Young woman who knows the reality about life..

Sonofgod1990:

you married an old woman.sorry

Married my wife for her understanding nature . She's supportive and very caring.

Na mostly men , dey say I love her BLA BLA BLA...most women are not commenting...lol

Alot of naija women don't marry for love...most na because the man was readily available, dat all.

theInfinity:
Is very common for most Nigerian men to marry their wife because she is beautiful and curvy, while many Nigerian women chose to marry their husband simply because he has money. So tell us the truth why you married your wife/husband.

We grew up knowing each other......

Sunnyrado:
I am looking for wife to marry...a serious minded woman for marriage

Come and marry me,i am serious minded.

tunjijones:
She is very organized, homely and very neat. She get good dress sense and she speaks very good English. Make I no lie na wetin first attract me to her be that. The way she speaks.

Though she sturbon well well. But I bin tell her papa make them leave that sturbonness part for me to handle.

After 3 yrs into the marriage, she sef couple herself cos I let her know say her sturbonness dey learn work for where my own dey.

Generally she is a good person though she is with her flaws and I have mine too. But we are happy together trying to get more value from the relationship every day.

I don even forget, she is a Great cook too. Na only me be the married man whey dey bring food come work and my colleague dey always praise her cooking. Make I no lie, he dey make my head swell sometimes.

Awwwwn.

With me it was an easy call. After my graduation from the University Of Michigan in Ann Arbor, with a Degree in Electronics Engineering. I was working for General Motors as a System Analyst and the company decided to send me back to school for my Master I met this Igbo man from Imo State in one of my classes that man gave me the best advice of my life. "Remember money will always give you the woman you want, but your struggle will give you the woman you need" . When I met my now wife, I was working as a security Guard while at the same time trying to get my Undergraduate degree. Close to 33 years later happily married to my wife blessed with two grown-up boys, both living on their own with their own families. I am living the best part of my life in South Florida in good health and of sound mind. I say it again not bad for a guy from Ijebu Ode who grew up in Ibadan and attended Ebenezer Primary School Oke Ado in Ibadan.

Deerahone:
Me: I was just desperate to get married. You know what?


It ended in disaster after 2 years

Chai.
Eyaaah...sorry..

Taylor92:
Marriage is overrated Abeg

I prefer to have a baby mama that would give me kids and I take care of my kids bills than having a woman under my roof that would still cheat

Have kids make money take care of your kids flirt your life chikina

Make una carry una marriage shift one side

I suspect that the world will get to this point one day. Marriage is truly overated.

She was with me, and supported me when I lost everything. We are married with a 7 month old son.

To breed babies!

theInfinity:
Is very common for most Nigerian men to marry their wife because she is beautiful and curvy, while many Nigerian women chose to marry their husband simply because he has money. So tell us the truth why you married your wife/husband.

I married her becos of her humility and maturity, but everything don change now, she is now the opposite of who I married...

Divine orchestration...lol
The signs were just too much to be ignored.
We met during undergrad and as an observant fella that I am, the pointers were too numerous to ignore.
For instance, one 'coincidence' was when she went for youth service. I served two years before her in a different state but coincidentally, we had exactly the same state code out of thousands of numbers... what are the odds!

Love is sweet when there is money. Unfortunately Nigeria is a country where there is high rate of unemployment and no government is ready to empower anyone.
And when you are getting older you wish to settle down and avoid deceiving different ladies and fornicating with them. It's better to marry than to burn with lustful passion.

I am not yet married so I can't answer your question.

But the day I asked my sister why she married her husband, she said its becos he is caring.

I was like is that all.

She said Yes.

It is well.

Nice2023:



Enemy of progress...u that can never see any good thing in anything.

I yinmu you again

wunmi590:


Life is not too hard, I'm not the cause of you not finding a better wife for yourself...

If you can't find a better wife for yourself, it means you yourself is bad..

EOD

I yinmu you all over again

She's my lucky charm

Nice2023:
I dated five women before I chose my wife.

I dated a woman from Botswana.

I dated my village girl based in USA.

I dated my wife.

I dated my classmate till we graduated together.

And I dated my kaduna babe.


I married my wife because she was someone I love with my heart,although her love is greater no doubt. Others had money,connection but I chose my wife because she ticked what I wanted in a woman. From my voice,my wife could tell if I am angry or happy...that is who she is.

