This is no joke,i have seen many widows whom their husbands died NATURALLY,and yet the will live for years...is this a kind of miracle,culture or

because then, husbands are always older than their wives , like 5 to 10 years and sometimes 15, And all things been equal, the older ought to die first

Hi there, men work hard to provide for their families, it's worse if the wife is a housewife and he has a meager income. Men bottle up their emotions, hardly cry out and they think a lot. Always calculating sums in their heads, trying to add 1+1 to make 5 and most times keep hardship secret from their wives so the respect will be there.

These issues and more can cause heart attack, blood pressure, stroke. It's worse if they have a nagging wife and ungrateful kids that they spent so much money sending to good schools only for them to remain a thorn in the flesh.

Some men bring early death to themselves by carrying different curses from sleeping around with different women, drinking alcohol/smoking all the time and always eating unhealthy foods.

If a man wants to live long, he has to form a close union between himself, his family and God. He has to eat right, exercise and ensure everyone in his family follows a healthy routine daily, iron sharpens iron. He needs to be a responsible and devoted father and husband, he needs to marry a virtuous and hardworking woman. Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is higher than rubies (Proverbs 31 vs 10-31)

He needs to let his guard down and cry out occasionally. Crying is actually refreshing sometimes, he also has to involve his wife and seek her help/opinion during trying times, two heads are better than one. A virtuous woman won't mock her husband when he's down, she knows that a wise woman builds up her home. Lastly, he needs to join hands with his wife to raise their kids in an upright manner/in the way of the Lord. This will mold the kids and keep them disciplined and on the right path, you can easily tell when a child is from a good home from his/her character.

All these can be achieved by the grace of God, that's why constant prayers and close relationship with God is a must, the family that prays together stays together. It's possible for a man to live long and even outlive his wife but sadly, the reverse is the majority. Sorry for the lengthy reply but hopefully this answered your question

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Hi there, men work hard to provide for their families, it's worse if the wife is a housewife and he has a meager income. Men bottle up their emotions, hardly cry out and they think a lot. Always calculating sums in their heads, trying to add 1+1 to make 5 and most times keep hardship secret from their wives so the respect will be there.

These issues and more can cause heart attack, blood pressure, stroke. It's worse if they have a nagging wife and ungrateful kids that they spent so much money sending to good schools only for them to remain a thorn in the flesh.

Some men bring early death to themselves by carrying different curses from sleeping around with different women, drinking alcohol/smoking all the time and always eating unhealthy foods.

If a man wants to live long, he has to form a close union between himself, his family and God. He has to eat right, exercise and ensure everyone in his family follows a healthy routine daily, iron sharpens iron. He needs to be a responsible and devoted father and husband, he needs to marry a virtuous and hardworking woman. Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is higher than rubies (Proverbs 31 vs 10-31)

He needs to let his guard down and cry out occasionally. Crying is actually refreshing sometimes, he also has to involve his wife and seek her help/opinion during trying times, two heads are better than one. A virtuous woman won't mock her husband when he's down, she knows that a wise woman builds up her home. Lastly, he needs to join hands with his wife to raise their kids in an upright manner/in the way of the Lord. This will mold the kids and keep them disciplined and on the right path, you can easily tell when a child is from a good home from his/her character.

All these can be achieved by the grace of God, that's why constant prayers and close relationship with God is a must, the family that prays together stays together. It's possible for a man to live long and even outlive his wife but sadly, the reverse is the majority. Sorry for the lengthy reply but hopefully this answered your question

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