Greetings Mamas in the house. I am a first time mum and my bae is like 11months old. I'm sad cause no one has said how painful this weaning process is gonna be to the mother. Gosh! My boobs are like painful solid rock and have got this crazy headache like say tomorrow no dey... Pls what actually am I gonna do for the pains to stop(for the records today is the 2nd day) and I am not myself... Pls mamas help mi,it feels like am gonna explode nytym soon.

Call your hubby and tell him to start sucking out the.....wetin dem dey call am sef It should work, I hope it works sha or Use warm water to massage your boobs. Contact grandma ASAP!

SuperSuave:
Call your hubby and tell him to start sucking out the.....wetin dem dey call am sef It should work, I hope it works sha or Use warm water to massage your boobs. Contact grandma ASAP!

Suave Kai!







Don't worry, you'll pass that stage soon, just breastfeed Bobo regularly

Kylez:



Suave Kai!







Don't worry, you'll pass that stage soon, just breastfeed Bobo regularly

if 8yrs+ is soon

joanne1:
Greetings Mamas in the house. I am a first time mum and my bae is like 11months old. I'm sad cause no one has said how painful this weaning process is gonna be to the mother. Gosh! My boobs are like painful solid rock and have got this crazy headache like say tomorrow no dey... Pls what actually am I gonna do for the pains to stop(for the records today is the 2nd day) and I am not myself... Pls mamas help mi,it feels like am gonna explode nytym soon.

Awwwww . . .

It get easier. The first few day are the most difficlut . . . after that the pain reduces.

Just hold on . . .

i just weaned my baby too but i expressd and disposed the milk ni,ur boobs will dry up with time if u express,by the third day it stoped being full so i dint express again!

Wedon:

Awwwww . . .

It get easier. The first few day are the most difficlut . . . after that the pain reduces.

Just hold on . . .

madam wedon, how do you know this? are you speaking from experience or just guessing?

Normal,just take pain killer and sometimes try suck (just a little) to reduce the swelling. ;hubby can help with that.

I wanted to say something very stupid but for the sake of sanity, let me keep quiet.

Penssuwa:
I wanted to say something very stupid but for the sake of sanity, let me keep quiet.

Better!
Thanks.

@ op, you said 2nd day, right? no problem, even without using anything, by the 3rd day,you'll start feeling relieved.

Sorry, one of the prices of motherhood.
My regards to your baby.

edwife:
Normal,just take pain killer and sometimes try suck (just a little) to reduce the swelling. ;hubby can help with that.

only the hubby should actually do the sucking. she should express into a bottle & feed the baby. letting a baby sück the brëasts directly from the bòobs in this day & age is tantamount to pedöphilia. women should stop sëxually abusing their children.....

it's disgusting!

Coogar, mechie onu gi!
It seems the image of baby sucking bweast is giving u a high?

Mothers beware!

And leave Wedon alone too.
Wetin she do u sef?

Go and watch man u playing

coogar:


only the hubby should actually do the sucking. she should express into a bottle & feed the baby. letting a baby sück the brëasts directly from the bòobs in this day & age is tantamount to pedöphilia. women should stop sëxually abusing their children.....

it's disgusting!

I swear,you are crazy...

I can bet that you suckled for a year...

edwife:

I swear,you are crazy...

I can bet that you suckled for a year...

breastfeeding is pëdophilia.
the brëast is a sexual organ - only the hubby or any other adult is permitted to suck directly from them. letting a child do it is a sëxual abuse on the child - don't pretend you don't know some women get orgäsms via their brëasts.

moca:
Coogar, mechie onu gi!
It seems the image of baby sucking bweast is giving u a high?
Mothers beware!
And leave Wedon alone too.
Wetin she do u sef?
Go and watch man u playing

on the contrary, it disgusts me.
it's a sexuäl abuse. direct breästfeeding is just another way 21st century women use to satisfy their sëxual cravings. formula milk is enough & if the woman is broke, she should express the milk into a bottle & feed the kids.

coogar:


breastfeeding is pëdophilia.
the brëast is a sexual organ - only the hubby or any other adult is permitted to suck directly from them. letting a child do it is a sëxual abuse on the child - don't pretend you don't know some women get orgäsms via their brëasts.

You need delivrance!

Not all are alike, some women like hard sucking, some like soft licks, some like biting it's all about diversity.
And yes i have read about a lady who stopped breastfeeding her baby because the experience gave her uninvited orgasms.

For some women it is even painful,especially when the baby do that more often-so to answer your question,not all women get orgasms via breas.t not to talk of when feeding a baby.Moreover,the sucking of a baby will definitely be different than of an adult,a person you are sexually attracted to and a child who only wants nothing but eat.

When I thought I've read it all.

