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Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by DonKool1: 5:51pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
marieolae:There lies the reason why some "good" men sometimes misbehave. A wife must earn the love and respect of her husband. It is not a right. As a man is expected to love and cherish his wife, she has to love and honour her man. If she doesn't, how can he love and cherish her? How can one cherish a source of dishonour, disrespect, anger or shame? To put this in perspective; the bible set an extremely high standard for a husband, to love his wife as Christ loved the church and gave his life for her (Heb 5:25) - which means to love her more than himself hence the ability to give his life for her if need be. This is a higher demand than the instruction to love your neighbor as yourself. However, keep in mind that even though Christ died for us all even when we were/are still in sin, it is ONLY THOSE WHO ACCEPT HIS SACRIFICE THAT WILL BE SAVED. The act of acceptance = repentance = earning the right to be called a child of God. If God's love was just given to the deserving and undeserving alike, then Hell would be completely vacant. Rather it is offered to all alike and ONLY those who accept and work to earn that love that will actually receive it. So even if we are expected to love our wives unconditionally and selflessly, remember that it is only those who love us back and accept us that will earn that love. Not just someone who is a wife by title/ring/name and not by submission and deeds. Same goes for men who go about cheating. You don't earn a woman's love and heart by breaking it at every opportunity you get. If you dishonour her and expect respect and honour from her; You will get none and probably get a just punishment instead. For the 'no long thing version': We reap what we sow...... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by qtx(m): 5:56pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
ireneony:lol hear talk o. |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by 2scorehigh(m): 5:57pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
afamgod: Thank you so much! |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by TonYzeallY(m): 6:01pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
If she do me No.2,i wil do her No.1, if she do me No.4 i wil do her No.3,if she do me No.8,i wil do her No.6 and 7,if she do me No.9,i wil do her No.5 and 10...na she go determine wetin happen. |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by Nobody: 6:01pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
Mynd44: Bros, u still dey alive? I think say u don kpai even b4 world war II? |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by Truckpusher(m): 6:04pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
Lilamartedi:I see. You believed me. |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by pwettyhardey(f): 6:04pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
ireneony:abi oo |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by Nobody: 6:11pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
clevvermind: Life itself is no bed of roses, so you cant possibly/literally do all the above just to pls a soul. Do your best and take what life gives to you and move on. |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by Nobody: 6:24pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
coolsix: Forget long story abeg. Nothing wrong for a man to love his wife but life itself does not give maximum pleasure. She cant get all well going for her. |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by fairlyisabel(f): 6:24pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
Mynd44:emmh' are you taken? i like you walahi....you will make a good husband....but |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by owolawitola(f): 6:34pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
Mutuwa:LMAO |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by Pamcrest(f): 6:37pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
Rules, rules, everywhere....all it takes is a little common sense and plenty of love. If u truly love your partner, u don't need these rules, u will behave responsibly. My humble submission |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by McDanD(m): 6:38pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
Hmmmmmm.......,utopia! 'If she fights for me den i ll fight for us' kpichikom |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by bosun11(m): 7:07pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
clevvermind: Nothing new here though and as for me , she has to earn it and she is getting there by the day so its not a big deal AMEN : SIGNED FUTURE FAITHFUL LOYAL HUSBANDS |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by greggng: 7:16pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
Only mumu will keep to all this rules. A lady once told me she enjoys receiving beating from her boy friend. |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by Fkhalifa(m): 7:24pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
RedBenson:In short,best post so far on the thread,even Baba God wont grant 100% our desires talkless of a mere human. #memory saved |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by mufutau55(m): 7:27pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
RedBenson: Seconded. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by SAMBARRY: 7:31pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
As usual. I know I will never read anything reasonable from the men. How typical. Looking at the 5th page alone makes me wonder whether these people have mothers at all.tufiaaaaaa |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by wisdompraise(m): 7:32pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
marieolae: Jesus said; men love your wife as Christ loved the church, and women respect your husbands as church respect Christ. So play your owner part if you want to earn your man's love. 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by iaatmguy(m): 7:33pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
And if they don't ? Heaven will not fall. The fact remains some will adhere to it while some will not due to the wife's inadequacies |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by touchmeder: 7:33pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
@Clevvermind you are a very good man. |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by Nobody: 7:48pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
Egomah: For christsakes she's your wife , she deserves it 1 Like |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by Egomah(m): 7:51pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
What do you mean by unconditional love? Are you Jesus? Or you don't the meaning of unconditional love? Can you love a cheat, disrespectful, disloyal woman unconditionally? You have to earn something in life to have it. You can love someone who doesn't have your best interest at heart. KLand: 1 Like |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by Aslawish(m): 7:52pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
Nothing is impossible |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by clevvermind(m): 7:55pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
touchmeder:thanks. |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by nickxtra(m): 7:59pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
And she should never again compare with papa Bose, our neighbour |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by nickxtra(m): 8:00pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
And she should never again compare me with papa Bose - her friend's husband, who are our neighbours |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by Mutuwa(m): 8:01pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
ireneony: Ah na so I see am o Ma..but u know two things in life that destroys a man sharply are: Money, and Women...respectively. |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by Nobody: 8:17pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
fairlyisabel: If i hear! |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by Nobody: 8:22pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: Of course we have mothers, and they (our mothers) cannot be said to have all from our dads. So why then should we (the young ones) change the modus operandi to be giving all to our own wives? Life itself is hard o...incase you didnt know. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do To Your Wife. by SAMBARRY: 8:24pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
RedBenson:then keep winning eternally and begging women to be submissive and or loyal |
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