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Re: Should One Ask A Divorcee What Caused The Split? by Nobody: 4:15pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
With him dig Behind him, dig dig dig and dig until you are certain you aren't walking into possible homicide 1 Like |
Re: Should One Ask A Divorcee What Caused The Split? by spiceadole: 4:19pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
fyzaila: When I was single,I very consciously and carefully avoided divorced men,widowers and single fathers. When a man approached me,in the talking stage..I would do my background findings about him, without his knowledge and once he is divorced,widower or already had a child,I ghost him... Cut off every link of communication and avoid him permanently. I don't have energy for drama 3 Likes |
Re: Should One Ask A Divorcee What Caused The Split? by fyzaila: 4:24pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
spiceadole: WalLahi i too don't have energy for that. I will just observe and not commit |
Re: Should One Ask A Divorcee What Caused The Split? by fyzaila: 4:25pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Persephone1: Azzin big time homicide |
Re: Should One Ask A Divorcee What Caused The Split? by simplesearch: 4:29pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
New International Version Luke 16:18 “Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and the man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery. 1 Like |
Re: Should One Ask A Divorcee What Caused The Split? by iamtardey: 4:33pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Nothing wrong I’m just asking |
Re: Should One Ask A Divorcee What Caused The Split? by dahrey01: 4:36pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Hmm. This is a very delicate matter and must be handled delicately. Some people don't like to talk about some things when it comes a matter like this, some of them may be feeling unsecured with the new supposed spouse or the spouse to be but mind you, it is necessary to ask about it. Don't forget, many broken homes can be orchestrated by either of the couple but the one whose horse is gored may not want to tell the whole world that he or is the reason for the divorce. So in doing this, one must be very carefule and be meticulous when asking such questions about the phenomenon. |
Re: Should One Ask A Divorcee What Caused The Split? by grandstar(m): 5:14pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
fyzaila It is not only normal to ask "what happened" but also natural for the divorcee to without fail mention about their ex and the role they played in the failed marriage Unfortunately, the divorcee focuses on the failure of the ex. You might even end up hating the ex until you meet them and hear their side of the story. It is said that divorced men have a higher rate of failure in their second marriages. The problem is "that the broom that swept the first wife away is waiting to sweep the new wife away" rings true. Unless the underlying problem that made the first marriage isn't tackled, the probability of failure is even higher for the second marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Should One Ask A Divorcee What Caused The Split? by cococandy(f): 5:46pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
fyzaila: You certainly should ask 1 Like |
Re: Should One Ask A Divorcee What Caused The Split? by onlyboyson(m): 5:47pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
If you know u cheat no need to ask |
Re: Should One Ask A Divorcee What Caused The Split? by Lama70(m): 5:52pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Good to ask. But you will be fed with lies upon lies. |
Re: Should One Ask A Divorcee What Caused The Split? by femmoy(m): 8:27pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Klass99: How come you know all these about us? Well you're partially correct cos I'm facing something similar to what you said up there and it has reorientated me a lot. |
Re: Should One Ask A Divorcee What Caused The Split? by Klass99(f): 10:29pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Re: Should One Ask A Divorcee What Caused The Split? by Klass99(f): 10:41pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
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Re: Should One Ask A Divorcee What Caused The Split? by DrDunamis(m): 11:40pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
fyzaila:When you forget the past you're bound to repeat the mistakes of the past. 1 Like |
Re: Should One Ask A Divorcee What Caused The Split? by spiceadole: 12:18am On Aug 23, 2023 |
fyzaila: I didn't observe anything Once I found out,I dump and cut off completely. Face front 1 Like |
Re: Should One Ask A Divorcee What Caused The Split? by royalfly(m): 6:13am On Aug 23, 2023 |
Klass99: Are you a divorcee? My point is that doing better after a divorce is all relative, fact check. A woman who divorced at 40 and a man who divorced at 40 what are thier odds. Well, let's leave it at that. Once again your generalization makes your statements an assumption not because of you are a woman. Have a good day. |
Re: Should One Ask A Divorcee What Caused The Split? by BALLOSKI: 7:00am On Aug 23, 2023 |
fyzaila:every marriage that broke down is due to "irreconcilable differences", that's the catchphrase. Having said that, even if you asked that question, they won't give you the true picture of things, as both sides would speak to favor themselves and hiding their own ugly role that led to the collapse of the marriage. Except, of course, you have the power to conduct your own discreet and independent investigation. 1 Like |
Re: Should One Ask A Divorcee What Caused The Split? by Kenechukwu98: 12:40pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Don't ask them but truthful people around them |
Re: Should One Ask A Divorcee What Caused The Split? by mylove4God(f): 10:05pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Samantha124: He might not tell you the full truth. |
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