Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Samuelojonla123(m): 8:48am On Nov 17, 2023 |
Adasun: I have that in mind bro, couple with other attacks the family face...
Bro I need guidance on where to go... I'll advise you visit any celestial church close to you just tell them you want to Sona for yourself in yoruba word, the prophet will understand and reveal any issue tacking your bro spiritually and give you the right solution, that's all. But if you're in Abk area I might link you up with a church. Peace 1 Like |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by We4all: 12:47pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
Adasun: he was a normal child, nothing...all this started all of a sudden Then you already have the answer. Get him psychological help because it is obvious the death of your dad might have hit him hard. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by brawlings(m): 12:53pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
Adasun: I have that in mind bro, couple with other attacks the family face...
Bro I need guidance on where to go... 'Where to go'? Seek the help of a mental health professional. The change in behaviour could be as a result of internal and external factors that can be diagnosed by a psychiatrist. As vague as this may sound; a change of enviroment and the presence of a 'caring father' figure (you) might be all he needs to restore 'factory settings'. 4 Likes |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Adasun(m): 6:57pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
brawlings: 'Where to go'? Seek the help of a mental health professional. The change in behaviour could be as a result of internal and external factors that can be diagnosed by a psychiatrist. As vague as this may sound; a change of enviroment and the presence of a 'caring father' figure (you) might be all he needs to restore 'factory settings'.
thank you, I will try and bring to stay with me in school 1 Like |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Adasun(m): 6:58pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
We4all:
Then you already have the answer. Get him psychological help because it is obvious the death of your dad might have hit him hard. for a child at that age, well I will try. Thank you 1 Like |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Adasun(m): 6:59pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
Samuelojonla123:
I'll advise you visit any celestial church close to you just tell them you want to Sona for yourself in yoruba word, the prophet will understand and reveal any issue tacking your bro spiritually and give you the right solution, that's all. But if you're in Abk area I might link you up with a church. Peace no, I am in jos 1 Like |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Lance008(m): 2:28pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
I laugh u U say ur dad death no real Na ur own bro case come real ? 1 Like |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Jewessgratitud3: 9:23pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Everyone is shouting mental case. Is it mental case that makes one steal?
Me thinks it's drugs related. Check the kind of friends he keeps and monitor the places he goes to. He must have been introduced to drugs by older boys in the street.
Tell your Mom and siblings to monitor him then if drug is not the case, take him to the hospital to see a psychiatrist. Don't take him to any fetish spiritual home . If you must go spiritual, go to MFM for deliverance sessions or bring him to the RCCG Holy Ghost Congress take him to the altar and pray by faith, he'll be healed. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by KingOfAllIgbos: 9:25pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
I can assure you the problem started decades ago.
An older male is often required to straighten kids like this. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by chaloskyx: 9:26pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
abandon him and tell your mum to guve you another brother no time for nonsense |
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Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Hamachi(f): 9:26pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
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Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by pirlzwestern(m): 9:27pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Please go home more often and spend quality time with your family. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Slurity(m): 9:31pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Adasun: I will try and make this story short and I need your advice please...
I lost my dad March this year... His death was not natural but I won't bore you with details.
We did the burial rights and I move back to school.before I left, I noticed my brother who is 14yrs have this spiritual paranoia...he suspect many who came for condolences as if they were coming to attack...
I calm him down during those period and let him know that nothing is after him or us.
I left, only for my mum to call me that something is not right with my bro... He talks to himself, seems lost sometimes and have little to no regards for anyone.
They have taken him to many spiritual house and they still point to the person responsible for my dad's death- a neighbor.
This boy hates mum for no reason and often said she is not her mother.he sometimes threatened to kidnapped his immediate Younger brother or slap his elder sister.
He becomes aggressive and most painful part of it all right now is that he steal.
Meat, money.he just develop the habit of stealing. I have not visited home since I left but I need your advice. As the first born, I need to take some drastic step.
How do I handle thia?spiritual, psychological and any way possible to retrieve my Lovely lad, such advice is most welcome.
Thanks... what you call spiritual look like phycological problem to me. Though it may be spiritual as nothing is impossible in Africa. He need iron hand can prayers |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by kkins25(m): 9:33pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
mental health issues!!!! |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by gideonohiri(m): 9:33pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Osoboshi: Classic case of schizophrenia,take him to a psychiatrist asap. The death of ur father might have triggered it Kindly do take him to see a mental and behavioural specialist (psy) first and follow up with prayers. Na God de heal. Could be schizophrenia |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by sallazlee(m): 9:33pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Your brother is having mental disorder. He need to visit psychiatric hospital |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by atiku4President(m): 9:36pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
How can we help you without seeing his picture? Or a video of him being stubborn? |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Zeebuy: 9:38pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Adasun: he was a normal child, nothing...all this started all of a sudden The loss of his father left him with so much shock he's now paranoid Please visit a psychiatrist asap 1 Like |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by do4luv14(m): 9:39pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Adasun: I will try and make this story short and I need your advice please...
