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Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by onadana: 7:37am On Dec 20, 2014
angryYou are not born again then...because if you are you die to the flesh.Old things pass away....when the word of God is a lamp onto your feet and guide your path...bro you can't go wrong.When you meditate on the word of God day and night...bro...you can't go wrong.Out of the abundance of the heart proceeds evil thoughts.You are born again by lip service,your heart isn't.If you seek God with all your heart you will find Him.And your life will never remain the same.No one have a genuine encounter with God and ever remain the same.Where your treasure is there your heart will be.
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Larow(m): 7:37am On Dec 20, 2014
donMIG:
Ur kind of BORN AGAINST dei make me fear...sex still a born agains weakness,guy r not a born again..u r just deluding ur self. Wit lies#am not an angel but I hope DAT 1 day I'll b a changed man
so! Being born again automatically shuts down d body system against sexual urge? U for advice make every born again turn rev father naa!
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Sharksblow(m): 7:39am On Dec 20, 2014
Hmmm.... If Konji lasts too long in the body, e no Good o
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by justi4jesu(f): 7:40am On Dec 20, 2014
chikeorji123:


What else can we said again.. this is the Truth nothing both the Truth.


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Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by virginboy1(m): 7:41am On Dec 20, 2014
drake99:
Someone got born again and then deleted all his girlfriend's contacts because he knows with them in his life the journey of knowing God won't work out

Now the sex hormone is against him for keeping away for a long time,he still doesn't need a girlfriend because he needs no distraction

Now he is contemplating on taking a runs girl for a night to quench this urge and move on with his spiritual life,its wrong but how wrong is it?

Don't say he should pray for the urge to disappear,no not all,nature is different from spirituality


Mature comments pls
You indirectly described me here the only diff is that i have a girlfriend but dont ask her for sex.
But,at the rate at which my libido gets high,to avoid any form of knacking my gf,I result in hanging out in any club where i see different kinds of flexing ladies but no sex.With this method,my libido go on a decline.
Even though i dont like it,that is how i control my sexual urge atimes.
Team V
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Nobody: 7:44am On Dec 20, 2014
I'd advice u get wisdom
drake99:
so don't you know its natural to have a sexual urge?

Lol.. Some people thinks once you are a born again then you are no longer human
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by MadCow1: 7:44am On Dec 20, 2014
drake99:
Someone got born again and then deleted all his girlfriend's contacts because he knows with them in his life the journey of knowing God won't work out

Now the sex hormone is against him for keeping away for a long time,he still doesn't need a girlfriend because he needs no distraction

Now he is contemplating on taking a runs girl for a night to quench this urge and move on with his spiritual life,its wrong but how wrong is it?

Don't say he should pray for the urge to disappear,no not all,nature is different from spirituality


Mature comments pls


Just do what I do... Find a Babe, cure your Konji well and go and pray for forgiveness.

You can do this as often as you need to as long as rapture does not happen when you are receiving the treatment.

That's why Jesus died and shed his blood..
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Abbey2sam(m): 7:44am On Dec 20, 2014
Chiadanin:


Very wrong.

how wrong
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Nobody: 7:46am On Dec 20, 2014
Dreaming of how productive Nigeria could be.... if only.
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Disraeli(m): 7:46am On Dec 20, 2014
Sex is a thing of the mind, when you cont to meditate in the word of God it will take the thought of sex out of ur mind.
Thou konji is bastard when u pray & fast it will help u subdue ur sexual urge.
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Callfubu(m): 7:47am On Dec 20, 2014
whoever he is, he should seek for help, talk to his pastor during counselling. Nobody is meant to be perfect and if the brothers that have repented for years still have the urge. the problem in Nigeria is that we feel sex is a bad thing to the extent that a woman asked a question in church, she said and I quote "if its a Sunday and your husband (a pastor who is preaching that morning) asks for sex in the morning, is it right to give it to him?". Imagine a married woman thinking that way, that there are times meant for sex and other times that it is sin to do it. I'll advice the guy to check @soultiestweets or @solaadio on twitter and get the best and unbiased advice from a pastor who is not afraid of the sex discussion
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by PDF: 7:47am On Dec 20, 2014
sportsmaster:
lemme make somethings clear..when u got born again.only u spirit is born again.u body is still dead.if u used to fornicate before u got born again.when u get born again.it is impossible to leave all this habits at once.infact.it is very impossible.when u got born again..did the color of ur hair change?did u sensitivity to anger.pressure or pain change?did u feelings and emotions change?..so u cant expect a constant smoker to stop smoking immediately after getting born again..withdrawal symptoms will kill him..bt these habits can be stopped over time..even when the newly convert sins.his sins will be forgiven..God does nt expect ur to drop our sinful acts at once.he understands hw we feel..every one that is born again is a righteous person..righteouness by faith..we are justified by faith(romans5)Righteousness does nt mean that the man will not sin.it means that even though he sins.it will nt be counted against him(rom4).remember we only recieved grace.it takes graces nt laws to blot out a sinful nature

