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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by MondayOsunbor(m): 8:25pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
ConfusePoint: What ? I thought I am the only one who cry for market |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Ezekiel2122(m): 8:25pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
Diligent1: God bless you. Positive comment so far. I don't think blaming this man is necessary again. It's a mistake, we all made one or the other. He realized, he's in pain already... Let lesrn to be brothers 1 Like |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by eniolar234: 8:26pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
Omo boys should learn how to control dia d**k abeg. Don't ruin your future because you're allowed to have s*x without declined from your partner 1 Like |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by rickleye: 8:26pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
ConfusePoint: You sound and write too educated to be earning 40k . Show me proof ? What do you currently do for a living ? Does Madam work ? 1 Like |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by histemple: 8:26pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
ConfusePoint: Please never be tempted to steal from the farm oh |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by rickleye: 8:28pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
Ezekiel2122: One is okay , two is understandable, anything after 3 is deliberate . Unless he has twins plus never heard of birth control ? |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Maryam1234(f): 8:28pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
Do you mean we still have WOMEN in this country that wait for their husbands to come back home before feeding It's rather unbelievable but Incase this story is true please advise her to start a business,most business this days doesn't require capital but TRUST. I can introduce her to food business if she's mobile at least there will always be food at home after removing her profit. Please don't run away from your family rather encourage them,at the end of every dark tunnel comes illumination. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by lexy2014: 8:29pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
ConfusePoint: Fiction 1 Like |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Walz001: 8:29pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
Hmmmm I dont have much to say ...But youngsters coming behind us should learn from this man here ... don't give birth to kids you can't take care of ..... And for you Oga "dasibeee" like they do call me then .you have to hustle change your tactics and tho k more about business that can support you when you are out of work.. don't have it in mind to run away its gonna bounce back and don't let anyone family relatives add to your problem ... do you have a hand work if yes you can do that after work...... I think most of you need to see how guys work outside the country to make a living Some of the points have been said al ready pick the positive ones and please and please do family planning win your wife for almoat 10 years |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by wizelink(m): 8:30pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
That's a good advice you have given particularly, the issue about contentment. It's disgusting how people just a man needs an advice. GboyegaD: |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by isabi2lof: 8:30pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
Next story please ,the rich are aspiring to get rich day by day but "I never chop " are aspiring to become father Abraham.. |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by 1stGenAmerican(f): 8:31pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
Angelfrost: You’re right and it doesn’t matter what anybody says. People in your country that try to push family planning and birth control for logical reasons get pepper for their suggestions but they’re right. Here in the West where salaries tend to be bigger and other places, it’s very rare for a modern families to have 5 children because of the costs that comes along with it. Monikers will get mad and try insulting me but China is a good example—-some of these guys pretend that the country grew rich only from commerce but a fact is that the country became more prosperous a few years after the government enforced a one child per family rule. Yes it has repercussions but it made a difference in the financial situation of families and the country’s overall quality of life. 1 Like |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by DanielAAA(m): 8:31pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
My own is, with the whole situation going on around you, you could still calmly articulate your predicament with some sense of humour added to it. I don't think it is tough enough for you yet, but I pray the Lord delivers you. |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by isabi2lof: 8:33pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
rickleye: Even if she works, will she be the one to shoulder all the responsibilities, well many women are the ones catering for their homes by the time money comes , they'll forget such women .. |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by emmaodet: 8:34pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
Martinez39s: Honestly, I don't know what to say. As in, Poverty no dey tire some people The daily thinking, worries, fear, hunger and anger that poverty brings no dey tire people? Don't they want to improve in life? Have a decent apartment, nice ride, vacations, cinemas, swimming pool etc there is more to enjoy in life if someone takes his time to plan and live/work within his limit or don't they like good life? A man that is decently dressed, smells nice with a nice car will have access to Soo many women than the one poverty will condition him to just one dirty wife. Poverty no dey tire people 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by omoadeleye(m): 8:35pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
