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Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by onila(f): 12:22am On Oct 15, 2014
coming from a broken home, things were not easy

when my parents divorced, We were living with our paternal grandmother for sometime

one day, I was playing in the room with my elder brother
I think he hit me on my back playfully
but I found it painful so I screamed

my grandmother came into the room, to see whats happening
she ignored the reason why I screamed and faced my brother

and started looking at my elder brother like vomit
and she started saying

"look at you kenneth"
you are the ugliest thing I have ever seen in my life
you too wowo(ugly),wowo(ugly)
even police, gateman, houseboy fine pass you
tufia (God forbid)
she hissed and walked out of the room

the poor boy was just like 9 or 10 years old undecided

painful
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by SMALLPENIS(f): 12:26am On Oct 15, 2014
onila:
my grandmother came into the room, to see whats happening
she ignored the reason why I screamed and faced brother
and started looking at elder brother like vomit
and she started saying

"look at you kenneth"
you are the ugliest thing I have ever seen in my life
you too wowo(ugly),wowo(ugly)
even police, gateman, houseboy fine pass you
tufia (God forbid)
she hissed and walked out of the room

the poor boy was just like 9 or 10 years old undecided

painful

Nigerian Film

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Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by onila(f): 12:28am On Oct 15, 2014
SMALLPENIS:


Nigerian Film
true story

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Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by Nobody: 12:51am On Oct 15, 2014
onila:
coming from a broken home, things were not easy

when my parents divorced, We were living with our paternal grandmother

one day, I was playing in the room with my elder brother
I think he hit me on my back playfully
but I found it painful so I screamed

my grandmother came into the room, to see whats happening
she ignored the reason why I screamed and faced my brother

and started looking at my elder brother like vomit
and she started saying

"look at you kenneth"
you are the ugliest thing I have ever seen in my life
you too wowo(ugly),wowo(ugly)
even police, gateman, houseboy fine pass you
tufia (God forbid)
she hissed and walked out of the room

the poor boy was just like 9 or 10 years old undecided

painful


Happened to psquare abi?

True story ko!
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by onila(f): 1:05am On Oct 15, 2014
Silkmoth33:



Happened to psquare abi?

True story ko!
angry stop making fun of me
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by kliq(m): 4:23am On Oct 15, 2014
LMFAO

"Kenneth" must be damn U........gly for grandma to spit out those words....Damn!


cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by onila(f): 4:44am On Oct 15, 2014
kliq:
LMFAO

"Kenneth" must be damn U........gly for grandma to spit out those words....Damn!


cheesy cheesy cheesy
undecided yr supposed to feel bad and not laugh

that's achild
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by Nobody: 7:50am On Oct 15, 2014
maybe he was actually ugly undecided grin
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by Nobody: 8:14am On Oct 15, 2014
Ladystewie:
maybe he was actually ugly undecided grin

So he should be told so by his grandmother? undecided

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Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by onila(f): 1:39pm On Oct 15, 2014
carefreewannabe:


So he should be told so by his grandmother? undecided


thank you oo
if there is anywhere anyone shld be comfortable in his/her family

what a horrible thing to do
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by Nobody: 1:40pm On Oct 15, 2014
onila:


thank you oo
if there is anyone shld be comfortable is in his/her family

what a horrible thing to do

No doubt about it.

And nobody should have the right to call others ugly.
Shallow beings.
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by onila(f): 2:21pm On Oct 15, 2014
Ladystewie:
maybe he was actually ugly undecided grin
undecided
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by crackhaus: 2:32pm On Oct 15, 2014
I can count with my fingers the number of 'Nigerian' women I have met in my entire life who did/does not say nasty things when they were/are angry, and I'm not exaggerating.
It's like a thing with y'all, old and young inclusive.

It takes a special Godly kind of will and self-control for most women to be able to keep their tongue in check when reacting to emotional stimulus.
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by onila(f): 2:42pm On Oct 15, 2014
crackhaus:
I can count with my fingers the number of 'Nigerian' women I have met in my entire life who did/does not say nasty things when they were/are angry, and I'm not exaggerating.
It's like a thing with y'all, old and young inclusive.

It takes a special Godly kind of will and self-control for most women to be able to keep their tongue in check when reacting to emotional stimulus.

I havent met a Nigerian woman who called her own blood ugly that harshly

I once saw my aunt tell her own daughter when she was angry. "You no even fine sef" lol

thats ok compared to what my grandmother did
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by crackhaus: 2:58pm On Oct 15, 2014
onila:


I havent met a Nigerian woman who called her own blood ugly that harshly

I once saw my aunt tell her own daughter when she was angry. "You no even fine sef" lol

thats ok compared to what my grandmother did
Calling him ugly was definitely harsh, but what do you say about some women who curse their daughters and verbally insult them in instances where for example; the daughter overcooks a meal, or puts in too much salt, or leaves it too long on the fire hence burning a sizeable part of it?

One time while visiting a friend, I overheard his mom tell his sister in the kitchen: 'with the way you keep burning and wasting my food, I wonder how you're going to find a husband...you're so useless' undecided
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by onila(f): 3:06pm On Oct 15, 2014
crackhaus:

Calling him ugly was definitely harsh, but what do you say about some women who curse their daughters and verbally insult them in instances where for example; the daughter overcooks a meal, or puts in too much salt, or leaves it too long on the fire hence burning a sizeable part of it?