Conceptual Nonsense!

Agglomeration of balderdash!!

Rubbish!!!
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by seunwen2(m): 7:47am On Dec 20, 2014
kaima1984:
How is d sex hormone against him?for him t be contemplating abt fucking a runs girl,he is NT yet a born again#my charity comment#


That's why am not a born again
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Alman: 7:48am On Dec 20, 2014
He shed fast 3days a week, associate more with righteous, lower his gaze in d midst of women or get married if he can afford to feed d wife. Candid ! It's only a dog dt returns to its previous vomits.
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by nijanigga: 7:48am On Dec 20, 2014
Elantracey:
If he does that it will be a total waste of time driving all his girlfriends away because once he sleeps with one he knows definitely it won't stop there .



Salvation only renews your spirit which is the real you but you have a role to play to renew your mind and your body. What are his thoughts because out of the heart flows the issues of life , if he sincerely wants to change he should change his thinking and continuously meditate on the word of God because that alone can renew his mind which will be able to make him kill his fleshy desires and all these can be achieved only through the help of the holy spirit .
My brother, when you reach certain age, sex is a must,if not you can't function well as person, emotional instability will set in. I had similar issues and had to visit a doctor, the first thing he asked me was how was my sex life, I kind of shrugged it off and said fine, but inside me I knew that was a lie. Moreover,some food we eat,help produce lots of sperm, so how do you dispel accumulated sperm.Our bodies are different,but we will need oil change after certain age.

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Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Akposb(m): 7:48am On Dec 20, 2014
You just need to build your faith to ward off temptation. As regards the urge you need to separate yourself from that which may trigger it.

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Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Willipeppe(m): 7:49am On Dec 20, 2014
[quote author=tracybee post=29038938]Have a cold shower





Even an Ice Shower won't help..
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by ekemini007(m): 7:50am On Dec 20, 2014
Dnt worry about dat guy is either me or u.

Being born again is not just an "event" it is the start if a new life in christ. It usually starts with the baptism of the holy spirit and a walk with God.

Like all new walk their is stumbling and falling(understanding of how the physical things work will help here). Thats why we have "grace" to assist us. Grace is more or less our spiritual walking aid to assist us in our walk with christ.

Dnt be put off by any distraction, the flesh is yerning for more. But With time, it will get use to summitting itself to the spirit of God

I dont have anytin mor to tell you as am still learning to walk myself in christ.

But stay in love with ur heavenly father. And stay continousely close to your earthly ones too( their if you understand how this earthly relationship works spiritual will be a lot easier)

We cn both assist ourself grow. So if u need futher help, call this number

08164027523.

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Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by TrishaP(f): 7:52am On Dec 20, 2014
He calls himself a born again and he wants to knowingly commit sin, after which he'll ask God for forgiveness and blame the Devil. God don suffer!!

Look I believe this is a thing of the mind. If one can control his/her thoughts and actions, there won't be any issue.

Yes, he is human and it's only natural to feel that way, but there are better ways to tackle temptation.

Look up to your mentors for advice...Like a priest or pastor, he can seek advice from them.
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by AdeniyiA(m): 7:52am On Dec 20, 2014
drake99:


Don't say he should pray for the urge to disappear,no not all,nature is different from spirituality


Mature comments pls
Don't worry you'll get the mature comments,as i completely disagree with your assertion of nature-cum-spirituality relationship.
Let me give you this definition; Spirituality is a culture of putting the works of the flesh(natural affections) under total control, in which case any man who yields to the dictates of the flesh is stll being manipulated by the devil standing beside him.
Grace for overcoming is needed by a man who was once in the world to resist the promptings of the devil who'll constantly remind him of enjoyment he once had freely, now nature loves comfort and enjoyment, but saying NO! to these shows that such a man is TRULY born again and ready to serve God
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by JoeCutie(m): 7:53am On Dec 20, 2014
He should just do a 'Thomas A Kempis'...