ConfusePoint: Bro, just stfu. You are not in the position to complain about the current situation of Nigeria because people like you brought us into this. Resources are limited and poor people keeps fvcking themselves and bearing children like ants. That's not cool. 4 Likes |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Angelfrost(m): 8:37pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
1stGenAmerican: Thank you... This comment should be pinned and broadcast across social media. Most Nigerians are mentally deficient! Smh! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by okoroemeka(m): 8:37pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
jackmrandy:what do you mean can never be true?do you not know that such families live in trapulin houses,carton houses and zinc houses?some people are simply created to be poor, with dull reasoning,zero ambition,no hustling spirit,lack or proactive ideas and thinking inside the box,I am sorry if I sound pessimistic but the worst is yet to come,buckle up and survive or DIE. |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by DKM123: 8:38pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
Mscheeeew. Stop spending too much time on Nairaland and go and hustle instead of complaining like a little girl. A man your age earning that shows you are lazy as fcuuuk. |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Tizu(m): 8:38pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
Go to AJ you will see 8 by one man ( some helped by neighbors) living in one room. |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by dominique(f): 8:38pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
So nobody can ask for the OP's account details, na so things hard reach . You guys don't know that's why he created the thread, you think he needs your advice? Awọn special advisers, una welldone o. All your advices are useless until you ask for his account details. I won't be surprised if he's an unfortunate scammer concocting fables to draw sympathy. 6 Likes |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by EndRape2(f): 8:40pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
You and your wife are foolish, in this modern day, you gave birth to five children , not even in a flat but one room, anybody that helped you is even stupid, with 40k salary ,you should be single. you and your wife should ,start selling didfferent things after work. Mumu man You go still born.more , you better continue to stay inside that uncompleted car. 1 Like |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by EndRape2(f): 8:41pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
[Leave the idiot, let him be lookibg for whom to scam quote author=DKM123 post=124550548]Mscheeeew. Stop spending too much time on Nairaland and go and hustle instead of complaining like a little girl. A man your age earning that shows you are lazy as fcuuuk. [/quote] |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Sirchiboy: 8:43pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
ConfusePoint:. Where do you stay? |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by solexjames(m): 8:43pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
Me and op get the same story... |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by osomegbe(m): 8:43pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
Even in Obasanjo regime, 40k is not enough to have 5 children. you brought it on yourself. hustle more |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Sirchiboy: 8:44pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
EndRape2:.. It is not my fault |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Sirchiboy: 8:48pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
Inyaky:.. Yes Mummy. Over sweetness 1 Like |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Kobojunkie: 8:49pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
Chukstotti:A poor man can enjoy all the sex he wants without having even one kid. So what is OP's reason for birthing 5 innocent souls into poverty.. |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by pansophist(m): 8:50pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
Your wife is strong o. Carry pregnancy five times. Wow. I mean, even if you want five pikin, she also want am? Anyways, your strategy should be two-fold. Reducing expenses and increasing income. I know a family that has seven kids, and their biggest expense is food. So the mother has a swallow restaurant, and the business absorbed the food consumption of the family. You can argue that they eat eba almost every day, but it's better than starving right? Consider a restaurant business for your wife, and you will surely kill two birds with one stone. Which are feeding and the need for extra income. As for your kids, I believe you are smart enough to enroll them in a public school that is close to their house, to avoid having any business with transportation fares. For you, you must run away from a salary job. You need a job that gives you money every day, maybe a bus/uber driver, selling stuff on a busy road, etc. So you can deal with daily, emergency expenses. I suggest being a bus/uber driver, so you can stay in your car sometimes if you need solitude, and transport your family easily. As a bus driver and a wife with a restaurant, you will kill the most money-consuming factor of every Nigerian home, which are food and transportation. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by oxiide22(m): 8:50pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
ednut1:stingy bloda |
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