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Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by Nobody: 8:36pm On Jan 23, 2015
emusmith:


Some Deltans can talk sha o... smiley
It's everywhere. wink
Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by Nobody: 8:39pm On Jan 23, 2015
But some men can provoke..like seriously. If you don't talk you'll end up with a high bp.I talk from a far sha.. grin

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Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by passionate88: 8:39pm On Jan 23, 2015
sharon763:
What about the women in d labour room dat used to curse their husbands due to pain or whateva...
That one is different.... She's under duress

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Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by Nobody: 8:40pm On Jan 23, 2015
Herzumpther:
It's everywhere. wink

Yes...it is an attitude thing...Self development wink
Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by nkemdi89(f): 8:40pm On Jan 23, 2015
My neighbour will tell her children in the presence of their dad(her husband) that their father is dead(e ni baba o baba yin ti ku) .whenever the man annoys her.
Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by oakson: 8:41pm On Jan 23, 2015
emusmith:

A lady colleague was giving me this same annoying excuse two days back saying..."You know women na, them get mouth na."....I know know women o... If I remember very well, Sarah na woman and she called Abraham, "lord"...which kain woman you be?

It's for reasons of this sort that some men marry girls they're well older than so she can at least think twice before mannerlessly whitewashing him with words...

Women That Do These Things Lack These:

1. Proper Education: Proper Education teaches one when and how to talk.

2. Sensible Friends: Most times, its from her friends she "copies" such from... I can't explain how calling me "Nonsense Guy" is a joke! Expensive & Childish Joke for that matter o...

3. Teachable attitude: She must have been hearing that but she refuses to change...


Thanks OP: This is a sensitive issue.

BUT, I will love her...cheesy...Love conquers all...it will conquer that too...Men, love your wives! Her bad mouth, notwithstanding. grin


You will still love her with your above highlighted features? As in seriously...
Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by AGgal(f): 8:41pm On Jan 23, 2015
NickiRoman:
Speak for yourself madam undecided

I wasn't speaking for you,BTW twas only a joke
Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by passionate88: 8:42pm On Jan 23, 2015
AGgal:
Na our only source of power
And you abuse it... No wonder some men avoid most girls with money more than them
Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by Nobody: 8:44pm On Jan 23, 2015
oakson:
You will still love her with your above highlighted features? As in seriously...

I guess I will love her not from myself but through Him- Agape love smiley

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Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by Whobedatte(m): 8:44pm On Jan 23, 2015
Habybullah:
Wish ma IYAWO would read this!!! I always boast that I could never hit a woman. I never ever laid hands on ma sisters or any other woman @ that! But in the 2 years of our marriage, I ve hit ma wife twice! Coz she wouldn't just ever shut up! Calling me names, calling ma family names.
Habudun llahi? Rora e o. Ma lu iyawo re pa oo. Ewon gbere ni o wink
Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by Fawklicant: 8:44pm On Jan 23, 2015
SisterCaro:
Its always easy for men to talk about how unruly women can be, but let me ask you something. Im sure when you married her she wasn't like that because if she was you most probably weren't going to take her down the alter.

Surely if you cheat you shouldnt expect to come back home everyday to a happy home with eba and ogbono on the table for you.

Now tell us what is it that you men do that make these women turn into " tongue lashing beasts"?


Guys misbehave sometimes but sometimes women can overreact. I have a friend who had issues with his gf back then and she was just thrashing him without hindrance while he just ignored her and was playing video game. The girl got infuriated and just walked up to him, looked at him up and down a few times and just blurted out "See how you look like Bingo", hissed a very long hiss and walked away. The game console just fell of his hands, I laughed so hard and that kinda defused the tension because both of them joined me in laughter later.
The guy probably would have done or said something he would later regret.

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Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by oakson: 8:45pm On Jan 23, 2015
nkemdi89:
My neighbour will tell her children in the presence of their dad(her husband) that their father is dead(e ni baba o baba yin ti ku) .whenever the man annoys her.
A typical example of mama risi oniru....
Hehehehehehehe

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Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by tonychristopher: 8:45pm On Jan 23, 2015
Yes I know women talk too much but the way I used and it has worked is simple ..when the talk becomes unbearable ..first of all warn her never yo call you names

Then if she continues ..warn her again never call you names ..she can talk because talk is cheap but not to call you names again

If she persist then give her a very hot slap that will make her see stars

Just a slap ..she won't talk again and she will cry ..next before she talks and remembers the slap she will think twice

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Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by Bekeee(f): 8:47pm On Jan 23, 2015
@op think would have been better and or fair enough if you had titled your topic "WOMEN, if u must marry then learn to bridle your tongue". Reason is for peace to reign tho. Personally, as a lady, I reason before I utter my words and i think same applies to all the responsible ladies out there. It doesn't mean we (responsible ladies)don't get angry but the ability to control ones temper rather than uttering provocative words or abuses is what beats the other lady (who chooses to be abusive or provocative) to it because at the end of the day, she (abusive lady) pays a great deal which could be either by loosing her marriage completely or the lack of peace therein.
Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by Glocal1: 8:47pm On Jan 23, 2015
rabbaba:
What of me that get married in 2013 april13 and she park and left to her papa house. Not as if am beating her or dat my people drove her she on her on parked and even carry our load back to her fathers house. Just tell me is that not madness? Now the bush girl is calling me to come and take back the brid price I paid for her head and d moncky thought I will wake up and drive down to do that as if I don't have anything doing with my time
What's her reason for leaving? There is more to it than wot u wrote or so I think.
Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by oakson: 8:49pm On Jan 23, 2015
emusmith:


