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Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by agabaI23(m): 12:22pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
Emperormartin:๐๐ 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Nobody: 12:24pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
gentle007:Oga,leave me alone. Obviously you are troublesome.even after I have let you be,you still quote me? Go and deal with your finances and leave me . Were you complaining of car maintenance costing 25k? You have no car and you are contemplating Keke napep (probably no house or wife or kids or high paying job) yet you are pitying me for what you assume to be my plight? Leave me and focus on your pitiful life.just so you know,I am doing better than you physically, financially, emotionally, spiritually. Okay. Rest |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Mosba: 12:25pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
Children are products of love and whatever happens to that love may have impact on its products. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by OKOATA(m): 12:26pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
timjones1:Same thing just happened to me, funniest thing the judgement was passed behind my back. Ex been given the full custody and I have decided to pay only my daughter's school fees while her mom takes care of the rest. Thank God my daughter is now a bit matured even though she's 6yrs old she knows all that's going on. |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by phemmyfour: 12:26pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
deeptesting:It's difficult to monitor what your ex is doing with your money after divorce. |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by gentle007(m): 12:30pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
CuriousStudent: Probably everything you said or assumed about me is correct. Go find โฎ๏ธ abeg. Stop wishing and face reality. I never told you I was done replying you. |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by owunabastard: 12:33pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
Moana:I have also seen a mother that abandoned her three months child to her husband. it depends on the personality involved |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Blackdisciple(m): 12:40pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
Mostly the women want the custody of the children and at time deprive the husband from getting access to this kids, some men become angry and decide to stay away of which no matter what I will never stay away even if she will deprive me from seeing them I will continue to keep tabs on the kids I will not take such rubbish as a man, sometimes in what state the couples have been before divorce, and the women some of the end up lying the the kids that their dad don't care about them. My thought tho |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by tiswell(m): 12:52pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
NiceJenny:As a woman,you lackvthe capacity to determine a 'useless" man,since you aren't one. And the word 'useless" is particular not general,which negates your usage of 'men" instead of 'a man". |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Kobojunkie: 12:54pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
Mosba:This one lives right in the middle of lala land. Products of love indeed! |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Sniper101(m): 1:00pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
It is merely a means of lending a hand in helping God to punish the woman |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Crafteck1: 1:01pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
In order to live long |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by NOwazobia: 1:57pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
Donald7610:Not when both an irresponsible lady and an irresponsible guy decides to prostitute around. Life choices have consequences. |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by NOwazobia: 2:00pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
CuriousStudent:This is the dumbest post I have read since the beginning of this year. No message, just assumption based on existing hate, with clear display of very low self esteem, and of course by a retard. |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Karlifate: 2:03pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
Newborn27: LMAO! ๐๐ 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Nobody: 2:06pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
NOwazobia:Okay,I am wrong for assuming. But are you not more dumb for claiming that only amongst a married couple should a man be obliged to support his child(Ren) if they union goes south? If you are less than 40 then there is still hope for you 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by blaise26abj(m): 2:12pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
saphiere:Lol ๐. What did I do now ? Ordinary question you are insulting me join your apparently irresponsible father . Now I know the source of the frustrations . If you intend to marry , take it easy on your husband o. Pele |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by nurudeen181(m): 2:14pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
avicky:neither can i trust your own assertion... you see one, you dont even know whats going on deep inside. |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Tunagee(m): 2:19pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
WeirdAlien: As simple as that 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Jidefido(m): 2:29pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
You are very correct. My ex wife blocked me from seeing my son. I remember going to her mum's house to see him, i was prevented from seeing him. I stood under rain for over 1 hour. Or she would not him to school when I inform her I was going to see him. I had to use elders to appeal to her not to use our son to fight me. I recall her telling me she would use everything in her power to see I pay heavy child support every month. I pay his school fees and send money every month which is never enough. Its even funny when she says I need to pay for his accommodation. So dont blame men who leave out of frustration. I just decided not to allow her and just play along with her. Las las, myself and my son will align in future no matter how much she must have painted me black. I will advice children from broken homes to always seek their fathers and hear from them too. Not everything the mothers say are correct. agabaI23: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Senator777: 2:37pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
Because they were already arranging an alternative when the rubbish called wife in the house was misbehaving. |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Patented: 2:39pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
deeptesting:Because a lot of women weaponise the children . |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by KIDfurniture(m): 3:03pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
Very funny post.. so men divorce their biological kids ? Lol na wa ooo deeptesting: |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Backpedal: 3:16pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
agabaI23: 100% 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Pardon9ija: 3:22pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
Why devoice in the first place? Why g going into marriage knowing you cannot endure the hideous |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Nweike1: 3:35pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
agabaI23:1 million percent spot on 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by djon78(m): 3:40pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
blaise26abj: Honestly having kids with someone and not married due to divorce or baby mama is very bad. Thank God I never got such issue Once kid come in The man and woman should find ways to be in there children's Life But it isn't easy and it carries so much pains and regrets That's why if people know they can't really be together They should avoid bringing children into their relationship 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by blaise26abj(m): 4:00pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
djon78: If not for the pressures of our society , people in marriage should wait at least 2 years before tying to have kids . It will be beneficial for all parties . Even the woman can remarry easily without the burden of having kids 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by iamtardey: 4:10pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
They are just terrible dads. |
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