Marynwachukwu21:
Done

We go soon hear say two nairalanders tie knot

If she's really your wife, you should be able to have a sincere talk with her.

If you can't, someone close to her should be able to do so. You may also go through the pastor of your church, if you are Christians.

Revolution2022:
Mugu horseband

Obainoman6:
Ontop bride price wey u pay, na u dey dull yourself naw if na me na 2 hot slaps she go use open those stupid legs for me, can you imagine?

Is this what your father does to your mum

Ever8090:
you no just Sabi counseling at all....


No try to council any body again ooo...make you no go brake person marriage...

I don laff tire no be small. This one go just destroy people marriage.

I am sure na one of these redpillers on Nairaland

IamReallyboy:
Help a brother,

If I touch my wife she frown, and complain she doesn't like it.

We have s*x only when she's in the mood, even if I romance her she complain of pain or give useless excuse to stop it.

My problem is, she no dey go out, no friends. Please any advice or help to this.

is she depressed?

👇

If you know you know 😏

She prefers masturbating

She na reverend sister naa... send her back to her mother. Shikina.

Chibuzoripob:
She nor dey go out,No friends ? Same you will open another thread and wail that ur wife have many friends, she doesn't stay at home.You'll start checking her phone,sniff her panties.It is time for you to start making ur wife smile ,laugh and smile always. U both can plan and go out to 🐔Republic etc.

You are a dunce.

The truth is that there is something she is not telling you, recently i reconnected with my wife sexually, i discouverd that all the while it has been my fault, so i sit her down and talk to her, she open up on what i have been doing that she dose not like and i promise to amend, seriously she has seen that i am a changed man.

before talking to her, i already made up my mind to cheat, that talk was the last chance i gave her, as if she knows my next plan and she did exactly what i expected...so talk to her, i mean it, if na sex them dey everyehere including NL here

DrFunmisticGlow:
is she depressed?

Good question, during my case my wife was depressed with my attitude towards her and when she open up, i cried coz i never though i was hurting her with such words, but thank God everthing is ok now.

wany:

Is this what your father does to your mum

E dey pain you ba, no worry when you finally settled down at 45 u no go even get mind to refused sex.

Reminderz:

possible things involved...

1) she's not sexually attracted to you..
2) she doesn't see you as a man she respect; a weak man.
3) she's cheating.
4) you don't take your personal hygiene seriously; you're not neat.
5) you don't know how to get a woman in the mood.
6) she's not performing her duties as your wife.
7) she knows you can't get it anywhere else so she keeps manipulating you with it; you've gat no options..

if the problem is 1, 2, 4 and 5, then the problem is you... if the problem is 3, 6 and 7, then don't also perform your duties on her, ignore her like she doesn't exist... she wants to friendzone you in the marriage, if she doesn't fvck you, who does she fvck? and did you meet her a virgin? if it persists, get another wife or cheat since she doesn't know what's expected of her, she should go back to her father's house if she's not emotionally matured enough to be married...

Are you even married? Sounds like she's depressed.

Divorce her and marry another wife or marry a second wife or her a sidechick.

How can single guys be getting sex easily as they like while you that's taking care of a woman at home starve?

IamReallyboy:
Help a brother,

If I touch my wife she frown, and complain she doesn't like it.

We have s*x only when she's in the mood, even if I romance her she complain of pain or give useless excuse to stop it.

My problem is, she no dey go out, no friends. Please any advice or help to this.

Try touching her with money,.

tfelicityk:
Well,
Was she like that when you guys are courting then before marriage?
If yes! Then, you have great work to do.
If otherwise! My brother somethings are wrong and missing here. Such as attention, attention, attention and communications.
2. You said she doesn't have friends, goes out and always indoor. You need to have plan for her to be engaged. Invest in whatever vocational skills she possesses.
3. You said she complaint of pains whenever you touched her body. A lot may be going on her minds - her expectations, suspecting you directly and indirectly depending on your activities, and she decided to adopt that pain so as to express herself of being angry with you.
4. I will advise you to Nurture your marriage very well. Gives her attention if you have not be doing that. Attention - compliment her with good, sweet words, at times with your free time follow her to the saloon she does her hair, you can take her along when you want to get your hair cut at times. Some evening, you guys can take a walk of 30minutes and return home. Feeds each other when eating together. Crack reasonable jokes and avoid abusive words. Avoid shouting at each other. Still, on attention - try to know her underwears sizes and get it for her rather you take her with you to some shops to do it herself. My brother 10k can get her set of bras and pants. When you see something you like on your girlfriend. You can get it for her. Communication is paramount in every relationship - at times, when you are far away from home between 5 to 6 hours. Call her to ask of her wellbeing. You don't need long talk. Sometimes, choose the meal you wish to eat and tell her get it prepared for you. Oops! I am not a marriage counselor ooooo but an engineer. Smiling
5. Love making - establish pre-intimacy and romance. If she is the kitchen go and check on her and assist. watching her in seductive way speaks a lot and it will waken that low libido in her.
6. The truth is you spend moderate and become responsible and be the king if you spent your time with your wife.

I don't need to teach hygiene - if you are not please try to keep yourself clean. One underwear daily, bath twice a day(morning and at night whenever you return from work)

Note:
That girlfriend you have will only give you attention and time because you are her payrolls directly and indirectly know to you.

Go and amend your marriage where necessary please. And stop looking outside your marriage.

Some women have fundamental issues.

Why can't she say what her problem is?

