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Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by AAinEqGuinea: 12:45pm On Apr 05, 2015
Justfollowit:


Wow! Why do we still have illegal.immigrants if it was that easy.


Get here while you can. The Obama administration has a peculiar focus on immigration that hasn't always been centered around neighboring Mexico, with increased "deportation" numbers and a granular enforcement style than his predecessor. But Obama's reign is almost over, his successor will likely be a conservative campaigning on "getting tougher on immigration", op's archetype is fitting as conservatives' ideal scapegoat. He's "under the radar, non-contributing (pays no income taxes), and risky dead weight (if he gets sick, he's not going to the hospital and will likely infect others, if he's black, Ebola mania revisited, and if he dies taxpayers pay to bury him), attack on the job market (immigrants tend to work harder for less money). All but the last point are extremely unlikely but that's been the fringe advocacy of conservatives, political capital using unfounded hysteria. It works, sadly. Immigration policies will undoubtedly have adjustments in the next administration, for the better or worst depends on who wins the US presidency in 2016.

Buhari won too. The immigration equation from and to the region could change as well.

Get here while you can.
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Nobody: 12:48pm On Apr 05, 2015
Billyonaire:
Then proceed to the US, the visa permits you to move around. Enroll into any qualifying study in US, while applying for stay. You will have it, I have several relatives and friends who do this and are happy. 75k is nothing in today's Nigeria currency, its gives you false hope of a tomorrow.

How will he pay for the study if he cant work.

At the rest, if you know Billyonaire you will know he is a respectable fellow and he knows what he is saying. Guys chill out. Even in the US, things get done.
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Huzzie: 12:58pm On Apr 05, 2015
Drabeey:
She said she would help me travel to the States but she would keep me indoors in her house for 6 months pending when my papers allowing me to move around the US would be ready.

I'm already receiving 75,000 naira per month here in Nigeria and still single.

Please is there any advise from the house?
I know you must have heard some ot the things I want to highlight.
As much as the purpose of your question is to get advise, but sincerely the decision is yours to make; weigh your options and consider the short and long term effect of your decision. I am in Canada studying, I can tell you the grass is not as green as I thought, IMO, I don't regret my decision and I am fine with it.
So make a decision and stick with it.

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Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Nobody: 1:03pm On Apr 05, 2015
AAinEqGuinea:


Get here while you can. The Obama administration has a peculiar focus on immigration that hasn't always been centered around neighboring Mexico, with increased "deportation" numbers and a granular enforcement style than his predecessor. But Obama's reign is almost over, his successor will likely be a conservative campaigning on "getting tougher on immigration", op's archetype is fitting as conservatives' ideal scapegoat. He's "under the radar, non-contributing (pays no income taxes), and risky dead weight (if he gets sick, he's not going to the hospital and will likely infect others, if he's black, Ebola mania revisited, and if he dies taxpayers pay to bury him), attack on the job market (immigrants tend to work harder for less money). All but the last point are extremely unlikely but that's been the fringe advocacy of conservatives, political capital using unfounded hysteria. It works, sadly. Immigration policies will undoubtedly have adjustments in the next administration, for the better or worst depends on who wins the US presidency in 2016.

Buhari won too. The immigration equation from and to the region could change as well.

Get here while you can.

Who asked you for all this info

I live in the UK
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Nobody: 1:14pm On Apr 05, 2015
eyinjuege:


No one is MISINFORMING the "poor" boy. I'm not the one inviting him into the US, and I'm definately not the one trying to help him get a stay. I just put across one of the many possible angles that the sister might be working on to help him get a stay.
I know for a fact that people still have arrangee marriages to get their green card.

Ermmm...why are you not in the US?

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Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Hakagure: 1:16pm On Apr 05, 2015
Houseboy Tinz for 6 months, maybe more. Are you sure she will get you papers? There is no reason why you should not move around while you are there. Get the details of the visa and get a plan in case your sister is using you for houseboy. If at the end she works your papers( which is not possible anyway since you are over 18) . then leave after serving her. However i for see illegal immigration and suffering aka human trafficking, if she does that just jejely call police on your sister and see them lock her up and then deport you, dude if you get this wrong you will be a modern day slave, if you get it right lots of hard work, ok money and good future, its better you use your sister to get in and organize one smally via internet in that area, live with the smally, enjoy yankee andscout for school and leave when your visa is up. better sign up to do masters or a degree and go on f1 visa than try to hide with visitor visa, dem no go give you o. You go dey hustle cleaning tinz for hotels or serving your sister. Do the right thing, don't dull yourself, no family for yankee

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Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Hakagure: 1:25pm On Apr 05, 2015
shilling:
Op should ask some serious questions and provide Nairaland with follow up info.

Money wise, N75know isnothing. To put things in perspective, even if op was doing some crappy minimum wage job fulltime, he'll make around $1280 and have a better standard of living.

