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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by iwatch: 11:52am On Apr 26, 2015 |
Hunwa: Please, can someone help me with the name of that woman here who transformed her man into extraordinary personality? Please do it for me. Please. I read about her sometime ago but I have forgotten the handle. I think it's Evina or something. Her kind is very rare, extremely rare. NO MAN, except curse, will toy with her kind. Please someone should give me her handle. I talking about the one whose boyfriend was timid but she pushed him to become a better person and I think they are getting married soon. I really need to know her name. Thank you. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by iwatch: 12:29pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
Evina:May God bless you.... I was searching for this very post and now I found it. I saw your prewedding pictures and I pray that God bless you for the future and more grace. May your home never know sorrows. You and Your husband will live into old age together, you shall see you children's children in Jesus name.Whoever plan evil against your marriage shall carry their curse with their own head. Every time, energy and finances you spent on this man shall bring forth more blessings for your family In Jesus name. Any girl, either present or future that will plan to steal your sweat in your marriage shall never know peace in Jesus Name, You inherit the fruit of your labor. I really wish I could give you hug... I will post this on the romance section so that other girls can learn from you, You are a role model and when I come across women of your kind, I give them the maximum respect they deserve. You are an epitome of womanhood! let me stop here so I can leave some spaces for other cos if I continue, the space will not be enough. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Evina(f): 2:10pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
iwatch: Wow iwatch Thank you so much. I really appreciate your prayers and receive your declarations for me. I should print this out. Thanks a lot and may you experience the same measure of goodness, you have dispensed. Cheers. 5 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Hotstepper(f): 3:32am On Apr 27, 2015 |
Your story reminded me of mine. Will share my story tomorrow Evina: 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 3:37am On Apr 27, 2015 |
Hotstepper: Waiting! |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by iwatch: 6:54am On Apr 27, 2015 |
Evina:No ma'am, since I was born, I have never seen or heard of your kind of woman, I mean woman who practically mould a man into a desired product. Many, many many many would have left that guy just because he is not what they want, because he is "not their type" because "he is not measuring up as man"; because "he is weak"; because "he is lazy" because " he does not plan ahead" ; because "he is not ambitious" (like one I saw in a few post in page 40ty something) , because "it will take time before he would get there". You saw a possibilit, you didn't give up on him, you had faith in him, you believed, you saw potentials...YOU are a GEM to behold, you are precious, you are unique. Like I said, one once told me I don't plan ahead. But against all odd, I saw myself through school after my mum passed on. This was with God's help and His grace of cause. In last one year after NYSC, many of my friend's whom we finished service together have had to complain of finances but I don't, neither do blame the government for my financial needs. I pick myself up and use whatever is around me to get what I want. I want ladies to understand that waiting on a guy's plan isn't the best you can get out of him or giving up on him when you hadn't tried anything at all. Many would have left your husband-to-be in his old state. I doubt he possibility in a girls of 10. Not many a privileged to be born or raised with leadership qualities and you understood that fact, you took the lead half way, brought out the best in him, transformed him... Nothing is as precious as a woman who contributes her quota into her man's life. I know a guy whom his girlfriend used to send him 2k, 3k, 5k in school. On his wedding day, someone said if he had know, my friend shouldn't have married the lady. I stood up in defense for her and told him that if he didn't marry her, I would be mad at him because she deserved every ounce of it. ALL I CAN IS MAY GOD BLESS YOU FOR EVERYTHING YOU DID FOR HIM... 2 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by babygirlfl: 8:49am On Apr 27, 2015 |
@ iwatch, Most of what you have said is true but I will complement your truth with some more truth(hope I am allowed?). Evina is a lovely girl who put a lot of into her man but her man equally deserve a lot of praise. He is a good man that deserved everything Evina put in. Do you think she would do the same if she had seen him with two other women? or if he beats her up or if he treats her shabbily?Do you think she would have succeded if he did not want to change. They both complemented each other. When you are looking for the right partner, make yourself the right partner also. There are as many horrible women as there are many horrible men. When a reasonable woman knows that she is the only one the man loves and wants she will do her best for the man. Treat a reasonable girl like a queen and you will see that she will treat you like a king. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Chinum: 8:57am On Apr 27, 2015 |
iwatch: I guess I was ryt abt dis moniker @ur last paragraph, snatching is not allowed. Abeg na joke o |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Chinum: 9:01am On Apr 27, 2015 |
babygirlfl: Gbam. U couldn't hv said it better. 3 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by iwatch: 10:26am On Apr 27, 2015 |
Chinum:lol.. edit your post mbok |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by iwatch: 10:29am On Apr 27, 2015 |
babygirlfl:Well said. 2 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Chinum: 10:34am On Apr 27, 2015 |
iwatch: Whts mbok n wetin make I add or subtract for the post. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by iwatch: 10:40am On Apr 27, 2015 |
Chinum:the first bolded lines and ur first "guess I" |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Chinum: 10:50am On Apr 27, 2015 |
iwatch: Migbo |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by iwatch: 11:01am On Apr 27, 2015 |
Chinum: |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Chinum: 11:16am On Apr 27, 2015 |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by iwatch: 7:24am On Apr 28, 2015 |
Chinum:abeg leave me alone oooo mbok! |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Chinum: 7:42am On Apr 28, 2015 |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by iwatch: 7:53am On Apr 28, 2015 |