So a man will still come back from hustles and won't have peace in his house?

He should send that wittch parking..

My suggestion.
I'd you think she is cheating on you and you want to know who she talks with?

Get my number on my signature and text me on WhatsApp.

Let me teach you how to monitor her chat on WhatsApp and know who she communicates with.

I'll only teach you this for 1k.
Anyone is free to text me.

Once u pay we start immediately

IamReallyboy:
Help a brother,

If I touch my wife she frown, and complain she doesn't like it.

We have s*x only when she's in the mood, even if I romance her she complain of pain or give useless excuse to stop it.

My problem is, she no dey go out, no friends. Please any advice or help to this.

You probably got an oversized d!ck

She don't love you

Every woman crave for a touch


If yours is indifferent


Then seat down and find answers



From your self or from her

Then don't touch her ...wait for her to be in the mood. You have married her and entered one chance.

On another note...speak to her and find out

IamReallyboy:
Help a brother,

If I touch my wife she frown, and complain she doesn't like it.

We have s*x only when she's in the mood, even if I romance her she complain of pain or give useless excuse to stop it.

My problem is, she no dey go out, no friends. Please any advice or help to this.

Quality20:
Just accept her like that. Its good for a woman not to have many or any frieñds at all ,her staying at home always is a good thing. That's d type of lady I want . if u don't her just allow me to marry her

your funny

Afonjacrusder:


You are a dunce.

Dunce like ur dumb father

Reminderz:

possible things involved...

1) she's not sexually attracted to you..
2) she doesn't see you as a man she respect; a weak man.
3) she's cheating.
4) you don't take your personal hygiene seriously; you're not neat.
5) you don't know how to get a woman in the mood.
6) she's not performing her duties as your wife.
7) she knows you can't get it anywhere else so she keeps manipulating you with it; you've gat no options..

if the problem is 1, 2, 4 and 5, then the problem is you... if the problem is 3, 6 and 7, then don't also perform your duties on her, ignore her like she doesn't exist... she wants to friendzone you in the marriage, if she doesn't fvck you, who does she fvck? and did you meet her a virgin? if it persists, get another wife or cheat since she doesn't know what's expected of her, she should go back to her father's house if she's not emotionally matured enough to be married...

You Don try

If u guys dated before she married u then is either she no longer finds u attractive or ur fulfilling ur responsibilities as a husband or she's not happy with you because ur cheating on her. She's ur wife u should know better than us. Fix ur marriage small oga

Whatisurproblem:
you don't Rape your wife in Africa.

Toh😂

YelloweWest:


Na 100 rat poison go kill am, nake him dey play.

No woman will tolerate that bs long term.

Lol

The fact that "she doesn't have friends" bro you dont know what the lord has done for you

First thank God for that.


Keep your distance, dont make any sexual moves to her, ignore her, do like you no need sex, trust me she will crawl back to you begging to sit on your 🥒 before you know it


That gender get problem ehn

IamReallyboy:
Help a brother,

If I touch my wife she frown, and complain she doesn't like it.

We have s*x only when she's in the mood, even if I romance her she complain of pain or give useless excuse to stop it.

My problem is, she no dey go out, no friends. Please any advice or help to this.

IamReallyboy:
Help a brother,

If I touch my wife she frown, and complain she doesn't like it.

We have s*x only when she's in the mood, even if I romance her she complain of pain or give useless excuse to stop it.

My problem is, she no dey go out, no friends. Please any advice or help to this.

My brother, ignore that first comment. The person tried to blame your girl or you for the problem. I see she have garnered many likes.
Girls body is the most complicated of all. One year a girl maybe very active and the following year she may just not care again. There are several possibly biological and environmental reason.
One the workload of catering for the family may be daunting and leave her tired most time.
Two, it maybe that there are many challenges in the immediate and extended family that she unlike you always think about that leaves her stressed out.
And as some ladies age, the estrogen and other hormone level start reducing. This also reduces their urge. It get worse at menopause. Some of them may even suggest (unwillingly oh) that u should go and be getting sex outside. At points like this, it becomes JOB/WORK for them. And you know that working is not pleasing at all.
What you must do is
1. Research this things first so u can understand women.
2. Be empathetic.
3. Help out with chores especially when u have plan. Be deliberate.
4. Give gift or promise her even if it’s 500 naira card. This things increased dopamine level in their brain.
5. Then start teasing her early in the day and be letting her know in a playful way your real intentions.
6. Be neat and help make your bedroom and environment neat and conducive.
7. Know when she is tired, when she engages in less activities and planning and when she is fresh and probably in the mood. Some girls will react harshly when you try to initiate sex at just the point they are about to sleep. Start shooting your shot before this time like as soon as u are together in the room.
Some have the energy for sex immediately around the time they wake up and maybe at days they do not have immidiate obligations in the morning.
8. Talk to her about the problem and how it can affect marriage. Don’t threaten or blackmail. Just be skillful.
9. Seek counseling.
10. Seek medical help

Serendipity2023:


Some women have fundamental issues.

Why can't she say what her problem is?

So a man will still come back from hustles and won't have peace in his house?

He should send that wittch parking..

You are right and on point...
Sometimes individual adopt different styles to manipulate their spouses for moral and immoral reason best knows to them.
I will suggest he practice some of the tips for some weeks to perceive changes in her. Thereafter, he can decide what to do.

She's fallen out of love with you or she no longer finds you interesting sexually (you are boring on bed) or you hurt her a lot. Op pick 1.