I lost my dad March this year... His death was not natural but I won't bore you with details.
We did the burial rights and I move back to school.before I left, I noticed my brother who is 14yrs have this spiritual paranoia...he suspect many who came for condolences as if they were coming to attack...
I calm him down during those period and let him know that nothing is after him or us.
I left, only for my mum to call me that something is not right with my bro... He talks to himself, seems lost sometimes and have little to no regards for anyone.
They have taken him to many spiritual house and they still point to the person responsible for my dad's death- a neighbor.
This boy hates mum for no reason and often said she is not her mother.he sometimes threatened to kidnapped his immediate Younger brother or slap his elder sister.
He becomes aggressive and most painful part of it all right now is that he steal.
Meat, money.he just develop the habit of stealing. I have not visited home since I left but I need your advice. As the first born, I need to take some drastic step.
How do I handle thia?spiritual, psychological and any way possible to retrieve my Lovely lad, such advice is most welcome.
Thanks... Consult your elders, your fathers people, Same with your mums people Beside how sure are you that your father Death isn't natural |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by StraightGaay: 9:42pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Oga na Juvenile delinquency. Your brois taking mmpurumiri. Peer pressure. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by ExudeLoveToAll: 9:44pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Mindlog:
What was his relationship with his/your dad like before his death?
There is need for him to be urgently seen by a Psychiatrist whose specialty is in Child and Adolescent Psychiatry (though they are few in Nigeria). I know families are more reluctant in bringing their young ones to a Child and Adolescent Psychiatric Clinic but the earlier, the better.
I know what the diagnosis will be, based on what you have shared, so there is urgent need for a diagnosis so treatment can start immediately. OP please take this advice and act accordingly. |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Kobojunkie: 9:46pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: ■ Everyone shouting mental case. Is it mental case that makes one steal? Me thinks it's drugs related. Check the kind of friends he keeps and monitor the places he goes to. He must have been introduced to drugs by older boys in the street. Tell your Mom and siblings to monitor him then if drug is not the case, take him to the hospital to see a psychiatrist. Don't take him to any fetish spiritual home . If you must go spiritual, go to MFM for deliverance sessions or bring him to the RCCG Holy Ghost Congress take him to the altar and pray by faith, he'll be healed. In some cases, yes! Kleptomania (klep-toe-MAY-nee-uh) is a mental health disorder that involves repeatedly being unable to resist urges to steal items that you generally don't really need. Often the items stolen have little value and you could afford to buy them. Kleptomania is rare but can be a serious condition. Symptoms Kleptomania symptoms may include:
▢ Inability to resist powerful urges to steal items that you don't need ▢ Feeling increased tension, anxiety or arousal leading up to the theft ▢ Feeling pleasure, relief or satisfaction while stealing ▢ Feeling terrible guilt, remorse, self-loathing, shame or fear of arrest after the theft ▢ Return of the urges and a repetition of the kleptomania cycle
Features People with kleptomania usually have these features or characteristics:
▢ Unlike most shoplifters, people with kleptomania don't compulsively steal for personal gain, on a dare, for revenge or out of rebellion. They steal simply because the urge is so powerful that they can't resist it. ▢ Episodes of kleptomania generally happen suddenly, without planning and without help from another person. ▢ Most people with kleptomania steal from public places, such as stores. Some may steal from friends or acquaintances, such as at a party. ▢ Often, the stolen items have no value to the person with kleptomania, and the person can afford to buy them. ▢ The stolen items are usually stashed away, never to be used. Items also may be donated, given away to family or friends, or even secretly returned to the place from which they were stolen. ▢ Urges to steal may come and go or may occur with greater or lesser intensity over time.
Kleptomania 1 Like |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by SAMBARRY: 9:47pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
You sure say your brother don go join cult?
Because all the characteristics you put down here show say he don go join some low life riffraffs wey dey ginger am and give am narcotics wey dey mess with him mental health.you sure say the boy don go put hand inside juju wey pass am?
Because you gave the attributes of a typical cultists.na them dey steal,harass,threaten etc.anyway you need to act fast.first ensure you never leave him alone with your mother this one he's saying he hates her.he fit rape or kill her.theres no limit to the kind of absurdity people wey don join hooligans fit do.again take him out of your house and out of the reach of your mom because he can get violent and murderous considering that he's acting irrational.he has become a danger to himself and those around him 1 Like |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Edusouls(m): 9:48pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Adasun: I will try and make this story short and I need your advice please...
