I live with my mother, a single mother, since I lost my dad over a year ago and we haven't been having issues until recently
The problem with my mother is that she wants to remarry but I never wanted that because she planned to move in to the house my father built.

After a heated argument, she claimed the house as hers but I rejected! I didn't stop her from marrying any man but what I am against is moving the man into my father's house. More to that, she planned to open a business for her husband to be on my father's land. I know the consequence of allowing that to happen: he will later claim the land.

Since my mom met this man she stopped treating me like a son. One of her sisters told me that the man was disturbing my mom to send me out of the house so he can move in asap.

When I approached my mom with this, she cursed me because she believes I'm against her will.

How do I prevent this man from taking what belongs to me?

Matter too much for this life. Be spiritually strong, that's all I can say.

Who did your late dad will the house and land to? I think you should approach your late father's relatives on the issue before it's too late.

OP, this na AGBAYA levels abeg!

Why are some man so mannerless,you wish not to work but you cheerfully want to eat from where you didn't sow

Your mama don love up be dat
I laugh each time I hear people say that women are tight fisted, the truth here is that a woman in love can do anything for her man, it's a fact.
My cousin once paused her own studies and used my uncles wealth and every every to push her man up the ladders. Women are radical lovers.

Back to matter, don't ever allow your mum to move the said man to your dad's house and/or set up any business on your father's land. The outcome isn't going to be in your favour, the man is certainly going to take a mile from the inches your mother is about to offer him.
Be wise and approach the matter with utmost caution.
Table this to your council of elders. Where I'm from, she dare not entertain such thoughts let alone making efforts to bring them to fruition.

Get the man's number on your mother's phone, and call him man to man for a meeting with one of your father's relatives

Tell him you have no issue with his relationship with your mother but you don't support her bringing any man to your father's house or property

Tell him you are willing to go to any length on the property belonging to your father, if it means involving your father's family or the lawyers

Am very sorry to say this but some women are just not emotionally intelligent to manage inheritance and family asset that's why many are skeptical in having them administer an estate

Sir Luis Ojuckwu was a billionaire

He married Ojuckwu's mother and Ojuckwu inherited his wealth

Ojuckwu wasted the wealth on Civil War and married a new young wife Bianca

Upon death, Bianca didn't let any of Ojuckwu's Old son or Brothers, not even cousins to access any of Sir Ojuckwu's Asset





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No wonder lots of them acts like vagabonds online.

Kobojunkie:
OP, this na AGBAYA levels abeg!

Kobo-love happy weekend!

Arrrrrrrh

This case is way beyond your power. Your mom won't listen to you, because currently she can do anything for that man. I would advice you to report this case to your dad brother somebody that you know is not selfish so that he can talk sense into her head. If you are the first born then the land and the house belong to you, your siblings and your mom.

Irresponsible men irritate me. All this cut and nail husbands marrying widows eh. That was how my mom sis did and this children she birthed for the man became hell while growing thank God they later changed.

My friend, seek legal counsel.
That man is set to kick you out using your puny mom.

Please,be careful.

That is why writing a "will" is important. You must stand your ground. Tell your mom that you want your father's property to be shared. Meet with your trusted relatives, elders or a lawyer so that your father's properties can be shared, one of it should be given to your mom, You can't expect to take everything. When your mom is given her share, then she can do whatever she wishes with it. Tell your mom that she has no right to bring in a man, until she is given her space.

efelicity:
I live with my mother, a single mother, since I lost my dad over a year ago and we haven't been having issues until recently
The problem with my mother is that she wants to remarry but I never wanted that because she planned to move in to the house my father built. After a heated argument, she claimed the house as hers but I rejected! I didn't stop her from marrying any man but what I am against is moving the man into my father's house. More to that, she planned to open a business for her husband to be on my father's land. I know the consequence of allowing that to happen: he will later claim the land.
Since my mom met this man she stopped treating me like a son. One of her sisters told me that the man was disturbing my mom to send me out of the house so he can move in asap.
When I approached my mom with this, she cursed me because she believes I'm against her will.
How do I prevent this man from taking what belongs to me?

You should never allow that happen..

Be a man..

In Africa you fathers properties are yours..

So take everything…


Move into that house…


Take everything….


If she must marry then her husband must accommodate her…

Just over a year ago and she's already trying to move another man into the house? Wow

The man himself must be shameless, trying to reap where he didn't sow.

