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Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by joanne1(f): 9:46am On Mar 19, 2015 |
Greetings Mamas in the house. I am a first time mum and my bae is like 11months old. I'm sad cause no one has said how painful this weaning process is gonna be to the mother. Gosh! My boobs are like painful solid rock and have got this crazy headache like say tomorrow no dey... Pls what actually am I gonna do for the pains to stop(for the records today is the 2nd day) and I am not myself... Pls mamas help mi,it feels like am gonna explode nytym soon. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by SuperSuave(m): 9:54am On Mar 19, 2015 |
Call your hubby and tell him to start sucking out the.....wetin dem dey call am sef It should work, I hope it works sha or Use warm water to massage your boobs. Contact grandma ASAP! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by Kylez(m): 9:58am On Mar 19, 2015 |
SuperSuave: Suave Kai! Don't worry, you'll pass that stage soon, just breastfeed Bobo regularly |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by SuperSuave(m): 10:10am On Mar 19, 2015 |
Kylez:if 8yrs+ is soon |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by Nobody: 11:19am On Mar 19, 2015 |
joanne1: Awwwww . . . It get easier. The first few day are the most difficlut . . . after that the pain reduces. Just hold on . . . |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by Lumpyy(f): 11:22am On Mar 19, 2015 |
i just weaned my baby too but i expressd and disposed the milk ni,ur boobs will dry up with time if u express,by the third day it stoped being full so i dint express again! |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by blank(f): 12:58pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by coogar: 1:05pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Wedon: madam wedon, how do you know this? are you speaking from experience or just guessing? |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by edwife(f): 2:27pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Normal,just take pain killer and sometimes try suck (just a little) to reduce the swelling. ;hubby can help with that. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by Penssuwa(m): 2:36pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
I wanted to say something very stupid but for the sake of sanity, let me keep quiet. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by greatgod2012(f): 2:57pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Penssuwa: Better! Thanks. 9 Likes |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by greatgod2012(f): 3:02pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
@ op, you said 2nd day, right? no problem, even without using anything, by the 3rd day,you'll start feeling relieved. Sorry, one of the prices of motherhood. My regards to your baby. 1 Like |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by coogar: 3:16pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
edwife: only the hubby should actually do the sucking. she should express into a bottle & feed the baby. letting a baby sück the brëasts directly from the bòobs in this day & age is tantamount to pedöphilia. women should stop sëxually abusing their children..... it's disgusting! |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by Nobody: 3:24pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Coogar, mechie onu gi! It seems the image of baby sucking bweast is giving u a high? Mothers beware! And leave Wedon alone too. Wetin she do u sef? Go and watch man u playing 11 Likes |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by edwife(f): 3:35pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
coogar: I swear,you are crazy... I can bet that you suckled for a year... |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by coogar: 3:51pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
edwife: breastfeeding is pëdophilia. the brëast is a sexual organ - only the hubby or any other adult is permitted to suck directly from them. letting a child do it is a sëxual abuse on the child - don't pretend you don't know some women get orgäsms via their brëasts. moca: on the contrary, it disgusts me. it's a sexuäl abuse. direct breästfeeding is just another way 21st century women use to satisfy their sëxual cravings. formula milk is enough & if the woman is broke, she should express the milk into a bottle & feed the kids. 1 Like |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by edwife(f): 4:07pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
coogar:You need delivrance! Not all are alike, some women like hard sucking, some like soft licks, some like biting it's all about diversity. And yes i have read about a lady who stopped breastfeeding her baby because the experience gave her uninvited orgasms. For some women it is even painful,especially when the baby do that more often-so to answer your question,not all women get orgasms via breas.t not to talk of when feeding a baby.Moreover,the sucking of a baby will definitely be different than of an adult,a person you are sexually attracted to and a child who only wants nothing but eat. 1 Like |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by cococandy(f): 4:12pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
When I thought I've read it all. You're kididng I'm sure. coogar: |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by cococandy(f): 4:13pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Coogar Moreover,the sucking of a baby will definitely be different than of an adult,a person you are sexually attracted to and a child who only wants nothing but eat. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by damiso(f): 4:14pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
