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Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by Kobojunkie: 9:31pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Mimicle101:This has been the near-norm since even the 80s in that same Nigeria. The culture has almost always worshipped money so I am not certain why people cry when this reality reveals itself in their marriages. If you were a woman yourself, you would probably have behaved exactly as your wife did so don't pretend you are so different particularly since you confess that like so many other Nigerian men you also married because of culture thinking you could somehow play/manipulate culture to your benefit. 2. They didn't show you more respect. Rather, they showed you their culture and priorities are quite different from your culture. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by 0taPiaPia(m): 10:06pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
RDX TINUBUISMAD: This here deserves to replace the FTC comment and thread closed. |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by djon78(m): 10:50pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
GVTAsiwaju: Actually time heals everything Moreover like I have read many times Women don't Love Men in many marital Union So when there's is a break up Men find it hard to move on because they were the ones that loved with there heart With time your heart will be mended And one thing you will do is dead this thing called love What you owe a woman is your duties to her not Love I remember the time I was like you But I have become much wiser now My heart doesn't belong to any woman My heart belongs to my purpose, my hustles, the main ambition I want to achieve and the Mark I want to leave in my generation when I am fine And to raise up my successors and make sure they can handle all my achievements while I am still alive But to put a woman in my heart I dey craze That's the drift You must find better ambition Woman isn't an ambition And the earliest you know this The better for you 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by LilMissFavvy(f): 3:45am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Return to your wife. Cancel the divorce proceedings. |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by GVTAsiwaju(m): 6:30am On Nov 29, 2023 |
LilMissFavvy: How do I cancel what I didn't initiate? |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by Afodot0022(m): 8:52am On Nov 29, 2023 |
I know this might the most traumatic and bitter phase of your life but bro, you gonna be fine, i have experienced this before and do understand how you feel. at times you feel you have moved on and at times you get stock in your emotional roller-coaster again especially when you know she doesn't care if the relationship moves or when she started seeing someone else, that will totally tear you apart but you just have to be strong and move on, despite am separated from my wife for close to a year now, i still miss her and still love her even despite the fact have meet other ladies that are even better than her, we have two girls together to make matter worst, i just find it difficult to move on cos we married for 6years and the bond was already there, it wasn't easy to let go, but for your own happiness and health, let her go, have fun, enjoy yourself, if its destined for you both to still be together despite all this, believe me, you guys will find yourself together again. Now i believe that divorce is even more worst experience that a terrible marriage cos the emotional and psychological trauma and pain you feel after divorce is crazy. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by Mimicle101: 9:32am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Afodot0022: like eh Never sacrifice anything to please a woman. even when you do heaven and earth for them. the one that will betray you will. i think Judas in the bible must be a woman 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by DonroxyII: 11:34am On Nov 29, 2023 |
GVTAsiwaju:You are just "Emotional" That's what makes someone not to quickly forget the other ... The other party is less emotional ..... Emotions is what makes us Good People But You Must Manned Up & Allow Your Body to processed it all while you faced your Realities..... You must be Realistic & Face Realities Heads On with time Your Body will adjust(Adapted) to Realities! |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by DonroxyII: 11:46am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Justkatty:Boys That are Raised By "Women" or Single Mothers or Their Dads is Mostly Not in The Pictures or Their Dad is Effeminate Himself are Mostly "Emotional" instead of Reasonable ... Nevertheless Everyone has a Breaking Points in the Long-run Where Your Basket of Emotions & Tears Will Just Be Broken & The Streams of Cry 😢 will flow Like River Amazon ! |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by DonroxyII: 11:48am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Whatisurproblem:Why Can't You Sit down & Check Yourself for the Gaps in Your Manliness .... There must have been an issue with your women's management Skills ! |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by Simonsmg: 2:06pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
What is that thing you love most about your ex wife ? Try and swift it to another thing, try and create hatred for it . Develop likeness for something else in another lady, with prayers you will forget your ex-wife . Your brain is like a computer use it ! Love is strong pray . |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by Pinkeyes: 2:32pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
See comments, and Black men pretend not to cry over a woman. |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by Justkatty(f): 3:36pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
DonroxyII:Word!!! 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by Whatisurproblem(m): 5:39pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
DonroxyII:you are right, I've decided to avoid woman for the rest of my life, I don't need them again. My life is better now without woman. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by Sambab(m): 7:29pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by GVTAsiwaju(m): 9:09pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Afodot0022: Divorce is worse than a bad marriage o |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by Kobojunkie: 9:53pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
GVTAsiwaju:If say Osinachi dey here, she go call you out for the liar that you are in this! |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by Elvisbandi(m): 10:44am On Nov 30, 2023 |
You just have to stop reading your previous conversations You have to stop texting if they're not replying any of your text and you have to engage yourself in things that will keep you busy Especially having a side income that gives you at least 5k - 10k a week There's nothing more important than making money and taking care of yourself and your family I can actually show you have to make up to 10k a week, just reply this comment and I will show you Make money and forget your ex, they are gone.... |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by GVTAsiwaju(m): 8:33pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
Elvisbandi: Ok. Show me how to make N1m a day instead |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by walyx(m): 6:30am On Dec 01, 2023 |
Stevenbright: A point to note, especially for me. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by fman(m): 4:44pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
placeofallure:Ode. |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by fman(m): 4:46pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
BXNX:Oloribruku |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by fman(m): 4:47pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
Obierika:Ewu awusa |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by fman(m): 4:49pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
GVTAsiwaju:Oloribruku you think say I care to know where u r from? Deal with your mistakes and move on. |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by GVTAsiwaju(m): 5:32pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
fman: What is the Oloriburuku for? Did I ever insult you? |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by kuverah(f): 6:32pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
[quote author=sakbio post=127212833]If you can't forget and you still love her, swallow ur pride and meet her so that u can withdraw the divorce case, I don't think it is too late for that instead of putting urself into unnecessary trauma. Even her might be passing through what u are passing but stronger to cope with it. Swallow ur pride and approach her The best advice so far. Is possible both of them are still in love so coming back together is a good option. Why is it that everybody is for divorce this days? As far as domestic violence is not involve, they are good to go. Patience, forgiveness, tolerance are needed in every marriage and life at large. Life is not a bed of roses. |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by GVTAsiwaju(m): 7:03pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
[quote author=kuverah post=127282424][/quote] Thank you! Deep down I don't really want her back |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by kuverah(f): 12:23pm On Jan 12 |
djon78: Anybody that will fall for this advice is deemed to be called a fool. These are the kind of people that advice against love but they love like craze. Not all people practice what they preached. If you find love, abeg love. Is not a crime or a disease. |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by djon78(m): 5:57pm On Jan 12 |
kuverah: Go to divorce courts You will be surprised that many of the clients Were once in Love There's more to Life than romantic Love Rather respect and have regards for your partner |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by Jman06(m): 12:22am On Jan 13 |
If you both (especially your ex wife) understood that marriage requires loads of forgiveness even without being apologized to, perhaps the marriage would have remained intact. M |
Re: How Do You Forget A Spouse That Has Forgotten You by GVTAsiwaju(m): 2:28am On Jan 13 |
Jman06: What is your point? |
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