Inukwa ooooo

Dey play

Wifey got the message loud and clear🤣

You seem to be taking this personal.

I guess you can't cook yourself.

That's fine. As long as you are exceptionally beautiful, sexy and perhaps light skinned.

Then you can be a trophy wife of a rich man and do little or nothing as there will be a retinue of domestic staff to take care of him for you

EreluRoz:
Can you sacrifice what you ain't good at ? There are other ways to show love and why do you assume all women can cook? There are homes where the man is in charge of the cooking and they are waxing stronger

Feminists in 2015 to 2024:

•I don't cook.

I don't clean.

I don't want kids.

Uhhhh where are all the good men?!?

They are:

At home with their wives that are cooking, cleaning & raising their kids being great moms.

I'm sorry you were lied to but it is what it is.

turmacs:
Very useless women. As a man, this is how you know you've married nonsense. I don't just know why some women will know what is right for their husbands and for the sake of their marriage, but they will want to wait first and see if the man will start getting it from outside or not, before they sit up, useless women everywhere. That's how one of my neighbor suddenly started going to the gym to reduce her weight and fat tummy, because e be like say her husband don begin dey romance other gials outside 😹 but the mumu was waiting for her husband to start cheating before she does the needful, nonsense.

Are you a Harlot I'm asking because of your dp...

nlfpmod:
Viral 2 spoons story in Nigeria: A man’s female coworker cooks & brings extra homemade lunch & 2 spoons so they can share everyday.

Man’s wife started cooking & packing his lunch to stop that.

A social media user, MumZee Debbie, who shared the 2 spoons story wrote:



Another lady, Ms. Nadi Madisha shared:



What's your response to this?

The competition is realz.........
Gone are the days of sacrosanct relationships.....you fight for what you got daily.....
Women need men too and are ready to make up even with women's husbands.

Prec1ous:
From using two spoons to spooning!

Male named Precious 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Comrade I hail o

Uche is facing more than her work

God forbid me to wake up so early to cook for any man.

EreluRoz:
Not all women enjoys cooking, which means a woman might love you and still struggle to cook for you because she doesn't enjoy doing it

exactly. the man can then find comfort in the company of a woman that does not struggle cooking for him. its not that he does not love his wife, its just that he does not enjoy starving

taiwotimitt:


Male named Precious 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Comrade I hail o

Don't be stupid.

So you don't know male also answer to that name?

EreluRoz:
Mtcheww . A woman should not have problems cooking for her man as long as he provides.

Just pray make you no jam such women.
I repeat just pray.

I have colleagues that have never brought food from home to work.

They will buy break fast,buy lunch, the only thing they eat at home is dinner.

Tueh

In my 12 years of working with these guys, it irritates me to see this trend.

At least there should be a day your wife will make something nice for you to take to work, Lai lai, nothing of such.

I thank God for my own oh.

Prec1ous:
From using two spoons to spooning!

I swear. One day the co worker would be like,"Oh, I was in a hurry and didn't remember to bring a spoon for you. Let's share this".

BloomingDale:
God forbid me to wake up so early to cook for any man.

Speaks more about your decision making skills.

You couldn't/ can't pick a man worth it.

The wife should get more lazier till the female coworker start serving the husband that special meal in between her legs then she stop being lazy.

This thread don enter Nairaland

There is LOVE in sharing.

OP, you failed fo bring the complete substance of this story from twitter. Now the commentators here are already bashing the woman in question out of misinformation.

Have you bothered to tell them that this story resulted in a fierce twitter battle between Feminists and Patriarchs? As we speak the woman in question has been gifted over 2 million naira by Nigerian men, all in appreciation for her commitment to her marriage and love for her husband.

Una can twist stories for this nairaland sha! No wonder Seun dey chop ban anyhow.

turmacs:
Very useless women. As a man, this is how you know you've married nonsense. I don't just know why some women will know what is right for their husbands and for the sake of their marriage, but they will want to wait first and see if the man will start getting it from outside or not, before they sit up, useless women everywhere. That's how one of my neighbor suddenly started going to the gym to reduce her weight and fat tummy, because e be like say her husband don begin dey romance other gials outside 😹 but the mumu was waiting for her husband to start cheating before she does the needful, nonsense.

