What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? - Family - Nairaland
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? (23315 Views)
Lady Accuses Married Man Of Impregnating Women With Fake Marriage Proposal / How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? / 5 Things Every Married Man Should Do Around Single Women (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (Reply) (Go Down)
| What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by jeffizy(m): 4:52pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
What is wrong with some ladies these days? Dating an obviously married man. Hanging out yesterday and i saw a man in his 50's with big bulging tummy and a lousy personality hanging with a 20 + girl. Is it money? Is it sheer promisquity or fun? |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by Nobody: 4:55pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
22 Likes |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by jeffizy(m): 5:06pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
You know men and their predatory livestyle. Is the lady involved not supposed to resist such immorality? Heard stories about guys using women for stuffs before. |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by Nobody: 5:11pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
11 Likes |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by ximita: 5:12pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
its a pity that its always the ladies' fault and not a jot or dot is laid at the man's feet 2 Likes |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by jeffizy(m): 5:14pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
If karma is real, mhen!! A lot of people will cry. 1 Like |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by 234GT(m): 5:16pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
It is a combination of sheer greed and hopelessness. You won't see these girls going out with poor married men. The married man must not necessarily be super rich. Once he is richer than the hungry girl and can take care of her needs, she is good to go. These girls don't even think that they can work hard, settle with a young guy and become wealthy in life. Greed plus hopelessness. 12 Likes |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by jeffizy(m): 5:16pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
I personally abhor infidelity. But it really irks me when i see the ladies involved. They get taunted even to their faces by the man and his goons. 2 Likes |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by Nobody: 5:20pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
jeffizy: If karma is real, mhen!! A lot of people will cry. You wonder why some marriage break after one kid and they start to cry foul ?.....Let them trace their footsteps..... karma's a REAL Biatch man!  Wa jere ise owo ę (you reap what you sow) 2 Likes |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by Nobody: 5:22pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
Iya Oyo |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by Nobody: 5:24pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
chaircover: Iya Oyo Baba Oyo has given me my chieftaincy honor  |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by slimyem: 5:25pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
What Will Make A Single Lady Date AFix and rephrase the question like that and stop being bigoted! Why focus on the lady and not the man when in fact the man is the one who is supposed to be responsible and committed to his vows?  Both of them have non-justifiable reasons for being involved and both their immoral actions should be questioned here.That's fairness and sense!! The man has a duty to respect the institution he is in by looking away even if the lady's butt is wriggled in is face and the lady has a duty to defend her virtues by saying NO if she has any.They are both guilty.Focus on them both! 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by Nobody: 5:31pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
Slimyem! Agreed everybody is accountable for their own actions/ rash behaviour ...that being said a good and well mannered lady should be able to say NO when a shameless married man approach her if not cause of their long throat and greed. That says a lot about them at parties and gatherings , displaying themselves & all over married men. Smh! How do you even see me with my oleku native ( laced with my eshos  ) and my man running after me and adjusting my loose wedding band ensemble to show my status!3 Likes |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by jeffizy(m): 5:38pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
@slimyem..... I am directing it at the ladies not to be chauvinistic . Rather, i feel it is the ladies who can put a stop to these men's randiness . The men are guilty too. But i beleive a thief that steals palm oil from the shelf needs someone to releive him of his loot. |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by slimyem: 5:40pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
jidegirl12: Slimyem! Agreed everybody is accountable for their own actions/ rash behaviour ...that being said a good and well mannered lady should be able to say NO when a shameless married man approach her if not cause of their long throat and greed.I'm just justifying any party.I'm just mad at the op for the bias. However,being good and mannered and virtuous is a quality lacking amongst most women of today.I am equally disgusted by these kind of women who have cheapened womanhood and femininity in everyway but it takes two to tango and I cannot blame one and ignore or absolve the other. Its a rotten society and these men and women encourage the rot equally. |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by Nobody: 5:40pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
jeffizy: @slimyem..... I am directing it at the ladies not to be chauvinistic . Rather, i feel it is the ladies who can put a stop to these men's randiness . Wa sh'ere jare omo to gbayi |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by Nobody: 5:42pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
slimyem: I'm just justifying any party.I'm just mad at the op for the bias. Ladies first is what they say.... Let them model Good behaviours and see if those useless kondos won't back off! 2 Likes |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by slimyem: 5:48pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