Chinum:Hacking her GTB ATM card with sql vulnerability code |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Chinum: 11:47am On Apr 28, 2015 |
iwatch: If only you know the amount of e-virus on dat card n what they r capable of. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by sync428: 2:14pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
Please my people have been on background all these while, I have to register new account for this. Please I am a guy and am in love with a lady that is older than me. I really love her but the age factor is really giving me course for concern pls my able mamas & papas your advice is highly needed. Thanks in advance. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by veave(f): 4:05pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
Chinum & iwatch. I'm seeing both of you in 3D... |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 5:54pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
sync428: sync428:How old are the both of you and how long have you been together? |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 6:08pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
sync428: What is the age gap dear Who has a problem with the age You? Your family? What are your ages? These answers will help people to advise you better |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by sync428: 6:47pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
Floodgater:, Am 29 & she is 32 ..............We have been together for 2 yes but got to know of her age recently. Reason was that I was not really interested in her age cos she actually looks younger than that |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by sync428: 6:51pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: Age gap is 3 Both of us has problem cos she thinks I will leave her & I just have the fear of settling with someone older. Both seriously I love her |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by PearlO(f): 7:35pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
Goodevening everyone...........I once posted and wished I could share my problems, the ones I ve not been able to handle yet from d various solutions discussed here......One of them jst happened recently... First, am engaged to this very strict person. Therez no harm in being strict but not when itz extreme.....Tho I was raised by a very strict mum (single parent) it never got to dz extreme....I was allowed to air my views I jst graduated waiting for service....I decided to do smfing in the interim sinz d usual allowance isnt forthcoming anymore Nw this happen to be my crime......He wants me to stay home all day...or work where he wants me to I applied smwhere and I was lucky enough to be taken...D pay aint rily d issue but atleast I have where to out to evryday and b useful to myself and d society bt dat is a big issue to my darling fiance coz I jst became a disrespectful wife-to-be Meanwhile I have on countless times called or threatened to call off d whole engagement drama because of his attitude towards things bt evrybody is always blaming me coz d all feel am too impatient....They all say I shldnt try to measure up with him bt I am nt. am just trying to have a voice....I want to b heard to bcoz I feel I have dat right...... Now he is threatening to call it off jst because I refused to heed to his instructions and went ahead to take up d job.. As for me I dnt care if he does dat or not bt I will really love to knw if I did the right thing or am jst being disrespectful as he claims if he is right I would go ahead and apologize to him and drop evrything that has to do with the job I would really love to hear from d men's point of view as well as evrybodyz opinion as well please forgive my typing Anything you dnt understand ask questions I will answer Am not in a very kul mood but I bliv in all ve typed, ve been able to make sense.... Thank you so much and am very sorry for the long epistle |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 8:39pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
sync428: So the problem is actually you She is thinking you will leave her because you have expressed doubts in the relationship because of her age no be so? I don't think there is anything wrong with a 3 year gap You are within the same age bracket and no one will know unless you told them It's nobody's business but yours and if you are comfortable with it,it shouldn't matter But I have a feeling you are not a ok with it True love is hard to find,don't allow something as flimsy as this make you lose out on a good woman I will say the same if you were my brother 3 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 8:41pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
How you gleatz?! |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 8:44pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
PearlO: A man that you are not yet married to is dictating whether you should stay home or get a job? And wants to call off the engagement because you went ahead to get a job My dear go ahead and take that job and sign on the dotted lines Let him call off the engagement and get the type of woman he desires Obviously he is not your type of man so allow him to leave There are tons of men out there who are not intimidated by a woman that works You don't try to mend an engagement,you disengage when it's not working out That is the purpose of courtship You only mend marriages not engagements He has already shown you a shadow of what is to come in the marriage,use your head nne 8 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 9:05pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
PearlO:Girl you are seeing the signs and you still coat it strict. You are not yet married and he is ruling you like a dictator out of his insecurities, when you marry him, he will ask you not to work, dictate everything to you and should you refuse, he will threaten divorce, carry you back to your mum's or even beat you to comply. You mean at your age you'v refuse to tell yourself the fact that people will talk till you go and marry an abuser, then talk you to stay to death because by then the talkings will be wearing some rights and continue talking about the next person. Will these persons live with you and the man, btw how did your life become so public that "people" aside your mum now decide how you live? If you desire what's good for you, use this opportunity he has offered to close that door permanently. The closing and opening itself is bad enough sign. If you fool yourself and end up with that man, you will in addition to other things pay for the times you "disrespected" him. 7 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by gleatz: 9:25pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
@floodgater; Am pretty good Sis. How re you and all yours? Keeping on as earlier discussed. |
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