this Coogar ehn the way your mind woks na waya |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by Nobody: 4:27pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
coogar: Eewh! Coogar the liar! Coogar where is the pictures u promised me now? It's not fair o! |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by adahgold(m): 4:40pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Sorry for they pain I hope u took advice from the experienced ones here.. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by coogar: 5:53pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
cococandy: why would it be different? are you guys kidding me? did some 40% of the women in a survey not own up to having sexual urges while they brêastfed? are they aliens? moca: please - google erötic lactation. yes, i agree some women genuinely do this to feed their kids but some have taken it as a way to get sëxual pleasure and they fed their kids till they age 8-12. damiso: it's not about my crooked mind think about it - i have various articles supporting this. some women are super sensitive and they have confessed to orgäsms while breastfeeding their kids. some even mastürbated while they breast-fed. isn't this sexuäl abuse abi women are incapable of abusing their kids sëxually? edwife: it's not different..... whether it's the baby or it's an adult - a sensitive nïpple would respond to stimuli. while i agree with you that it's not every woman that would find the process pleasurable, close to half of the women population have experienced sëxual pleasure. i ask again - isn't this sëxual abuse? In a 2000 study of breastfeeding women, 40.5% of the participants reported feeling sëxually aroused at some point during infant suckling. 16.7% reported being aroused frequently during breastfeeding. In a more recent paper that reviewed several studies between 33-50% of women described breastfeeding as erötic (and 25% of those women said they felt guilty about it). edwife, what do you have to say? 1 Like |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by cococandy(f): 6:04pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Ok fine. Even if some women find it arousing, it doesn't mean they do it to get sexual gratification. Haba. That would be so twisted. I can't stop breastfeeding my baby because it turns me on. Gosh baby and that sentence shouldn't even be related . Sounds so weird and perverted. It depends on the mind. It is all in the mind. All I have to do if I happen to experience such is remember that it is my child and the feelings will die. coogar: |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by damiso(f): 6:05pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
coogar:. Wo cooogar I don't have your energy today. are you saying your children are not going to be brea.st fed?na wa for dis kain daddy. There is love in sharing. I won't lie though I find brea.st feeding any child that can walk & talk a bit weird. me as soon you have teeth and bite me a couple of times,na aptamil remain be that. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by Evina(f): 6:07pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
How did the focus of this thread change from a mum, who needs a solution to painful weaning process to breast feeding and orgasm? *rollseyes* 5 Likes |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by Dyt(f): 6:08pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
I must have been so lucky Mum called me odaju abiamo Lil man stopped himself at 4mnths, no feeling sef, nothing nothing I don't mind if it will always be that way o |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by edwife(f): 6:10pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
coogar: Well those women are weirdos if you ask me and i won't be surprise that the 35% are white women. It's all in the mind..... |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by coogar: 6:11pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
damiso: some women continue to breästfeed their kids until sometimes age 12. how isn't that incëst? there should be a law that prohibits direct breastfeeding - let the women express their lactose in a feeding bottle & the baby can continue from there. cococandy: cococandy, speak for yourself..... you are ignoring the fact that the nïpples are a erogenous zone. some people get turned on immensely when touched on the brëasts. In a 1988 questionnaire on orgasm and pregnancy published in a Dutch magazine for women, asked "Did you experience, while breastfeeding, a sensation of sexual excitement?", 34% (or 153 total) answered in the affirmative. An additional 71% answered in the affirmative when asked "Did you experience, while breastfeeding, pleasurable contractions in the uterine region. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by coogar: 6:14pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
edwife: as if black women are incapable of being aroused via their brēasts. little wonder women won't stop flashing their böobs in public to brëastfeed. 30% of them are doing it for sëxual pleasure. they should all be locked up! |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by BABE3: 6:17pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
edwife: why white women? I don't think they're weirdos. It's just nature. It's like a man being tied down and his daughter walks up to him to give him a mindblowing head. yes, his mind hates the situation, but his pènis will respond to stimuli....100%. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by edwife(f): 6:18pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
coogar: If i remember correctly,are you not among those who always claim that most nigerian women don't have or rarely reach orgasm ? |
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