You better find someone to talk sense into her, if she won't listen to you. Or do whatever you can to secure all your Father's properties before he takes over everything your Father worked for and what rightfully belongs to you since you're the son. But make sure you make your moves quietly. Now is not the time to be a mumu.

efelicity:
I live with my mother, a single mother, since I lost my dad over a year ago and we haven't been having issues until recently
The problem with my mother is that she wants to remarry but I never wanted that because she planned to move in to the house my father built. After a heated argument, she claimed the house as hers but I rejected! I didn't stop her from marrying any man but what I am against is moving the man into my father's house. More to that, she planned to open a business for her husband to be on my father's land. I know the consequence of allowing that to happen: he will later claim the land.
Since my mom met this man she stopped treating me like a son. One of her sisters told me that the man was disturbing my mom to send me out of the house so he can move in asap.
When I approached my mom with this, she cursed me because she believes I'm against her will.
How do I prevent this man from taking what belongs to me?

Ur mother want to marry a homeless man?? Unbelievable sir
How old is ur mother, is she a teenager experiencing first love schema?

efelicity:
I live with my mother, a single mother, since I lost my dad over a year ago and we haven't been having issues until recently
The problem with my mother is that she wants to remarry but I never wanted that because she planned to move in to the house my father built. After a heated argument, she claimed the house as hers but I rejected! I didn't stop her from marrying any man but what I am against is moving the man into my father's house. More to that, she planned to open a business for her husband to be on my father's land. I know the consequence of allowing that to happen: he will later claim the land.
Since my mom met this man she stopped treating me like a son. One of her sisters told me that the man was disturbing my mom to send me out of the house so he can move in asap.
When I approached my mom with this, she cursed me because she believes I'm against her will.
How do I prevent this man from taking what belongs to me?

Your mother is the problem. Ask her if she is sure you are actually her son.

Also, if your dad has many properties other than the one she planned moving into and the land she planned setting up business on, ask her to give you your share of your father's properties from those other ones now otherwise you may lose out totally later.

Once given your shares, if they are lands, sell them off and either buy lands in other locations or startup a business for yourself and stay away from them henceforth.

Don't fight as some people are suggesting. It will be difficult since your mom is against you.

Think about it. With the early nature of her moves, you might not be safe as because if care is not taking, your dad's death might even be suspicious!

Your mum wants to build with a broke man, you should be proud that your mother is an understanding girlfriend.


Who did your dad will his house too?

I always tell people, 90%+ of nairaland relationship, social and marriage stories are just cruise from trolls and bored people.

Always look into ones profile before commenting or engaging. Unless you too are bored and want to waste your emotion and time.

Today his dad passed a year ago. He lives with Mum, she wants to marry and he is stopping her

He has another thread 2 days ago that his dad married another wife and he's seeking for advice on how to chase her out. https://www.nairaland.com/7831688/father-married-another-woman-pictures

... And a whole loot of incoherent jargons from his 39 threads that don't add up or match yet they have a lot of engagements.

Just a glimpse into someone's account would tell you a lot.

Ladiesdream Mystery9 Mhizzard Kingosytex iammo Caaz gaius01 Westerhoffe Nice2023 LilMissFavvy LikeAking tonicyril Exodus15v11 Stevenbright 1Sharon

Childfree:
I always tell people, 90%+ of nairaland relationship, social and marriage stories are just cruise from trolls and bored people.

Always look into ones profile before commenting or engaging. Unless you too are bored and want to waste your emotion and time.

Today his dad passed a year ago. He lives with Mum, she wants to marry and he is stopping her

He has another thread 2 days ago that his dad married another wife and he's seeking for advice on how to chase her out. https://www.nairaland.com/7831688/father-married-another-woman-pictures

... And a whole loot of incoherent jargons from his 39 threads that don't add up or match yet they have a lot of engagements.

Just a glimpse into someone's account would tell you a lot.

Ladiesdream Mystery9 Mhizzard Kingosytex iammo Caaz gaius01 Westerhoffe Nice2023 LilMissFavvy LikeAking tonicyril Exodus15v11 Stevenbright 1Sharon

What have I done to you wrongly?
If there be any, I ask for forgiveness.

efelicity:
I live with my mother, a single mother, since I lost my dad over a year ago and we haven't been having issues until recently
The problem with my mother is that she wants to remarry but I never wanted that because she planned to move in to the house my father built. After a heated argument, she claimed the house as hers but I rejected! I didn't stop her from marrying any man but what I am against is moving the man into my father's house. More to that, she planned to open a business for her husband to be on my father's land. I know the consequence of allowing that to happen: he will later claim the land.
Since my mom met this man she stopped treating me like a son. One of her sisters told me that the man was disturbing my mom to send me out of the house so he can move in asap.
When I approached my mom with this, she cursed me because she believes I'm against her will.
How do I prevent this man from taking what belongs to me?

