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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Rimimafia: 5:39pm On Mar 25, 2015
No need to worry.
You can forget about him and move on.
Slowly and steadily you will turn to furniture in the house.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by LuckyLadolce(m): 5:43pm On Mar 25, 2015
MoonCares:


Thanks love, God bless you, no one will intimate me oooo! If theirs is tall, mine is short. And they can't have the qualities he posses. Hahahahah!
I like ur courage!!! go swt!! go! u shall be happy forever by God's grace.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 5:43pm On Mar 25, 2015
happyzed0:
My dear is God dat gives height. growth mainly depend on wat u eat 4 d 1st 3yrs bt sometym gene play a role in it's own.it is better 2 live wif a short man happily dan 2 live wif a tall man n regret y u were created wat matters is luv do u luv him if yes pls invite me 4 d weddin

Thank Dear, you will be surely invited.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by obi123: 5:43pm On Mar 25, 2015
MoonCares:
Please I need advice from matured people.

There's this guy that am dating, he's so caring, lovely and humble. He is planning to marry me but he is short, though I have not gathered the courage to tell him my fears. Am average 5ft, but am taller than him. So am afraid that our kids will be short.

Please my fellow NL, I need your advice, I don't want to make mistakes in marriage. Though I have been praying to God for the right man.

My dear everyone has fears when marriage talk becomes more serious, at least you are not ashamed to express yours.No matter how shallow they may seem to others these are YOUR fears .

1) if he is shorter than 5ft yes the truth is he is indeed short but how do you really feel about this man as in really really feel about him?
2) Please keep your insecurities to yourself, he doesn't need you to highlight the fact that he is short, believe me he knows and he is probably thanking God that he found someone who wants to marry him despite his height, so please dont tell him your fears.
3) if his height bothers you so much leave him alone, his height is not his fault, he wont grow taller in the nearest future.
4) Please leave him alone if you are not proud of him or will be ashamed to pronounce him as your husband to who has ears
5) Please leave him if his height is more important than his caring, lovely and humble personality
6) The issue of short children is really not an issue as short parents doesn't necessarily mean short children.
7) my ex was 6ft 4 and now i'm married to a sweet loving man who is just 5ft 4(same as me) i had the same fears as you, funny enough his parents are average height ,but my dear if i had let my fears rule me i would have missed big time , i cannot begin to tell you how happy i am.
cool Ultimately its you who has to decide what is really important to you, nothing wrong with short kids,i need you to look beyond what people will say , how you look in public, look at how this man makes you feel , do you feel safe with him, do you laugh with him, does he make you happy, is he interested in you as a person, your opinions, does he defend you ? does he celebrate you, is he willing to grow with you to create a wholesome life? if this man makes you happy wetin again ,sweetie there are too many unhappy people everywhere , dont join them oh.

Dear i want you to be happy so please take time , make the right decision, i wont even ask you to pray because this is all YOU

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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 5:47pm On Mar 25, 2015
zubby29:
FACT IS DAT UR KIDS WILL B TALLER DAN BOTH OF U WCH IN MY OPINION IS NOT BAD,WITH TECHNOLOGY AND GOOD FOOD DEY CAN ATTAIN EVEN A BETTER HEIGHT,SO GO AHEAD MY DEAR,its no crime to b short bt i can gauranty u dat ur kids will b ok

Thanks my guy, I appreciate.
Am the guy in question,, I asked her to post d question here because she's concerned about our future kids, I ave a very tall brother, just dat I took after my father.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 5:50pm On Mar 25, 2015
akejison:
Stop listenning to ur friends becox I know they started telling u things. Just go ahead and marry him is all about love and caring not height. Are u God to say what become of ur kids tommorrow. What if u marry a man who is taller than u and u both hv no kids. If u believe he loves u go for it. Let people talk what they like.

I don't listen to friends because if I do, I won't even date him in the first place. Anyways thanks for your advice.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 5:51pm On Mar 25, 2015
eagleeyez:



You are terrible in giving advise and quite rude.

She asked for advise or are u stating u don't have qualities u want in a partner or even fears?
Please. Unless you have good things to state, simply just keep your cynical sadistic opinions to your depressed ignorant self

My dear, tell am oooooo!!
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by criuze(m): 5:53pm On Mar 25, 2015
Am only concerned about the children . Both of you can change partners and save the future ,


than bringing in Earth keepers.

Am only trying to be objective.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 5:54pm On Mar 25, 2015
Evina:


First off, her fiance does not need your pity. I would assume that there are people around you deserving of your pity.

