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Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by Jchi9876: 6:36am On Dec 13, 2014 |
sexybash: I see. . . |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by nellybadas: 6:56am On Dec 13, 2014 |
Aisha 2 dis is a very nice guesture. aisha2: |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by agarawu23(m): 6:56am On Dec 13, 2014 |
rman:mr man, this a forum and its an advantage for the NL. though we also have ppl we can help in the neighborhood but do u realized dat most ppl like anonymous charity? what abt DJDOOLA? that took his health problem to NL and was helped financially by nairalanders. so if he wastnt on NL, tell me how ppl will respond to him quickly. just commend the Op and focus on the issue on ground if u have anything to offer. thanks 11 Likes |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by cococandy(f): 6:59am On Dec 13, 2014 |
How do you know she doesn't help the poor around her? What if she helped them and decided to help some anonymous folks online too? Some of you smartasses need to SHUT THE FVCK UP! rman: 9 Likes |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by rman: 7:01am On Dec 13, 2014 |
cococandy: Truth hurts ehn. Online giving. Do u people go out at all? Givers that require cheerleaders. 1 Like |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by rman: 7:07am On Dec 13, 2014 |
agarawu23: Person in need asking through the forum is completely different from someone that wants to give and organises a mini competition with judges.... Anonymous givers do not require cheerleaders! Therein lies the hypocrisy for me. We don't need to know...the people that fits your criteria are right there in your community. 1 Like |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by cococandy(f): 7:11am On Dec 13, 2014 |
rman:you're so dumb. Do you or anyone else here know her? Who could possible give her or the other donors praise (if that's what they are after) more than those who know them in real life? Nna swerve make I see road abeg. Just take your xtupid self away from here. Irritant 10 Likes |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by rman: 7:22am On Dec 13, 2014 |
cococandy: Starting all your response with insults doesn't make you smart either. Cococandy the judge. I may not be as active on this site as u but it is quite obvious your online personality here is so important to you. You may pretend as you like but it is what it is, cheap popularity through nairaland. Nairaland is not as anonymous as u guys want to pretend it is. You have refused to address the fact that, this gesture can be done without anyone here knowing about it. 1 Like |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by Nobody: 7:32am On Dec 13, 2014 |
pickabeau1:while the posting online thingy may be true, you seem to forget that even here on nairaland, there are people who post things and in their posts, have alot of grammatical errors... The essay shouldnt be a requirement... If its that way then it means those who didnt have the opportunity of a sound education are not to take part. It wont be fair.... That would then mean another thing.... DISCRIMINATION.... I suggest s survey of som sort should be taken. |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by okotv(m): 7:34am On Dec 13, 2014 |
aisha2:alright....thank you |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by pickabeau1: 7:35am On Dec 13, 2014 |
FLYGERIAN91: Thank you for the comment The essay was waived as a requirement A survey was used |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by Nobody: 7:36am On Dec 13, 2014 |
rman: Not that I need to respond to you or defend myself but just for younger ones reading. I am a social worker which means I work with people who need help to grow their lives. I have worked with single mothers for 8 years and I still work with them. Even though I am no longer in that department go to area 10 abuja social welfare secretariat and ask of Aisha even with regular staff transfers one or two will still know me because they always send single moms my way. Also go to the orphanages in Abuja also ask of me. The widows association in Abuja before I lost interest due to some fraudulent practice on their part I raised capital for most of them to start businesses. When you are done, go to national hospital social welfare office and asked how much I raise annually for indigent patients I only posted this because in my spare time i am here so this is also my community. I can not do for those I see and ignore those who i meet online hence I did this this year and I intend to continue God helping. I learned from a young age that its only through giving we can serve Christ and not giving to pastors but giving ro the least among us because every struggling person you meet represents Jesus Christ. The blessings And miracles God has performed in my life cannot be from power or might but from prayers of people " God bless you" from a genuine heart goes a long way. I was once told I won't live passed 25 today am over 30. I was also given other damaging doctors reports but God has always had the final answer in everything that concerns me to the joy of doctors. I have never paid tithe in my life all my tithes and gifts go to those in need. I have been working for 10 years now and from 15,000 salary I still found to give and even when I have none I beg my sisters, friends and family to sow into the lives of others. So brother, God has already noticed me and will keep noticing me, i dont need noticing from any online stranger..My intentions and interest for single mothers has never been fake or based on any eye service 45 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by pickabeau1: 7:40am On Dec 13, 2014 |
rman: At the bolded it seems a lot of forum members share a belief in helping those around them rather than online people. The question now should online philanthropy be discontinued. Cc jaybee3 Caracta Gboliwe |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by pickabeau1: 7:43am On Dec 13, 2014 |
spicy244: For now verification of those who responded is ongoing If there is a need for more people the survey can be reopened |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by spoilerx: 7:44am On Dec 13, 2014 |
aisha2: But he has a point , how many single mothers in need of 25k can write essays? 1 Like |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by Nobody: 7:44am On Dec 13, 2014 |
pickabeau1:oh.... Wow..... Great move.... I guess I came onto the thread late.... |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by pickabeau1: 7:45am On Dec 13, 2014 |
FLYGERIAN91: No problem... |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by pickabeau1: 7:47am On Dec 13, 2014 |
