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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 9:44pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
sync428:Babyosisi said it all. There was no problem until you knew (pschology), the reason i asked about the relationship duration. I know while growing up you heard friends, guys wont do it but dude tell yourself you are you and not anybody else, there are so many doing it now, you may have even seen one without you knowing afterall they didnt tell you their age so do same. Since she is good for you, respects you and have no problem with it, work on yourself till you reach a point where whenever the age thing comes up, you wont give a damn. Be secured enough not to judge her future actions with the age. I still say lucky you because you are barely agemates and its not noticeable or would you prefare a younger girl not as good as her or you dont love and be looking back at lost chance? it aiit worth it. 5 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 9:47pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
[quote author=gleatz post=33214697][/quote]Good. I'm good too. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by PearlO(f): 9:56pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
Floodgater: am rily gr8ful for your contribution.........I dnt usually discuss ma relationship with people but had to bring this here bcoz I felt I was doing smfing wrongly.......wanted to b sure the fault wasnt mine......trust me wen I tell u I ve taken to ma heels more times dat I cn remember but I always come bk coz I most times feel itz ma fault bt nw I knw bera......ma mum especially will tell me itz hardwork....I shldnt make it look like her life influenced mine like d hell it did....coz I want to get married doesnt mean I shld donate my brain to a kindergarten lab(if therez anyfing like dat)..datz d part d dont understand.......she feels am being to rigid.... 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by PearlO(f): 10:02pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: exactly my point..........Anty Osisi I had signed d papers already o'jare...used my best handwritting...I never knew d cud b so beautiful..looolll.... @Babyosisi and floodgate, una jst buy me usain bolt shoes.bfor na snickers wey abo.ki patch patch evrywia I d take run n d thing d fall my hands anyhw anyhw....God will richly bless you....U jst saved anoda sister 11 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by sync428: 11:38pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
Floodgater: Exactly my thought all these while Thanks alot 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by sync428: 11:40pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: Thanks for this and God bless 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 11:18am On Apr 29, 2015 |
Oya Madam Osisi report here . . . I need help ooh. How does one handle h/her spouse's past? Especially when you live in the same town you lived as a single girl/man. your husband/wife is bound to run into 1 (plus infinity ) ex's. How do you cope with it, knowing that the whole town/world knows your husband/wife was sleeping with Mr./Miss X in the past Ordinarily, this shouldn't be an issue, but what if it is a very very BIG issue. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 1:25pm On Apr 29, 2015 |
PearlO:In one word..... Leave!!!!! 5 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 1:36pm On Apr 29, 2015 |
Wedon: As long as they are not sleeping together anymore ,it shouldn't be a problem. What will bother me is if they strike up a relationship again or become close friends ,that will be disrespectful. Exes should stay exes and part of our past If I ran into anyone from my past,it is up to me to acknowledge or totally ignore the person and in acknowledgement it will be strictly official with a handshake and a smile,that is all I owe the person,that faze is over and that is what I expect my hubby to do to his. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Mikwus(f): 1:57pm On Apr 29, 2015 |
Evina: I have been on this thread too off and on But your story is so unique that i can't seem to let go. Now, your blessing from ABOVE has made you rich in various ways and vice-versa. My question is, how do you push someone who isn't even ready Someone who thinks he can't do it except God says "MY SON, DO THIS" Someone who actually thinks you're pushing too hard. Well, all i can say is it is relative..........................what applies to the goose may not always go down well with the gander. Would like your views though, I really don't mind 3 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by thorpido(m): 6:54pm On Apr 29, 2015 |
PearlO:He's not your father(fathers shouldn't even be doing this at your age)and yet he wants that much control?This kind of guy will make you a housewife so he can have total control after marriage. It's good you know what to do now. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by PearlO(f): 7:45pm On Apr 29, 2015 |
GoldenDr: Thank u very much bt I fink u came late coz I had long left n ve arrived ma new destination...... 4 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by PearlO(f): 7:46pm On Apr 29, 2015 |
thorpido: Thank you very much....am really gr8ful Hu wantz to b a glorified houzmaid dz days...? |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by gleatz: 11:37pm On Apr 29, 2015 |
PearlO: U re funny my dear. Some guys can be so annoying at times. Am not married to you and you wanna rule my life, hmmmmm that one go hard My ex once told me to go make some withdrwals from a certain investment so that he can use it for his house rents. I refused ooo cos you can't tell me to do such when ve got bigger prohects in view. The matter was big, anything he talks about support, he always make mention of that scenerio. I would just laugh. The once I borrowed and gave out willingly, till this seconds, he has not paid back. That's called good radiance to bad rubbisish. Let him go find his match and see how it goes. Congrats dearie for that massive deliverance and freedom. 7 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 4:16am On Apr 30, 2015 |
gleatz: Good girl Never ever fall for that 419 scam 6 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by gleatz: 7:50am On Apr 30, 2015 |
babyosisi: Aunty BabyOsisi, no be small thing oooooooo. I can never fall for such scam in my life again by God's grace, not after all ve read here, on other threads and life experience. When dem babalawo no dey dance palango+etighi+azonto+shoki on top my destiny. Will heaven fall if a guy too spend for me like ve done in the past? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by omowumi19(f): 2:41pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
