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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by UjSizzle(f): 5:04pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Nonso23:Great. Do you want to get married? |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Anacksunamun: 5:04pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Mondisweets:You're very biased because you don't see any wrong in unscrupulous women lying about their periods/ovulation and using a child/pregnancy to collect millions in child support just to fatten their account!! Science gave the option of not keeping the baby when it won't favour the party which are pills, IUD's etc, but you hypocritically use them when it'll favour you alone, not caring about your partner!! |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Nobody: 5:05pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Nobody: 5:05pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by BABE3: 5:06pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Adyrin: This is the sentimental BS we're taking about. A 15 year old boy fuccking is "matured" enough to be a father? A 15 year old female fuccking is matured enough to be a mum? Some 30 year olds aren't even ready to be parents. How can you equate the readiness of being a parent to the ability to cop an erecction? I cannot. coogar: This is the bottom line. |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by coogar: 5:09pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
BABE!: he just finished drinking shekpe - don't blame him. i wonder how these women are not asking child support when they go to spërm banks to refill their radiators. who knows - they might start demanding that in a couple of years. 1 Like |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Nobody: 5:10pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: I disagree with you. Celebrities are a common denominator between Nairalanders. You and I both know Baba Sala but you don't know my friend Darius. Yes? Celebrities as well as common Men surfer the same fate in court so they are good examples. |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Nobody: 5:10pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
coogar:how is it premeditated when you were taught right from primary school (if you did go to one) that the best solution is abstinence, thats if you don't want children outside marriage! It cant be premeditated if you already know the possible consequences of your actions. Stop playing victim! why should i get vasectomy when you can also get tubal ligation? it goes both ways. there's no point forcing parenthood on any man because you are lucky to own a vagîna. your vägina doesn't necessarily make you suitable enough to be the mother of a man's kids. recreation is different from procreation - go and learn the difference!why should women be the only ones who bear the side effects of birth controls, if you also have an option stop sticking your diiiick in any vagina you see because you were unfortunate enough to be given a diiiiiick! Recreation or procreation, fact still remains a woman can still fall pregnant if you have sex with her. You clearly missed all your biology lessons right from grade 5, kindly go back and learn a thing or 2. i have been asking that question since page one, none of them has an answer to it. they have no problem with a woman deciding solely to have an abortion but they are claiming two people consented to make a child!i already said if u give consent to a particular action, you would have automatically given consent to the consequences that result from such an action! |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by VantagePoint: 5:10pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Mondisweets: this is absolute rubbish if a man can prove that the mother is in a better financial position than him, the the court may decide to put more financial obligations on her instead!Are you trying to say the guy is paying off breastfeeding, diaper changing and care of the baby? Does this continue till age 18 ? You're letting sentiment becloud your reasoning and getting heated up. Calm down before you pop an artery or something. |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by BABE3: 5:14pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
coogar: I don't know why we can't just all eat our cakes and have it. Can't person just fucck without pikin matter? Abi na by force? Nawa. 1 Like |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Nobody: 5:15pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
I dont understand why all these he-goats are making noise! The only responsibility you will have is towards the child and not the mother, if she is already above the age 18, she has no one else to take care of her apart from herself! If u know sex can get a woman pregnant, abstain! If that's a problem there are many gay guys who are desparately looking for someone to bend over for! You have many other options but your are still here making noise and displaying your ignorance |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Nobody: 5:17pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Anacksunamun: You don't need to say more. The truth remains that women are favoured mostly in divorce or child custodian issues. I don't need a link to know that, anyone saying otherwise is trying to be biased. My Ex Wife got free legal aid (as do most Women - nothing special there). After I paid over $50k / N8,250,00 (still cheap compared to some of my friends) in my lawyers fees I had to fold my hand. My kids could have used that money instead of me donating it to some Attorney. I just simply refused to spend any more money on Lawyers. So is America the land of the free? Yes if you have money to buy that freedom. |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Nobody: 5:17pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Anacksunamun: 5:17pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
coogar: They'll never answer it. Always shifting goal posts to favour them, yet they wail for fairness, when they can make rational decisions. Hypocrisy. Nonso23: You dey mind her? She'll remember that IUDs, pills etc, exists, if the leaked condom was that of a poverty stricken bricklayer or a man she despises. |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by UjSizzle(f): 5:19pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Nonso23:How long? |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by coogar: 5:20pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Mondisweets: how is it premeditated when you were taught right from primary school (if you did go to one) that the best solution is abstinence, thats if you don't want children outside marriage! it's premeditated because they carefully choose their victim & entrap him into their world of shyte. women have told lies about their birth control pills.....women have lied about allergy to condoms.....women have rummaged the bin to inseminate themselves with a man's seeds while he's washing off in the bathroom. so biology doesn't cut it with unscrupulous women!