You're kididng I'm sure.

coogar:


breastfeeding is pëdophilia.
the brëast is a sexual organ - only the hubby or any other adult is permitted to suck directly from them. letting a child do it is a sëxual abuse on the child - don't pretend you don't know some women get orgäsms via their brëasts.



on the contrary, it disgusts me.
it's a sexuäl abuse. direct breästfeeding is just another way 21st century women use to satisfy their sëxual cravings. formula milk is enough & if the woman is broke, she should express the milk into a bottle & feed the kids.

Coogar

Moreover,the sucking of a baby will definitely be different than of an adult,a person you are sexually attracted to and a child who only wants nothing but eat.

this Coogar ehn the way your mind woks na waya

coogar:


breastfeeding is pëdophilia.
the brëast is a sexual organ - only the hubby or any other adult is permitted to suck directly from them. letting a child do it is a sëxual abuse on the child - don't pretend you don't know some women get orgäsms via their brëasts.



on the contrary, it disgusts me.
it's a sexuäl abuse. direct breästfeeding is just another way 21st century women use to satisfy their sëxual cravings. formula milk is enough & if the woman is broke, she should express the milk into a bottle & feed the kids.

Eewh! Coogar the liar!

Coogar where is the pictures u promised me now?
It's not fair o!

Sorry for they pain I hope u took advice from the experienced ones here..

cococandy:
Coogar

Moreover,the sucking of a baby will definitely be different than of an adult,a person you are sexually attracted to and a child who only wants nothing but eat.

why would it be different?
are you guys kidding me? did some 40% of the women in a survey not own up to having sexual urges while they brêastfed? are they aliens?

moca:

Eewh! Coogar the liar!
Coogar where is the pictures u promised me now?
It's not fair o!

please - google erötic lactation.
yes, i agree some women genuinely do this to feed their kids but some have taken it as a way to get sëxual pleasure and they fed their kids till they age 8-12.

damiso:
this Coogar ehn the way your mind woks na waya

it's not about my crooked mind
think about it - i have various articles supporting this. some women are super sensitive and they have confessed to orgäsms while breastfeeding their kids. some even mastürbated while they breast-fed. isn't this sexuäl abuse abi women are incapable of abusing their kids sëxually?

edwife:

You need delivrance!
Not all are alike, some women like hard sucking, some like soft licks, some like biting it's all about diversity.
And yes i have read about a lady who stopped breastfeeding her baby because the experience gave her uninvited orgasms.
For some women it is even painful,especially when the baby do that more often-so to answer your question,not all women get orgasms via breas.t not to talk of when feeding a baby.Moreover,the sucking of a baby will definitely be different than of an adult,a person you are sexually attracted to and a child who only wants nothing but eat.

it's not different.....
whether it's the baby or it's an adult - a sensitive nïpple would respond to stimuli. while i agree with you that it's not every woman that would find the process pleasurable, close to half of the women population have experienced sëxual pleasure.

i ask again - isn't this sëxual abuse?

In a 2000 study of breastfeeding women, 40.5% of the participants reported feeling sëxually aroused at some point during infant suckling. 16.7% reported being aroused frequently during breastfeeding.

In a more recent paper that reviewed several studies between 33-50% of women described breastfeeding as erötic (and 25% of those women said they felt guilty about it).

edwife, what do you have to say?

Ok fine.
Even if some women find it arousing, it doesn't mean they do it to get sexual gratification.
Haba. That would be so twisted.


I can't stop breastfeeding my baby because it turns me on. Gosh baby and that sentence shouldn't even be related . Sounds so weird and perverted.

It depends on the mind. It is all in the mind.

All I have to do if I happen to experience such is remember that it is my child and the feelings will die.

coogar:


why would it be different?
are you guys kidding me? did some 40% of the women in a survey not own up to having sexual urges while they brêastfed? are they aliens?



please - google erötic lactation.
yes, i agree some women genuinely do this to feed their kids but some have taken it as a way to get sëxual pleasure and they fed their kids till they age 8-12.



it's not about my crooked mind
think about it - i have various articles supporting this. some women are super sensitive and they have confessed to orgäsms while breastfeeding their kids. some even mastürbated while they breast-fed. isn't this sexuäl abuse abi women are incapable of abusing their kids sëxually?



it's not different.....
whether it's the baby or it's an adult - a sensitive nïpple would respond to stimuli. while i agree with you that it's not every woman that would find the process pleasurable, close to half of the women population have experienced sëxual pleasure.

i ask again - isn't this sëxual abuse?

In a 2000 study of breastfeeding women, 40.5% of the participants reported feeling sëxually aroused at some point during infant suckling. 16.7% reported being aroused frequently during breastfeeding.

