Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,194,564 members, 7,955,095 topics. Date: Saturday, 21 September 2024 at 04:43 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Religion / When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved (42264 Views)
Can A Born Again Give A Head During Sex? / How Can One Identify A True Born Again Christian? / A Born Again Christian Is Not A Sinner (even If He Sins) (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by josite: 12:48pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
yes |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by damosky12(m): 12:56pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Bigbro50: My brother, all the traces of lust does not die immediately you are bornagain. You are the one to put the body under subjection through yielding to the Spirit rather than the flesh. Rom 8: 12-13. However, it takes the Spiritually mature to be constantly led by the Spirit asin the verse '14'. The SONS of God is from the word huious meaning matured children of God. Maturity too, however comes by the renewing of one's mind (Rom 12:2). That is, replacing the thoughts of the flesh in your mind with God's word. Thats why God enjoins newly bornagains to study God's word (1 Peter 2:2). It is God's word that results into growth unto maturity. No Christian is able to live a sinless life until He grows in the things of the Spirit. |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Obalende: 1:15pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
by the post I am not trying to disprove christianity/ the bible. its just my opinion. I believe attraction to hot thighs, sexy lips, sexy body shape, responsiveness to kissing etc are all natural part of humanness. I believe there is nothing lustful/ evil about it. the only other alternative is to go sleep with sex workers. Guys you can only suppress so much until your natural self surfaces. I also believe it is not healthy to repress ones feelings. there are professing religious ppl who wont go on dates because the girl may hv been sent by satin. There are many others who are embarrassed about their errrections. if doggs hv erections why cant a human? |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Vinnozaro(m): 1:37pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
drake99: |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by kingolovich(m): 1:41pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
According to what my trusted pastor has told me on a topic like this. Let him have a set aside time at which he reads his bible. He doesn't have to read at length. He can read a verse but he should understand it, digest it, and let him have FAITH that God will help him According to what my trusted pastor has told me on a topic like this. Let him have a set aside time at which he reads his bible. He doesn't have to read at length. He can read a verse but he should understand it, digest it, and let him have FAITH that God will help him |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Sonyworld(m): 1:46pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
I undastand ur situatn. U are born again once u confess Jesus is lord and accept him into ur life. Nw ur body and its urge nids to be controled. D best way to do this is by studyin and meditatin on d word of God(psalm 119:9-11). Ur sexual urge wont leave immediately bt slowly u are transformed into a beta person(christ). |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Vinnozaro(m): 2:27pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
drake99: TO DEFEAT THE URGE READ THE FELLOWING VERSES AND APPLY WHAT IT SAY TO YOUR LIFE - 2 Timothy 2:22 Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart. (this particular 2 Timothy 2:22 has the best answer study each word in it and u will overcome the temptation) other verses are: -1 Corinthians 6:13 Meats for the belly, and the belly for meats: but God shall destroy both it and them. Now the body [is] not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body. -Galatians 5:19-21 Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are [these]; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, (Read More...) -1 Corinthians 6:9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind. NB: KNOW THAT U CAN ALWAYS OVERCOME IT -1 Corinthians 10:13 There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God [is] faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it NB: DON'T FORGET TO PRAY FOR BY STRENGTH NO MAN SHALL PREVAIL ~ 1 SAMUEL 2:9 |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Gynacologist(m): 2:29pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
drake99:chia.....say cos pasin b born again him no go bleep....even ol ds so called men of God i no trust dem one bit....conji na veri bad tin..killed ma nxt door neighbo last wik....some go hide fo room de mastubate leta say dem b born twice.... |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by nd07(m): 2:30pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
drake99: if u understand wat it means being born again, u'll know dt nature shuld be under d control of supernature |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by itstpia8: 2:46pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Anyway, I assume the topic was meant for joke section. The runs girl also needs salvation, maybe he wants her to accept Christ and then preach to him before his eyes will clear. |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by MyMentor: 2:59pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
u already know d answer bt refuse 2 accept it. Or dn't u knw dat spritual controls d physical? |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by bassette(m): 3:07pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Elantracey:Elantracey i love u for this contribution..God bless!!! 1 Like |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by smartoliver(m): 3:30pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
nature's gat the urge.he's got soul.so y can't he keep it 2geda and control himself.every one feels the urge but we all can control it if we want to.even sum one without God can.so y can't a born again cristain neutralize d urge..the question is wrong and so is the ansa |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Nobody: 3:35pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
kevoh: You've made me look at all these pedophilia cases in Nigeria in a new light. |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Samabu07(m): 3:50pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
drake99: And who says its not natural to control it? If konji hooks u and u don't prack it out, will ur rod burst? He can as well control it if he wishes. Avoid anything that would distract ur mind, just as he deleted his Ex-Phone numbers. |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by deniyor: 3:54pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
