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Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by anayolity: 2:18pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
Samantha124: Walai, this is soooo me, I'll rather keep shut and walk away 1 Like |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by correctguy101(m): 2:18pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
nkolakacharles: Valid point. Especially the bolded. Every person is a whole different world. And it's very unlikely that disagreements won't occur no matter how similar these worlds could seem. The only matter of note is how these differences are handled.... Silence is one of the responses, and I believe it's the job of the significant other to understand the kind of personality they're dealing with. And deal with it... You no go get woman wey silence be her response to an offense and let the matter continue like that. You gotta press her pincode and settle the matter as man wey you be.. If you no fit cope, go and look for another woman abeg, no waste ómó ólómó time... And same goes for you little girls. If your man dey crazy enough to do silence, abeg deal with it or leave immediately. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by pendragonbladgo(m): 2:18pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
I am ending a relationship that is almost going into marriage today. Why It's simple, I notice that this lady is a silent killer, she easily get off mood, and when she does. Just know you don't have her any longer until she regain her consciousness. And it kills me, cos am the type that love talking, joking and gisting. Even if I am angry, just sincere say sorry and casr close. But this lady, you go be tire, explain tire.... If not for her mum force me to always settle with her, we would have been off before date. I hate silence, it's a slow killer. Gun is better self! 1 Like |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by ATEAMS: 2:21pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
Theevilone: Abeg u no know weytin u dey talk so. |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by sudeba(m): 2:23pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
Think9ja: You have said it all.. One has to be extra careful with the female gender |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by lightwind(m): 2:24pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
tega192: Yorubas are hypocrites now don't you know before. They are complete backstabbers. They are one of the problem of this country |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by FireUpNow(m): 2:29pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
As for me, as e dey hot na so I dey serve her back though no quarrell and we will discuss issues in a peaceful way later. |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by loswhite(m): 2:32pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
meobizy:Don't date because your selfishness will destroy it before the shelf life...lol |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by pendragonbladgo(m): 2:34pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
anayolity:It kills relationship, instead settle the matter at once |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by ahnie: 2:35pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
We share these same similarities!I don't like talkertive partners either. 4KNGOATS: |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by highchief1: 2:35pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
nairamaniac:I get u bro.I have been married for over 15yrs and somehow it’s working for me.like I earlier said ppl are wired differently.I can be with u and u have 1bn and I need 200 naira to survive I won’t tell u.I’ll rather die than complain.I’m not an easy person. 2 Likes |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by pendragonbladgo(m): 2:40pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
Believe it or not, 90% of Nigerian ladies don't go to relationship or marriage for love or affection, what they do is transaction. Only Nigeria men go after a girl for either love or beauty and sex. Very few knows true love.... 1 Like |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by nairamaniac: 2:55pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
highchief1: Hmmm! So if your wife hammers 1billion naira today today, you won't discuss with her on what and what could be done with part or all of the money for the betterment of herself or the family? You would just keep quiet and ignore the good news like you are watching it all on TV? |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by nairamaniac: 3:04pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
anayolity: You would walk away completely silent from the marriage/relationship? Or you would walk away from the kitchen to the bedroom? Or from main house to boy's quarters? I guess everything is reformatted whenever you physically change location ? Wonderful She insults you in the dinning front of her relatives. You walk away to the bedroom, then it's like it never happened cos it's a brand new location? Or maybe she would never ever come to your new found location? 1 Like |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by Chrismentor3: 3:13pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
GYBABA: I hope you won't live to regret someday, you must not be apologizing because of conji, if you are wrong then it's good, else make her understand that she is wrong. Be a man 1 Like |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by professore(m): 3:27pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
When there is a healthy debate or even a heated argument in a relationship, it means that both people are trying to make their voices heard. They are trying to get their points across. They try to convince their partners of something or to convince themselves. However you divide it - opinions are on the table and you both know where the other stands. With silence, no one knows where the other stands. Mmm. |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by sfx9ja(m): 3:27pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
ItisWell22?.post=126549058:You just set my heart on fire. How can I know you? 1 Like |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by anayolity: 3:50pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
nairamaniac: Nahhh that's not, I may address the issue there and then if I find it very relevant to respond, I have a very terrible temper that no one knows about and the things I say when I'm angry are very crazy.... So if I see it's not important to talk because of the tension or things that are irreparable when the heat dies down.... We can always talk about it with a clear head |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by anayolity: 3:52pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
pendragonbladgo: There some relationship you find yourself, it automatically turns you into a talkative simply because you are trying to address a particular issue always.... Sometimes I walk away and take the action I told about, months or weeks ago. Communication is very vital in a relationship but sometimes action is more important 2 Likes |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by kokomilala(m): 4:00pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
Hubris Propped Up As Silence You're being diplomatic by calling it silence. It's what it is- hubris, pride, airs and insufferable arrogance. Why, for the life of me, would u ignore your partner in a relationship? Worse still, why would you choose to abuse your partner emotionally? It's a form of abuse. Communication is key. It's needed in every relationship. Partners have to communicate better to be able to build their relationship. Some people don't communicate well at all- deliberately or unwittingly. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by Dancebreaker: 4:10pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
When relationships are based on a faulty foundation, for security, to meet societal expectations, tick the boxes, etc. How many even know how co communicate? |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by Iamzik: 4:14pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
GYBABA: This is the weakness of most men and women understand this so they weaponize sex and will refuse to apologize when they are wrong. I don't condone such bad behaviour from my babe. She can keep her sex. There are many women in the world. An adult should be able to verbally apologize and mean it when she's wrong. 2 Likes |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by nairamaniac: 4:21pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
anayolity: Well it's best as you know how to handle your own temperament. I see nothing wrong in talking about things with a clear head. Infact I do that too. But just pray not to jam those kinds of idiots that would still chatise you for "habouring issues in your mind over a period of time". Those are the worst kinds of idiots. No matter your kind manner of bringing up the past issues. They would still see you as evil for storing it in your mind for period of time. Most women&men are like that. |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by nairamaniac: 4:57pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
anayolity:If you cannot express yourself without hurting who offended you, it means you are worse than your offender. Or have a worseoff problem than he/she does. Meaning in hindsight(after you have been offended) , you had deserved the offense that you experienced from your partner. |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by deardear2021(f): 5:27pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
Long silence in a good relationship leads to too many negative assumptions and it's never healthy. Thanks for sharing nkolakacharles: |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by anayolity: 6:10pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
nairamaniac: My dear, you see those people who sometimes say they don't carry things on their mind are the worst..... If something happens the first time depends on how serious it is, I'll give it a benefit of doubt, try it again and see. People don't understand that someone can forget how you slapped them but not what you said to them. |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by anayolity: 6:13pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
nairamaniac: Sometimes it's better to address issues with a clear head especially when you know how angry you get and the things you say..... I can't hurt my loved one with certain words simply because I'm trying to solve an issue on the spot. I'd rather be at peace than be right sometimes |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by 24dro(m): 6:14pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
syntekelite:Well i speak from my own experience and people i've encounted, most quiet people are mean. Be that as it may, they talk alot once they comfortable around and always willing to help. |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by ojex004: 6:37pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
tega192: Shut up or start the protest from ur sadeast region now. Later now una go dey lie say no be south west dey lead why una follow follow. 3rd citozens |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by Atolu01: 7:30pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
kokomilala: Sigh. |
Re: How Silence Can Destroy A Relationship by Raylight2(m): 9:28pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
tega192:you never enter street? |
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