hmmm,some of your points didn't go down well,what a bout you girls/ladies/women,how we go take know Woman,cox most of all of you fail almost all those all in an effort to either appear not cheap and mature except the money aspect shaa,thumbs up to those my hardworking ladies,the rest na all for showbusiness

loomer:


I've got an uncle who doesn't like drinking, he's dastardly rich and loves to buy drinks in his house just for visitors, the only day we saw him take a glass of alcohol at home he was high.

So let's take him as an example, he goes out with his friends to celebrate, and take the smallest of alcohol but gets high, if sometin happens that is beyond his control, does that make him a boy?

No a real man tells his wife n face the consequence if any

philcupid:
hmmm,some of your points didn't go down well,what a bout you girls/ladies/women,how we go take know Woman,cox most of all of you fail almost all those all in an effort to either appear not cheap and mature except the money aspect shaa,thumbs up to those my hardworking ladies,the rest na all for showbusiness

Counter thread ....

Lala247:


No a real man tells his wife n face the consequence if any

If any? Ask Tiger woods

cutietokunbo:



Rubbish written by Rubbish Somebody Nobody

It's immaturity that makes a man to beat a woman/lady regardless what d lady/woman has done right- This mentality alone is a sign of immaturity. Go and marry a troublesome lady and come back here to tell us how sweet your life has been after 5yrs in the marriage.

Manner has nothing to do with a man/boy or Age . There are so many grown up men out there who are mannerless while a boy of 6 yrs of age is very civil, polite, responsible and respectful

Lies: So you mean all these our grandfather politicians from Anenih, Obasanjo, Alex Ekwueme to Tinubu are not men but boys simply cos they lie

Let me stop here 4 now........

Nice1 dat, no mind d Op she must be thinking wit her n.ipplez.

Macmilla:

She will want you to spend all your money on her while she preaches to you that sex is a sin.

I tink u Rr corect my dear frnd. Y do most gals use dat as an avenue 2 extruct money frm guys n they wil b d 1 2 say sex is a sin. So my question here is dat colctn money frm a guy wit@ sex, is it nt a sin?

cutietokunbo:



Rubbish written by Rubbish Somebody Nobody

It's immaturity that makes a man to beat a woman/lady regardless what d lady/woman has done right- This mentality alone is a sign of immaturity. Go and marry a troublesome lady and come back here to tell us how sweet your life has been after 5yrs in the marriage.

Manner has nothing to do with a man/boy or Age . There are so many grown up men out there who are mannerless while a boy of 6 yrs of age is very civil, polite, responsible and respectful

Lies: So you mean all these our grandfather politicians from Anenih, Obasanjo, Alex Ekwueme to Tinubu are not men but boys simply cos they lie

Let me stop here 4 now........

Oga what is it?

Why should you hit a lady in the first place? hitting her makes you a boy , and not a man. Regardless of whatever the woman did to you.

you shouldn't raise your hands on her. You can walk away from her, if she is nagging. That makes you a man

You are also misunderstanding "honest" in that list, you should re-read it. It's a very nice list.

loomer:


If any? Ask Tiger woods

But look at the ripple effect if he had told his wife mayb it wouldnt have got that bad

Nneka123:
Oga what is it?

Why should you hit a lady in the first place? hitting her makes you a boy , and not a man. Regardless of whatever the woman did to you.

you shouldn't raise your hands on her. You can walk away from her, if she is nagging. That makes you a man

You are also misunderstanding "honest" in that list, you should re-read it. It's a very nice list.

Lol dont waste ur time his a [size=3pt]boy[/size]

Lala247:


But look at the ripple effect if he had told his wife mayb it wouldnt have got that bad

It wouldn't change anything, no woman would want to stay with a cheating husband, weda na only once e happen or not.

Sometimes, we lie to protect those we love.

Lala247:

Waiting for right man ..

Hi. Heard u are "waiting" 4me

lexy2014:
Hi. Heard u are "waiting" 4me

Lol

The way human beings think is very baffling,,, some ladies think they got it all figured out,, someone must behave in a particular way created by their minds but they forget they have a part to play....
See listen young Lady,,, work on ur interactions with people & stop looking for who to control......

Smh

Nneka123:
Oga what is it?

Why should you hit a lady in the first place? hitting her makes you a boy , and not a man. Regardless of whatever the woman did to you.

you shouldn't raise your hands on her. You can walk away from her, if she is nagging. That makes you a man

You are also misunderstanding "honest" in that list, you should re-read it. It's a very nice list.

But make una wait o, wat about woman wey de beat husband nko, if the man run, those that make him a boy?

loomer:


It wouldn't change anything, no woman would want to stay with a cheating husband, weda na only once e happen or not.

Sometimes, we lie to protect those we love.

Thats what u think alot of married women reamain in relationships n their dude is unfaithful ..kids, security, shame, fear of never getting married again etc

Nneka123:
lol. I dumped his ass a long time ago for the nearest dustbin.

& as for him, 1 less problem without u.