I find myself in a similar position. The girl I'm currently dating is just like ur wife. I love her too.. but my concern is her family is not as well to do as the other 2 gals pulling my shirt...

sorry to ask, but haven been married to your wife for some time now.. do you feel like u should have gone for one of the other girls?

JhyMedex:

I find myself in a similar position. The girl I'm currently dating is just like ur wife. I love her too.. but my concern is her family is not as well to do as the other 2 gals pulling my shirt...

sorry to ask, but having been married to your wife for some time now.. do you feel like u should have gone for the one of the other girls?

you need to judge her extended family beyond economic prospect, what if they are well to do but demanding beyond your limits, what if her family demands her loyalty before they put you into consideration. If I'm you, I will put my peace of mind as the priority, then check the at worst case scenario, can i cope with it etc.

For me, I was looking for a wife, after 2ex's disappointed me, then some family members and friends opened my eyes to a lady in church. I was not so much fasinated with her because I know her with her anger issue, I have seen it played out terribly. Friends & family were able to convince me that she isn't that bad & I felt I could manage her stubbornness/anger. Fast-forward, we dated for 8months & now have a baby, but in this journey our ideas are different, we don't agree in most things, also she is not as capable as I thought, has no goal & vision other than stay at home and bear the title Mrs. I also noticed she has a strong affiliation with her parent, calling them every hour and they will all gang up against me, she presently went to stay with her parent & they are refusing me to come take them back. The father is claiming right to his daughter

I married my wife because she was pregnant for me and now she has been denying of sex every night now ....please help me what can I do

Taylor92:
Marriage is overrated Abeg

I prefer to have a baby mama that would give me kids and I take care of my kids bills than having a woman under my roof that would still cheat

Have kids make money take care of your kids flirt your life chikina

Make una carry una marriage shift one side

Na why una dey find government wey go dey dash money... very irresponsible being...

ahnie:

The leaf is a total turnoff for me!unugbu soup izza bomb with soft yellow eba

Oha leaf?
Is it the smell or texture?

Mindlog:


Oha soup and akpu are my besties.

Can't remember when last I ate akpu. Don't really know what happened

Even you wet never marry don they talk reason why you marry 😂😂😂

enemyofprogress:
I yinmu you all over again

enemyofprogress:
I yinmu you all over again

enemyofprogress:
I yinmu you all over again

enemyofprogress:
I yinmu you all over again

I have many reasons oo. The main reason why I married her was because the first time I f*cked her, her p**ssy was out of this world . She is a squitter and sprinkler at the same time . Her p**ssy was and remains the sweetest p**ssy I have ever f*cked and trust me, I have f*cked many. After that first night I knew I must marry her. I had a babe I was dating that time but the relationship was shaking and about to collapse. I quickly demolished the relationship and in three months I had done introduction with my wife. Another three months we don do trad and the following month church wedding.

Second reason was that she is an excellent cook. I think only my elder brother's wife cooks better than my wife.

Third reason she is a lady I knew I must keep. Cool headed, respectful, homely, very well trained and brought up by her parents especially her dad who was a military man and a disciplinarian, no drama at all, matured, etc. Complete package. 17 years later and we are still happily married with 5 children.

I did not regret my decision at all.

descarado:

Can't remember when last I ate akpu. Don't really know what happened

I had PhD in pounding it back then......right there in Lagos as my mother made all her children do stuffs as if we were being raised in the village.

JhyMedex:

I find myself in a similar position. The girl I'm currently dating is just like ur wife. I love her too.. but my concern is her family is not as well to do as the other 2 gals pulling my shirt...

sorry to ask, but having been married to your wife for some time now.. do you feel like u should have gone for the one of the other girls?

After every one year,we used to evaluate our family lives.

After 7years evaluations and watching out how it has been so far...I can tell u with fact,that I made the right decision of my life and I have never regretted it one bit.

JhyMedex:

I find myself in a similar position. The girl I'm currently dating is just like ur wife. I love her too.. but my concern is her family is not as well to do as the other 2 gals pulling my shirt...

sorry to ask, but having been married to your wife for some time now.. do you feel like u should have gone for the one of the other girls?

Marry her and let her know ur ambition and things u want both of u to achieve together as partner.

Mindlog:


I had PhD in pounding it back then......right there in Lagos as my mother made all her children do stuffs as if we were being raised in the village.

Dear mama

I think those around me don't eat it so it just ended. My mum eat pounded cocoyam head and that short unripe banana. My family here have never tasted it. I always call them fake igbo

ednut1:
Because she get sense and not materialistic

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