wunmi590: Very good question However most kids are with their moms If there is incontrovertible evidence that the father is responsible for the upkeep of the kids he can be considered 1 Like |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by pickabeau1: 7:52am On Dec 13, 2014 |
IDEApro: In a way you are not totally right We are talking of economically challenged women who are trying to make ends meet now Your premise will have a bearing when and if there is a systematic regional or national welfare system which is targeted at single mother and emasculates fathers or men. If the fathers of these kids had taken some measure of responsibility when these kids were born, these women will not be where they are. See this exercise as helping your neighbor 4 Likes |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by rman: 7:55am On Dec 13, 2014 |
aisha2: For someone that has done all these, RESPECT! I do not need your resume in charity, not interested. Do it your way, it is your money. But it is better if all form of charity/help is done when the giver can not be directly linked to it. Unless u are a business man, corporate organisation or wants to go into politics in the future. 1 Like |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by rman: 7:57am On Dec 13, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Online philanthropy is okay and should not be discontinued. I am just not in tune with someone coming out to announce " I want to help someone and these are my conditions...." 2 Likes |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by cococandy(f): 7:58am On Dec 13, 2014 |
I'm not even donating to the program so what does this have to do with my online personality? I just hate to see over sabi people like you going around to condemn the good efforts of others in order to come across as self righteous. As far as I'm concerned nairaland is anonymous. if you go around sniffing out info about the users that's your business. All I know is what I see here. Pls explain to us how this program can be done without anyone here knowing about it. By sending emails to all the one million users to find out who amongst them qualify? I know you're enjoying this attention given you right now. Troll rman: 4 Likes |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by pickabeau1: 7:59am On Dec 13, 2014 |
rman: Ok..however there needs be a way to identify genuine case What do you propose |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by Gofwane(m): 8:04am On Dec 13, 2014 |
slimmy05:excuse me sir, you are very stewpid sir. PS: I am nt disrespecting you o . . . Smh 5 Likes |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by Nobody: 8:12am On Dec 13, 2014 |
Let me even share one of the greatest testimonies in my life it happened with a nairalander. Debrief sent me a link of a lady who was pregnant and posted on nairaland she needed help because even at 7 months she hadn't been able to afford her drugs and antenatal visits or even the hospital list for expectant mothers. Then Debrief was financially down as she and her dad were ill at the same period and had to go abroad. She forwarded the case to me, I called the lady verified her story but then my former office owed us salary for 5 months, I had 2000 in my account. I will never forget easter weekend last year it was, I lay on my bed and cried to God asked him to show his hand not for my sake then because thanks to a wonderful family who ensure I never lack through the months without pay. I told God the lady has to start antenatal and somehow it must happen before the easter holiday is over. I prayed, cried and slept. I woke up and logged onto Facebook. A lady who was on not to close to on facebook posted on my wall asked that I send my phone number. I sent it to her, she called and said one man had been looking for a way to speak with me for a while that God had been " nagging " him to send me some money but knowing how I was he was afraid I would reject it and call him 419 and a woman chaser as it would be hard to understand his motive. So he saw we were mutual friends and contacted her. She requested my account number and sent 100k, till today I dont know who that man is. The lady has became a great friend to date. Immediately i went to atm called the pregnant lady and we went shopping for all the pregnancy list gave her money for antenatal was there even after she put to bed sadly she annoyed me some months ago but in the spirit of Christmas I will go and look for her so we can kiss and make up lol 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by Nobody: 8:27am On Dec 13, 2014 |
Babymama1:. hahahah @babymama1, pictures of the triplets kicking or else l don't........b........it............. ... 2 Likes |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by Nobody: 8:27am On Dec 13, 2014 |
rman: Why do we buy goods online? Are there no shops around us? Same way online charity is needed because some people are far from us yet need help. As for not knowing the donor its a job I studied and practice, I cannot work anonymously. Anyway no more responses from me like I said its so younger ones can learn. If celebrities can flaunt cars and houses so young people will want to be like them why wont we flaunt charity so more people can get involved more. Bible says if we must compete let us compete in doing good not in vain things 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by holusormi(m): 8:33am On Dec 13, 2014 |
ephee: Mumu ,, madam talkaway,, come pursue me na , maybe Na u get nairaland abi ur 1 kobo dey part of the money wey Seun use construct this family section building ,,, Bia, nwanne , be very careful Ooo !!!! |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by Odunharry(m): 8:33am On Dec 13, 2014 |
aisha2:God bless u for ur magnanimity 2 Likes |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by rman: 8:41am On Dec 13, 2014 |
cococandy: Work on yourself! Don't ruin the reputation u have built on nairaland. Hate is in you. Not everyone will suck up to u in life. Pls grow up. Check your first response to my initial post before this started. Have a nice day. 1 Like |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by jaybee3(m): 8:43am On Dec 13, 2014 |
rman:You do realise some conditions are necessary in order to ensure the applicants are as claimed. Besides, you should never knock someone willing to help especially when nothing is being demanded in return. Her spirit is leading her to help struggling single parents and if the best and most convenient way of reaching her target audience is NL then there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. 3 Likes |
Re: Christmas Giveaway For A Single Mother by rman: 8:46am On Dec 13, 2014 |
pickabeau1: We have a generous forum member that intends to bless a single mother with #20,000 this xmass. We intend to keep the forumite anonymous but the money is now with Seun, Mukina etc (any reputable known member should do) The conditions are...: Case closed. |
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