In a more recent paper that reviewed several studies between 33-50% of women described breastfeeding as erötic (and 25% of those women said they felt guilty about it).

edwife, what do you have to say?

coogar:


why would it be different?
are you guys kidding me? did some 40% of the women in a survey not own up to having sexual urges while they brêastfed? are they aliens?



please - google erötic lactation.
yes, i agree some women genuinely do this to feed their kids but some have taken it as a way to get sëxual pleasure and they fed their kids till they age 8-12.



it's not about my crooked mind
think about it - i have various articles supporting this. some women are super sensitive and they have confessed to orgäsms while breastfeeding their kids. some even mastürbated while they breast-fed. isn't this sexuäl abuse abi women are incapable of abusing their kids sëxually?



it's not different.....
whether it's the baby or it's an adult - a sensitive nïpple would respond to stimuli. while i agree with you that it's not every woman that would find the process pleasurable, close to half of the women population have experienced sëxual pleasure.

i ask again - isn't this sëxual abuse?

In a 2000 study of breastfeeding women, 40.5% of the participants reported feeling sëxually aroused at some point during infant suckling. 16.7% reported being aroused frequently during breastfeeding.

In a more recent paper that reviewed several studies between 33-50% of women described breastfeeding as eöotic (and 25% of those women said they felt guilty about it).

edwife, what do you have to say?

. Wo cooogar I don't have your energy today. are you saying your children are not going to be brea.st fed?na wa for dis kain daddy. There is love in sharing.

I won't lie though I find brea.st feeding any child that can walk & talk a bit weird. me as soon you have teeth and bite me a couple of times,na aptamil remain be that.

How did the focus of this thread change from a mum, who needs a solution to painful weaning process to breast feeding and orgasm? *rollseyes*

I must have been so lucky

Mum called me odaju abiamo

Lil man stopped himself at 4mnths, no feeling sef, nothing nothing
I don't mind if it will always be that way o

coogar:



it's not different.....
whether it's the baby or it's an adult - a sensitive nïpple would respond to stimuli. while i agree with you that it's not every woman that would find the process pleasurable, close to half of the women population have experienced sëxual pleasure.

i ask again - isn't this sëxual abuse?

In a 2000 study of breastfeeding women, 40.5% of the participants reported feeling sëxually aroused at some point during infant suckling. 16.7% reported being aroused frequently during breastfeeding.

In a more recent paper that reviewed several studies between 33-50% of women described breastfeeding as erötic (and 25% of those women said they felt guilty about it).

edwife, what do you have to say?

Well those women are weirdos if you ask me and i won't be surprise that the 35% are white women.

It's all in the mind.....

damiso:
. Wo cooogar I don't have your energy today. ;Dso are you saying your children are not going to be brea.st fed?na wa for dis kain daddy. There is love in sharing.

I won't lie though I find brea.st feeding any child that can walk or talk a bit weird. me as soon you have teeth and bite me a couple of times,na aptamil remain be that.

some women continue to breästfeed their kids until sometimes age 12. how isn't that incëst?

there should be a law that prohibits direct breastfeeding - let the women express their lactose in a feeding bottle & the baby can continue from there.

cococandy:
Ok fine.
Even if some women find it arousing, it doesn't mean they do it to get sexual gratification.
Haba. That would be so twisted.
I can't stop breastfeeding my baby because it turns me on. Gosh baby and that sentence shouldn't even be related . Sounds so weird and perverted.
It depends on the mind. It is all in the mind.
All I have to do if I happen to experience such is remember that it is my child and the feelings will die.

cococandy, speak for yourself.....

you are ignoring the fact that the nïpples are a erogenous zone. some people get turned on immensely when touched on the brëasts.

In a 1988 questionnaire on orgasm and pregnancy published in a Dutch magazine for women, asked "Did you experience, while breastfeeding, a sensation of sexual excitement?", 34% (or 153 total) answered in the affirmative.

An additional 71% answered in the affirmative when asked "Did you experience, while breastfeeding, pleasurable contractions in the uterine region.

edwife:


Well those women are weirdos if you ask me and i won't be surprise that the 35% are white women.

It's all in the mind.....

as if black women are incapable of being aroused via their brēasts. little wonder women won't stop flashing their böobs in public to brëastfeed. 30% of them are doing it for sëxual pleasure. they should all be locked up!

edwife:


Well those women are weirdos if you ask me and i won't be surprise that the 35% are white women.

It's all in the mind.....

why white women?

I don't think they're weirdos. It's just nature. It's like a man being tied down and his daughter walks up to him to give him a mindblowing head.

yes, his mind hates the situation, but his pènis will respond to stimuli....100%.

coogar:


as if black women are incapable of being aroused via their brēasts. little wonder women won't flashing their böobs in public to brëastfeed. 30% of them are doing it for sëxual pleasure. they should all be locked up!

If i remember correctly,are you not among those who always claim that most nigerian women don't have or rarely reach orgasm ?