Pardon me, but your mom reads me like an immature, selfish and overly emotional wreck. You have to involve trusted relatives to preside over this issue. There's nothing wrong with her marrying another man, but the fact that she's actively trying to sabotage your life and future because of this random mister is quite unfortunate.

Unless there are other parts of the story you're leaving out because I can't understand how a mother can be so pig-headed and myopic.

My dear this matter is not the one that you will take lightly,you must have been cool headed and that's why she want to take advantage with the so called man,Tell her that married woman is meant to live in her husband house not the other way,and advice her to get ready to live with her new husband if she is remarrying,make atmosphere hot, inform your father people on your stand,during those periods pick quarrels and avoid her before she poison you or kill you bcs her boyfriend might confuse her,then if he finally marry her,give her a week or more to go to her husband house don't pity heroo or look at her face bcs she is you mother,bcs if u do it will cause more war later,then once she leaves lock up ur house,keep the quareis till she master her new husband and his house,the go back to her and reconcile by that time she must have cool and adjust to her new husband.

Childfree:
I always tell people, 90%+ of nairaland relationship, social and marriage stories are just cruise from trolls and bored people.

Always look into ones profile before commenting or engaging. Unless you too are bored and want to waste your emotion and time.

Today his dad passed a year ago. He lives with Mum, she wants to marry and he is stopping her

He has another thread 2 days ago that his dad married another wife and he's seeking for advice on how to chase her out. https://www.nairaland.com/7831688/father-married-another-woman-pictures

... And a whole loot of incoherent jargons from his 39 threads that don't add up or match yet they have a lot of engagements.

Just a glimpse into someone's account would tell you a lot.

Ladiesdream Mystery9 Mhizzard Kingosytex iammo Caaz gaius01 Westerhoffe Nice2023 LilMissFavvy LikeAking tonicyril Exodus15v11 Stevenbright 1Sharon

thank God not every post i have been coming across,i seriously take it to heart.

iammo:



Get the man's number on your mother's phone, and call him man to man for a meeting with one of your father's relatives

Tell him you have no issue with his relationship with your mother but you don't support her bringing any man to your father's house or property

Tell him you are willing to go to any length on the property belonging to your father, if it means involving your father's family or the lawyers

Am very sorry to say this but some women are just not emotionally intelligent to manage inheritance and family asset that's why many are skeptical in having them administer an estate

Sir Luis Ojuckwu was a billionaire

He married Ojuckwu's mother and Ojuckwu inherited his wealth

Ojuckwu wasted the wealth on Civil War and married a new young wife Bianca

Upon death, Bianca didn't let any of Ojuckwu's Old son or Brothers, not even cousins to access any of Sir Ojuckwu's Asset


.

So Ojukwu's sons did not get any share of their Father's wealth?
A sad story😔

This troll runs thousands of monikers on here, and his imagination is wild! Sir, put this creativity to good use and make some money.

efelicity:
I live with my mother, a single mother, since I lost my dad over a year ago and we haven't been having issues until recently
The problem with my mother is that she wants to remarry but I never wanted that because she planned to move in to the house my father built. After a heated argument, she claimed the house as hers but I rejected! I didn't stop her from marrying any man but what I am against is moving the man into my father's house. More to that, she planned to open a business for her husband to be on my father's land. I know the consequence of allowing that to happen: he will later claim the land.
Since my mom met this man she stopped treating me like a son. One of her sisters told me that the man was disturbing my mom to send me out of the house so he can move in asap.
When I approached my mom with this, she cursed me because she believes I'm against her will.
How do I prevent this man from taking what belongs to me?

At this point, you are a potential threat to the man and you need to be careful

I think you should report your mum to her family or welfare.
All you want is for her to put that house on rent and both of you can share the rent money

Let them know that you are not interested in who she wants to marry but that house belongs to both of you and you don't want a situation where by some will come and claim that house that uoir dad built

Meanwhile, whatever curse she puts on you, tell her to her face that, the curse will not hold because you have not done anything to warrant that

At times we need to challenge the Devil

Kingosytex:
Your mama don love up be dat
I laugh each time I hear people say that women are tight fisted, the truth here is that a woman in love can do anything for her man, it's a fact.
My cousin once paused her own studies and used my uncles wealth and every every to push her man up the ladders. Women are radical lovers.

That era is almost over. Nowadays everyone is using common sense, looking for intentional men that will foot the bills/intentional women that will put something on the table. Then when they find the man/woman, they activate love. So love will not be activated until the man/woman ticks the boxes from top to bottom 😂😭😭

Many young people today will grow up not experiencing true love, unfortunately.

Hey

All Agbadorians suffering and smiling face the same curse