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Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by Nobody: 10:41pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
bukatyne: Wetin do the hand.? Na midget . Like inyanya. So they won't be eating fresh food again. Na wah 1 Like |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by Nobody: 10:42pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Chillisauce:Hehehe...that was a joke... Not my portion! I don't have problem with cooking fresh food tho, but sitting at home is a NO NO The gods forbid |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by okotv(m): 10:42pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Chillisauce:do they watch champions league on weekends lol....hahahaha |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by Nobody: 10:45pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
okotv: When do they watch champions league? Abi na premiership? all join. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by Nobody: 10:47pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
donpeey22: Why will the gods forbid ? The ones sitting at home are not humans ?. Why is it difficult for you to sit at home and take charge of your home |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by okotv(m): 10:52pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Chillisauce:champions league is played Tuesday and Wednesday except the finals which come up on Saturdays. Premiership is played during the weekends except on special occasions that Tuesdays and Wednesdays are used just as this week. It was all kind of funny, your reply. NB: No other game is played once the champions league is on in Europe. Try it and get fined. |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by Nobody: 10:54pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Chillisauce:Personally I can't sit at home because that would not only render me penniless but it's also boring. I can't imagine myself sitting one place and not going out to contribute my quota towards the making or destruction of the world. |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by Nobody: 10:57pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
okotv: Oh ok, I was referring to the ones played on weekends. Where the guys sneak out of home to drink beer and eat kpomo. Come back when wify and kids have gone to bed. Then wake up tired woman to demand for his "rights' 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by Nobody: 11:00pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
donpeey22: Don't worry, she will drop pocket money for you. As for sitting too long, you can join a support group that plays football every Saturday. Keeps you in shape |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by okotv(m): 11:01pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Chillisauce:I understand you. I don't give advice to the married cause am not one yet. Just thought to laugh at your comment |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by lilmax(m): 11:07pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Only if men knew Well when you allow your wife take up your responsibilities as the head,you make sure you take up her responsibilities as surbordinate Only pu.ssie.s will watch their wives become head,GOD FORBID 1 Like |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by bukatyne(f): 11:11pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
coogar: Some are, Some are not 2 Likes |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by bukatyne(f): 11:14pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
lilmax: Your attitude doesn't help matters So caring for the home front is the work of a subordinate? 2 Likes |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by bukatyne(f): 11:15pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
donpeey22: Some people find themselves in such shoes suddenly 2 Likes |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by Joy1706(f): 11:15pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
coogar: When a man is the sole breadwinner in most cases, he becomes controlling, talks down to her, makes her beg 4 every little thing, feels like she has no right to question him etc. Besides I don't think becoming arrogant and disrespectful when success comes in is a 'woman' thing, it's a 'human' thing. 5 Likes |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by bukatyne(f): 11:18pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
okotv: I get it Lol! You know, If people applied their religious beliefs to their daily life, This world would be a better place. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by okotv(m): 11:23pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
bukatyne:Thank you @ the last paragraph. I teach and practice cause that makes me a better person. By the way, what didn't you want to spill earlier |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by Nobody: 11:29pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
donpeey22: LOL u cracked me up with that.. u be baba wayray 1 Like |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by Nobody: 11:39pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Chillisauce:Lol.. U geh bad plans for me |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by bukatyne(f): 11:43pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
okotv: Living the life practically. It is absurd you see Fire speaking Christians supporting adultery or other stuffs you know are clearly wrong. I am sure 90% of the people on NL who believe all men cheat. are either Christians or Muslims which both detest adultery One poster standd has a nice piece on FP 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by okotv(m): 11:47pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
bukatyne:its because am really engaged now so I hardly confront people. Whenever I see justification for things religion condemns by adherents, I begin to wonder which way forward. |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by bukatyne(f): 11:50pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
okotv: The way forward is to the front 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by okotv(m): 12:00am On Mar 04, 2015 |
bukatyne:lol |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by baralatie(m): 12:12am On Mar 04, 2015 |
lilmax: |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by babygirlfl: 1:54am On Mar 04, 2015 |
cococandy: so true 3 Likes |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by babygirlfl: 1:54am On Mar 04, 2015 |
FrancisTony: Exactly 4 Likes |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by Nobody: 8:37am On Mar 04, 2015 |
Chillisauce: 1 Like |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by Nobody: 9:16am On Mar 04, 2015 |
Who wants to be a sole-breadwinner? |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by Nobody: 9:32am On Mar 04, 2015 |
Blablabla. An eye for an eye thingz. |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by lilmax(m): 10:10am On Mar 04, 2015 |
bukatyne:what do you expect? |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by Nobody: 10:41am On Mar 04, 2015 |
okotv:I'm telling you.. To each his own...all these arguments on who does this and that make marriage look like some battle ground, my husband must do this, my wife mustn't do this bla bla bla.....whatever works for both of you please... when two people who genuinely love themselves are involved, petty issues like this won't come up because each knows just what to do at every point in time as they both have each other's happiness as priority.... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When A Woman Becomes The Breadwinner.... by klark3: 4:05pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
Joy1706:My dear with total sincerity, men handle success better than women. Success intoxicate women. The male child has been trained as a leader by both d mum & dad. It would be an aberration for a male child to wash dishes in a house with female. The male child is expected to emulate his dad, while female, their mum. The society plays a significant role in our lives, & the society recognise the wife & female children to be the cook in any family. For example, I'm d 4th child, d first is a girl, she's married with kids, but whenever she is at home, maybe on holiday or any celebration, she does all the d house chores & cooking, because she had a good upbringing. So u don't expect me to get married tomorrow & cook for my wife, even if am idle, I will never do it. Personally, I think God designed it that way, it's a God given role to women, in marriage, it's generally acceptable for a woman to cook, do house chores, is her natural responsibility. That's why most successful restaurants are managed by women, because it's related to cooking, washing dishes. Though I know most women deplore this culture, but in a realistic sense, it's more acceptable by d general public. U as girl won't be happy if u visit your brother to find out that he's d one doing all d house chores & cooking, while d wife sits on a sofa watching TV. Though women have been agitating for equality, the obvious God made domineering power of a male cannot be overshadowed by d weak characteristics of a female. In marriage, it would be better if women are in charge of anything that has to do with d kitchen & chores, regardless of her financial status, the man's involvement can be episodic. A man is man, d male natural responsibility is to cater for d family financially, & if he fails, he resort to frustration, because he has failed. Subjecting him to doing house chores will only compound his failure as d breadwinner. This will only escalate issues. there are certain things that doesn't befits a man, I don't know why women are finding it difficult to accept this natural/cultural Phenomenon. 1 Like |
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