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We Are Dating The Same Guy And We Know His Girlfriend by billachusim(m): 5:52pm On Feb 11, 2015
Story currently discussed @CadGallery on instagram.


We have been very close friends since university days till now.
We are both live in Port Harcourt now. Sometimes, we live together because we visit each other and spend weeks staying together at each other's houses.

One day she told me that the guy he just met was more interested in me. That she also wasn't really interested in him. She set us up and we went on a date.
From then, I and the guy started seeing each other but along the way my friend started seeing him too. I guess she found her interest again in him.

She knows I'm still seeing him. I know she is still seeing him. The guy knows that we know he knows he is dating two friends. I and my girl are still close friends. We don't just discuss him. It seems like we are dynamically sleeping with the same guy and not letting it come between us. I don't know how we are doing it but for real thatss what it is. We still stay together sometimes.

I don't know if I like him more or she does but somehow the guy knows how to treat a lady but because of the craze in this thing. He isn't taking us seriously, he feels we are a pair of desperados and I'm sure he is not going to settle with any of us. As a matter of fact, I and my friend knows his main girlfriend.

I and my friend knew about this but never even discussed it. We just pretended to each other like there is nothing happening inbetween us. Somehow something kept us glued to the awkwardness. Maybe because we both pretended and playing a game of chicken, waiting for one person to lady up and break up. But none of us is showing signs of uninterest not to mention quit.

I don't know what my friend's story is but I know she is dating another guy. The guy doesn't know she shares another guy with her bestfriend.
I have been in meaningless relationships. It is settled that guys cheat, cheat and cheat again. I'm not ready to hustle and tussle in a relationship like I'm at war. When I'm ready to get married, I will light the candle of expectations but now, I'm okay with a guy that takes care of me sexually and otherwise even if there is no future. I have commitment issues myself, that's why this twisted cycle is okay with me. My very demanding job keeps me busy. So I guess I ain't hunting till am hunted.

You all can put on your judgement caps and start criticising forgetting that all girls are just dating the same guys. Difference is that I know about mine. You don't know about yours.

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Re: We Are Dating The Same Guy And We Know His Girlfriend by Maamin(m): 6:05pm On Feb 11, 2015
looks like you and your bestie's pinshure is tied to a tree in a deep forest with one big rusted padlock in a black calabash plus a piece of red cloth to it.. shocked

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Re: We Are Dating The Same Guy And We Know His Girlfriend by Nobody: 6:09pm On Feb 11, 2015
Not here to judge, just wanna ask questions.

1. Since all guys cheat, who do they cheat with? You friend is currently straffing 2 guys at once, is she a man??

2. If the situation doesnt bother u, and u dnt care abt commitment, jst ur satisfaction, why are u bringing the matter up for the public to 'judge'?? It should be like eating and taking ur bath - u dnt bring such things to the e-public.
Re: We Are Dating The Same Guy And We Know His Girlfriend by uniqueren(f): 6:19pm On Feb 11, 2015
Now am really going to throw up
Re: We Are Dating The Same Guy And We Know His Girlfriend by mkpakanaodogwu(m): 6:22pm On Feb 11, 2015
uniqueren:
Now am really going to throw up
why?
Re: We Are Dating The Same Guy And We Know His Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:17pm On Feb 27, 2015
i like your disposition, your honest. some will pretend. your chance will come one day. thumbs up babe. i like you type.

billachusim:
Story currently discussed @CadGallery on instagram.


We have been very close friends since university days till now.
We are both live in Port Harcourt now. Sometimes, we live together because we visit each other and spend weeks staying together at each other's houses.

One day she told me that the guy he just met was more interested in me. That she also wasn't really interested in him. She set us up and we went on a date.
From then, I and the guy started seeing each other but along the way my friend started seeing him too. I guess she found her interest again in him.

She knows I'm still seeing him. I know she is still seeing him. The guy knows that we know he knows he is dating two friends. I and my girl are still close friends. We don't just discuss him. It seems like we are dynamically sleeping with the same guy and not letting it come between us. I don't know how we are doing it but for real thatss what it is. We still stay together sometimes.

I don't know if I like him more or she does but somehow the guy knows how to treat a lady but because of the craze in this thing. He isn't taking us seriously, he feels we are a pair of desperados and I'm sure he is not going to settle with any of us. As a matter of fact, I and my friend knows his main girlfriend.

I and my friend knew about this but never even discussed it. We just pretended to each other like there is nothing happening inbetween us. Somehow something kept us glued to the awkwardness. Maybe because we both pretended and playing a game of chicken, waiting for one person to lady up and break up. But none of us is showing signs of uninterest not to mention quit.

I don't know what my friend's story is but I know she is dating another guy. The guy doesn't know she shares another guy with her bestfriend.
I have been in meaningless relationships. It is settled that guys cheat, cheat and cheat again. I'm not ready to hustle and tussle in a relationship like I'm at war. When I'm ready to get married, I will light the candle of expectations but now, I'm okay with a guy that takes care of me sexually and otherwise even if there is no future. I have commitment issues myself, that's why this twisted cycle is okay with me. My very demanding job keeps me busy. So I guess I ain't hunting till am hunted.

You all can put on your judgement caps and start criticising forgetting that all girls are just dating the same guys. Difference is that I know about mine. You don't know about yours.

Re: We Are Dating The Same Guy And We Know His Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:38pm On Feb 27, 2015
Omo see osho free...ride on girl, d guy dikwa sharp seriously.
Re: We Are Dating The Same Guy And We Know His Girlfriend by ivyT(f): 7:45pm On Feb 27, 2015
Maturity is key,when u hv it u deal with things wisely

That's a saying,whatever rocks your boat babe*
Re: We Are Dating The Same Guy And We Know His Girlfriend by Radiokilar: 11:24pm On Feb 27, 2015
#storyforAblog happen alot in nollywood
Re: We Are Dating The Same Guy And We Know His Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:44pm On Feb 27, 2015
Chai! I wish I was dat guy oh. D guy day flex skata.

But e good sha, d chic no go complain of heartbreak.

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