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Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by Dshocker(m): 4:34am On Jan 03 |
Jeon: Of which you will be part of, whether you like it or not. I understand how you feel, wait, till you cross the level of juvenile delinquent, then you will see the need, that you must get married. |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by Dshocker(m): 4:39am On Jan 03 |
Schoolshooter: Don't do the mistake to leave your wife behind, because another man will be helping you 1 Like |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by GUNITGuy: 5:25am On Jan 03 |
Believe this one even USA and CANADA ... Especially Canada are worse for this ..if you think you can turn heads in Naija and they would buy a house for you I beg better stay there because outside it doesn't work like that ....Then you would know Naija men are the Best Simps in the world 3 Likes |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by Gerrard59(m): 5:46am On Jan 03 |
Mayplays: You made great points about black women's desirability regarding dressing. However, I think it is cultural because, in East Asia, it is perfectly OK for young women to wear short skirts and shorts showing their thighs brazenly. The shorts are so short. Yet, the men don't mind and actually love it. Although, there exists a category that dresses like Deeper Life Women. Basically, half dress like Deeper Life, the other half like Christ Embassy. This is more prevalent among Koreans and Japanese. The Chinese tend to be a little bit conservative. Something like RCCG or Catholic Churches women. |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by Amedu3: 6:17am On Jan 03 |
True talk |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by PoliteActivist: 6:27am On Jan 03 |
Eriokanmi: *Politeness* Not really so. The truth is that certain things are simply more appealing to the human eye than others. Why do white women risk cancer and spend so much on tanning saloons and hours in the sun trying to get darker? Simple: it is more beautiful. How come we don't consider it inferiority complex that they're trying to change their complexion? I wore my hair natural for a time then decided there is no point to doing that. To myself (just to myself, nobody else) I don't look my best in my natural hair |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by PoliteActivist: 6:32am On Jan 03 |
Dynamicboss: What advice do you have for all these people trapped (and I mean really trapped) in unhappy prison (marriage) |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by PoliteActivist: 6:43am On Jan 03 |
blaise26abj: They expect to come back to Nigeria and marry and the wife to be exactly the same when they get abroad. Environment changes people. That is human nature |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by Observatory: 7:09am On Jan 03 |
You still dey find better accent , you never dey find husband |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by ssogundele(m): 7:18am On Jan 03 |
Animegirl: How far about that unattractive man in your life? Hope you're returning all those goodies he got for you? Kindly do that! |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by ChiefThot(m): 7:20am On Jan 03 |
victorVIC1: ME too movement. No man will pick a random off the street in his car, only for the money-hungry random to claim he raped her or sexually assaulted her in his car. Besides, walking is good for them. Let the sun beat the smell out of their unwashed wigs. |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by elonize(m): 7:29am On Jan 03 |
U don't think its accurate, cos even dat side too,men r becoming scarce.they r afraid of their women.she talking of care, she might mean d man taking all d financial responsibilities as she's used to here. If ders 10 girls,u take dem out on a separate outing.u will find out dat almost 10 of dem wants u to pay for d items bought. U barely c an average Nigerian girl take a boy out n pay for it.or even let d situation go dutch,u pay for urs n I pay for mine. If dat happens, u won't ever c dat girl pick ur calls,infact she will block u..d next tin she's gonna say n tell her frnds is dat he's stingy. But if dem reach abroad,story dey change |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by elonize(m): 7:33am On Jan 03 |
biaframaster200:dis 1 na lie.oyibo ladies dey double date, some of dem C our lives n ders,na small difference na dey. Their social, economical, political lives r well built.n d system works. Nor cm dey berate d Nigerian ladies |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by elonize(m): 7:48am On Jan 03 |
Mayplays:u can't say wen men start to appreciate d women, dey will bring themselves low.wen our parents married,dey didn't wait for men to praise dem. If u have been following up wat most of our Nigeria girls do,den u will understand... Smtimes,its hard to explain y fate will not let d good girls meet good guys...maybe ders a lesson dat fate wants dem to learn..just pray.. But u c our modern Nigeria girls,nor vex..most of dem has wired demselves negatively, cos of trends,bad frnds,copying rubbish ideas frm d west..how many of dem av good home training |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by elonize(m): 8:03am On Jan 03 |
