YinkaOlusesi16:
Most men like to show they are financially stable all the time but Why do they find it difficult to ask their women for money when they are broke?💞😍💘💔💓❤️💋

The trust is... the general philosophy of every woman is, a man must work and they have to flex

If you cannot ask your woman for money, you do not have a woman in the first place.

Omo nothing is worst than a woman telling you after everything I did for you over every quarrel, e no dey hard dem to talk am, a man would rather die.

I was there for u when u had nothing

Pickmycall:
My sister is a saving grace.She go go borrow from her friends to give me.A gf go tight face.

Your sister na person bf. Na so her. Bf de see her too

Acidosis:


Lol. This is funny. Your sisters were there for you. Great. May be your girlfriend was also there for her brothers. Do you expect her to ignore her brothers for you?

It's family over everything, bro.

Well said !

YinkaOlusesi16:
Most men like to show they are financially stable all the time but Why do they find it difficult to ask their women for money when they are broke?💞😍💘💔💓❤️💋

Women get money?

Because of insult

To avoid see finish

So that you can start murmuring when he ask you to help him with small cash, later he will pay you back!

Not all men.Some don't because of ego.

2cent'' i believe many of them never marry or in the wrong marriage.

nedekid:
If you cannot ask your woman for money, you do not have a woman in the first place.

Xpol:
Most women are not cheerful givers, they don't give and comot mind, when they give you money they use it to insult you at any slight misunderstanding.

If you give me 100# and later dash me insult join am(concerning the 100#) I'll reject your 1m next time.

Hunger never catch you

Because when it's time to pay back, you will pay it like 2 to 3 times if you're lucky

Depends on The relationship.

In general terms guys I won't advise that.
A sensitive woman suppose understand when her man is need. Becos we men we hardly speak out

Newborn27:
Kindly add "responsible" to the topic.


It's only responsible men with maturity that does that.


Many would feel entitled and even steal the little you have.

Lol…Talking from Experience.

unneccessary pride. broke and proud men. lol

To avoid insult. I asked madam for help and she gave me 1k, meanwhile they just paid her over 200K arrears. I just told her not to worry.

vicfajeze:
but my wife do give me voluntarily without any hassles.At times,she kneels down to give me.Oh my wife,GOD BLESS YOU

That one is different. We are not talking about Wife here, you are already in a family.

We are talking about typical Nigerian Relationship and girlfriend matter

Because that is the quickest way to loose all respect...

Puss360:

Sure.. When things "Sour" I'll give... But I'll write it down, you'll sign...
When things "Sweet" you'll repay me complete....

You sef knows marriage is full of ups and downs

... talented321 , shey you're taking note

Ah, if possible just try not to be indebted to a 9ja lady o. No matter how little.

Because one day, she will publicly announce that she has been rescuing your broke ass since time of Adam and Eve.

They are not wired to give, so just avoid it. Don't even borrow from them to repay sef.

Because when they do, they always talk down on you no matter how little the money is. Even the older women. God almighty help men to always meet their financial needs to the family.

To avoid this particular sentence:
"After all I've done for him"

Acidosis:


Lol. This is funny. Your sisters were there for you. Great. May be your girlfriend was also there for her brothers. Do you expect her to ignore her brothers for you?

It's family over everything, bro.

Naso them dey always act. Like their sisters are not the spoiled and unmarriageable Nigerian gfs. See as e open mouth waaaa.

How I want take give man money, how? How he go take collect am? Na only my future oga I fit give money and that'll be after having my 8kids and he's over 50yrs

I see it as a bad ego from men, why claim to be financially ok when you are not? That's foolish. On the other hand there is no "see finish" in asking for funds from your woman. There are are many bad women out there that are headmistress of "see finish" whether you are broke or not, some women always show their men shege, once you toast them they believe you are now their mate. Once they get pregnant more shege, and if they give birth to boy, oh they feel like at least "my leg don strong", enough shege and see finish at the highest order. Bottom line always look and pray for good wife and husband. If you mistakingly choose bad partner you are gone for life, if you like run, your life may never remain the same. My wife always supports me any time any day, that's what God instructed!

Ego 😂

Puss360:
Lol... Men asking women for money is not a bad thing... Afterall, women do ask...
But it's always good to check well coz some men can use that opportunity to extract the whole money woman get.. all in the name of I love you...
Rubbish

Really! If you call that an extraction, then women asking for houses,cars and vacation etc don't only extort men, they EXCAVATE...

This is so true
All my married friends are always ask me for money when they are broke. But I'm like what about your wife? No be she u dey spend your money on...

So dat tomorrow she'll start insulting me abi
And moreover Nigerian gals no d give shishi