Its better to kill the guy than to kill yourself

so so sad. though I undastand her. betrayal like that aint easy. at that moment she would hv felt like there was nothing more to live for. but lets always remember that times like that will pass. A lady i heard of dumped a guy during their service year. they were seriously engaged n had even worked out their service to the same location. she grew impatient n left to court n marry another man who was ready to settle down. today that lady is separated from her husband n she has a kid from him. is her life better, no. she has regrets n wished she had waited for the man who truly loved her.

1dafullymade:
I hv bn in her shoes, u wil never bgin to imagine hw painful dat is, especially wen ds guy pays u a visit few days to his wedding, tells u he loves u & all other sweet nonsense...only for u to find out few days after (from another person ooo)dat he just wedded....oh dear, yeah, I too contemplated suicide, buh I giv God d glory dat He never let me go through wt it...e no easy,I tell ya...

R.I.P young lady,just wish u had d strength to carry on wt life......

guys do that to their side chick, pray and watch out if u are not a side chick to a guy that claims he love u.

Natural selection at work here....survival of the fittest

Lilimax:
What for ?
Why should you kill yourself cos a man did not marry you ?.
The best thing to do is to pick up yourself and continue with your life. You may not know what God
has averted for you in the future by that singular act.

No man is worth dying for

Even Dangote?

She is destined to die like that......
may her gentle soul rest in peace

HOW ARE WE SURE SHE REALLY COMMITTED SUICIDE? UNTIL THE AUTOPSY RESULTS ARE OUT, PPL SHOULD STOP JUDGING HER.

Nawa 4 dis kind of human being..after spending much nd becoming a graduate...so many dy look 4 dat opportunity...besides y going 2 hell wen responsible men re looking 4 gals like u 2 marry...mtchew u gt tym...yamhead

I dislike hearing news of peeps ending their life because they were jilted.They're very selfish.They don't consider the pain their families feel when they end their life.

She shouldnt have killed herself, though such heartbreak is better imagined than experienced.... Most atimes it degenerate into a serious depression... Never promise anyone marriage if you know you will not stand the tide... I believe that life can only get better, no matter how sluggish the terrain might look, remain steadfast and committed, together you both can make it... The guy did a very bad thing, he shouldnt have promised the girl marriage if he wasnt sure of it. Now the family and friends of the girl will forever be unhappy with him... Secondly, no matter how he tries to find happiness he will not get it because of guilt....

blakky97:

why did you even contemplate suicide? most disappointments have happy ending.

yes dear, I do agree with u, buh at first, u don't think,feel nor see that "happy ending"....all u think,feel & see is d PAIN(disappointment)...like I already said, u can't bgin to imagine(especially wen u don't know d "STORY"..."unless u ar in someone's shoe, don't ever think u kno exactly wia it pinches"......sure wt time, u bgin to heal & see d "happy ending"...............

Well,I contemplated, buh ddn't go thru wt it, so itz all gud now dear... thanx!

don't blame this lady, rather use her issue as lessons, never start what you may not finish. am currently experiencing that too right now, trying to get ride of it but not easy.

M4gunners:
Even Dangote?

Yeah, Dangote inclusive

And she is even educated fa....

SStoneCCold:


No person is worth dying for.

but suicide is not the way out bro, and i dont think God should or would hold the guy responsible for her death. she chose to kill her self, the guy didnt kill her.




God will surely handle the guy ie if he is not karma's punishment for her for all the other guys she used and dumped.[/quote]

D gal even took it too far,if I jst notice dat W're more dan 1 dating ma gal mehn I dey backslide ooo bkos I no wan hear say I vex poison ma sef wit chilled chivita in d name of Luv when d future hold red wine 4 me.......d devil is waiting 4 her in hell wit beta cain

Yay! The girl graduated from my department.. Choiii

Lol

Why commit suicide..?
Don't be in a hurry..
Just wait you will still DIE..
Now she don use her hand waste
her sweeeeet underNEATH now..
And emeka my neighbour dey find wife o..
#ADOYII

Ppl.dat dnt knw.d value of life......worse has happened to ppl and dey stil had d courage to move on..Op.shes in a better place? RIP

See the effect of having a dis-functioning country.

We have very useless 'leaders' that could not build a sensible country.

If we have a functioning country she would just move on with her life till she find another husband.

Lilimax:
Yeah, Dangote inclusive

Hahaha u get mind oo!

Jst like dat na waa for girls dis days

orubebe1:
DiarizGot-o

is that all u have to say?

qbd2:
Its never worth killing urself over someone.

y will u kill urself over a girl or a man who may be banging endlesdly somewhere.

Lilimax:
What for ?
Why should you kill yourself cos a man did not marry you ?.
The best thing to do is to pick up yourself and continue with your life. You may not know what God
has averted for you in the future by that singular act.

No man is worth dying for

Na people like you dey drink acid over man.

Jail it...

Lilimax:
What for ?
Why should you kill yourself cos a man did not marry you ?.
The best thing to do is to pick up yourself and continue with your life. You may not know what God
has averted for you in the future by that singular act.

No man is worth dying for

yes even a woman in charge of petroleum. not worth it at all

diamondtutu:



Na people like you dey drink acid over man.

Shey because say man don finish for town abi?

In TUPACS voice" Death before Dishonour"