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Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by micflo28(m): 4:25pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
garriAndsugar:one beheaded his mum and ran with her head to do ritual but was caught. Here in Mararaba Abuja. |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by yomiracles: 4:25pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
Arrange for a dedicated clergyman to provide continuous spiritual guidance to him. I recommend Apostle Arome Osayi, if you can get across to him. |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by Kobojunkiee: 4:31pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
yomiracles:Nonsense...you people always looking to take advantage of those who are weak. Awon ole! |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by Ynix(m): 4:36pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
adaperry25: Give me his number, chat me up on 08184397113 |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by Loveglow(f): 4:44pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
Please put him in prayers no matter what |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by Kobojunkiee: 4:49pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
Loveglow:How many of the thousands wey una don dey pray for una church don change since? |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by edward1106(m): 4:50pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
Sit him down and ask him now that he may not be able to go to school again, what does he want to do? Let him take his time to give you an answer and of you guys have money, support him and supervise him. Let him run the business but let the finance be monitored by your guys so he can be serious and also accountable. |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by Loveglow(f): 4:50pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee:Sir their is nothing too hard for God to do |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by Kobojunkiee: 4:51pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
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Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by Kobojunkiee: 4:53pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
Loveglow:God said He only answers the prayers of those who are first Holy, and then righteous. There is nothing too difficult for God provided you are first Holy. So, how many of the 1000s of drug-addicted, some even sex-addicted, youths wey full una churches una don heal finish? |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by IamMobisola(f): 4:59pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
Sticooooooo:It is until they become a threat to the lives of the rest of them before they send them out abi? Okay |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by Iliveforever(m): 5:18pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
sunnymighty: This is not a rehab case, take him to a genuine Christian deliverance church for deliverance. Rehab will make his case permanent |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by NACE13: 5:19pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
A distant relation of mine towed same path. He was advised, flogged, locked up, warned and all sort but he didn't change. This is a silly boy who uploads pictures of himself smoking with his gang. Guess what. He was killed during the election period, this year. He was buried in a cheap wooden coffin. Surprisingly, his Dad didn't even shed a tear. He just felt sorry for the silly boy's life came to an abrupt but predictable end. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by mariahAngel(f): 5:29pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
IntelligentWrit: No, it's not. Rather, tell the op to write more clearly next time, for better understanding. Op referred to the other brother as if he/she wasn't (directly/completely) related to the said brother.ππΌ As we speak, |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by Draslo(m): 5:45pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
Westerhoffe:People meet like minds in rehab too |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by Obierika(m): 5:59pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
adaperry25: Eject the idiot from the family houe and let him go and destroy himself if he so wishes |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by Westerhoffe(m): 6:01pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
Draslo: Yea⦠but most likely they're already on their road to recovery. |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by Draslo(m): 6:08pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
Westerhoffe:Most are forced there. You will hardly find anyone in rehab tat checked themselves into the facility. I have a friend that his folks took him to rehab because of rophynol addiction. Today he's a coke addict living the best life because he met a rich kid in rehab. They linked up outside and took their drug fueled lifestyles to the highest notch. No two Instagram posts are in the same country. Like, they are highly chilling on drugs kpa! 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by Kobojunkiee: 6:15pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
Draslo:For those who are forced there, chances are high that they will relapse not long after leaving rehab too. So, rehab for many na revolving door! Many there have even accepted this. So, in rehab, they make friends with whom they exchange tips with each other on how to stay out longer the next time all while getting high without getting caught.
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Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by BoaDacreator: 7:24pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
Bobo face your own struggles and try to make your dad happy as much as you can. If your bro decides to f up his life. He his above 18 let him. |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by tyinfinity: 7:47pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
Inbox me for possible solution.08063741763 .you will try something. if he can collect things from you |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by blackgold2018(m): 8:11pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
sudeba:i have just be waiting for this. Either you said this out of wisdom or from experience I have a wayward brother too. We have tried rehab, it didnβt. We have tried Love, it didnβt work. Infant showing him love is the worst part. He will fill entitled for his wrong deeds. Prayers too, didnβt work. The part we have not done is the prison. He is one of the major reasons I lost my both parents. I donβt even seek for his redemption anymore. I know only seek justice. Punishment for his wrong deeds. Locking him up in prison for 2-4yrs. If he changes, lucky him. If he dies there, I donβt give a Bleep. |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by Les: 8:34pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee:and what makes u think he doesn't desire change? Don't be a gent if darkness my dear. |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by Kobojunkiee: 8:39pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
Les:You folks are usually disconnected from reality itself. What aspect of OP's post convinces you that the boy in question desires change or your shoving of Jesus Christ at him? |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by Westerhoffe(m): 8:56pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
Draslo: Those ones are lost cause. I give up. |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by Les: 8:59pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee:and I asked, which part of the op's post convinces you that the boy in question doesn't desire a change? |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by Kobojunkiee: 9:10pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
Les:OP never said anything about the boy asking for help or making any attempts to change at all. According to OP's story, he remains a nuisance to his family and they are fed up with it. SO? |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by benqo01(m): 9:14pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
This is difficult to handle just leave him be am sure he will someday come to his senses |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by birdman(m): 9:22pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
yomiracles: This is an excellent option, but I doubt he is that available - but there are legit options in whatever city you are in. There are pastors who have experience in this, know what to do and not to do, and have no ulterior motives other than your well being. I have seen some of Tony Rapu's success with drug users in Lagos for example. But the koko is the family has to be willing to follow the advice completely. Its not just a matter of praying the right way, everyone has to chip in and do the right thing. Meaning he will likely fall on some hard times, let him learn and resist the urge to bail him out and prolong the process. Once drugs are involved, oh boy... Pharmakeia, from which we get pharma, drugs, etc is translated as sorcery and witchcraft in the bible. Because they can alter your state of consciousness, your battle to become sober is much more difficult, you are literally fighting yourself. |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by Sacrosanct12(m): 9:40pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
I also have a brother like yours , stubborn, rugged, bad friends, night life and all. Although I didn't get to experience it all by myself because after secondary school I immediately left home to serve . My parents just told me everything the past Christmas. Said he was a torn in the flesh going around with cult boys, tattoo, staying days and weeks without coming home or anybody hearing from him. He also came to Lagos for apprenticeship with one of my uncle but was sent back due to his behaviors. At the moment he has really calmed down miraculously, he is doing well where he is. Just need to pray for him. |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by TheBTCinvestor: 10:05pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
Mummyimbecile: Pls no offence. Do u have a child who is an slowpoke? |
Re: How Can I Handle My Younger Brother by fineberry(m): 10:13pm On Sep 28, 2023 |
Your brother's is "Perfectly Immorally Inelastic". At this point no matter what you do has absolutely no effect on him. Op prayer is only what I will advise. There's nothing God cannot do. As per whether he will change base on physical/human effort that wan na no no. |
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