How will OP make 400 a week without work permit? They will never pay you minimum wage, even mickey d needs high school diploma and do e verify. Ever heard of ICS raids? If OP impersonates another person the first day OP gets pulled over na 3 Days jail while they check if OP is isis. No judge no court no nothing, please don't lie to this people, let them have a plan when they come, not via modern day human trafficking cos the sister cant pay for child care or worse.

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Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Alexisu: 1:26pm On Apr 05, 2015
obowunmi:


grin grin

No dulling...


I tell u bro

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Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by greall12(m): 1:40pm On Apr 05, 2015
Op no pain no gain as far ur sister is not into drug traffic or any illegal stuff. I will advice u to leave 75k. Your future is very important. Im living ok in Nigeria before I travel out. I must tell u I thank God for my life although is not easy but with God all thing are possible when u get there ready to face the challenges. To become a man is not easy.
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by murtalaa(m): 1:43pm On Apr 05, 2015
Please don't listen to any contrary opinion. The world is always in need of babysitters.

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Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Nobody: 1:44pm On Apr 05, 2015
Hmmm...js lyk our fellows av said;why do u av to stay indoor? Anyways;75k..-is not much to live by;as u"re single now not to tok of when u get married and the bills start rolling in...she's ur sister;if u cant trust ur own blood sister;dont knw who else u"ll trust...27;i'd say u"re still young and if not for anything;u got youthfulness on ur syd and besides ur sisters plans and all...of course you shud also av a plans up ur sleeves...however;if i were you...i wont be tinkn of avn a beta life personally for my self;i'd be tinkn of giving my offsprings a grx start up in life and freedom to make choices and live where eva they want...knowing that wit dem being citizens of US...is already a sort of goal achieved...when the papers are done...they av options;likewise you....live in such a way ur dreams will be unlimited...naija can limit ones dreams expectations if you knw wot m tokn about....
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Nobody: 1:47pm On Apr 05, 2015
Drabeey:
She said she would help me travel to the States but she would keep me indoors in her house for 6 months pending when my papers allowing me to move around the US would be ready.

I'm already receiving 75,000 naira per month here in Nigeria and still single.

Please is there any advise from the house?
which city is she taking you to,it depends on d city,If its new york city,she dont needs to hide you,so faryou are not a trouble maker,i will advice you to go

As a student that work outside,i makes more #75,000 a week when dollar convert to naira
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Nobody: 2:03pm On Apr 05, 2015
obowunmi:
Who says the "papers" will be out in 6 months?

Unless you're getting married to a citizen, I believe the process takes more than 6 months.

How does she intend to file for you? I'm confused.

It took almost two years for my Wife's paper to sail through.

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Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by yemmy19(m): 2:11pm On Apr 05, 2015
My candid advice to you is tell
your sister to allow you stay
in Nigeria for that 6months to
continue with your job and
Whenever the papers are
ready,then you are ready to
Travel down there.....cos if you
Listened to your sister now,your
Sister will start to control your
Life cos i don't see the essence
of hiding for 6months.....

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Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Nobody: 2:12pm On Apr 05, 2015
eyinjuege:


Bro, he's talking of 75k in naira not dollars. That's about $350 per month. That's crap and you can bet the OP can't raise a family comfortqbly on that.

Your opinion, I stand by mine.

Leaving that well paying job in Nigeria is douchebag move.
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Nobody: 2:15pm On Apr 05, 2015
lenmafon:
op why does she want u be indoors 4 six months?or re entering US in an illegal way?there's smthg ur sister is hiding frm u. u earn 75k per month abi, calculate 75 x 6. if u re business oreinted, u can plan well and save smthg and start ur biz within dat 6months u sit indoor doing nothing, but if u still think say na honey full USA and u want 2 go, pls link me up with dat company cos am looking 4 a new job with ur kind of pay. a word is enough for de wise. learn frm de mistakes and experiences of others.

Thank you my Brother.

I can't believe the dweebs who are putting down 75k a month job in Nigeria.

The taxi service I chattered was driven by an HND holder, I know he'll kill for 75k a month.

People form too much on NL.

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Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by soleexx(m): 2:15pm On Apr 05, 2015
Drabeey:
She said she would help me travel to the States but she would keep me indoors in her house for 6 months pending when my papers allowing me to move around the US would be ready.

I'm already receiving 75,000 naira per month here in Nigeria and still single.

Please is there any advise from the house?

Bros my Advice to you is to grab the offer and travel to america...after ur 6month indoor u will be free to move and work...I bet you america is a land of promise you will make it there *3 if u are serious...ur job here is not secured I mean u knw naija...dem fit say bros give us space make dem sack ur enemy...so I think USA is better bros...think weller
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by justwise(m): 2:19pm On Apr 05, 2015
soleexx:


Bros my Advice to you is to grab the offer and travel to america...after ur 6month indoor u will be free to move and work...I bet you america is a land of promise you will make it there *3 if u are serious ...ur job here is not secured I mean u knw naija...dem fit say bros give us space make dem sack ur enemy...so I think USA is better bros...think weller

Have you lived in America under the same condition before ?