He should castrate himself!

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Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by mosesosa: 7:55am On Dec 20, 2014
I advice you my dear not to look back because he who put his hand on the plaque and look behind is not fit for the kingdom of God you only need self decipline and endurance and prayer after wards may the good Lord strengthen you as you go along the narrow road it is not easy but the good Lord will strengthen you Jesus who cares will uphold you till he comes commit your self to reading the Bible always follow Christian friends and mature brethren
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by petroxus(m): 7:57am On Dec 20, 2014
Don't. Spoil this
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Nobody: 7:57am On Dec 20, 2014
JoeCutie:
He should just do a 'Thomas A Kempis'...



He should castrate himself!

Thomas 'A Kempis never castrated himself.

I think you have the wrong theologian
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Ultimate001: 7:58am On Dec 20, 2014
bushdoc9919:


You are right....but the loss of hormone secretion may make certain parts of the erogenous architecture of the woman less flexible(hence Hormone replacement therapy for some ladies...which also helps deal with some of the annoying symptoma of menopause).
well, if u ask me, I would say eventhough sex and pregnancy (fertility) go almost hand-in-hand, they r taken care of by seperate hormones. Hence, the crippled or stopped secretion of one does nt hinder d other. In oda words, pregnancy hormone (oestrogen) is dependent on sex drive (libido) hormones but not vice-versa.
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by happyzed0(f): 8:00am On Dec 20, 2014
Tell he 2seek 4 d grace of God n take off his mind. 4rm sex
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by seyexdammie(m): 8:06am On Dec 20, 2014
It is a demonic spirit,pray against it.
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by malbro(m): 8:07am On Dec 20, 2014
roymary:



OP is a bad guy. Shalams never comot for your eyes- Just slap your prick to behave or go online- watch ongoing Syria War videos- your mood go change. Or watch this BH video -

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This muslims tink say killin na solution 2 naija ok naaah
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by youngice(m): 8:07am On Dec 20, 2014
clevvermind:
if he is really born again, he will never think of those things. he is not to go back to his old lifestyle. the appetite for sin dies. unless he was not truly born again as he claimed.
una wey dey read Bible backwards
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by ochejagabriel: 8:08am On Dec 20, 2014
I AM REALLY CONFUSED.
1. FOR EXAMPLE, A CHRISTIAN, WITH A NATURAL SUPER-HIGH SEX DRIVE.
2. IF HE HAS SEX, HE HAS SINNED.
3. IF HE MASTURBATES, HE HAS SINNED
4. IF HE HAS WET DREAMS, INFACT THAT ONE WORST, BECAUSE HE IS BLEEPING IN HIS DREAMS WITH A SPIRIT HE DOESNT KNOW

WHAT THE IS THE WAY OUT?
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by inaiduna(m): 8:08am On Dec 20, 2014
tracybee:
Have a cold shower

That is just going to make it worse!
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by olivegirl(f): 8:09am On Dec 20, 2014
drake99:
Someone got born again and then deleted all his girlfriend's contacts because he knows with them in his life the journey of knowing God won't work out

Now the sex hormone is against him for keeping away for a long time,he still doesn't need a girlfriend because he needs no distraction

Now he is contemplating on taking a runs girl for a night to quench this urge and move on with his spiritual life,its wrong but how wrong is it?. The word is pure, the creator said thru apostle paul, if you can hold yourself marry. The hormone God use to create dis drive is stronger than iron rod. But you can't hold God responsible if you fail. In all sins he said thou shall not, thou shall not . But when it comes to fornication he said flee. So dear God wants you to run now for you to secure your race. Gallant men failed cause they refused to run. The truth ,the more you hooked with girls the more it desire you to sin. But think of jesus who never did it, emulate him. Also avoid seducing films. If you can defeat this hormone ,you are born again.

Don't say he should pray for the urge to disappear,no not all,nature is different from spirituality


Mature comments pls

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