SAMBARRY:
then keep winning eternally and begging women to be submissive and or loyal

Lol. That is when she has to earn the above list.

ireneony:
if only men will abide to this rules this life would have been very easy

Na only mumu go abide

RedBenson:


Lol. That is when she has to earn the above list.

interesting. But the man should not earn his abi?

SAMBARRY:
interesting. But the man should not earn his abi?

A man who truly does not love a woman wont even think of marrying her let alone taking her to the altar, so before this happens, he must've truly loved her and loving her includes to do all the above listed. This however wouldnt make the man begin to do the above unless she works on her own part(s) to earn the man doing them for her.

Never give her bl** job, just missionary all through

sucezTP:
11.Never be ashamed of your wife. Always be proud of her.

some women are just terrible..they nag they cant cook decent food and dirty.you see them giving their kids plates to buy food.now they are in one party or anoter. they will prefer to buy aseobi than buy good foods for their kids...they have bleached to teeth their viens are green and strech mark on their booobs and toto will make it look like they fought leopard. you know bleached girls smell



now if u have this woman will u make luv to her...u cant be proud of her


she is a dsgrace


give me dizeani

RedBenson:


A man who truly does not love a woman wont even think of marrying her let alone taking her to the altar, so before this happens, he must've truly loved her and loving her includes to do all the above listed. This however wouldnt make the man begin to do the above unless she works on her own part(s) to earn the man doing them for her.

oga benson abegi come back and read what you just posted. You just shot yourself @ the leg.

christopher123:


some women are just terrible..they nag they cant cook decent food and dirty.you see them giving their kids plates to buy food.now they are in one party or anoter. they will prefer to buy aseobi than buy good foods for their kids...they have bleached to teeth their viens are green and strech mark on their booobs and toto will make it look like they fought leopard. you know bleached girls smell



now if u have this woman will u make luv to her...u cant be proud of her


she is a dsgrace


give me dizeani

Why would any sane man marry such a woman?

Always give it to ur wife in the bathroom, toilet,kitchen or in public. so far she's ur wife,no law is against it.

fairlyisabel:
oga benson abegi come back and read what you just posted. You just shot yourself @ the leg.

How? Na your leg the bullet enter. Which part you didnt understand, let me detail down the more?

Just pray for a good wife thats all. If you run into a bad wife, you will wish you were never born to this world. Shikena

RedBenson:


A man who truly does not love a woman wont even think of marrying her let alone taking her to the altar, so before this happens, he must've truly loved her and loving her includes to do all the above listed. This however wouldnt make the man begin to do the above unless she works on her own part(s) to earn the man doing them for her.

story for the gods. So why e con be say man complaining thread full here my husband did this my husband did that

SAMBARRY:
story for the gods. So why e con be say man complaining thread full here my husband did this my husband did that

Moral of the thread: A wife can only earn all the above from her husband. Simple!

RedBenson:


Moral of the thread: A wife can only earn all the above from her husband. Simple!

tales by moonlight

Mynd44:
Does any guy need to be told these? They go without saying jare

its been a while bro! Long long time. How have you been?

kennygee:
On point, i see a counter thread coming.

I doubt it this is what every man should strive to do without being told i doubt anyone will make a counter thread and if anyone does its either the person is a kid or stupid or even both.

carefreewannabe:


Why would any sane man marry such a woman?

i have seen many of them...they prefer buying asoebi and jewerry to taking care of their families


they are so bleached that they strech marked smell

christopher123:



i have seen many of them...they prefer buying asoebi and jewerry to taking care of their families


they are so bleached that they strech marked smell

Ok but why would a man marry such a woman?

opribo:
Just pray for a good wife thats all. If you run into a bad wife, you will wish you were never born to this world. Shikena

what about those women that allow themselves to be so fat that u cant see the toto


how can a man continue with that type

carefreewannabe:


Ok but why would a man marry such a woman?

but they are everywhere..that why you get to hear divorcees much

christopher123:



but they are everywhere..that why you get to hear divorcees much

There are billions of women in this world. Choose the right one for you.

things men will never do to their wives, fine. now we want to see the things wives should not do to their husbands? men too deserve fair treatments just as their very sometimes very restless wives..

carefreewannabe:


There are billions of women in this world. Choose the right one for you.

done that about ten yrs ago and i am happy i did it.after kids tummy flat and not even strech mark and slim...but still taste the waters once in a while

lol

a man got to be a dude

christopher123:


done that about ten yrs ago and i am happy i did it.after kids tummy flat and not even strech mark and slim...but still taste the waters once in a while

lol

a man got to be a dude

That's your wife's problem, luckily not mine.

