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Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by 1Sharon(f): 1:33am On Jul 13, 2023 |
I think it was an invasion of privacy to view people's browsing history. 2 Likes |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by Kobojunkie: 2:10am On Jul 13, 2023 |
1Sharon:Invasion of privacy on network wey I dey pay for? 8 Likes |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by 1Sharon(f): 2:15am On Jul 13, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: So? Are you the type of African patent that wont allow their kid's to lock doors or search their things all because you pay the bill? |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by Kobojunkie: 2:31am On Jul 13, 2023 |
1Sharon:I am not that kind of parent neither am I the kind who would turn a blind eye or ignore when I see something wrong. I am equally not that kind of parent who wouldn't monitor the activity of my kids in my own home. They are your ward and you their guardian for that very reason. 7 Likes |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 3:17am On Jul 13, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Prevention is better than cure 2 Likes |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by Kobojunkie: 3:22am On Jul 13, 2023 |
VeeVeeMyLuv:Nothing grinds my gears in this more than parents who have absolutely no clue what their kids have been up to. If you can't be a guardian then you have no business having kids at all. Some folks here will tell you they are raising "free range" kids, and my response to such is when such kids err, both child and parent should be incarcerated. 10 Likes |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by Angel55555(m): 6:56am On Jul 13, 2023 |
1Sharon:It's not, especially if I am the one paying for the Internet subscription and their bills. 4 Likes |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by WantsandMore: 8:13am On Jul 13, 2023 |
questioner:just an opportunity to educate her on the ABC of sex & the consequences of excessive porn addiction, just mk it an harmless & casual conversation, starts with open ended questions & end it with your advise. Meanwhile, add her back on the network & cap her daily usage to maybe 2-3gb. 2 Likes |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by LittleBigDick(m): 8:16am On Jul 13, 2023 |
Pray for her and allow the holy spirit guide her |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by mysticwarrior(m): 8:18am On Jul 13, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:A teenager who has lived with her parents from the day he/she was born can easily fool that parents. and they could concealed somethings by using stealth they have mastered for years, they understand how sensitive their parents are and could easily apply counter psychological measures to avert any possible suspicion. One of the best ways to know what your teenage child is capable of doing is inviting their close friends home and study their friends behavior. 6 Likes |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by Pootle: 8:50am On Jul 13, 2023 |
i hate this generation, back in the days of old such an act is treacherous and should be dealt with before it degenerate to pregnancy or other bad stuff, but people are out there saying leave her alone. that why we keep breeding oloshos everywhere note she fit don dey upload her nude and earning some change o 8 Likes |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by questioner: 8:55am On Jul 13, 2023 |
mariahAngel: Even though I dont agree with this, I respect your opinion cos it's coming from a lady. You said do something - what do you suggest can be done ? |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by Techcrunchng(m): 9:51am On Jul 13, 2023 |
questioner:that means it runs in the blood |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by Anguldi(m): 11:03am On Jul 13, 2023 |
questioner:When next you go home. Tell her u blocked for going to sites that consume Data and only u and her knows about the sites. You are going to unblock her now and if you notice her visiting those sites, your mum and her dad will know about it. Tell her you love her so much and don't want her to spoil 5 Likes |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by iLoveYouToo(m): 11:18am On Jul 13, 2023 |
questioner: It’s a phase but you need to speak with her. Abeg which router/infrastructure you dey use wey allow you monitor traffic? 1 Like |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by 24SEVEN: 11:36am On Jul 13, 2023 |
questioner: Ah, now I see why you couldn't report her to your mum. I give it to you, you're not a hypocrite, but you could have had a word with her in private. Knowing that her cover has been blown, she would focus her time on more progressive things. 4 Likes |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by Olumighty123(m): 12:24pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
1Sharon: Lock doors in the house I built myself? oga just dey play. 4 Likes |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by 1Sharon(f): 1:55pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: He wasn't scrutinising the browsing history because he's a guardian. He did it because he wanted to know why his data kept running out. He happened to find out it was the 17 year old that was watching porn. If it was the adult, what would he have done then? The girl is curious and may be going through a phase. Most men have been watching porn at a way younger age. |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by Kobojunkie: 1:58pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
mysticwarrior:Parents were themselves once children and so should be able to apply even the wisdom from those years to their raising of their wards. A parent easily fooled by the antics of his ward is a parent that is not qualified for the job of parenting in my book. 6 Likes |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by 1Sharon(f): 1:59pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Pootle: Abeg. Back in the days you guys had blue films. Most men have been watching porn from way younger than 17, from around 12. 2 Likes |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by 1Sharon(f): 2:02pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Lol you can never know 100% what your kid is up to. |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by Kobojunkie: 2:04pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
1Sharon:1. If you are back on the OP's story, well, OP is paying and his mother is the girl's guardian, right? 2. So long as it is his money paying for the internet, he has a right to decide what users on his network can use it for. 3. Who cares? She can go through the phase on her own tab, not when the person footing the bill is complaining. 4 Likes |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by Kobojunkie: 2:05pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
1Sharon:I didn't say anything about knowing 100%. Parents ought to be in the know of who their kids are hanging with, where their kids may be, and what their kids may be up to. 4 Likes |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by Nobody: 2:50pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
I suggest you have a conversation with her about it, curiosity is when she goes to porn site once in a while, addiction is when she is on it for hours everyday, caution her politely and make her see reasons why it will not help her in any way. 2 Likes |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by 1Sharon(f): 2:53pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Lol they can easily lie about that.. |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by 1Sharon(f): 2:54pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Jovialjune1: Why does it matter if she watches lesbian porn? |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by Kobojunkie: 3:02pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
1Sharon:And somehow parents don't know what lies are or how they work and stuff? You never told some of the very same lies when you were a kid yourself? 2 Likes |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by mysticwarrior(m): 3:05pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:The fact that parents were once children doesn't mean they can't be fooled by their children, parents who who were once sexually active at a young age in most cases can't even detect when their children start having sex even right under the same roof with them. Some children who brought shame to their parents are mostly brought up with close supervision, does this means such parents are not qualified for the job of parenting despite all their effort to give the child the best upbringing? |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by Kobojunkie: 3:13pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
mysticwarrior:I am sorry, but why do you need to detect when your kids start having sex when instead? 2. Close supervision? Being a guardian is not the same as being a hawk-parent. There is a difference, a huge one. Your children are not prisoners under your supervision. Rather, they are individuals placed under your care, and it is for you to make certain that you are up to date on their needs, affairs, etc. while respecting their boundaries. 1 Like |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by mysticwarrior(m): 3:20pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Isn't it the duty of parents to ensure that their underage child don't start having sex? |
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by mysticwarrior(m): 3:32pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:There was no where I used the word "close supervision" to mean prisoner in my writeup, it's either you are misrepresenting my writeup or it's just an assumption cooked up in your imagination. Parents who do not take keen observation of their children would never know when that child start going astray untill it's probably to late. So in your own opinion parents who supervise their children are subjecting to be prisoners, why the parents who don't apply these measures are not fit to for parenting right? |
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