Eriokanmi:sm ppo here are claiming dat a white man loves it natural ,dats y dey dont go for black girls... U c d nonsense dey r saying as if white women dont wear hair |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by elonize(m): 8:06am On Jan 03 |
spiSeyi:guy leave dem o..all those claiming na whites b d best to marry..but yet dem no dey reason say their divorce rate has tripled more Dan bfor... I dey look dem dey laugh😂😂 2 Likes |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by elonize(m): 8:09am On Jan 03 |
LilMissFavvy:nor mind her...dat mentality hasn't left her despite being abroad |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by Mayplays(f): 8:14am On Jan 03 |
Gerrard59:Even in those countries, girls that dress like that are not seen as the cream of the crop, it’s just that everyone is well to do so it doesn’t matter |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by Sheriman(m): 8:16am On Jan 03 |
ednut1:On minimum wage of £30K per year. They are mad! |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by DarkJeddi(m): 8:19am On Jan 03 |
Gerrard59:I think you are jumbling too many things together.. First of, women and mothers are the ones who directly affect their daughter's societal norms,not men.. You can't treat a man like he is irrelevant in the home and turn around to blame him,when things go wrong.. You create a toxic environment,call men deadbeat Dads and when things go wrong you use them as scapegoats,nah! Secondly we have seen this victim mentality all the time and it doesn't fly.. Many black women are inherently crass,obnoxious,lousy and disrespectful.. And it doesn't have anything to do with their upbringing, it's just a fabric of who they are.. It's all about NATURE and NURTURE, there are others brought up in whatever excuses you want to give that turned out good.. Whether Blacks or not.. |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by Mayplays(f): 8:30am On Jan 03 |
elonize:Lol. My parents generation is that of Omotola and Genievieve. They weren’t that different from us. Lol. They copied negative trends from the west too. Yep. I’m embarrassed to be identified as a Nigerian girl sometimes, even other African countries are aware of what’s going on It’s shameful, even I won’t believe myself if I come out and say I made it on my own without any man but indeed I did |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by Jagabanarmy: 8:48am On Jan 03 |
Thundafireseun:Take it easy.. bruh |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by Kaycee54321(m): 9:27am On Jan 03 |
Mayplays: "Pussy and suck.." "I swear to God, my money is a fire that cannot be consumed..." You sure say no be Naija Yahoo boy be this? 😕 |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by MrSly(m): 9:33am On Jan 03 |
Jeon: Entitlement mentality at work again. You are not any different from a regular Nigeria girl. 2 Likes |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by Mayplays(f): 9:38am On Jan 03 |
Kaycee54321:We video called many times. I’m not so naive. I can spot a yahoo boy from a million miles away, don’t ask me how |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by Kaycee54321(m): 9:40am On Jan 03 |
Mayplays: Oh, that was a tongue in cheek comment... I didn't necessarily mean you were naive...his English was just sounding like Nigerian English or the adulterated version of English spoken by Asians... |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by Mayplays(f): 9:49am On Jan 03 |
Kaycee54321: Yeah. He was quite illiterate and didn’t know how to speak much English, from one of those backwater European countries like Georgia. Also it’s obvious that he loves black people and want to act like them He even pretended he was black till I saw him 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by jerrytee48(m): 9:54am On Jan 03 |
Is it not the same UK that my gf went and she stopped talking to me? Cus I’m sure she has seen someone there probably a Nigerian guy sef |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by Alatise777(m): 10:11am On Jan 03 |
Fiscus105:hmm o deep o |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by usagee36: 12:16pm On Jan 03 |
That man or woman you marry will in turn use you. |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by Gerrard59(m): 12:21pm On Jan 03 |
Mayplays: I am a fan of mini-skirts and shorts, but I am forced to agree with you about the bold. I am yet to see medical students dress like that. They are very conservative. Also, you are correct that the issue of some black women dressing scantily has to do with poverty, both financial and mental. You made great points. Well done! 2 Likes |
Re: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by Eriokanmi: 12:38pm On Jan 03 |
elonize:You're not getting it. White women mostly look natural. Check anyone who wears hair among them. It's either they suffer hair loss or something happened to it. Those of us who have lived among them would understand this |
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