Don't mind them. They'll be claiming gender this gender that. She should have waited for them to snach her husband. Ode buruku.

EreluRoz:
Not all women enjoys cooking, which means a woman might love you and still struggle to cook for you because she doesn't enjoy doing it

I NO GREE OOO.
Saying because a woman doesn't like cooking but loves her husband flies as an excuse for the husband to tolerate that is utter rubbish. It's just akin to saying that a married woman who doesn't like cleaning or breastfeeding a newborn child should be tolerated. She must understand that as a married woman, she is EXPECTED to fulfill her duties as a wife or mother whether she naturally likes it or not. If she couldn't cope with cooking, why den did she decide to get married in the first place and then later subject the man to feel like he is still a bachelor in his married home.
Even in western world where feminism and wokeness is highly propagated, the married women there wake up on time to prepare breakfast and prep the kids for school.

Prec1ous:


Don't be stupid.

So you don't know male also answer to that name?

You chose to be stupid when you don't have sense of humor

At this stage of my life, I no fit dey stress wifey for somethings. Things she doesn't want to do or doesn't know she is supposed to do, another woman go do am.

@OP:

I believe there is this instinct to 'protect' what is ours.

I remember when a colleague's wife started making a type of salad for her hubby because he bought custom home made salad from another female colleague.

A married colleague collecting specially made meal from another colleague is actually crossing boundaries.

If it once stemming from a discussion or the colleague has become a friend of the family, it is a different case.

Hehe. Atleast no be one spoon dem de share

oz4real83:
Competition always brings out the best in people, businesses and many other things. Monopoly has never helped any country. This woman saw a potential competition and suddenly brought out her best to nip an inexistent competition in the bud

Kobojunkie:
By the time she starts experiencing a receding hairline, depression, and maybe weight gain as a result of all that stress she is putting herself through thinking she has to compete with others for her husband, be sure to tell her it is all worth it too.

True! She might as well ignore the other woman cooking for the husband.

EreluRoz:
Not all women enjoys cooking, which means a woman might love you and still struggle to cook for you because she doesn't enjoy doing it

And I think that is where the word SACRIFICE was coined...You do things you don't like doing for the sake of those you loved....As a man, do you think we like going to work by 5am, everyday just to make sure we pay our bills and provide for those we love...No we don't!
I jokingly told a colleague recently that I can afford to resign my job by end of February, because my Jan/Feb salary is enough for me to manage till Dec, if am ALONE!!!

turmacs:
Very useless women. As a man, this is how you know you've married nonsense. I don't just know why some women will know what is right for their husbands and for the sake of their marriage, but they will want to wait first and see if the man will start getting it from outside or not, before they sit up, useless women everywhere. That's how one of my neighbor suddenly started going to the gym to reduce her weight and fat tummy, because e be like say her husband don begin dey romance other gials outside 😹 but the mumu was waiting for her husband to start cheating before she does the needful, nonsense.

Shut it, you're the useless one here. It's very obvious that you're not married or you're a baby mama.
Your duties as a wife evolves, that you are not doing something today doesn't mean you won't do it tomorrow.

turmacs:
Very useless women. As a man, this is how you know you've married nonsense. I don't just know why some women will know what is right for their husbands and for the sake of their marriage, but they will want to wait first and see if the man will start getting it from outside or not, before they sit up, useless women everywhere. That's how one of my neighbor suddenly started going to the gym to reduce her weight and fat tummy, because e be like say her husband don begin dey romance other gials outside 😹 but the mumu was waiting for her husband to start cheating before she does the needful, nonsense.

Why are u bitter over someone that is happily serving her husband? Social media is menace. Someone is happy you are forcing the person to think she's not happy. Is your home happier than her own? That's if u have one.. then STFU