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Re: Single At Home, Married On Campus by godunia(m): 10:02am On Dec 15, 2014 |
Pr0ton:When u gain admission into higher institution u will. |
Re: Single At Home, Married On Campus by godunia(m): 10:03am On Dec 15, 2014 |
Pr0ton:When u gain admission into higher institution u will.leave NL n face your studies |
Re: Single At Home, Married On Campus by Nobody: 11:06am On Dec 15, 2014 |
na true oooo. I stay in ekosodin too sef. na so one guy and one girl when dey stay same hostel with me dey run deir package. them dey stay together. the guy mum na big time politician for abj. seems like she is a general in the army too. the boy buy d girl plasma t.v, theatre system, techno phantom A3 and all. the girl dey enjoy steady for the guy hand. tho sha the girl parents knws about the guy. but sadly the Gurl broke up with d guy cos he follows plenty girls. so the guy took back all his properties. Hw sad. |
Re: Single At Home, Married On Campus by Sunnykaka(m): 11:32am On Dec 15, 2014 |
Mennnnn .... It is fun..I am still practising it from my ND1, nw I am in HND2 |
Re: Single At Home, Married On Campus by Nobody: 11:43am On Dec 15, 2014 |
today instead of getting self improvement from the university is seem people are worse off and the problem I think isnt an individual one, the system is not working, this is why only 3 in every 5000 new graduate will get an excellent job in the labor market trust me when I say its a lie when people say the university is a microcosm of the whole country, otherwise graduates wont be confused and dumbfounded a year or more into the system. |
Re: Single At Home, Married On Campus by Les: 1:57pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
1stola:shut da fork up mr/miss/mrs and don't mention my father anyhow like your own father didn't train you well. Is it everything that you do that you tell your father?? Do you think everyone's father is dangote?? Don't ever mention me again in ur own miserable life!! |
Re: Single At Home, Married On Campus by 1stola: 5:03pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Les:Go fúck yourself! Just know that no matter how hard he fúcks, he won't still marry u. |
Re: Single At Home, Married On Campus by Les: 8:23pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
1stola:am i complaining?? Am i asking him or you to marry me?? If he finally ends up marryin me, how will i see you to see the shame on ur face? What is ur own and your long nose?? Abeg swerve jor! And for the record, it feels nice forkin myself |
Re: Single At Home, Married On Campus by Mimipauls1(f): 10:14pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
[quote author=HonourablePomk ), and mentioned the trend to some group of students, they reeled out in laughter at the coinage 'campus couples' and attested to the fact that some of them are practising it. One of them, a 300 level student of Medical Physiology, had this to say: "The trend is rampant here in Ekosodin. Those that engage in it are the 'happening' girls and guys on the campus. The practice is really expensive and as such we respect those that engage in the act." He continued: "What most UNIBEN students do here is to disguise that they are staying in their fellowship secretariat off-campus, which is not true. When you properly investigate the matter, you will find out that most of them are staying with their boyfriends off- campus. There was the case of a 200 level law student whose father is a politician in Lagos. She was staying with a student-pastor here in Ekosodin. As a result of her affluence, she was always demanding money from her father to sustain the relationship. They later made her the vice president of the campus fellowship. You need to see the way this girl was playing out the role of a wife to the student-pastor and neglecting her studies. Her parents became disturbed and told a relative that stays in the school hostel to find out where she lives. She was exposed and that was how the friendship ended." Mrs. Rachael Omoregie, a social worker and counselor decried the practice and called for immediate measures to checkmate it. According to her, the compatibility status, which the students are attempting to get, is not working out. They engage in sexual immorality. If the lady gets pregnant, her education is truncated. This practice, according to her, is responsible for a rise in the level of girls dropping out of school. She further stated that the ladies could develop psychological problem when they experience heartbreak, which could make them contemplate suicide. "Abortion in our tertiary institution can be attributed to cohabitation. These students are not ready for parenting and can do everything within their powers to flush out pregnancies when they occur. Moreover, those cohabiting students expose themselves to the risk of sexually transmitted diseases (STD's), which can lead to infertility in the future. In the long run," said a medical doctor at the University Of Benin Teaching Hospital (UBTH) who did not want his name in print. A parent, Mrs. Grace Iyenoma, who resides at Ekosodin, said, "I wonder what has come over our undergraduates these days. Going through the number of students cohabiting here in Ekosodin leaves one shocked. It is scripturally, morally and culturally wrong. It is destroying our values. What goes round comes around. These students are cohabiting for nothing but to get space for having sex. Haven done all these atrocities in school, how do you expect them to cope well in marriage? Come to think of it, what if, the compatibility test fails? Who will marry the girls? The most annoying part of it is that their parents do not know about what they are doing. If my son happens to bring any of such ladies home, I would chase her out." Another parent, Mama Iyabor, who is also a trader at Ekosodin, said cohabiting by students is good business. "Inasmuch as I don't like the practice, I cannot help it because it is making my business boom. These 'couples-to-be' shop as though they own the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) and live big off-campus. In fact, their stay is helping my business boom. If they stop this practice, how do you expect me to feed my children? My business will suffer," he said. Ese Akpovete, a graduating student of Physics at the Delta State University, Abraka called for immediate end to the act. According to her, the pains from sexual breakups range from depression and suicide attempts of some young adults. Joy Musa, HND 2, Mass Communication, Nuhu Bamalli Polytechnic (NUBA POLY) Kaduna, stated that parents have a lot of roles to play in curbing the practice. According to her, schools have little or no authority to exert on students because they (students) are considered to be adults. "Parents who toil day and night to see their wards through school should cultivate the habit of paying them unscheduled visit in order to find out what they are doing in school. If students know that their parents would pay them visit without prior notice, they would be restrained in their wild adventure," she said. EDDY UWOGHIREN Uwoghiren is a 300 level student, Medicine and Surgery, University of Benin, Nigeria. SOURCE : http://www.unibenblog.com/2014/12/single-at-home-married-on-campus.html?m=1[/quote] |
Re: Single At Home, Married On Campus by yemivictor: 12:42am On Dec 17, 2014 |
yemmydy: Pretender? How? The person in your DP looks like a muslima and punnany is simply the last word one would expect. 1 Like |
Re: Single At Home, Married On Campus by Pr0ton: 9:35pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
godunia: So you've gained admission? You don't sound like one. Your second advice doesn't pass a sense. Your telling me it's impossible to face my studies while at the same staying on NL. I think you guessed wrong about everyone not being able to work with his/her senses by setting time to be serious with studies and separating some time for fun. Bro, not everyone is like you, huh. Whenever you wan'a give an advice again be sure it's updated, not old-fashioned boring one. |
Re: Single At Home, Married On Campus by mapist(m): 6:18pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
adebayor1490: Ur DP is actually d best I av seen on NL.kudos.. 1 Like |
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