I lost my dad March this year... His death was not natural but I won't bore you with details.
We did the burial rights and I move back to school.before I left, I noticed my brother who is 14yrs have this spiritual paranoia...he suspect many who came for condolences as if they were coming to attack...
I calm him down during those period and let him know that nothing is after him or us.
I left, only for my mum to call me that something is not right with my bro... He talks to himself, seems lost sometimes and have little to no regards for anyone.
They have taken him to many spiritual house and they still point to the person responsible for my dad's death- a neighbor.
This boy hates mum for no reason and often said she is not her mother.he sometimes threatened to kidnapped his immediate Younger brother or slap his elder sister.
He becomes aggressive and most painful part of it all right now is that he steal.
Meat, money.he just develop the habit of stealing. I have not visited home since I left but I need your advice. As the first born, I need to take some drastic step.
How do I handle thia?spiritual, psychological and any way possible to retrieve my Lovely lad, such advice is most welcome.
Thanks... trauma of ur dads death had destabilized ur brother, he is suffering from depression , panic attacks, or anxiety disorder talk with ur mum stop visiting all these fake spiritualists putting more confusion into ur family, thread with caution or ur brothers life would be destroyed at such a young age, take him to a physiologist or a psychiatrist immediately, there are drugs for treatment 3 Likes |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by MetaFiles230709: 9:49pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Does he know any one by name tinubu |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Slurity(m): 9:49pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Samuelojonla123:
I'll advise you visit any celestial church close to you just tell them you want to Sona for yourself in yoruba word, the prophet will understand and reveal any issue tacking your bro spiritually and give you the right solution, that's all. But if you're in Abk area I might link you up with a church. Peace celestial church? Hmmm. Using soiled sponge to wash a soiled cup. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Pat081: 9:51pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Gbadugbakun: Whenever you go home, buy like 6 canes. Tie him to a pole or something and pieces the canes on his body. He would change for the Best. one soja will do the job for him bros 1 Like |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Samade7: 9:51pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
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Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by jokaka89: 9:53pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
BRING HIM TO THE ARMY BARACKS. WE WILL HELP YOU. Adasun: I will try and make this story short and I need your advice please...
I lost my dad March this year... His death was not natural but I won't bore you with details.
We did the burial rights and I move back to school.before I left, I noticed my brother who is 14yrs have this spiritual paranoia...he suspect many who came for condolences as if they were coming to attack...
I calm him down during those period and let him know that nothing is after him or us.
I left, only for my mum to call me that something is not right with my bro... He talks to himself, seems lost sometimes and have little to no regards for anyone.
They have taken him to many spiritual house and they still point to the person responsible for my dad's death- a neighbor.
This boy hates mum for no reason and often said she is not her mother.he sometimes threatened to kidnapped his immediate Younger brother or slap his elder sister.
He becomes aggressive and most painful part of it all right now is that he steal.
Meat, money.he just develop the habit of stealing. I have not visited home since I left but I need your advice. As the first born, I need to take some drastic step.
How do I handle thia?spiritual, psychological and any way possible to retrieve my Lovely lad, such advice is most welcome.
Thanks... 1 Like |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Jemex003: 9:53pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Adasun: I will try and make this story short and I need your advice please...
I lost my dad March this year... His death was not natural but I won't bore you with details.
We did the burial rights and I move back to school.before I left, I noticed my brother who is 14yrs have this spiritual paranoia...he suspect many who came for condolences as if they were coming to attack...
I calm him down during those period and let him know that nothing is after him or us.
I left, only for my mum to call me that something is not right with my bro... He talks to himself, seems lost sometimes and have little to no regards for anyone.
They have taken him to many spiritual house and they still point to the person responsible for my dad's death- a neighbor.
This boy hates mum for no reason and often said she is not her mother.he sometimes threatened to kidnapped his immediate Younger brother or slap his elder sister.
He becomes aggressive and most painful part of it all right now is that he steal.
Meat, money.he just develop the habit of stealing. I have not visited home since I left but I need your advice. As the first born, I need to take some drastic step.
How do I handle thia?spiritual, psychological and any way possible to retrieve my Lovely lad, such advice is most welcome.
Thanks... What’s he’s real name and state of origin? You can’t blame him if he inherited the attitude from those people we shouldn’t mention their names |
Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Chetas81(m): 9:55pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
HOW MANY TIME YOU POST THIS TO GENERATE TRAFFIC ABBBBBBI O SINWIN NIIIII 1 Like |