand...
It's the frequency that irritated me.

You see what I said, Op is even a redpiller, o ma se o, your wife is the one I pity, she think say wetin she marry na man, what an immature nomenclature.

MrBrownJay1:


so you believe it is wrong for a parent to not trust you and check up on their daughters? there is no such thing as "intrusion of your privacy".... just because you marry someone, doesnt mean you got the right to stop parents from checking on their children.

what have you got to hide? why are you so afraid of parents coming to check up on their daughters? what so wrong in the act? what privacy are you even talking about? if these parents trusted you as a man and/or the wellbeing of their daughter, probably they wouldnt check on their daughter so often.

i beg to differ

New married people should left alone to find their own feet, in doing things and understanding each other, understanding each based on their character and behaviour not based on what you were taught. Every man and woman differ it is important to understand each other not based on what parents says but based on what you see and do to each other

Have you ever noticed that the 1st of years of marriage is power struggle, the guy want wife to cook like his mother and the wife wants hubby to behave like her father hence usaully its power struggle indirect

Parents should visit once in while

U did well but u didn't spiced it so that she won't feel offended