I guess I will love her not from myself but through Him- Agape love smileysmiley
Has He conquered the 'YOU' in you?
Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by nkemdi89(f): 8:49pm On Jan 23, 2015
oakson:

A typical example of mama risi oniru....
Hehehehehehehe
Hahahahahaha my own is iya shade o,though they are seperated now
Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by Nobody: 8:50pm On Jan 23, 2015
emusmith:


Yes...it is an attitude thing...Self development wink
Yes o.
Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by tivta(m): 8:50pm On Jan 23, 2015
AGgal:
Na our only source of power
grin












Na joke I dey o! They don dey blast me



. And when men beat you its their own source of power. Smh.

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Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by Nobody: 8:51pm On Jan 23, 2015
oakson:

Has He conquered the 'YOU' in you?[/b]

MOG, break it down abeg? grin
Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by oakson: 8:53pm On Jan 23, 2015
[quote author=nkemdi89 post=30069178]
Hahahahahaha
#bringbackouriyashade

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Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by dinachi(m): 8:54pm On Jan 23, 2015
Fawklicant:


Guys misbehave sometimes but sometimes women can overreact. I have a friend who had issues with his gf back then and she was just thrashing him without hindrance while he just ignored her and was playing video game. The girl got infuriated and just walked up to him, looked at him up and down a few times and just blurted out "See how you look like Bingo", hissed a very long hiss and walked away. The game console just fell of his hands, I laughed so hard and that kinda defused the tension because both of them joined me in laughter later.
The guy probably would have done or said something he would later regret.
No be small, if you jam woman Wey get bad mouth your don finish. Na so you go dey run commot for house, dey go hang out with guys every nite. You go prefer mass beating to bad mouthing... Chaii women, abeg make una change...oh!

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Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by tivta(m): 8:56pm On Jan 23, 2015
Strangely enough no woman (except my mum) can insult me and make me feel bad. If she insults me and I have I time I will insult her back if not, I just work away. Infact some of my exs say it would have been better if I punched or beat them than insult them verbally .Strangely enough no woman (except my mum) can insult me and make me feel bad. If she insults me and I have I time I will insult her back if not, I just work away. Infact some of my exs say it would have been better if I punched or beat them than insult them verbally lipsrsealed (have never beaten a woman and hopefully I never will) I guess I just have high resistance to verbal insults, infact I can insult my self.lol . Most men however just can't tolerate it. Like I always say, tit for tat...
Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by Mhizkel(f): 8:58pm On Jan 23, 2015
Men: if u dnt av enuf patience n preservance, DON'T MARRY!
#Shikenah

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Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by AJOT99(m): 8:59pm On Jan 23, 2015
Dats right!
Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by oakson: 9:03pm On Jan 23, 2015
I hear you
Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by Veckylord(m): 9:03pm On Jan 23, 2015
Any woman wa try for my front 'physical'insult me the kind beating wa i go beat am no be here

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Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by oakson: 9:05pm On Jan 23, 2015
emusmith:


MOG, break it down abeg? grin



Hehehehe.... MO what? I be bench warmer o
I mean as he dealt with flesh in you? No man doesn't want a next to none marital experience, but we"ve all got to settle scores with our inborn traits and taskmaster(THE FLESH) when we are in it(MARRIAGE)
Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by Adaezeagu(f): 9:07pm On Jan 23, 2015
Augustbreak:
But some men can provoke..like seriously. If you don't talk you'll end up with a high bp.I talk from a far sha.. grin
hahaha u dey fear default setting slap
Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by Nobody: 9:08pm On Jan 23, 2015
oakson:




Hehehehe.... MO what? I be bench warmer o
I mean as he dealt with flesh in you? No man doesn't want a next to none marital experience, but we"ve all got to settle scores with our inborn traits and taskmaster(THE FLESH) when we are in it(MARRIAGE)
.

You know it's a continuous process... years ago, I watched a movie titled Fireproof... In there, I saw what it meant to love with this kinda love. I desired it ever since... He is still perfecting it in me smiley

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Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by nairabetguru(m): 9:09pm On Jan 23, 2015
apparentlylaw:
I still dey Tell pple ..if ur wife starts to nag or curses U ..get a chair sit down and be looking @ her ..na she go tire

Lolz....... Seriously nah she go tire oooooOoooooo grin
Re: To Women: If You Can't Control Your Mouth Don't Marry! by Nobody: 9:17pm On Jan 23, 2015
Rababa. Your story is touching. Did you claim to be what you were not b4 marriage.
Were you firing her....very well and regularly.
There must be a reason.

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