the problem is that my bf dat we av bin 2geda 4 3yrs broke up with me november last yr and during my nysc 2013 precisely on POP met a guy who has bin a grt friend even though i saw him 4 d 1st nd last tym dat day. along d line b4 me nd my ex broke up he asked me out but i said no but after i told him i broke up wit my ex he kept pestering me until i said yes february due to d fear of nt getting someone like my ex again. but wat surprised me was dat d day i went to his house for d 1st tym he asked for sex nd i said no and he didnt call me again only if i call. pls fellow pple is he trying to take advantage or it is love? do i ever get som1 like my ex |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by gleatz: 3:08pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
[quote author=omowumi19 post=33277327] Babe first thing first, remove the notion that you won't see someone like your ex again. There are other 1001 guys out there and they re wonderful in their own unique way. So Chill, that he left is cos he's not the best for you. Now is not the time for rebound rship all because you want someone like your ex. Babe, take your time, analyse your self and your prospective hubby to be. You don't need just any Tom, Dick & Harry for a rship. Look inwardly, be happy, don't go about looking for who to love you. As for that guy, I cnt say its love or not for asking for sex but his actions afterwards says so much. Meaning, he does not want you for who you are but for sex, that's not too good. If I may say, pls stop calling him, if he is serious and needs you badly, he would come look for you. You are not desperate for a rship so don't allow any uncircumsized phillistine use you shine for broad day light. Go out and engage in activities that makes you happy & brings out the best in you. Soonest dearie, true love will find you. 5 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by omowumi19(f): 3:13pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
tanx a lot gleats... really aprci8 ur comment |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by cococandy(f): 3:49pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
This is sooooo annoying. Will you kindly kick his assss to the curb? I wonder why parents even bother to train their daughters since after all that, one man from somewhere will be the one to decide if she gets to have a life or not. Mtchew. Modified. I see you made your decision. Way to go PearlO: |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 4:03pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
omowumi19:First and foremost, never compare your ex. with the new guy that is coming. Secondly, you should stop calling him.... I repeat stop calking him, why? You are acting desperate and the brother knows it. Finally, they say, why pay for the milk when you can get the cow for free, however, most relationship these days sex cannot be excluded just like the poster above me said, his action after that "action" would speak volume. Get something doing that will keep you actively engaged. If you are in Lagos, listen to Radio continental 102.3fm 12.00am today.. In fact you can listen to them on net.... All the best. 2 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 7:44pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
[quote author=omowumi19 post=33278485][/quote]Will i be wasting my time if i tell you to close all chapters you opened for this guy permanently? I think you said or carried yourself worthlessly for him to demand sex like that. Note this, when you stop calling, he might come back again to apologize, tell lies, even play along without demanding sex immediately just to take a bigger advantage this time because that is his only mission. Please love and seek ways to carry yourself with worth so that you dont attract another worthless guy. Finally, stop praying to have a man whose presence will erode your esteem even after he is gone and could not spare a thought for empathy by breaking up with you on a celebration moment of your pop like your ex. 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by saheed2532(m): 10:15pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by silvermist(f): 10:20pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
Hello ma, good evening. Please ma, I just sent you a PM. Thanks babyosisi: |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by iwatch: 12:48pm On May 02, 2015 |
veave:lol... what did you see? |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by iwatch: 1:03pm On May 02, 2015 |
PearlO:I think Nigerian men need to be a little bit flexible in their demands. Personally, I like a woman with an independent mind, one who does not believe she needs a man to give her money, one who believes she can achieve something no matter how small. if I were your boyfriend, I would let you work where you want. I think where the problem may lie is TRUST and past experiences. You may need to let him trust you, if you haven't tried that. I shared my story how I let my past ruined my chance to be with a woman that fits my ideals. One thing I love about the said lady is her independency and her consistent trials to get a better placement in life. It saddens me when I think about it, honestly. I have come to realise that who will stay with you will stay and who won't stay won't stay no matter what you do. I dropped the attitude of snooping or spying on who I date long ago or trying to control their life. Seriously, you don't know what people do in your absence so wtf are you trying to control their life for? Stand your ground ma'am! 4 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by iwatch: 1:22pm On May 02, 2015 |
babygirlfl:hmmm... The emboldened is more reason why I was so angry with myself for missing a lady a while back and my fear to even want to try someone else... I know we would complement EVERYTHING in each other. I will keep praying! |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by babygirlfl: 1:32pm On May 02, 2015 |
iwatch: Please you have to forgive yourself and move on. Don't get too angry at yourself. We all make mistakes and learn from them.I understand your fear but they are many good women too. First be a good partner and look for a woman to compliment you. I am sure you will get one soon. 7 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by iwatch: 1:37pm On May 02, 2015 |
babygirlfl:Amen. 2 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Opiosko: 3:27am On May 03, 2015 |
Sometimes i just wonder why folks have troubled relationships. How on earth can u go into a relationship with a guy/lady u know nothing about? |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Opiosko: 4:32am On May 03, 2015 |
iwatch:Do not let the shadows of your past to darken the doorstep of your future. There are as many adorable angels without wings as there are many horrible ladies around. 2 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by prissyluv(f): 7:42am On May 03, 2015 |
Ma'am Floodgater,pls I need to speak with you. I sent you a pm yesterday. How do I reach you? An email will do. |
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