bushdoc9919: All that one no follow. I can have a gf and stay faithful to her. It's all self control. Moreover, having no sex before marriage is no guarantee of faithfulness /fidelity after marriage. All na wash, don't bother with all the hypocrisy. |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Nobody: 3:58pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Nobody: 5:08pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
ALL YOU FEMALES SHOULD STFU!!!! WHAT DO U LOTS KNOW ABOUT KONJI, YOU ALL THAT EXPERIENCE KONJI ONCE A WEEK ONLY WHEN U SEE A BLUE EYE FINEBOY, U THINK ITS LIKE THAT FOR GUYS ABI WE GUYS GET HORNYY 12 TIMES A DAY , DO U KNOW HOW DIFFICULT IT IS TO OWN A PENISSSS I AM BEING RAW AND ANNOYINGLY TRUTHFUL. 5 Likes |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by kevoh(m): 5:33pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
MissMeiya: Pray, share your newly discovered opinion. |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Austin234(m): 7:47pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Walk in d spirit and u wil not gratify d desires of d flesh. Preoccupying ur mind with carnal things wil lead to d present situation. Walking in d spirit means to meditate ur mind on d word of God, living a kingdom lifestyle and being prayerful May God help u |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Nobody: 8:00pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
drake99: Tell him to walk a girl down the aisle. Pure and simple. |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by asalimpo(m): 8:47pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Sunkyphil:I used to think like this too , tht all B.As dont hav urges, most i know just give in, confess and get back on. They've stopped struggling! |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by asalimpo(m): 8:50pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
soccerinfo9ja:easy bro. Tellin it like it is. |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Emmahunk(m): 9:34pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
drake99: When someone is born again,, natural and Scientific laws cease to control his being. Sex hormones are also present in eunuchs and would not be a challenge to his Christian life. At new birth, the old self is buried and a brand new self, in Christ Jesus appears! "Old things are passed away, behold, all things are become new" At this stage, the flesh is so disciplined that the same God that made the lions in the den to become friends with Daniel, the same God that changed the fiery furnace to air conditioner for Shederack and his colleagues will make the flesh crave for holiness and spirituality and not for sex |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Fkhalifa(m): 9:49pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
soccerinfo9ja:God bless this post,in matters of kongi,any guy listening to ladies is just fooling himself,cos these ladies dont experience what guys face when battling kongi,the ladies sexual drive is lower and heats up with then once a while,thereby making it for them to control with ease,thay why they arent fit to render solution. and to the hypocritea quoting verses,faith doesnt solve nature,no wonder we get shocked reading news of pastors and men of GOD messing around. |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by pedigree7: 10:20pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Reading the word of God through the help of the Holy spirit helps to cast away such thoughts when it comes and it makes you grow spiritually, and you become stronger and stronger. Godliness is a constant desperation to please God, God knows we are not perfect that's why He gave us the Holy Spirit to guide us. The bible says resist the devil and he shall flee the more you resist the more he gets tired of disturbing you. If you are truly a born again christain and you want to grow in Christ, temptations will come to you from all corners, so you should always say say this when they come " I PREFER TO SUFFER WITH CHRIST TO DO RIGHT THAN REMAIN IN BONDAGE TO SIN" |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by itstpia8: 10:23pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
soccerinfo9ja: Bro, you are gay. |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by Nobody: 11:01pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Sxual urge iz normal,buh den ion fink it jez come lyk dat U must av watched sumfin dah brought d urge Or probably engaged ursef in sum ungodly fins or thinking Wen u talkin abt born again,u talkin abt geniue repentance And d holyspirit has given us d power to control awa flesh Wee all knw adultery is a sin,and one way or d odanwe are guilty of diz Since u willingly retraced ur step bak to him U don't wanna go to hell,so take control of dat flesh now,and avoid wordly fins Y wuld u wanna waste ur sp on premarital sex wen God gave u d grace of gettin married D kingdom of God iz nt easy,so nuffin comes easy even on earth So u nid to take control of ur flesh b4 it taks u dwn on d last day And if any fin cause u to sin,cut it off Iz beta 4 u to cut dem off dan puttin ur whole body in hell cause of one thing Anytym u av d felings,just try to engage ur sef in spiritual stuffs Heaven iz no joke,u nid to struggle 4 it Strive 4 holiness May God elp u bro 2 Likes |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by drealdoc89(m): 12:30am On Dec 21, 2014 |
roymary:Funny post but theres truth in it...Theres no way sexual urges can gain control over you when your thoughts aint on lust. Like d example quoted above |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by TCann(m): 12:32am On Dec 21, 2014 |
kaima1984: Do you school in France? |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by drealdoc89(m): 12:36am On Dec 21, 2014 |
Elantracey:Am with you on this one. The flesh can never and will never be born again. Its the duty of every believer to learn to cup his/her sexual urges till his/her wedding day. With God all things are possible. |
Re: When A Born Again Christian Is Sex Starved by ptoall: 1:02am On Dec 21, 2014 |
People here are joking Wt serious matters. What is happening to OP can happen to anybody even if he or she is married. It takes God's grace to overcome such wild fire. I ll advise that op finds a trusted and mature, close Christian friend to share his matter Wt. Be open to the person and pray together with him. Continue discussing Wt him and don't keep things to yourself too much. |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (Reply)
Why Do People Sleep In The Church? / Have You Seen This Photo Of Our President And Akwa Ibom State PDP Governor? / Why I Relocated To US – Pastor Sam Adeyemi
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 79 |