One time while visiting a friend, I overheard his mom tell his sister in the kitchen: 'with the way you keep burning and wasting my food, I wonder how you're going to find a husband...you're so useless' undecided

calling female daughters "useless" for cooking is normal in Nigeria and even Africa
my mum never called me useless tho

but my Nigerian female friends called me useless when they realized I didnt know how to cook properly when I started university grin

even Ghana, cameroon dey call girls useless for not knowing how to cook
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by onila(f): 3:07pm On Oct 15, 2014
calling him ugly is not just harsh sef but wicked
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by crackhaus: 3:18pm On Oct 15, 2014
onila:


calling female daughters "useless" for cooking is normal in Nigeria and even Africa
my mum never called me useless tho

but my Nigerian female friends called me useless when they realized I didnt know how to cook properly when I started university grin

even Ghana, cameroon dey call girls useless for not knowing how to cook
Yea that's my point.

It's normal to be verbally abusive especially with Nigerians, your grandmother just took hers to a higher level.

How come you remember her words, even when she said all of it defending you? grin
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by CAMNEWTON4PRES: 3:21pm On Oct 15, 2014
Back in kmer I was in a taxi and through the window I saw a boy beating up his younger brother like a thief, the little boy didn't want to go to school and was crying, and his brother started beating up, I asked the driver to stop the taxi and I went to talk to that little brat . In the end I was late in school but I was happy I made him stop the senseless beating, funny how no one seemed to care

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Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by onila(f): 3:23pm On Oct 15, 2014
crackhaus:

Yea that's my point.

It's normal to be verbally abusive especially with Nigerians, your grandmother just took hers to a higher level.

How come you remember her words, even when she said all of it defending you? grin

because it was uncalled for
how can you say that to yr own blood
I was in shock

I wasnt even in pain sef, I guess the b1tch used that opportunity to say whats on her mind
my grandmother is a b1tch, evil b1tch

even at my age ard that time, I knew it is totally wrong to call a relative ugly to his/her face
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by soulglo: 3:34pm On Oct 15, 2014
crackhaus:

Yea that's my point.

It's normal to be verbally abusive especially with Nigerians, your grandmother just took hers to a higher level.

How come you remember her words, even when she said all of it defending you? grin


Grandmothers? Honestly I think today's nigerian women are even more viscious
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by crackhaus: 3:35pm On Oct 15, 2014
onila:


because it was uncalled for
how can you say that to yr own blood
I was in shock

I wasnt even in pain sef, I guess the b1tch used that opportunity to say whats on her mind
my grandmother is a b1tch, evil b1tch


even at my age ard that time, I knew it is totally wrong to call a relative ugly to his/her face

Hmmmm, okay...
You don't like your grandmother very much I see.
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by Nobody: 3:35pm On Oct 15, 2014
CAMNEWTON4PRES:
Back in kmer I was in a taxi and through the window I saw a boy beating up his younger brother like a thief, the little boy didn't want to go to school and was crying, and his brother started beating up, I asked the driver to stop the taxi and I went to talk to that little brat . In the end I was late in school but I was happy I made him stop the senseless beating, funny how no one seemed to care

You are a silent HERO. Thanks for helping the little boy.
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by crackhaus: 3:37pm On Oct 15, 2014
soulglo:

Grandmothers? Honestly I think today's nigerian women are even more viscious
You speak the truth.
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by CAMNEWTON4PRES: 3:38pm On Oct 15, 2014
TheCongo:


You are a silent HERO. Thanks for helping the little boy.
thank u
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by onila(f): 3:44pm On Oct 15, 2014
TheCongo:


You are a silent HERO. Thanks for helping the little boy.
hero
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by CAMNEWTON4PRES: 3:53pm On Oct 15, 2014
onila:
hero

Yes
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by Nobody: 4:03pm On Oct 15, 2014
onila:
hero

Yes, Hero

A hero or heroine refers to characters who, in the face of danger and adversity or from a position of weakness, display courage and the will for self-sacrifice—that is, heroism—for some greater good of all humanity. Wikipedia
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by Nobody: 4:06pm On Oct 15, 2014
onila:


because it was uncalled for
how can you say that to yr own blood
I was in shock

I wasnt even in pain sef, I guess the b1tch used that opportunity to say whats on her mind
my grandmother is a b1tch, evil b1tch


even at my age ard that time, I knew it is totally wrong to call a relative ugly to his/her face


@Embolden says a lot about you...two wrongs don't make a right.


Or are you just trolling...? wink cheesy
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by pickabeau1: 4:55pm On Oct 15, 2014
onila

is your grandmother yoruba
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by onila(f): 5:12pm On Oct 15, 2014
theLORDreigns:


@Embolden says a lot about you...two wrongs don't make a right.


Or are you just trolling...? wink cheesy
i am being serious angry
Re: Whats The Worst Kind Of Child Abuse You Have Seen In Yr Family? by onila(f): 5:12pm On Oct 15, 2014
pickabeau1:
onila

is your grandmother yoruba
nop

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