Secondly, my brother(s) have a mind of their own. They are men enough to choose their own wives and live with the consequences of their choice. In my family, we don't do the allow/disallow choice of partner by any member.

Lastly, you were quick to attack her but conveniently turned a blind eye to those hurling insults at her! Did she start insulting anyone? Or gave them back a taste of their own medicine?

I never knew you were this biased!

Thank you so very much my dear, God bless you.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by chillingbabe: 5:54pm On Mar 25, 2015
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy I can't stop laughing cheesy cheesy cheesy you mean you're 5ft(short) and your guy is shorter? cheesy Loll..He must be soo short and small cheesy cheesy U tried shaaa...One man's food is another man's poison..Happy married life in advance.

But Why did you go into such relationship since u weren't comfortable with it? Or he just got shorter?? Loll..
Don't Date who you can't marry. That should be every lady's first rule .
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by boluyongp(m): 5:56pm On Mar 25, 2015
See JAMB question o. Why do we have weird questions on nairaland today and weird posts about joysticks etc. E be like say konji don dey catch mod.

As for you OP, what were you looking at when you met him, is height the main thing now? You'll rather be with a tall and dark guy who ll not only turn you to punching bag but also give you a baby albino cos you didn't know he had albinism or other defects in his genes. Or ll you rather be with a tall guy that gives tall kids but has a node for unintelligence or cancer in him.. You need to get your priorities right madam, what's in a height? You can be with a tall man but with a short future/destiny or tell me, is Remi Tinubu not taller than Bola Tinubu. Like him or not, he's a great man, if Remi was playing the height card like you are doing now, only God knows where she'ld be today, she would have missed it. Bishop Oyedepo and his wife are very short but have you seen their children? I can give you more examples. So, you berra stop feeling like diamond and focus on more important things, maybe its cos you are not 35 or 40 yet. Finally, you are not the best woman on earth, neither are you perfect, you've not bothered to find out if your man finds you perfect for himself or you think he doesn't have reservations about you too? Look madam, its not all about you, relationship is a two way thing. Their are very beautiful women of good character out there who ll jump on what you are there still thinking or pondering about. You have good man yet you are not satisfied or grateful neither do you appreciate the value of more important things. Na wa for you o.. Bless your heart!

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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by sule5727: 5:58pm On Mar 25, 2015
MoonCares:
Please I need advice from matured people.

There's this guy that am dating, he's so caring, lovely and humble. He is planning to marry me but he is short, though I have not gathered the courage to tell him my fears. Am average 5ft, but am taller than him. So am afraid that our kids will be short.

Please my fellow NL, I need your advice, I don't want to make mistakes in marriage. Though I have been praying to God for the right man.
I dnt know y ladies always complain of short guys! My advise goes like dis if u know he loves u nd u too do, dnt even tnk of living him.....I'm talking frm experience.....because if live him u ll regret it in future.....that u ll say!!! Oh if to say i no i for marry that short guy ooooo? but if u dnt love him pls ooo go ahead nd look for taller person. Dats ma opinion sha!!!!
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Femistico(m): 6:03pm On Mar 25, 2015
u are jst shouting future kids since, dont u wanna marry him when u agree to date him then, or u jst wanna f**k him nd collect his dough then run away..height doesnt matter at all and u'll complement him with ur height. 5ft tall is nt bad at all...
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by donefezy: 6:07pm On Mar 25, 2015
it is very very rare to see couples whoose children are taller than them especially when the father is short let alone the mother..Auntie let no one decieve u,ur children wil b as u also,either shorter or rage withen 5ft
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by blakky97(m): 6:07pm On Mar 25, 2015
MoonCares:


Lols!!! Didn't write biology, not a science student. So lecture me a bit, that's why am here
see why copying is bad?
you wrote biology but you dont even know.
remember that subject that your sit mate drew fish without fins and called it eye?
thats biology.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by blakky97(m): 6:07pm On Mar 25, 2015
MoonCares:


Lols!!! Didn't write biology, not a science student. So lecture me a bit, that's why am here
see why copying is bad?
you wrote biology but you dont even know.
remember that subject that your sit mate drew fish without fins and called it eye?
thats biology.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 6:09pm On Mar 25, 2015
englishmart:
anybody shorter than 5ft is a dwarf

You are not serious.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 6:12pm On Mar 25, 2015
Evina:


First off, her fiance does not need your pity. I would assume that there are people around you deserving of your pity.

Secondly, my brother(s) have a mind of their own. They are men enough to choose their own wives and live with the consequences of their choice. In my family, we don't do the allow/disallow choice of partner by any member.

Lastly, you were quick to attack her but conveniently turned a blind eye to those hurling insults at her! Did she start insulting anyone? Or gave them back a taste of their own medicine?