it's premeditated when she gets rid of the child of a poor partner but refuses to abort the baby of a rich partner.
and it's expected of her to get rid of it if her partner wants no child. failure to do this is gross irresponsibility on her part.
that doesn't answer the question. can a man stop a woman that is not interested in having a child when the man genuinely wants one? 2 Likes |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Nobody: 5:21pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Nobody: 5:21pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
cococandy: Very true and there are others online. There's a very small window for a man to challenge this and all the woman has to do is to not alert the man until the statue of limitation has passed then he's sunk. http://townhall.com/columnists/rachelalexander/2013/03/25/jailed-for-nonpayment-of-child-support--but-its-not-his-child-n1548325/page/full So I try not to puke when I hear of the US preaching freedom to other countries. |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Anacksunamun: 5:22pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
coogar:You've said it all. I know of a former call girl that got married last year, she gave birth last month. Nothing happened to her womb in all her years of próstitution, but when it comes to a lady that wants to enslave a ready-made man or celebrity, she remembers that contraceptives didn't work for over 7months. Who's fooling who? 1 Like |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by UjSizzle(f): 5:24pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Nonso23:Hmm describe 'Mrs Right' |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by coogar: 5:25pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
BABE!: with these women, na by force. they are ultra-desperate. hitting them means they must be part of a man's life till the end of time. even though God hasn't joined them together, they are ready to overrule Him and stick to men that don't want them like a tick on a dog. 1 Like |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Nobody: 5:26pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
VantagePoint:child support is paid to take care of the child, its not paid as renumeration for the person taking care of the child. Im very much, you on the other hand are the one who clearly doesn't have common sense! If the mother does the "child-rearing part" its the father's responsibilities to take care of SOME of the " "financial responsibilities". If the child is over 18 and he/she is still in school, then yes the both parents will still have a duty to pay the fees ( if he/she doesnt have any other sponsor) 1 Like |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Anacksunamun: 5:26pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
coogar:LMAO@shekpe. |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Nobody: 5:35pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by BABE3: 5:36pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
coogar: Young men out there should be careful of these stubborn and desperate broads. What shall it profit a man to pay child support for 18 years and still end up with a poorly trained child. lose- lose. 1 Like |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by cococandy(f): 5:37pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Funny thing is I'm not even sure you've read ANY of my posts on this thread. But hey 'why read it? We already know what she's thinking' Some people are not worth conversing with. Example: you Xsolutions: Watch what??...Lucifer is soo proud you and the Feminists in this thread THINK,TALK and ACT LIKE HIM... |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Anacksunamun: 5:37pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Mondisweets: This is just some pathetic BS!! So if a Governor gives a command to soldiers to chase away illegal rioters or calm them down, and one of the soldiers mistakenly kills a civilian through a stray bullet, the Governor will be held responsible? What rubbish!! |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by coogar: 5:38pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
BABE3: 1 Like |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Anacksunamun: 5:42pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
CityNG:Mondisweets wouldn't see this. |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by cococandy(f): 5:43pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
CityNG:Not his child. It is very wrong. I don't believe this is all about the kids welfare in these cases. More about getting more money into the system by any means possible. |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by coogar: 5:46pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
cococandy: you mean feminism is very wrong? cococandy, which is which? are you aware these draconian laws against men are drafted by feminists? 1 Like |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by UjSizzle(f): 5:47pm On Jul 06, 2014 |
Nonso23:Funny |
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