Lala247:


Lol dont waste ur time his a [size=3pt]boy[/size]

lol, you had to make it so short

Lala247:
Signs you a dating a boy and not a man

1.)Lives at home with parents
A real man wants responsibilities. Wants to be out in the real world figuring out how life works e.g getting a job , paying bills , studying etc. a man also helps out his family long after his left his home to ease the stress on his parents.
Only a boy would carry on living with parents eating, taking their money and not contributing nothing to the household .
2.) does not work
A man is hard working , never wants to be idle plans for his future and is very ambitious, because his working toward having a family settling down and living a comfortable life. A boy on thinks about now, lazy and has no ambition whatsoever .. Some don't even want to study or further their education. But i bet you they are hitting clubs and down with current fashion n music...
3) very childish
They joke alot, they take nothing serious everything they do or say is one big game or party.you can never have a straight or mature conversation with them.
4.)Anger
They get angry quick over little things and can be very irrational in decision making. A man would never hit a woman no matter the situation but find ways around a hostile encounter.
5.) Rejection
A man is not afraid of rejection but sees it as a learning experience to better himself or move on . A boy takes offence and acts out in a childish manner.
6.)Initiative
A man knows a good woman when he sees one , they look beyond beautiful and overall appearance and get to know a lady inside and out, they are not shy and can take risk even if it means looking silly to get the woman. A boy mostly interested in appearance they are not bothered about getting to know a woman also they find it hard to commit .
7.)Honesty
Boy tell lies alot petty ones, a man is honest and knows when to take ownership of his mistakes . A man is not afraid to apologise for wrong doings . A boy would make excuses for them.
8.)Manners
A man has manners they are polite and treat women right . They respect your parents and family. a boy lacks manners some wont even greet your parents and they talk to women like objects .


Source: me


You can add yours


*sips tea*

How did this make Fp Shyness and Anger are not controlled by age or maturity but by emotion. So how did u conclude?

Lala247:


Thats what u think alot of married women reamain in relationships n their dude is unfaithful ..kids, security, shame, fear of never getting married again etc

So, will u call that marriage, will u call that a home?

Where is the joy and happiness that should engulf a home?

Nice thread Lala247.

omooba969:


& as for him, 1 less problem without u.

I was never his problem

He was my problem, now I have 99 problems, and that nigga ain't one

sinizia:
Nice thread Lala247.

Thanks

loomer:


So, will u call that marriage, will u call that a home?

Where is the joy and happiness that should engulf a home?

Lol thats another topic ..

Then the lord marvelled and said,

"Blessed are you girls that date boys and influence them (and even yourselves) into men (and women).

See them seeking ready-made men! Yet they get a "man" and turn him to a beast.

Seek those of your level! Girls should go after boys and vice versa. Better still, become a woman first then you are qualified for a man-for she, who is a girl, turns a man into a beast".



Selah

cutietokunbo:



Rubbish written by Rubbish Somebody Nobody

It's immaturity that makes a man to beat a woman/lady regardless what d lady/woman has done right- This mentality alone is a sign of immaturity. Go and marry a troublesome lady and come back here to tell us how sweet your life has been after 5yrs in the marriage.

Manner has nothing to do with a man/boy or Age . There are so many grown up men out there who are mannerless while a boy of 6 yrs of age is very civil, polite, responsible and respectful

Lies: So you mean all these our grandfather politicians from Anenih, Obasanjo, Alex Ekwueme to Tinubu are not men but boys simply cos they lie

Let me stop here 4 now........

Lala247, you got to add that boys, just like this one up here, will always have a guilt complex which they will try to defend themselves from and eventually make a fool of themselves.

Stupid post from a guilty boy.

well' seems am still a boy! no need to lie' but seriously i aint broke!

Macmilla:

Lala247, you got to add that boys, just like this one up here, will always have a guilt complex which they will try to defend themselves from and eventually make a fool of themselves.

Stupid post from a guilty boy.

Well i knew some would b bitter .. Oh well

Lala247:
Signs you a dating a boy and not a man

1.)Lives at home with parents
A real man wants responsibilities. Wants to be out in the real world figuring out how life works e.g getting a job , paying bills , studying etc. a man also helps out his family long after his left his home to ease the stress on his parents.
Only a boy would carry on living with parents eating, taking their money and not contributing nothing to the household .
2.) does not work
A man is hard working , never wants to be idle plans for his future and is very ambitious, because his working toward having a family settling down and living a comfortable life. A boy on thinks about now, lazy and has no ambition whatsoever .. Some don't even want to study or further their education. But i bet you they are hitting clubs and down with current fashion n music...
3) very childish
They joke alot, they take nothing serious everything they do or say is one big game or party.you can never have a straight or mature conversation with them.
4.)Anger
They get angry quick over little things and can be very irrational in decision making. A man would never hit a woman no matter the situation but find ways around a hostile encounter.
5.) Rejection
A man is not afraid of rejection but sees it as a learning experience to better himself or move on . A boy takes offence and acts out in a childish manner.
6.)Initiative
A man knows a good woman when he sees one , they look beyond beautiful and overall appearance and get to know a lady inside and out, they are not shy and can take risk even if it means looking silly to get the woman. A boy mostly interested in appearance they are not bothered about getting to know a woman also they find it hard to commit .
7.)Honesty
Boy tell lies alot petty ones, a man is honest and knows when to take ownership of his mistakes . A man is not afraid to apologise for wrong doings . A boy would make excuses for them.
8.)Manners
A man has manners they are polite and treat women right . They respect your parents and family. a boy lacks manners some wont even greet your parents and they talk to women like objects .


Source: me


You can add yours


*sips tea*

Na lalastica account be ds?
Looool
Thunda do any dude wy like ds thread

Lala247:


No a real man tells his wife n face the consequence if any

Exactly my thoughts.
No matter how grave the mistake is, it's better thrashed out than boxed up.

Nneka123:
I was never his problem

He was my problem, now I have 99 problems, and that nigga ain't one

@bolded, food for thought.

Lala247:


Lol thats another topic ..

If u say so,

Next point is JOKE.

I've seen lots of people who joke a lot, even at work, yet the get things done and effectively too. Will u call them kids?