jeffizy: @slimyem..... I am directing it at the ladies not to be chauvinistic . Rather, i feel it is the ladies who can put a stop to these men's randiness .Its a cycle that has been for a long time and as long as the bait remains,there's always a fish to catch. How many ladies can you preach the gospel to and how many will accept.Like i said to Jide,it is the society today and its almost becoming the norm.An hopeless situation! If i reject a man offer,there's always another girl waiting to embrace it and that's what keeps it going. You can only preach it to the women around you-your daughters,sisters and female cousins and hope they live by those qualities that make a woman virtuous 1 Like |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by Nobody: 5:52pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
Jeff you heard that?^^^ it's a lost battle man! Case closed! |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by jeffizy(m): 5:52pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
Slimyem's point is tangible, i agree. It is just that i think the ladies should create a thread to speak about the men and vice-versa. |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by slimyem: 5:53pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
jidegirl12:You cannot place that responsibility on a woman.doesn't make sense!! We(male and female alike and individually) owe it a duty to ourselves,our marriages,our beliefs/Gods to live right and if anyone fails, he/she is to be fully responsible for such failure no matter what! 3 Likes |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by Nobody: 5:59pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
slimyem: You cannot place that responsibility on a woman.doesn't make sense!! Very true! BUT Life's about sacrifices( someone has to initiate a difference) & I thought a single lady has a lot to loose and is in best position to stop the 'Norm act' |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by jeffizy(m): 6:00pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
jidegirl12: Jeff you heard that?^^^ it's a lost battle man! Case closed!If i change my sisters and you change the ones around you, it can happen. Case re-opened! 1 Like |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by OkikiOluwa1(m): 6:06pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
Op, it's cos of money. Our girls v turned 2 married men. Some of them ll claim poverty as the reason but not all r products of poverty home. Even poverty is not an excuse. I won't spare the shameless men who r in d act. The men also r not helping d matter |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by Nobody: 6:21pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
jeffizy: Okay and I just did in my last post! I think it's about self discipline and nothing much to do with home training or parent's parody so lets not completely blame the parents here. Apart from the fact that my Dad will kill me and hide my cause of death , I just never imagined a married man sticking his mouth in mine and hands all over my body ( probably frustrated from a nagging wife) . #shudders# ....when I have a young and funky boyfriend that will do me jejely. As per your sisters and ones around me? We can only talk to them , not enforce unless a fine is decreed Every adult( over 18yrs) is responsible for their actions and be ready to face the consequences in future. |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by toofine765: 6:57pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
A friend of mine you can say has been a perfect wife, does not nag, very beautiful and also hardworking just recently discovered that her husband of 7 years is cheating on her and the supposed husband claims to be a born again and even a worker in the church. Their union is one I really use to admire because the man use to be so loving and dedicated. She herself can not tell you where things went wrong. I really get to feel bad when I see homes being broken because of these kind of acts. |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by coogar: 7:01pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
toofine765: A friend of mine you can say has been a perfect wife, does not nag, very beautiful and also hardworking just recently discovered that her husband of 7 years is cheating on her and the supposed husband claims to be a born again and even a worker in the church. Their union is one I really use to admire because the man use to be so loving and dedicated. She herself can not tell you where things went wrong. I really get to feel bad when I see homes being broken because of these kind of acts. single ladies are getting left out. the ratio of single women to the eligible men is about 20 to 1...... there's no way single women won't go after married men. polygamy is almost extinct in our culture these days which means what wasn't a problem about 20-50 years ago is now a huge problem! 1 Like |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by agiboma(f): 7:05pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
MONEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by greatgod2012(f): 7:26pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
Both parties are shameless. The married men are betrayer of trusts, while the ladies are covetious of money they are getting from the men. 1 Like |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by slimyem: 7:29pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
agiboma: MONEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...more like GREED/discontent  |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by MrsChima1(f): 7:36pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
jeffizy: What is wrong with some ladies these days? Dating an obviously married man. Why would a married man date a single woman 5 Likes |
| Re: What Will Make A Single Lady Date A Married Man? by obo389(m): 7:39pm On Mar 24, 2013 |
chaircover: I am not excusing the ladies but I think the man who is breaking his vows and putting his family at risk also needs to be held responsible too.  well said but is it also right for the young lady knowing well the man in question is married? |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (Reply)
Man's 7 Children Die In Katsina Grenade Explosion / Man Narrates How He Found Out Daughter Was Not His / Where Should You Build Your First House (city Or Village)?
(Go Up)
| Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 47 |