my cousin will put to birth soon, since it is her first child and also her mom first grandchild. Should her mother come for omugwo considering the fact that she is living with her husband, mil and sil in the same house. Can the two women stay in the house for three months? When a woman comes for omugwo she is expected to take over the entire house. Though, i told her mom not to go but its like i want to put sand in her garri. Pls nlers ur opinon

of course it's very advisable. ...


that's if you want to watch World War 3

2 mothers battling for supremacy over one household..... me sef go like to observe that calamity

One after the other.

It's not advisable for one to stay not to talk of two

They should take turns. No use having two old mama dragging their feet around the house.

There is nothing wrong with the two mother in-laws staying together with the couple but again it also has to do wiith the relationship between the two mother. That this I mean how close the two mothers are. I have seen a family were the both mothers stay with the couple & they are leaving in peace.

It depends on d r/ship btw dem both.even then, its advisable one mil stay for mayb a week & leave d oda der to spend d longer tym or do it in turns.

Buh its not easy, d joy of bn a granny no b beans.

Why will a man live with his mother, sister and wife in the same house for Goodness' sake.
Since camping extended family members is the norm in that house, Mama could as well join them too. I see no wrong in it...





Let me not see them on nairaland with wahala for us to advice oh... my koboko is waiting for them.
Mtchwww...

buygala:
of course it's very advisable. ...


that's if you want to watch World War 3

2 mothers battling for supremacy over one household..... me sef go like to observe that calamity

Honestly, i don't know why a man would want to subject his wife to such kind of mental stress. If his mother and sister do not have a place to stay, he should rent an apartment for them abeg. Somebody will marry and cannot enjoy her husband. Na wa oh!

veave:



Honestly, i don't know why a man would want to subject his wife to such kind of mental stress. If his mother and sister do not have a place to stay, he should rent an apartment for them abeg. Somebody will marry and cannot enjoy her husband. Na wa oh!

the thing tire me o.. I wont be comfortable in the house sef

veave:
Why will a man live with his mother, sister and wife in the same house for Goodness' sake.
Since camping extended family members is the norm in that house, Mama could as well join them too. I see no wrong in it...





Let me not see them on nairaland with wahala for us to advice oh... my koboko is waiting for them.
Mtchwww...

imo, i will advice my mum to stay for one or two weeks to avoid wahala. Having two women in one house and in one kitchen is not advisable

amokeme:
the thing tire me o.. I wont be comfortable in the house sef

that is where the problem is coming from. She told me that she is not comfortable living in the same house with her in laws but her hubby sees nothing wrong with it. That they are the only family he have and can't do without them that i should try and convince her mom not to come but mama refused

Enee ohhhh; NO! One is one too many let alone two.

veave:



Honestly, i don't know why a man would want to subject his wife to such kind of mental stress. If his mother and sister do not have a place to stay, he should rent an apartment for them abeg. Somebody will marry and cannot enjoy her husband. Na wa oh!

Have you considered he may not be able to afford alternative accommodation

pickabeau1:


Have you considered he may not be able to afford alternative accommodation

I'm sure there are other existing family members. They can rotate abeg. If you must get married, then provisions should be made for such instances. If mama is sick and needs special attention, I can understand. But packing your things and comfortable living with a newly married couple is what I do not understand.
Let the girls mother come and join them. Let her even stay the whole year

callola:
that is where the problem is coming from. She told me that she is not comfortable living in the same house with her in laws but her hubby sees nothing wrong with it. That they are the only family he have and can't do without them that i should try and convince her mom not to come but mama refused

that's a selfish man. You better advice him to invite his wife's mother by himself. It is her right to do omugo for her daughter while she is still alife.

buygala:
of course it's very advisable. ...


that's if you want to watch World War 3

2 mothers battling for supremacy over one household..... me sef go like to observe that calamity

veave:





I'm sure there are other existing family members. They can rotate abeg. If you must get married, then provisions should be made for such instances. If mama is sick and needs special attention, I can understand. But packing your things and comfortable living with a newly married couple is what I do not understand.
Let the girls mother come and join them. Let her even stay the whole year

Without knowing the specificities of this case, all you can do is make assumptions

callola:
that is where the problem is coming from. She told me that she is not comfortable living in the same house with her in laws but her hubby sees nothing wrong with it. That they are the only family he have and can't do without them that i should try and convince her mom not to come but mama refused

i really feel for her. As it is now, i don't think there is anything she can do than to get used to the situation. Some mothers should be reasonable enough not to stay in their sons house when he is married. Since he can't do without them, renting a house in the same city would have been the best.

Hell no! *no explanations.

pickabeau1:


Without knowing the specificities of this case, all you can do is make assumptions

I'm not living with them. Even op doesn't know the whole truth. People tell you only what they want you to hear. My assumptions are based on what op heard and shared with us.


Thank you

The four grannies should also be brought on board too.

Afterall, all's fair in love and war.

It's advisable.

But with a referee, at least it will avail d occupants d opportunity of watching royal rumble, live!

amokeme:
i really feel for her. As it is now, i don't think there is anything she can do than to get used to the situation. Some mothers should be reasonable enough not to stay in their sons house when he is married. Since he can't do without them, renting a house in the same city would have been the best.

they were all living together before he met and married my cousin

klark3:
It's advisable.

But with a referee, at least it will avail d occupants d opportunity of watching royal rumble, live!

lol. My take is that my cousin mom should not go to avoid stories

World world 2 ended in the early 19th. World war 3 is about to begin.
But op is it compulsory for any of the grand mothers to take care of the new baby-sitter

callola:
they were all living together before he met and married my cousin

Your cousin sef try sha! I can't live under such arrangement abeg. He should have arranged an alternative accommodation for mama and SIL before bringing a wife home. So much for privacy in marriage!

Since she agreed to the arrangement in the first place, let the MIL do the omugwo because there will be heavy beefing and the SIL will support her mum. As for your cousin, she may have to choose between her mum and her marriage in the long run. Best of luck to her.

callola:
my cousin will put to birth soon, since it is her first child and also her mom first grandchild. Should her mother come for omugwo considering the fact that she is living with her husband, mil and sil in the same house. Can the two women stay in the house for three months? When a woman comes for omugwo she is expected to take over the entire house. Though, i told her mom not to go but its like i want to put sand in her garri. Pls nlers ur opinon

Dear plz reply my pm.

It's not advisable.

It's all good..

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