I never knew you were this biased!


Thank you so very much my dear, God bless you.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 6:12pm On Mar 25, 2015
Evina:


First off, her fiance does not need your pity. I would assume that there are people around you deserving of your pity.

Secondly, my brother(s) have a mind of their own. They are men enough to choose their own wives and live with the consequences of their choice. In my family, we don't do the allow/disallow choice of partner by any member.

Lastly, you were quick to attack her but conveniently turned a blind eye to those hurling insults at her! Did she start insulting anyone? Or gave them back a taste of their own medicine?


Thank you so very much my dear, God bless you.

I never knew you were this biased!
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by pickabeau1: 6:12pm On Mar 25, 2015
firstEVA:
[s]how is she rude? And is anyone to tell anyone who their brothers should marry? Rubbish.[/s]

Crãp

MoonCares:

Is your mother that is rude

Another putrid post
I hope he sees the lunacy and vileness you have displayed online
Clap for yourself
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by brightec(m): 6:13pm On Mar 25, 2015

Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Evina(f): 6:17pm On Mar 25, 2015
MoonCares:



Thank you so very much my dear, God bless you.

smiley wish you the best as you make your decision.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by ezelous: 6:18pm On Mar 25, 2015
how much v u learnt from Will Smith n Jade Pinkett?
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by anitank(f): 6:22pm On Mar 25, 2015
I don't think you should be dating someone you don't intend possibly getting married to, whether it works out or not.

That said, you shouldn't be worried about your kids' height. If genetics smile on you, they'd be just about the right height

My friend's parents are short, as in very SHORT...both of them. But my friend is lucky she's average in height and both her brothers are very tall. So you see, it doesn't always turn out bad

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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by sayso: 6:22pm On Mar 25, 2015
MoonCares:


Ok dear, is my kid's height that is my only concern and nothing else. my guy even love beans now, lols!! I do tell him, you no eat beans when you are suppose to, na now way you don short finish. Hahahahah!
honey please take the myth out of the way,beans do not and can never make people tall. Genetics plays a great part,fruits and vegetable can at least give the kids enough vitamins their body needs.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 6:23pm On Mar 25, 2015
Justfollowit:


Shuu

Are we not allowed to have preferences and insecurities again undecided

Who is your ideal woman? tongue



My ideal woman?

As long as she has good character I am not too driven by physique.

Used to date a tall lady before but now I am with sme wjo is average height 5.2 and I don't even notice it.

I am 6ft by the way.

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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 6:24pm On Mar 25, 2015
majekdom2:
no mind the delusional being , she is in lust with the money thinking she is in love how can she love a guy and be afraid of offsprings that may come from their union. she is young anyways..... she ain't seen nothing yet
You are very stupid for making this comment, you jump into conclusion without know the person, who told you she came to me because of money, you don't even know if am rich or not. Don't even say what you don't know. Rubbish mentality. Some guys think every girl is after a guy because of money. If you think like this, the person you will marry tomorrow won't love you but will love your money. Must you call her a delusional being.

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Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by Nobody: 6:27pm On Mar 25, 2015
Op, I'm sorry I'm going to laugh here.....I'm not laughing at U, but some comments on d first page go make person laugh forget say elections go hold on Saturday.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by braine(m): 6:27pm On Mar 25, 2015
MoonCares:


I never said I won't marry him if he's my righful husband, just that my fears is about our future kids and nothing more.
My mom is tall and my dad was tall, and I'm short. What do you say about that?
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by donem: 6:28pm On Mar 25, 2015
@ Mooncares your case is a very sensitive one, which you must solve with great wisdom, as of your future kids height judging 4rm u and ur potential spouse heights, there is 75% chances of them being short.

am speaking from observation, during child growth the parents immediate gens are 70% responsible for growth, while external family tree cycle makeup the remaining 30%.

potential couples are always advised to try balance their choices height wise, so one compensates the others deficiency.

N/B. short + shorter = shortest. Short + tall = Medium.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by rhames(m): 6:30pm On Mar 25, 2015
if love rules your relationship, you wouldn't care if he is short or you give birth to short kids. Do not lose a good man as a result of inferiority complex. This is one reason why most ladies remain un married. A bird in hand is worth nine in the jungle.
Re: Marrying A Guy That Is Short.. by anonym0us: 6:32pm On Mar 25, 2015
MoonCares:


Lols!!! Didn't write biology, not a science student. So lecture me a bit, that's why am here
chai liar are you sure you wrote waec? Biology is a compulsory science subject for science and art....brethren check out she's not even educated yet she need tall husband

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