christopher123:


some women are just terrible..they nag they cant cook decent food and dirty.you see them giving their kids plates to buy food.now they are in one party or anoter. they will prefer to buy aseobi than buy good foods for their kids...they have bleached to teeth their viens are green and strech mark on their booobs and toto will make it look like they fought leopard. you know bleached girls smell



now if u have this woman will u make luv to her...u cant be proud of her


she is a dsgrace


give me dizeani

Lolz...see vexation!
You are right sha! But, I think such a woman should be called to attention. Let her know where she's gone wrong cos she might have been seeing it as a normal thing. Some women don't care as long as their husbands are not complaining about those things.
I once heard of a man who saw a lady with a nice hair- do and approached her immediately to ask where she styled her hair, so that he could take his wife there. And he actually did that to his wife! So, what are we not saying!

Ur writeup is good but u must balance it with 10 things a wife should never do to the husband.in many families wives are the trouble makers.they deny their husban
ds sex

Good post that a God Fearing man will continue to abide by. Unfortunately, traditionalist will never agree with this because it's not part of the typical african culture. Thank God for the word- 'extinction'.

1one:
All this small small children on this thread spewing rubbish Yen Yen Yen Yen she needs to earn it.. earn what!.. That's why marriages would continue to fail till the 50th century, because couples are always waiting to piggy-back on the other person's action... If she doesn't do this, I wouldn't do that... Is that how marriage is supposed to be... If you're waiting for her to love you before you show her love then what's the difference between you and any other random single dude..



To the OP... Your list is on point!

It's a man's duty to do all these things for /to his wife whether or not she earns it because first of all marriage is a service to God, not even to your wife... Or would you say if you catch your wife cheating you would also go ahead and cheat... Some of you should learn to talk with little sense abeg.

She should earn it? ...How many times do you really earn your next day's breath, yet you wake up and still go about your normal day, God doesn't strike you dead in the sleep because you lied or did some other bad thing the day before, now this same God has said you should love your wife as he has loved you and you're now putting stupid, useless conditions... Let God catch you!!!

Trading words with women could be dangerous, but I ll try....

"Wives, submit to ur husbands...husbands,love your wife..."

God is fair, He gave each a role to ensure there is a balance.You are asking men to be faithful to God given roles, but the women can be excused if they are not.Smh, logic n religion turned on its head.

Am not for d "earning" thing, but women should not be made to believe that they have unlimited right to love irrespective of how they behave.Love is either mutual or it is half dead!

No oh,do it unconditionally... so the good in her will come out... She is no longer your girlfriend to earn your goodly responses except you don't want to stir up the good in the relationship... Thanks

zomoears:



Trading words with women could be dangerous, but I ll try....

"Wives, submit to ur husbands...husbands,love your wife..."

God is fair, He gave each a role to ensure there is a balance.You are asking men to be faithful to God given roles, but the women can be excused if they are not.Smh, logic n religion turned on its head.

Am not for d "earning" thing, but women should not be made to believe that they have unlimited right to love irrespective of how they behave.Love is either mutual or it is half dead!

I have the XY chromosones flowing freely in my genes.. So you may want to re-phrase the bolded.

My post is not to excuse the responsibilities and obligations of a wife in a marriage, far from it, what my post attempts to convey is that a man should not use the actions or in-actions of his wife to inform what he knows is right to do especially as it has been instructed by God.

The show of love is a seed and if one is consistent, that seed would yield fruit... Even if your wife is as insensitive as an iced stone... Show her love still Not because she deserves it but because that is the very type of love God has commanded practising christains to have... The more love you show, the more she melts on the inside, the effect may not be spontaneous but there would always be breaking, a breaking that one day would come to the fore and make her totally melt before the power of your consistent show of love.. The Bible says "Be imitators of God"... If I claim I'm a son of God, then I should very much so reflect his attributes - Unconditional love. I'm not saying it's easy, not at all, we human beings are naturally reciprocative beings, but according to the Bible that also says "A 3-fold cord is not easily broken".. . When you seek the help of God in your marriage particularly when it has to do with showing love-God would always be there to help you... He's not just a God of love... He is Love and the very essence of love finds expression in him and from him.

Chiefpriest1:
Whatever you do, numbers 3 & 4 are a NO NO. Never hit your wife and never call her names.

These two run deep. They are hardly forgotten even if forgiven by women. Even if she loves you to bits, when she remembers how much you make her feel worthless,the feelings will disappear. A man should think before talking.

For those who watch BBA, have you noticed that Sheila never forgave Tayo before she left the house? How can u be telling a woman she's dirty and she has stretch marks all over. Puleez!

So is it the guy's fault now that the little lady couldn't handle the truth? When the tables are turned now, no one will even be raising up that issue talk more using it as an analogy abeg,

Egomah:
Sounds nice, but...she has to earn it

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