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Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Nobody: 2:20pm On Apr 05, 2015
Lucasbalo:
It's laughable to tell someone making 70.000 Naira to stay in Nigeria if he has the opportunity to advance himself ?. How much is 75 thousand Naira?. I have been here in Chicago for a long time too and I am surprised at your post. I guess to each his own.

I equally find it laughable that you support illegal immigration and also not being honest.

But you're right, to each his own.

The OP should stay with his decent paying job in NG.

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Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Nobody: 2:21pm On Apr 05, 2015
soleexx:


Bros my Advice to you is to grab the offer and travel to america...after ur 6month indoor u will be free to move and work...I bet you america is a land of promise you will make it there *3 if u are serious...ur job here is not secured I mean u knw naija...dem fit say bros give us space make dem sack ur enemy...so I think USA is better bros...think weller

Guess what? They sack here too.

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Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Nobody: 2:27pm On Apr 05, 2015
tonero230:


His luck isn't the same with your badluck

Awon baba nla baba iya e lo mani bad luck.

I place this curse on you this Sunday morning before brushing my teeth. May every single thing you touch in your life destabilize in your face, IJN ati ola anobi.
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by soleexx(m): 2:30pm On Apr 05, 2015
justwise:


Have you lived in America under the same condition before ?

Don't worry about me, you don't know me
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by justwise(m): 2:35pm On Apr 05, 2015
soleexx:


Don't worry about me, you don't know me

That is not the answer....have you lived in America under such condition before?

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Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by LAX89(m): 2:40pm On Apr 05, 2015
Drabeey:
She said she would help me travel to the States but she would keep me indoors in her house for 6 months pending when my papers allowing me to move around the US would be ready.

I'm already receiving 75,000 naira per month here in Nigeria and still single.

Please is there any advise from the house?

What 'papers' will be out in 6 months, and under which immigration program will she get you papers in 6 months? Why would you need to hide in her house and not move around for 6 months and be part of this 'paper' process?
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Optimisticgondy(m): 2:44pm On Apr 05, 2015
Drabeey:
She said she would help me travel to the States but she would keep me indoors in her house for 6 months pending when my papers allowing me to move around the US would be ready.

I'm already receiving 75,000 naira per month here in Nigeria and still single.

Please is there any advise from the house?
Be careful..a girl I know and still chat with till this moment has spent more than 2 years indoor in Canada.. and besides, you may be caught and deported. Don't let any action take you back to square one.
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by tonero230(m): 2:56pm On Apr 05, 2015
CityNG:


Awon baba nla baba iya e lo mani bad luck.

I place this curse on you this Sunday morning before brushing my teeth. May every single thing you touch in your life destabilize in your face, IJN ati ola anobi.

If you could be in state since '86 when the economy was viable without making anything out of your life,what else do you want me to use to qualify you if not 'akanaogoli'.Dont discourage people because you couldn't make it in state.

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Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Nobody: 3:04pm On Apr 05, 2015
tonero230:


If you could be in state since '86 when the economy was viable without making anything out of your life,what else do you want me to use to qualify you if not 'akanaogoli'.Dont discourage people because you couldn't make it in state.

Your assinine assumptions likewise shows that you're "Oloshi omo ale jatijati".

OP offered an opinion and I gave him one of the two options he put forth.

Dindinrin ode omo ti awon obi e ma sun ekun e lai pe ojo lagbara alawurabi smiley
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Nobody: 3:07pm On Apr 05, 2015
Optimisticgondy:
Be careful..a girl I know and still chat with till this moment has spent more than 2 years indoor in Canada.. and besides, you may be caught and deported. Don't let any action take you back to square one.

And the ones that are lucky are working under the table at Nigerian owned stores here for measly pay.

Leaving Nigeria without solid paperwork is tantamount to stupidity.

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Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by obowunmi(m): 3:09pm On Apr 05, 2015
CityNG:


Awon baba nla baba iya e lo mani bad luck.

I place this curse on you this Sunday morning before brushing my teeth. May every single thing you touch in your life destabilize in your face, IJN ati ola anobi.

My bro, abeg relax na.

It's not that serious. shocked shocked

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Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Nobody: 3:11pm On Apr 05, 2015
obowunmi:


My bro, abeg relax na.

It's not that serious. shocked shocked

Oh but it is, trust me.

I can either pray for someone or curse them. Their choice grin

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Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by Nobody: 3:13pm On Apr 05, 2015
LAX89:


What 'papers' will be out in 6 months, and under which immigration program will she get you papers in 6 months? Why would you need to hide in her house and not move around for 6 months and be part of this 'paper' process?

OP, answer this very astute question. Ask your sister for the answer.

I'm pretty much clued in to the immigration process unfortunately and there is no such program.
Re: My Sister Wants To Waste 6months Of My Years In The US by soleexx(m): 3:21pm On Apr 05, 2015
justwise:


That is not the answer....have you lived in America under such condition before?

And I said you don't know me!
Anyway have never been to America in my life! But have been to some europe country and I had to spent over time in the country due to some things I need to achieve...after my success I found my way back in my dear country...so I have a bit clue on what I'm advising the guy

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